Do you tell your husband you gamble?

[bisdak40]

Well am a man and with the way gambling is being seen in my society I Will definitely get it hurt with my woman if actually find her gambling because I know what she can face being a woman that gamble and of not for anything for the fact that she is very fragile and filled with emotions and can maybe handle some huge loss in gambling with the wrong approach whereas a man can take it all in that's if she turns out to gamble roughly.

Got your point mate and i do agree that woman is full of emotion and emotions is not a good contributor when it comes to gambling. But to answer to the question of telling the husband/wife when you gamble, i think it is very important that partners should have open communication with regards to this matter as secrets could often result in broken relationship.

[bitterguy28]

Do you have steady income?

are you a good wife and mother to them even if you are into gambling?

do you trust him and will listen to what will he say about your gambling activities?


answer those questions and we will go along , because I also have wife and family and she stays in house taking care of us , soif one day she will tell me that being in gambling? since she continues to do the same as what she was from the beginning ? then I will  just support her and may gamble with her together.

[luckyledger]

Absolutely, I talk to my wife about my gambling. Of course, it would be possible not to speak. Because it's like I spend only personal savings. But in full confidence it seems to me more fun. She can always tease me a bit, and from the other side as well she's my voice of reason. Sensitive support that keep me in check, making sure our leisure activities don't overshadow our commitments and responsibilities.

[DabsPoorVersion]

Well am a man and with the way gambling is being seen in my society I Will definitely get it hurt with my woman if actually find her gambling because I know what she can face being a woman that gamble and of not for anything for the fact that she is very fragile and filled with emotions and can maybe handle some huge loss in gambling with the wrong approach whereas a man can take it all in that's if she turns out to gamble roughly.

Got your point mate and i do agree that woman is full of emotion and emotions is not a good contributor when it comes to gambling. But to answer to the question of telling the husband/wife when you gamble, i think it is very important that partners should have open communication with regards to this matter as secrets could often result in broken relationship.

Well, yes that's definitely true. Most of the time the relationship between husband and wife starts to have an issue if they hide things from each other. Giving information that you are into gambling will not hurt as long as you tell the truth to your partner, besides this can also be another activity to enjoy together instead of hiding it.

However, this can also lead to addiction and other worse scenarios. What's best is to inform each other and help each other to control the gambling activity. Hiding will not get anything good for the relationship between husband and wife, it will only make it worse.

[DaNNy001]

Well am a man and with the way gambling is being seen in my society I Will definitely get it hurt with my woman if actually find her gambling because I know what she can face being a woman that gamble and of not for anything for the fact that she is very fragile and filled with emotions and can maybe handle some huge loss in gambling with the wrong approach whereas a man can take it all in that's if she turns out to gamble roughly.

Got your point mate and i do agree that woman is full of emotion and emotions is not a good contributor when it comes to gambling. But to answer to the question of telling the husband/wife when you gamble, i think it is very important that partners should have open communication with regards to this matter as secrets could often result in broken relationship.

That's very correct because if am to be the husband and I found out by myself that my wife is into gambling and she has been keeping the act a secret from me , damn I will be pissed because honesty is everything especially when it's a delicate matter like gambling so I would definitely not want to find out by myself at all so that too is noted but when it comes to the emotion side I know there are some woman as hard as a nutshell too 😁

[Jating]

Absolutely, I talk to my wife about my gambling. Of course, it would be possible not to speak. Because it's like I spend only personal savings. But in full confidence it seems to me more fun. She can always tease me a bit, and from the other side as well she's my voice of reason. Sensitive support that keep me in check, making sure our leisure activities don't overshadow our commitments and responsibilities.

Good for you, at least your wife understands it and obviously, you have to speak to hear as it involves your personal or even mutual savings. So it's really important to us to really tell them that we gamble and we do hope that we are not that addicted though and with that our wife could understand that we just have to be entertained and who knows, maybe if we play on a land base casinos, you can bring her with you to also have some fun from time to time.

[luckyledger]

Absolutely, I talk to my wife about my gambling. Of course, it would be possible not to speak. Because it's like I spend only personal savings. But in full confidence it seems to me more fun. She can always tease me a bit, and from the other side as well she's my voice of reason. Sensitive support that keep me in check, making sure our leisure activities don't overshadow our commitments and responsibilities.

