The person who feels everything they do is themselves, so it is not surprising that there will be many strategies in dealing with what they are going to do, because they will use strategies that may have already produced results and do not want to be tempted by other opinions, even though other strategies are not necessarily bad. In fact, the more strategies there are, the more alternatives that can be developed and everyone just has to search according to their wishes.
The more choices the better is a phrase we often hear.
More choices can give us freedom in determining which one is most suitable.
But sometimes, more choices do not always mean better, more choices will ultimately lead to difficulty making decisions. The Paradox of Choice.
So, it's better to set boundaries, use criteria, and Trust our intuition. IMO