Do you tell your husband you gamble?

[SmartGold01]

I have already made this post in the other forum so I just have to quote it down here to see separate overview from people over the two forum..

Quite sometimes now i have been active in the gambling section and have pick interest to start gambling i have gone through lots of material in both the forum, i have seen that I can control my emotion as well as controlling my finance this includes;

• Not involving myself in a revenge gambling
• Not chasing profit after lost
• Not involving oneself into compulsive gambling
• Not solely replying on every game to be 100 percent correct
• Not hoping that gamble is guaranteed
• Not gambling with all my income or salaries
• Among all, gambling for fun and not to enrich oneself

The point is my husband doesn't know that i have been secretly gambling and involving myself with gambling discussions and the rest, So, this morning when i woke something in me keeps telling me i should let him know to understand my involvement  to practice gambling.

Does this worth telling him or not please i need you collective ideas.

Please i don't know if this violets the rules, and if yes then i don't mind locking this topic immediately.

[Zed0X]

What's the set up in your household? He's the main provider and he gives you the funds to manage/budget every month? If the answer is yes, then I think he deserves to know what you're up to. This involves money and your gambling activity is a risk that could potentially burn it.

If the set up is 50/50 and you always give your share, then I guess he doesn't have to know.

[examplens]

Is this a trick question?
What can we say about those who do not have a husband but a wife? 

Now seriously, gambling can be a serious vice and if you do it secretly without the knowledge of the people closest to you, you are certainly in deep trouble. This is the first signal that you either change your habits and stop gambling or that you change your husband/wife who does not understand your needs.

[DabsPoorVersion]

As I have said to your thread on the other forum,
It's a bad idea to hide this kind of information from your husband as it is possible to lead to problems in the future if he finds out. The fact that you have this question in your mind only shows that you know the personality of your husband and you consider the best thing to do. He might react in a negative way or unexpectedly, but the best approach is to have an open and honest discussion with him, explain your actions and thoughts, and try to find the best action together.

[electronicash]

if it gets you in trouble why tell him. just to avoid anything that is will lead to arguments, just keep it to yourself.  it doesn't count as a violation like you are not loyal to your husband when you don't tell him about it. it wouldn't count as lying either.

but in case you feel guilty. and there is the need to tell him. you just have to be prepared for the reasons and after all you are in crypto and are prone to see casinos in every page. 

[MVL~$]

First of all I want to know whether you are the head of your family or your husband? Second, I want to know who provides money in the family? These two questions are interrelated. If your husband is the head of your family and he is supporting the family with money then you should inform him about this. Then if he gives you permission later and if any harm comes to you after that then he cannot complain to you. And if it is profitable, then it will come to your own benefit. And if you are the head of the household then I would say it is entirely your own choice. If your husband understands you very well and loves you, he will never contradict you or is very unlikely to do so. Before doing whatever you do, you can discuss this matter with very close people around you and also you can question your own conscience.

[SmartGold01]

Is this a trick question?
What can we say about those who do not have a husband but a wife? 

Now seriously, gambling can be a serious vice and if you do it secretly without the knowledge of the people closest to you, you are certainly in deep trouble. This is the first signal that you either change your habits and stop gambling or that you change your husband/wife who does not understand your needs.

Usually I don't intend to gamble often or to regularly gamble maybe once in a month or twice since my involvement to this industry requires to have a gambling knowledge to be able to involved in most of the discussions, of a true I really understand that basics and the bad effects it would caused me if I suddenly became a gambling addicts that was why I am trying my best not to involve fully into gambling rather developing interest to watch some matches even though I must gambling it be I am only using about 1 to 5 percent of my income to gamble with this I can maintain some certain stability or within some limits without going oftrack.

Again as you asked, those who doesn't have husband are free to do whatever they feels like with their lives I believe no one is there to have a general direction and control over them, in as much I am still legally married I don't mind revealing it to my husband but it should be with careful as few people already suggested the other side.

[xSkylarx]

Why are we keeping it secret? That's your husband, and he will understand. Also, there would be someone looking after you if you were going beyond the limit to prevent addiction. Probably you are just scared of what he will say, it will be test a in your relationship in case he disagrees. In today's generation, most people know about gambling, while others are casual gamblers, people already accept it except those who are very religious, but others are good at it as long as you are not addicted to it.

