Do you tell your husband you gamble?

[Obari]

To avoid conflict, it is better to tell your husband that you gamble because sooner or later he will know that you are into that activity and that might be the start that your family being broken as you keep secrets. I saw a lot of woman who gamble here in our place and there's no problem with that because they have the blessings of their husbands and also they gamble together.

Nothing can be kept secret forever, just remember that.

You are right,as long as both of you are legally married,there is nothing you will hide from him and he will not know.Even a cheating wife will try to cover and hide her act,but as long as your husband is staying with you,one day,he will eventually know,and it will cause alot of problem.I don't like women that gamble because they are supposed to be the one who keeps the family,and protect the riches of the man,but Instead,she is the one who goes about gambling and waisting the husband's money.The only case where I can say the woman will gamble and it won't bring problem is when the woman is the bread winner of the house,in that case,whatever money she wastes on gambling won't be from the husband,and whether the husband know,I don't think there will be anything he can do about it.

[sampoerna]

I have already made this post in the other forum so I just have to quote it down here to see separate overview from people over the two forum..

The point is my husband doesn't know that i have been secretly gambling and involving myself with gambling discussions and the rest, So, this morning when i woke something in me keeps telling me i should let him know to understand my involvement  to practice gambling.

Does this worth telling him or not please i need you collective ideas.

Let's say this is also related to the question, what if a husband gambles, would it be better if he told his wife?
Personally, openness in a household is very important. Moreover, this is a very crucial thing in a family, related to finances.

Plus, on the other hand, gambling is also something that is very risky and the possibility of becoming addicted is very high. So, there's no harm in telling our partner about this activity. The purpose is:
- Mutual openness
- Know the flow of money out for gambling
- So that someone can control and control us in spending money on gambling
- Prevent the occurrence of gambling addiction, by working well with our partners and reminding each other not to get too into the realm of gambling addiction

[LUCKMCFLY]

To avoid conflict, it is better to tell your husband that you gamble because sooner or later he will know that you are into that activity and that might be the start that your family being broken as you keep secrets. I saw a lot of woman who gamble here in our place and there's no problem with that because they have the blessings of their husbands and also they gamble together.

Nothing can be kept secret forever, just remember that.

You are right,as long as both of you are legally married,there is nothing you will hide from him and he will not know.Even a cheating wife will try to cover and hide her act,but as long as your husband is staying with you,one day,he will eventually know,and it will cause alot of problem.I don't like women that gamble because they are supposed to be the one who keeps the family,and protect the riches of the man,but Instead,she is the one who goes about gambling and waisting the husband's money.The only case where I can say the woman will gamble and it won't bring problem is when the woman is the bread winner of the house,in that case,whatever money she wastes on gambling won't be from the husband,and whether the husband know,I don't think there will be anything he can do about it.

I say something, sometimes a person who is married does not want to say that I have to limit everything to the other, no, there must be privacy between the two of them, because otherwise it becomes a very toxic relationship, for me the real reason why things are excellent in a relationship is confidence, if you know that there is something that is not done well, then you have to say it, because it is very ugly for the other person to discover it, I say that a thing as simple as going to a casino , but sometimes you don't have to say it, or maybe yes, the idea is that the other person doesn't care.

What happens is that when there is no Control over everything, then the person can do whatever it takes to have the lowest possible expense as a good result, if there is less expense it is better, otherwise things cannot be done well , if not There is trust but it is also difficult, I say that if you go to the casino very frequently it is necessary to communicate it, because if you go to the casino it is not the Idea.

[DragonF]

To avoid conflict, it is better to tell your husband that you gamble because sooner or later he will know that you are into that activity and that might be the start that your family being broken as you keep secrets. I saw a lot of woman who gamble here in our place and there's no problem with that because they have the blessings of their husbands and also they gamble together.

Nothing can be kept secret forever, just remember that.

You are right,as long as both of you are legally married,there is nothing you will hide from him and he will not know.Even a cheating wife will try to cover and hide her act,but as long as your husband is staying with you,one day,he will eventually know,and it will cause alot of problem.

In marriage, open and honest communication is essential. If gambling is a significant part of your life, it is important to discuss it with your husband in the spirit of transparency and trust. Viewing it from another lens also,  sharing your gambling habits with your spouse can provide an opportunity for mutual support and understanding. Your spouse may offer emotional support and help you navigate any challenges associated with gambling, such as managing impulses or seeking help if needed.

[Kemarit]

To avoid conflict, it is better to tell your husband that you gamble because sooner or later he will know that you are into that activity and that might be the start that your family being broken as you keep secrets. I saw a lot of woman who gamble here in our place and there's no problem with that because they have the blessings of their husbands and also they gamble together.

Nothing can be kept secret forever, just remember that.

You are right,as long as both of you are legally married,there is nothing you will hide from him and he will not know.Even a cheating wife will try to cover and hide her act,but as long as your husband is staying with you,one day,he will eventually know,and it will cause alot of problem.

In marriage, open and honest communication is essential. If gambling is a significant part of your life, it is important to discuss it with your husband in the spirit of transparency and trust. Viewing it from another lens also,  sharing your gambling habits with your spouse can provide an opportunity for mutual support and understanding. Your spouse may offer emotional support and help you navigate any challenges associated with gambling, such as managing impulses or seeking help if needed.

Me and my wife are both gamblers though, and in the last 10 years or so we have like gambling together in land base casinos. However, I don't know, she was really very unlucky as compare to me wherein I win and win big. I can only count in my hands how many times she won. 

But in any case, we still enjoy gambling together and it's not a hindrance to our relationship. Or course, we try to be responsible and prioritize things and not gamble in front of our kids. And with the proliferation of online gambling, we just prefer it and like play slots in front of a laptop like we are still in land base casinos and cheering each other, LOL.

