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What are the most common reason why is it hard to say sorry to someone?
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What are the most common reason why is it hard to say sorry to someone?
i dont know
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It is not hard to say sorry if you are not a proud person. So the question should be, how do we get rid of pride.
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It is not hard to say sorry if you are not a proud person. So the question should be, how do we get rid of pride.
It's a good thing
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Saying sorry sometimes differs from at times people tend not to say sorry for what they didn't do wrong and as such it's always advisable to say sorry in whatsoever situations so as to allow peace to reign.
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Usually it's pride. Saying you're sorry and apologizing also means you admit you were wrong, and some people are too proud to do so.
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Usually it's pride. Saying you're sorry and apologizing also means you admit you were wrong, and some people are too proud to do so.
That's very true though, pride is one of the reasons some people find it hard to say they are sorry and sometimes without apology or saying sorry it might end up affecting them on the long run...
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I think it has to do with one being prideful and feels too big to apologise when he steps on toes .
Again, it could be attributed to ones understanding of life.
Personally, life is too short to live in hurting others and then feeling too big to say sorry.
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Because it means that you have to admit you were wrong
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It's hard to be honest with ourselves and admit that we were wrong :(
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that's the human nature i think :/
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It is not really that hard when you try to lower your ego, sometimes we must accept that we did wrong because we are never always been correct in our lives keep understanding each other to build a good communication.
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What are the most common reason why is it hard to say sorry to someone?
Sometimes "Say sorry" is too expensive. If you are friends it's OK. But if you are one falling into love, it is so expensive in such condition like which you should keep silient.
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For most people it's pride. Saying sorry means admitting you were wrong.
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For most people it's pride. Saying sorry means admitting you were wrong.
True, while some people are just to hard hearted to say they are sorry... While some people are trained in there homes never to say they are sorry whether they are wrong.. That's what a friend told me about there family..
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For most people it's pride. Saying sorry means admitting you were wrong.
True, while some people are just to hard hearted to say they are sorry... While some people are trained in there homes never to say they are sorry whether they are wrong.. That's what a friend told me about there family..
I have a family member who never says sorry about anything ever. It's actually quite fascinating to observe.
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When you feel that you are not at fault it becomes hard to say sorry I think that's pride anyway.
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It is always hard to say sorry ,some reason why people found it difficult to say sorry when they found out that the person they misunderstanding with is the actual offender that's when it become hard to say sorry and pride heart could also be the reason too
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I think, because of stubbornness and pride.
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People are weak. They think that saying sorry will make them look desperate. It is not true. You should be strong to apologize.
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That's the gist of it. And they can't swallow their pride to say it. I know a person who has never said sorry in their entire life. Communicating with them sure is interesting.
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I think it's more like a matter of principle for that people, they are so reluctant to sorry so it's hard to even imagine now. How do you really go with that ? I have seen so many relationships went dust cause of this thing that I could never imagine.
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What are the most common reason why is it hard to say sorry to someone?
Often it means admitting you were wrong...and in many cases, you might have acted or argued passionately that you were right, therefore it can be embarrassing. Saying sorry when you are not actually sorry to make peace or be the bigger person is painful...but often rewarding as the other person will let then their guard down and admit their wrongdoing also.
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Also sometimes it's hard to accept you really were wrong. Some people are just too proud to.
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I think that is the case for a lot of people.
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It take more humility and less pride to say sorry and this is what is lacking in majority of people. Until and except this is solved, this question will always be golden
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What are the most common reason why is it hard to say sorry to someone? -
Because speaking this person admits his guilt. He admits that he was wrong. And feels guilty
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I guess, pride is the main reason.
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Guys, there are such cases when you need to say Sorry to a person who has done much more evil for you than you do, for which you ask for an apology. Resentment will never let you do this. The same situation happens when you need to say thanks to a person whom you do not respect or always expect bad deeds from him.
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If someone is that toxic I just do my best to stop communicating with them altogether.
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It's hard, but it feels way better after doing this, if you actually feels you harm someone and wanna to improve relationship with a person.
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And it is also the right thing to do when you hurt someone.
