Do you tell your husband you gamble?

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Usually I don't intend to gamble often or to regularly gamble maybe once in a month or twice since my involvement to this industry requires to have a gambling knowledge to be able to involved in most of the discussions, of a true I really understand that basics and the bad effects it would caused me if I suddenly became a gambling addicts that was why I am trying my best not to involve fully into gambling rather developing interest to watch some matches even though I must gambling it be I am only using about 1 to 5 percent of my income to gamble with this I can maintain some certain stability or within some limits without going oftrack.

I think that for the sake of the future and a good relationship, you need to be honest and explain everything to your husband. You don't know what will happen in the future, so it is probably better for him to be at least a little familiar with what you are doing, than for him to find out if some unpleasant situation happens. (Yes, shit happens, unexpectedly and inevitably)

I used to work as a system admin, where one of the clients was a live (hot) cam studio, where I met a bunch of girls in their underwear every day. Of course, my wife knew that then. Later it turned out that it was good that I didn't hide it.

[Adbitco]

I used to work as a system admin, where one of the clients was a live (hot) cam studio, where I met a bunch of girls in their underwear every day. Of course, my wife knew that then. Later it turned out that it was good that I didn't hide it.

What?
How where you able to overcome that seeing girls with their underwear, don't you get triggered and how was your wife able to cope with you?
I know this is hard to explain but sometimes they have no option than to accept provided that you are earning ends meet over there.

[SmartGold01]

Usually I don't intend to gamble often or to regularly gamble maybe once in a month or twice since my involvement to this industry requires to have a gambling knowledge to be able to involved in most of the discussions, of a true I really understand that basics and the bad effects it would caused me if I suddenly became a gambling addicts that was why I am trying my best not to involve fully into gambling rather developing interest to watch some matches even though I must gambling it be I am only using about 1 to 5 percent of my income to gamble with this I can maintain some certain stability or within some limits without going oftrack.

I think that for the sake of the future and a good relationship, you need to be honest and explain everything to your husband. You don't know what will happen in the future, so it is probably better for him to be at least a little familiar with what you are doing, than for him to find out if some unpleasant situation happens. (Yes, shit happens, unexpectedly and inevitably)

I used to work as a system admin, where one of the clients was a live (hot) cam studio, where I met a bunch of girls in their underwear every day. Of course, my wife knew that then. Later it turned out that it was good that I didn't hide it.

Yes you are correct, is actually midnight here and I woke up to see if I can read some of this discussion and I wanted to telling yesterday eve and noticed that he was not in a cool mood, so decided to shift it till morning or anytime I noticed he is more happier. Though he knows that I do post on both forum even when I am awake he knew that I must be posting and doesn't access through my profile. But still I appreciate for your time and contribution +karma for you!

[robelneo]

It is better to tweak or replace some words to avoid plagiarism but anyway, since it has already been posted here my response is the money is a conjugal property whatever you used for gambling is coming from your husband's effort so it's very unfair not to be honest in your activity, being a wife you should practice honesty in the house.
Your husband and your children will lose respect for you if you're hiding something and they find out through other people or by accident, and it's hard to explain when it's too late.

[Dr.Bitcoin_Strange]

@SmartGold01, you know your husband better, and you know how he will react if he actually finds out that his precious wife is a gambler.

I am a male and yet unmarried, but let's assume if I get married today and I find out that my wife is a gambler, I will first observe her gambling habit, and if she is not really gambling compulsive or leaving to do the important duties first before gambling, then I will have a need to stop her from gambling, but if her gambling habit is very okey, I will not stop her from gambling.

Although you can still tell your husband but if he doesn't like you to gamble, I hope you will be happy to stop gambling.

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Yes you are correct, is actually midnight here and I woke up to see if I can read some of this discussion and I wanted to telling yesterday eve and noticed that he was not in a cool mood, so decided to shift it till morning or anytime I noticed he is more happier. Though he knows that I do post on both forum even when I am awake he knew that I must be posting and doesn't access through my profile. But still I appreciate for your time and contribution +karma for you!