Good for you, at least your wife understands it and obviously, you have to speak to hear as it involves your personal or even mutual savings. So it's really important to us to really tell them that we gamble and we do hope that we are not that addicted though and with that our wife could understand that we just have to be entertained and who knows, maybe if we play on a land base casinos, you can bring her with you to also have some fun from time to time.

Thank you for affirming the importance of open communication it truly makes all the difference. My wife’s understanding and involvement add a layer of enjoyment to the whole experience.
And absolutely, we do enjoy the occasional outing to a land-based casino. It’s a delightful change of scenery and another way to create shared memories.

[Rubel007]

Well am a man and with the way gambling is being seen in my society I Will definitely get it hurt with my woman if actually find her gambling because I know what she can face being a woman that gamble and of not for anything for the fact that she is very fragile and filled with emotions and can maybe handle some huge loss in gambling with the wrong approach whereas a man can take it all in that's if she turns out to gamble roughly.

Got your point mate and i do agree that woman is full of emotion and emotions is not a good contributor when it comes to gambling. But to answer to the question of telling the husband/wife when you gamble, i think it is very important that partners should have open communication with regards to this matter as secrets could often result in broken relationship.

Faith plays an important role in building a strong bond between husband and wife. It can be said that this relationship rests on the pillar of trust. If a wife gambles it is not her fault but when she refrains from giving any information about it to her husband, the relationship can start to break down. Although not everyone wants to open up about gambling, if it comes to husband and wife, they should be well informed. Otherwise, big problems will arise. If the wife shares her husband about gambling and he accepts it as temporary excitement, he may later manage the gambling more subtly.

[examplens]

However you don't always give credit to my post on Bitcointalk, did I commit any offense to you?

Honestly, you drew a little more attention to yourself on this forum. I may have criticized you recently on Btt, but believe me, it was well-intentioned. Now I will tell you a little more openly, maybe you are trying too hard to win the sympathy of certain members there.
You have a solid rank there, the relationship between activity vs. merit is quite good and that's why you have to be more relaxed. Now is the time to focus on building your authority, for example, don't get into meaningless and endless discussions.

I have absolutely nothing against you, I even have certain sympathies after this thread, for example. 

[SmartGold01]

However you don't always give credit to my post on Bitcointalk, did I commit any offense to you?

Honestly, you drew a little more attention to yourself on this forum. I may have criticized you recently on Btt, but believe me, it was well-intentioned. Now I will tell you a little more openly, maybe you are trying too hard to win the sympathy of certain members there.
You have a solid rank there, the relationship between activity vs. merit is quite good and that's why you have to be more relaxed. Now is the time to focus on building your authority, for example, don't get into meaningless and endless discussions.

I have absolutely nothing against you, I even have certain sympathies after this thread, for example. 

At first, I have to appreciate you for understanding me because it's not easily to grind over there in btt. As a woman who is trying hard to grow in the forum and sometimes with the way I am being attack makes me feels to so weak. But what do I do, growing over there means one must earn enough merits and when people keeps saying that my post doesn't worth it makes me feels that maybe because I am a lady but what more if not of Lovesmayfamilis keeps supporting me after knowing I am a real woman.

Yes, I am lady and I uploaded some of my pictures on a post created when I bought my phone, lot of them suggested I should remove those pictures for privacy but what privacy, do I harm anyone or steal someone assets, at some point I got discourage and I edited that post and remove my pictures.
However, when you come across my post you can also well support me to grow in btt knowing too well that is hard to grow, lot of people has supported me with little they could especially brainboss after knowing I am Nigerian he doesn't ceased to credit me to build up my rank and I really appreciate him for that, seeing how a woman is determined to stand firm in the forum makes him encouraging me, I didn't write him for that but I was shocked.

When I wrote on LoyceV thread he discredited my post and made me feels so inferior like I don't know what I was doing. Well, I just have to let that go because I am not sure he has even contributed to my growth till my 717 merits records. And of course, I won't kill myself over just to prove to him that my post worth it, considering my level of education and I have to give him some reasons and how I do evaluate post that is all.