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That depends on the person. Some people, unfortunately, are more prideful than others.
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I think the problem is parenting. A person from childhood must be taught to apologize and forgive. You need to show this by your own example.
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Because over time it's really hard in mature lfie to pardon anyone and it really takes a lot of time to make it in reality. Can we really compile from something like that if our decisions are corrected by the ways of tons of people anyway. Can we really do that or not ?
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It’s not difficult to say, it’s hard to admit that you are wrong.
As soon as a person can do this, life will become easier.
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I agree. Unfortunately a lot of people never learn this lesson.
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Most of the times it is one's ego that makes it hard to say sorry.
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What do you think about people not apologizing?
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I don't know what's stopping people from saying it, but my theory says that there's nothing wrong in saying sorry. Admitting your fault won't make you a smaller person in any manner, rather it would help you become better as a person.
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It is usually pride that gets in the way of saying it, I think. Sometimes it is arrogance as well.
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We are too proud of ourselves that's why we find it difficult, we feel like we are right, why should I say sorry. But honestly, its not hard to say sorry we only made it hard
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I also think a sense of empathy is required to know you need to apologize, because it helps you understand you've hurt someone.
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Pride or ego prevents some people from apologizing. They feel that saying sorry will lower their status or dignity, and refuse to apologize, regardless of what happened, whether they're right or wrong. Unfortunately, many are unaware that failing to say a simple 'sorry' can have devastating consequences and destroy lives.
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As an individuals, we always want to be right and saying sorry implies fault of ours, so that might be reason we find it hard to say sorry.
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As an individuals, we always want to be right and saying sorry implies fault of ours, so that might be reason we find it hard to say sorry.
There are people who do easily just that accept that they are at fault but there are those who do have that high egos on which they do really believe that they are always right even if its not.
It is really that not easy to say sorry if you do know that you are on the right but due to some time that we dont like hassle and make arguments then we do just simply let it slip
and dont really fight for our right. It is really just that depending on a certain persons personality because not all does have that patience and short tempered.
So it will really be that varying on certain conditions.
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Pride makes it hard for us to say sorry. We don’t want to feel weak or admit we messed up but saying sorry can fix things. It’s just about putting our pride aside for a moment.
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What are the most common reason why is it hard to say sorry to someone?
There is nothing too hard in saying sorry, many were only too stieveneck and pride has gone over them as well, they lack regard for people and they will always find it difficult in saying sorry even when they are at fault, this is something that will also cost them because they are not going to achieve anything from this kind of behaviours, we have to learn how we can be well acquainted to how others live in the society and learn to take responsibilities.
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As an individuals, we always want to be right and saying sorry implies fault of ours, so that might be reason we find it hard to say sorry.
No on da can always be right at all time, no matter how perfect we try to be, the fact still remains that at some point, we’ll still end up making one or two errors and saying sorry shouldn’t have to be such a big deal because it shows just how humble you are and that you also regard and respect others too, because not ever saying sorry is like saying you’re perfect and can never make any mistakes which we already know just how false that is.
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I knew people that can't admit their mistake and the attitude that they've known to the others that weren't good at all. It's all about their pride and they don't want others to become better than them. So with that, all they want to do is to make sure that they are still way up and higher than the others despite that it is their fault that make others intimidated and they won't be surprised if those people they have stepped in are no longer with them.
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What are the most common reason why is it hard to say sorry to someone?
i dont know
First off I am sorry if I offended you or anyone on this thread.
I know that
if you can’t say you are sorry you are likely suffering from the inability to ask “Am I the backdoor”
Reddit has a really long section/thread about asking if you are the wrong person.
So to anyone that finds it hard to say they are sorry, look up the Reddit thread Am I the backdoor.
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It's hardest to say sorry when you're really ashamed of what you did because you feel like just saying sorry isn't enough because it won't change anything. There are many people who do not say sorry and do not make amends even after making a mistake. It's easiest to say sorry when you don't care or care to some extent. It's easy to say when you think yes i did something wrong. Maybe i shouldn't have gone this way or it would have been better if i didn't do it this way.