[ScamViruS]

In married life it is not right to hide something from your partner, it is important to be honest in the relationship so it is good practice to discuss with each other even about gambling, it will not ruin the relationship. You are hiding it now but sometime if he finds out that you are in trouble then his trust in you will be broken. So I think you should discuss this with an open mind and not hide anything from your husband. By doing this, you will be saved from any major problems in the future.

[|MINER|]

Actually I think it totally depends on her to share his personal habhit like gambling. If she isn't comfortable to share this matter to anyone else then I don't find anything wrong on that. But if she is going to addicted on gambling or gambling can affect his family or relationship then it will be better to share this to his partner.

[LUCKMCFLY]

Actually I think it totally depends on her to share his personal habhit like gambling. If she isn't comfortable to share this matter to anyone else then I don't find anything wrong on that. But if she is going to addicted on gambling or gambling can affect his family or relationship then it will be better to share this to his partner.

Well, in the case with my wife it is different, she actually tells me everything, and well I always support her, for the things that she always has in mind I say yes, as long as they are nice things that don't bring me problems and Let it be something beneficial, if she decides to play in a casino, well I support her, but first I would give her a lot of advice because I don't want the best girl to become addicted and that becomes a problem for me, that's not the idea.

But both women and men should share this type of pleasure, because it is not known if they even play together and help, that is the idea, to share , and always have everything as clear as possible, always when it comes to hiding things that It will always be known because Between heaven and earth there is nothing hidden, and it is a reality that things will always come to light, even if you hide and lie with lies, nothing is sustained.

[bounceback]

Actually I think it totally depends on her to share his personal habhit like gambling. If she isn't comfortable to share this matter to anyone else then I don't find anything wrong on that. But if she is going to addicted on gambling or gambling can affect his family or relationship then it will be better to share this to his partner.

Need transparent for wife talk to his husband about gambling and bad effect if not talk them with their relationship, don't make your household broken without transparent yet exactly for husband have more responsibility with his wife. I think bad effect if any one wife make gambling without get passive income and spent his husband money, but if have own work could be help awhile and need allow from husband is very important how to keep their household without get problem.
But not all husbands have agreement looking their wife active in gambling, I think get impact with their household condition with time spending more for gambling than for his husband.

[bitbit97]

I will ask differently - what benefits you would have if you gamble secretly from your partner. Secrets can only spoil relationships. And for most families it is no use to hide gambling, as will time it will be noticeable that partner is in short of money when starts to economize on default things, or has extra money when starts spending them.

[Altcoin1998$]

My wife has known for a long time that I am a non-professional gambler and she encourages me to indulge in gambling when I am sometimes depressed and do not have enough space to relax.  I sometimes borrow some money from my wife's savings and invest in gambling and when I get profit from gambling, I give 50% of that profit to my wife.  But one thing is very important that my wife gives me time to indulge in maximum gambling one day in a week and other 6 days I never give time to gambling.  Only on holidays my wife gives me time to invest in gambling.

[Emmanuel1]

I have already made this post in the other forum so I just have to quote it down here to see separate overview from people over the two forum..

Quite sometimes now i have been active in the gambling section and have pick interest to start gambling i have gone through lots of material in both the forum, i have seen that I can control my emotion as well as controlling my finance this includes;

• Not involving myself in a revenge gambling
• Not chasing profit after lost
• Not involving oneself into compulsive gambling
• Not solely replying on every game to be 100 percent correct
• Not hoping that gamble is guaranteed
• Not gambling with all my income or salaries
• Among all, gambling for fun and not to enrich oneself

The point is my husband doesn't know that i have been secretly gambling and involving myself with gambling discussions and the rest, So, this morning when i woke something in me keeps telling me i should let him know to understand my involvement  to practice gambling.

Does this worth telling him or not please i need you collective ideas.

Please i don't know if this violets the rules, and if yes then i don't mind locking this topic immediately.

If you are a wife you have to let your husband know you gamble, because a day might come when you will lose a huge amount of money, if you don't I have someone you can talk to an ease yourself you might have a big problem, that can even affect your health condition, that's why you need to let him know that you gamble, so in case of necessity you might have a shoulder to lean on .

[DragonF]

My wife has known for a long time that I am a non-professional gambler and she encourages me to indulge in gambling when I am sometimes depressed and do not have enough space to relax.  I sometimes borrow some money from my wife's savings and invest in gambling and when I get profit from gambling, I give 50% of that profit to my wife.  But one thing is very important that my wife gives me time to indulge in maximum gambling one day in a week and other 6 days I never give time to gambling.  Only on holidays my wife gives me time to invest in gambling.

No offence but borrowing to gamble is not a healthy behaviour. The unpredictable nature of gambling makes it irrational to borrow because you can easily accumulate debts if you borrow to gamble. Even though, you borrow from your wife the fact remains that borrowing is wrong. I`m surprised to hear that your wife encourages your gambling activity. Well, I can only tell you not to borrow to gamble and to be very careful not to become a compulsive gambler.

[PX-Z]

She knows that i gamble, no need to keep it secret from her. Besides i'm not a problematic gambler, high bettor, and i just gamble occasionally. Sometimes i explained it to her why i bet this fight (talking to sports betting) and why i choose the fighter or team.
I'm open for that as well as she is understandable, well, since she have some quite a bit expensive hobbies too so it's a tie lol.

[Penlex_Writer]

Show me a successful marriage and I will show you a marriage that is built on transparency and sincerity. If you are a gambler, you need to let your husband know about it. If he found out by himself he would doubt your sincerity in all areas.