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Gambling discussion / Re: Do you tell your husband you gamble?
« on: Today at 12:52:29 PM »When there is a good relationship between each other, one will give importance to the other's opinion, one will support the other's decision, but then there will be peace in that family. The constant turmoil between husband and wife, if someone does not give importance to someone's opinion or respect someone's decision, then there will never be peace in that world. The husband decided to gamble, if the wife supports him, then the husband will get confidence, and if the wife is interested in gambling, if the husband helps her, then both of them can do their jobs well. If husband and wife work in such a way that both of them are unhappy, then there will always be trouble in that family.This will also have a good impact when we are open with our partners, so there are people who will always remind us when we start not being good at gambling, I mean we are leading to a bad addiction. By being open with your partner, there is control that they can exert without us having to tell them.Before entering into a domestic relationship, it would be good for us to be open with our partners, don't let them find out after marriage or they find out about our habits from other people, this is one of the factors that will create a rift in the household.
However, they will definitely accept everything if they really love us. Whether something is good or bad can be communicated, and it would be better if we were open before marriage.
In as much I don't see anything wrong with gambling, I don't think all this formality is needed but be transparent in everything you do in your relationship, you should ask each other questions, ask your hobbies and what you love to do in your free time so you don have to start any explanation when he later see you pressing your phone or changing tab from one casino to the other.
Make sure not to be a person that is addicted, it is going to affect your relationship a lot because one of the problems of relationship when there is financial misunderstanding and zero accountability, gambling gives you these two.
This is something important, because maybe if it were our partner, we would be more accepting of what they say, because we know that a household contains two people who must understand each other. When they start reminding us, it means there is something wrong with us.