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If we made a mistake and discover that we are wrong, then we should not hesitate to say sorry, if we are not the one that made the mistake and being accused of it, we should not argue too much and let pride go over us, say sorry, the word sorry is so powerful that it can change a wrath to calmness, anger to being cheerful and judgement for pardon, but only a few understand what is behind saying sorry.
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The only thing in this whole wide world that can make a complete person to not say sorry or refuse to admit they are wrong is #pride. But it is not compulsory you must say sorry only when you are wrong or at fault sorry is also a symbol of love and charisma it means you value whatever you have with the other party even if you don't know the person but when you say sorry means you want peace.
This small word sorry can send so many countries and people to war and can also settle a very strong dispute.
We should learn to kill our pride and say sorry always.
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Pride makes it hard for us to say sorry. We don’t want to feel weak or admit we messed up but saying sorry can fix things. It’s just about putting our pride aside for a moment.
You are correct. Individuals who have pride in themselves find it hard to say sorry because they feel that their actions are always right; they don't want to feel less of themselves. Not saying sorry makes them appear tough not knowing it's stupidity. Someone doesn't take stupidity anywhere.
When you offend someone or do something wrong, the right thing to do is say sorry. Sorry calmed people's minds, it doesn't take anything away from you or make you feel like a weak being
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Pride makes it hard for us to say sorry. We don’t want to feel weak or admit we messed up but saying sorry can fix things. It’s just about putting our pride aside for a moment.
You are correct. Individuals who have pride in themselves find it hard to say sorry because they feel that their actions are always right; they don't want to feel less of themselves. Not saying sorry makes them appear tough not knowing it's stupidity. Someone doesn't take stupidity anywhere.
When you offend someone or do something wrong, the right thing to do is say sorry. Sorry calmed people's minds, it doesn't take anything away from you or make you feel like a weak being
This is that other people traits or behavior does have on which they do really feel out that they are always right and these kind of individuals doesnt really that accept any reasons and would stood firm into their decisions and beliefs. It do really sucks when having this kind of behavior of a certain person on which this doesnt really want to hear out other peoples explanations on which there's nothing we can do. Somehow it will really be that somewhat situational because there are indeed times or moments that it wasnt really that our fault and saying up sorry is something which is really that hard for you to consider out.
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It is not hard to say sorry if you are not a proud person. So the question should be, how do we get rid of pride.
People find it difficult to accept their own mistakes because of their pride. When both sides of a conflict believe they are right, it is difficult for either party to accept responsibility and apologize. This is so common among people who do not see the value of friendship, and accepting responsibility for their mistakes becomes difficult because they are unconcerned about losing the friendship.
Personally, I have been in a situation where I apologized when it was clear that I did not cause the misunderstanding. Even after a third party intervened and it was resolved that the other person was at fault and should apologize, he did not, so I had to apologize to ensure that there was peace between us. So, as you mentioned, pride is a major reason why most people struggle to say sorry.
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What are the most common reason why is it hard to say sorry to someone?
Pride is the most common reason I can think of, because if you are humble with no pride, saying sorry or apologizing for something will not be difficult for you to do.
Another reason I can think of that I can understand is that saying sorry sometimes to someone can be a sign of weakness. That is why you find out that some people do not apologize in words but apologize with actions.
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What are the most common reason why is it hard to say sorry to someone?
Another reason I can think of that I can understand is that saying sorry sometimes to someone can be a sign of weakness. That is why you find out that some people do not apologize in words but apologize with actions.
I agree with your opinion here as I have been able to ask a friend this question in the past and what you have said here is exactly the response I got from him. He told me that he just feel that saying sorry or apologising makes him look like a weakling and he detest that but he prefers to show it in action to make amends than saying it out to the person he has offended. Some people grew up that way and maybe they saw their parents acting it than saying it which they could understand and that might be the way they see it and their perspective about apologizing is like acting it than saying it to the person they have offended.
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What are the most common reason why is it hard to say sorry to someone?
Another reason I can think of that I can understand is that saying sorry sometimes to someone can be a sign of weakness. That is why you find out that some people do not apologize in words but apologize with actions.