You can start more smartly. For example, when there is the next campaign or reward for testing or reviewing gambling platforms, just explain what it is about. You get $xx for testing and you have to play on the platform for $xx to write a real review, I'm sure he will understand. Maybe you can even ask him to help you, to add some suggestions, that way he will become a part of it and will not only blame you.

What?
How where you able to overcome that seeing girls with their underwear, don't you get triggered and how was your wife able to cope with you?
I know this is hard to explain but sometimes they have no option than to accept provided that you are earning ends meet over there.

I was extremely professional at the time, and as I presented it at home, I would have to be a master of lying to cover something up. Of course, I didn't convey all the details of what I saw there. 
What is interesting is that trust only grew stronger then.

[Altcoin1998$]

I don't share my personal things with family especially I never share my source of income and spending with my wife. I usually bet occasionally in gambling though 2-4 of my colleagues know but my wife doesn't know about my betting and I don't want to share such things with my wife in future. Also, I always try to avoid these things from the family so that my personal habits do not affect my children so that my children do not follow me and get involved in these bad habits. But an important point is that every husband should openly share these matters with his wife and every wife with her husband. But I have kept all these habits hidden from my family due to my personal issues.

[Perfect540]

Of course my wife knows about me and knows that I am a good gambler.  But sometimes my wife comforts me when I face a big loss.  I find a lot of joy in gambling with my wife's encouragement and she sometimes helps me financially.

[Igebotz]

it would be bad when he discovers that himself instead it's better I inform him.

You should tell him. I can assure you that he will not have any wrong feelings since you are disciplined but then, if he finds out by himself there is a tendency that he will begin to doubt your sincerity.

Men are overthinkers and your husband might feel insecure that there are other things you might be hiding from him. To avoid all of these, please tell him. You will be surprised to know that he is also a gambler.

In my understanding, gambling is never a bad thing what matters is how we approach it and the kind of influence it has on the gambler. So, don't feel you are doing something wrong. Tell him.

[armanda90]

Its good ideas or not but I don't explain to my wife about my habit in gambling, will make my household bad in the future because gambling most restrict thing before marriage. I don't think have transparent with all activities in household and some time need privacy exactly with gambling. Personally I am not addict with gambling just have fun only on weekend and limitation with amount use for betting.
Not much problem if my wife know with my gambling because I use few amount of my salary for betting and likely can't make my household financial bad. I have decision to stop with gambling but need time looking for another activities how to make me forget with gambling.

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Its good ideas or not but I don't explain to my wife about my habit in gambling, will make my household bad in the future because gambling most restrict thing before marriage. I don't think have transparent with all activities in household and some time need privacy exactly with gambling. Personally I am not addict with gambling just have fun only on weekend and limitation with amount use for betting.
Not much problem if my wife know with my gambling because I use few amount of my salary for betting and likely can't make my household financial bad. I have decision to stop with gambling but need time looking for another activities how to make me forget with gambling.

Actually, in a household there must be openness from both parties, both wife and husband. The husband will usually feel that it is legitimate when not telling his wife because the money is the result of his work and as long as it does not interfere with family finances.

However, problems will definitely come in the future when caught having a gambling habit, even though it is not much money, and from there it can cause a rift in the household. This must be anticipated, because something that is considered a small thing actually causes big things. Moreover, this is related to gambling, which not everyone accepts and even openly rejects its existence.

[electronicash]

Its good ideas or not but I don't explain to my wife about my habit in gambling, will make my household bad in the future because gambling most restrict thing before marriage. I don't think have transparent with all activities in household and some time need privacy exactly with gambling. Personally I am not addict with gambling just have fun only on weekend and limitation with amount use for betting.
Not much problem if my wife know with my gambling because I use few amount of my salary for betting and likely can't make my household financial bad. I have decision to stop with gambling but need time looking for another activities how to make me forget with gambling.