[salad daging]

So you are a wife?

Why not tell your husband? Is it because of fear? You are involved in gambling, when he is not happy with your actions in gambling then this will be a problem in your family.
My suggestion is that you should tell your own husband that you are involved in gambling but not addicted as you point out, when your husband gives the green light then your heart will be a little calmer.

[LUCKMCFLY]

You should tell him, and better because if it is something that you like, that you are passionate about, then he must understand it, besides it is about money, of some kind, because he should find out, it is not known if he also wants to try it and also how you have more It is experience because you tell him that you can do how he can do certain things, and you can grow together, so when you plan to play and have money, then he does not get angry, even though I say that you are a free woman in your finances and that you He must be clear about that, but it doesn't matter, because he can later complain to you for any thing and tell you that you have hidden so many other things from him. Believe me, that later causes problems, in case he discovers that you are playing hidden, you can also offer, because he will regret that you do not trust him.

And I can assure you that because when my wife doesn't care about something in particular, she suddenly says that I don't take her into account for the things that she does and no, that's a needless fight, and if you tell her and he doesn't like it, because he has to accept it anyway, because it's your freedom and it's just what you like to do and he must Respect that.

[JoyMarsha]

As couples bond in love, it is a good idea to tell your husband what you found yourself doing to know his take on it, to be cool with you partaking in it, or to feel terrified of it.

Telling your husband about what you are doing(gambling) is to give him that maximum respect than for it to come as a surprise to him when knows. Men don't like the things their wife does, to come unexpected to them. They want to know the things their wives get themselves into so that they can know how to support or advise them on the best step to take to succeed in them than to hear their wife mess up in a particular thing they would have helped before the messing happened.

[Igebotz]

As I have answered to your thread,
It's not a good idea to hide anything from your husband as it can lead to problems in the future if he ever finds out. The fact that you're asking this question shows that you understand your husband's personality and are considering the best course of action. It's possible that he may react negatively or unexpectedly, but the best approach is to have an open and honest discussion with him, explain your actions and thoughts, and try to find the best action together.

Truly, you had the answer. People fail to understand that one of the attributes of a successful marriage is openness. You need to let your husband know that you are into gambling. Behaviours of such shouldn't be hidden in marriage.

[Jamal Aezaz]

I think trust and transparency are very important parts of life. So yes.  in my opinion Husbands should know what their wives are doing and Wives should know what their husbands are doing too. but it is a sad fact that there are so many relationships going with lies and fakeness.
We can't blame the wife for not telling her husband about his gambling, because most husbands don't tell their Wives too about their gambling habits. but if all the financial burden is on husband's shoulder, if he gives all the money to the wife to run the house and cover expenses then first wife should not spend those money in gambling if she does then it is very important that husand know about that.

[Bitcoin_people]

If you are a wife, you can certainly turn your husband away from gambling and give him the green light. Basically when you tell your husband to quit gambling he will want to continue gambling in many ways but he has to stop you enough. When your husband gambles you will never be happy for his actions and you should not be happy if he hits the jackpot if you are a good and anti gambling wife. Of course you have to keep in mind that a woman can never ruin her family so if you want your family members to live a good life then you must stop gambling. Especially when you get your husband back from gambling then your family will be happy and there will be no trouble and your husband will not be addicted and family will not be harmed.

[SmartGold01]

If you are a wife, you can certainly turn your husband away from gambling and give him the green light. Basically when you tell your husband to quit gambling he will want to continue gambling in many ways but he has to stop you enough. When your husband gambles you will never be happy for his actions and you should not be happy if he hits the jackpot if you are a good and anti gambling wife. Of course you have to keep in mind that a woman can never ruin her family so if you want your family members to live a good life then you must stop gambling. Especially when you get your husband back from gambling then your family will be happy and there will be no trouble and your husband will not be addicted and family will not be harmed.

My husband doesn't gambling rather he loves watching wrestling and football and he does that for fun, although sometimes I do discussed with him things about football and he was shocked to see the sudden interest in me though there is every possibility that he is suspecting me that I am gambling but, he doesn't know how to ask me that was why I raised those topic to have different opinions from you guys to know what best way to approach because it would be bad when he discovers that himself instead it's better I inform him.