I agree with your opinion here as I have been able to ask a friend this question in the past and what you have said here is exactly the response I got from him. He told me that he just feel that saying sorry or apologising makes him look like a weakling and he detest that but he prefers to show it in action to make amends than saying it out to the person he has offended. Some people grew up that way and maybe they saw their parents acting it than saying it which they could understand and that might be the way they see it and their perspective about apologizing is like acting it than saying it to the person they have offended.
I get what you’re saying. Some people think saying sorry makes them look weak, so instead, they try to show it through their actions. It’s just how they’re wired, maybe because of how they were raised or what they saw growing up. Instead of saying it outright, they’d rather fix things or act differently to show they’re sorry. It makes sense, but I guess it’s all about perspective.
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I get what you’re saying. Some people think saying sorry makes them look weak, so instead, they try to show it through their actions. It’s just how they’re wired, maybe because of how they were raised or what they saw growing up. Instead of saying it outright, they’d rather fix things or act differently to show they’re sorry. It makes sense, but I guess it’s all about perspective.
This is very true!
I have a friend who never says sorry, rather than saying sorry, he’d rather do something that’ll show he’s actually sorry, like get you an I’m sorry gift or take you out to a fancy restaurant or something just to show he’s sorry and when I asked him why it’s so, he don’t even know why it’s so, all he kept saying is that, it’s better to show you’re actually sorry than just saying it.
And one day while we were talking, I got to discover that he saw the same behaviour from his father while growing up, whenever his father had a fight with his mom and it's actually his fault, rather than saying sorry, he’d simply just get his mother a gift that says it shows he’s sorry, and he grew up with that mentality and it became part of him.
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I get what you’re saying. Some people think saying sorry makes them look weak, so instead, they try to show it through their actions. It’s just how they’re wired, maybe because of how they were raised or what they saw growing up. Instead of saying it outright, they’d rather fix things or act differently to show they’re sorry. It makes sense, but I guess it’s all about perspective.
This is very true!
I have a friend who never says sorry, rather than saying sorry, he’d rather do something that’ll show he’s actually sorry, like get you an I’m sorry gift or take you out to a fancy restaurant or something just to show he’s sorry and when I asked him why it’s so, he don’t even know why it’s so, all he kept saying is that, it’s better to show you’re actually sorry than just saying it.
And one day while we were talking, I got to discover that he saw the same behaviour from his father while growing up, whenever his father had a fight with his mom and it's actually his fault, rather than saying sorry, he’d simply just get his mother a gift that says it shows he’s sorry, and he grew up with that mentality and it became part of him.
Wow...that's a nice one. He didn't understand that his Das was doing it for the love he has for his wife. There are many situations whereby, you run into strangers and hurt them mistakenly, how will he say I am sorry to such people. Just the word I am sorry will change so many long faces in a moment.
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I get what you’re saying. Some people think saying sorry makes them look weak, so instead, they try to show it through their actions. It’s just how they’re wired, maybe because of how they were raised or what they saw growing up. Instead of saying it outright, they’d rather fix things or act differently to show they’re sorry. It makes sense, but I guess it’s all about perspective.
This is very true!
I have a friend who never says sorry, rather than saying sorry, he’d rather do something that’ll show he’s actually sorry, like get you an I’m sorry gift or take you out to a fancy restaurant or something just to show he’s sorry and when I asked him why it’s so, he don’t even know why it’s so, all he kept saying is that, it’s better to show you’re actually sorry than just saying it.
And one day while we were talking, I got to discover that he saw the same behaviour from his father while growing up, whenever his father had a fight with his mom and it's actually his fault, rather than saying sorry, he’d simply just get his mother a gift that says it shows he’s sorry, and he grew up with that mentality and it became part of him.
Wow...that's a nice one. He didn't understand that his Das was doing it for the love he has for his wife. There are many situations whereby, you run into strangers and hurt them mistakenly, how will he say I am sorry to such people. Just the word I am sorry will change so many long faces in a moment.
Sometimes it is really that part of being a good person on which even with the simpliest gestures on which at the time that these things happen will really be that making some change at least. Its not that you will really be losing something if you do just simply do these things up, there are really just that those individuals who are really that too sensitive or having that high ego on which they do really saw up that they are always up or ahead with other people. This kind of behavior is really that totally shit and sooner or later when experiences do give out some hard learnings which you will be able to realization.