Actually, in a household there must be openness from both parties, both wife and husband. The husband will usually feel that it is legitimate when not telling his wife because the money is the result of his work and as long as it does not interfere with family finances.

However, problems will definitely come in the future when caught having a gambling habit, even though it is not much money, and from there it can cause a rift in the household. This must be anticipated, because something that is considered a small thing actually causes big things. Moreover, this is related to gambling, which not everyone accepts and even openly rejects its existence.

i wouldn't expect Armanda to be  transparent. SHE even have a wife!   

seriously i wouldn't mind whether a person keep his gambling activity secret as long as he isn't ruining other's lives. if he is pretty much responsible to his wife and fair to his children, its his way for doing things.

i'm form a family of gamblers, we literally gamble just within our backyard but i don't wanna show to my family member that i'm serious with my gambling. i'd rather be drinking beers with them than playing cards with them.

[SmartGold01]

it would be bad when he discovers that himself instead it's better I inform him.

You should tell him. I can assure you that he will not have any wrong feelings since you are disciplined but then, if he finds out by himself there is a tendency that he will begin to doubt your sincerity.

Men are overthinkers and your husband might feel insecure that there are other things you might be hiding from him. To avoid all of these, please tell him. You will be surprised to know that he is also a gambler.

In my understanding, gambling is never a bad thing what matters is how we approach it and the kind of influence it has on the gambler. So, don't feel you are doing something wrong. Tell him.

Yes I did that already and he was neutral over our discussion although his respond was so funny in a way that I couldn't even know he would take it so common where he said "Haa nawao na so this hustling don carry you go reach" so as woman i really understand my limits and where I shouldn't go above my bands and limits or even without gambling to double my income.

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Actually, in a household there must be openness from both parties, both wife and husband. The husband will usually feel that it is legitimate when not telling his wife because the money is the result of his work and as long as it does not interfere with family finances.

However, problems will definitely come in the future when caught having a gambling habit, even though it is not much money, and from there it can cause a rift in the household. This must be anticipated, because something that is considered a small thing actually causes big things. Moreover, this is related to gambling, which not everyone accepts and even openly rejects its existence.

i wouldn't expect Armanda to be  transparent. SHE even have a wife!   

seriously i wouldn't mind whether a person keep his gambling activity secret as long as he isn't ruining other's lives. if he is pretty much responsible to his wife and fair to his children, its his way for doing things.

i'm form a family of gamblers, we literally gamble just within our backyard but i don't wanna show to my family member that i'm serious with my gambling. i'd rather be drinking beers with them than playing cards with them.

Yes, I also don't mind what other people do, because of course everyone has their own way of doing anything, including gambling.

It's just a difference of views in responding to something and that's fine, we just have to choose which one is better to do, of course everything has its own risks.

In my opinion, this is a commitment that must be formed from the beginning, since it will build a household. So that there are no secrets between us.   

[Fivestar4everMVP]

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From what I can see, you are earning money for yourself and your family even as a woman, and this is completely outside of what your husband gives you for the family's feeding and children's up keep - this is number one.

Secondly, I checked you out on the other forum, and discovered that you are working/getting paid by online gambling casino for your signature ad space, and as such, this alone qualifies and justifies you being a gambler, or getting involved in gambling, as personally, I believe one can not be promoting a gambling casino to other people while him or her self is not gambler, you have to gamble once in a while to have an idea of what to discuss with other gamblers, as it is a criteria to engage in gambling discussions as long as you are promoting a gambling casino.

So, for this two reasons, I believe you have every right to gamble, whether your husband knows it or not, it is a mandatory thing to do as a promoter of a gambling casino, so, if you are going to tell your husband that you now get involved in gambling, it's up to you and also make him understand that it's a mandatory thing to do based on whos paying you for your online posts.

I hope this makes sense to you.