[GxSTxV]

I remember seeing this topic on the other forum but I didn't have the chance to reply to it.
I notice that the statements you follow while you're gambling are very healthy and wise because you set rules to yourself in order to avoid impulsiveness and being drawn by emotions, usually that is what causes addiction and negativity in gambling. 

Since your gambling activities and habit are this healthy why not confronting your husband about it? I mean a healthy relationship should be based on honesty, hiding anything from your partner is bad let along something like gambling, I highly encourage you to do so because it might strengthen your relationship more. I hope your husband is an understanding person who can be okay with what you are doing and be supportive.

Personally I am not married but recently I have introduced my girlfriend into the gambling world, so at first she kind of judged the situation because for her back then gambling had a bad image only, but as soon as she watched me gamble and tried together she really enjoyed it especially when we do it together,  she sometimes gets luckier than I am, we gamble from time to time only and we try to follow strict rules about it. The point here is that it is ×10 times more fun when you share such activities with your partner, I am sure that if I hid my gambling habits from her and she discovered them after, she would be upset and it could ruin our relationship.

[ScamViruS]

Absolutely, I talk to my wife about my gambling. Of course, it would be possible not to speak. Because it's like I spend only personal savings. But in full confidence it seems to me more fun. She can always tease me a bit, and from the other side as well she's my voice of reason. Sensitive support that keep me in check, making sure our leisure activities don't overshadow our commitments and responsibilities.

Problems arise between husband and wife when they keep something secret from each other. But most of the time wives don't like it when their husband gambles, and it creates more problems if the husband openly talks about gambling to his wife, because they feel insecure. There are many reasons behind this, if one becomes addicted to gambling then he will lose a lot financially, and in reality this is happening, and this is why they are afraid.

[DabsPoorVersion]

Absolutely, I talk to my wife about my gambling. Of course, it would be possible not to speak. Because it's like I spend only personal savings. But in full confidence it seems to me more fun. She can always tease me a bit, and from the other side as well she's my voice of reason. Sensitive support that keep me in check, making sure our leisure activities don't overshadow our commitments and responsibilities.

Problems arise between husband and wife when they keep something secret from each other. But most of the time wives don't like it when their husband gambles, and it creates more problems if the husband openly talks about gambling to his wife, because they feel insecure. There are many reasons behind this, if one becomes addicted to gambling then he will lose a lot financially, and in reality this is happening, and this is why they are afraid.

The only time that they don't like it is when you are hiding things from them, or you are more committed to gambling than taking care of them. I agree that they will feel insecure, that's actually true, especially if you have less time for them, they will think negatively and that's probably when the conflict will start between each other.

When it comes to gambling addiction, is the result of spending more time gambling than your partner. It will indeed affect the financial status of the family, but if the spouse gives more time to his partner, it will not result in that. Having a partner is a great help especially if you have more time with each other as it reduces the time you have in gambling.

[Celsius]

Absolutely, I talk to my wife about my gambling. Of course, it would be possible not to speak. Because it's like I spend only personal savings. But in full confidence it seems to me more fun. She can always tease me a bit, and from the other side as well she's my voice of reason. Sensitive support that keep me in check, making sure our leisure activities don't overshadow our commitments and responsibilities.

A wife is always a place where a husband can share good, bad and sorrows, so no matter how much we protect our privacy, we have to share them with the wife.  Moreover, a wife always wishes well for an ideal husband and a wife can sometimes bring her husband back from the wrong path to the right path with good advice and consolation.  If a gambling husband talks to his wife about gambling then surely she will give him proper advice if she is ideal and wise.  Many a time there are many wives who bring the husband back to the right path with honest advice and suggestions from difficult situations and make many changes in his life.  So every husband should properly share any situation with his wife at any moment.

[alltalk]

But to answer to the question of telling the husband/wife when you gamble, i think it is very important that partners should have open communication with regards to this matter as secrets could often result in broken relationship.

Agree. It is better to let our wife/husband know that we are playing gambling. So, if we have a problem with gambling, they will know it and can help us. It is not only about to have a good communication, it is needed to prevent bad things to happen. If something bad happens with us in gambling, they can't help us if they don't know anything with our gambling activities.