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What are the most common reason why is it hard to say sorry to someone?
Another reason I can think of that I can understand is that saying sorry sometimes to someone can be a sign of weakness. That is why you find out that some people do not apologize in words but apologize with actions.
I agree with your opinion here as I have been able to ask a friend this question in the past and what you have said here is exactly the response I got from him. He told me that he just feel that saying sorry or apologising makes him look like a weakling and he detest that but he prefers to show it in action to make amends than saying it out to the person he has offended. Some people grew up that way and maybe they saw their parents acting it than saying it which they could understand and that might be the way they see it and their perspective about apologizing is like acting it than saying it to the person they have offended.
I get what you’re saying. Some people think saying sorry makes them look weak, so instead, they try to show it through their actions. It’s just how they’re wired, maybe because of how they were raised or what they saw growing up. Instead of saying it outright, they’d rather fix things or act differently to show they’re sorry. It makes sense, but I guess it’s all about perspective.
Obviously, some saw it in their parents actions maybe their mom and dad are the type that hardly says such words to each other rather they prefer to act it through buying of gifts, surprise outing etc just to show how sorry they are and their children being very observant and also learning such, it becomes their perspective of apologizing. While some are just being shy to say such but would prefer they do something remarkable in place of saying they are sorry. I have a lot of friends that does this around me so it's not strange to me.
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Wow...that's a nice one. He didn't understand that his Das was doing it for the love he has for his wife. There are many situations whereby, you run into strangers and hurt them mistakenly, how will he say I am sorry to such people. Just the word I am sorry will change so many long faces in a moment.
You've said nothing but the truth, A single sorry can't make you look weak or irresponsible. In fact, saying sorry can be a powerful way to make amends, especially when other attempts to make up for their mistakes. There are different kinds of people in this world, and some people may forgive quickly, while others may require a more sincere and face to face apology. refusing to apologize or doing so in an inappropriate manner can make it harder to earn forgiveness.
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Wow...that's a nice one. He didn't understand that his Das was doing it for the love he has for his wife. There are many situations whereby, you run into strangers and hurt them mistakenly, how will he say I am sorry to such people. Just the word I am sorry will change so many long faces in a moment.
You've said nothing but the truth, A single sorry can't make you look weak or irresponsible. In fact, saying sorry can be a powerful way to make amends, especially when other attempts to make up for their mistakes. There are different kinds of people in this world, and some people may forgive quickly, while others may require a more sincere and face to face apology. refusing to apologize or doing so in an inappropriate manner can make it harder to earn forgiveness.
There are people who do have that some troublesome ego on which they wont really be that saying sorry because it will hurt up their ego and this is why its really that there are those people who do have those kind of behavior or character on which they dont like to be admitting when it comes into their mistakes and errors and would really be that not wanting to say sorry and this what makes other situations becomes even more shit and problematic. We are just humans on which we cant really be that perfect on every decisions and actions that we are taking. This is why it will be that situational but its impossible that you cant be able to realize your own mistakes.
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You've said nothing but the truth, A single sorry can't make you look weak or irresponsible. In fact, saying sorry can be a powerful way to make amends, especially when other attempts to make up for their mistakes. There are different kinds of people in this world, and some people may forgive quickly, while others may require a more sincere and face to face apology. refusing to apologize or doing so in an inappropriate manner can make it harder to earn forgiveness.
Well, saying sorry shouldn’t be all that bad you know, except the person in question isn’t wrong after all, but then again, how can one really know that he’s right because what’s in one perspective could equally be wrong looking at it from a totally different perspective. And that’s why sometimes, even when people feel they are right and shouldn’t have to apologize or say sorry for a particular action, it’s advisable to overlook everything at the moment and just say sorry for peace to reign, and when the atmosphere is clear, you could quietly make the person understand and acknowledge where he has gone wrong. I believe this is a much better approach.
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There are several factors that can contribute to someone not being able to say sorry to others and one of such factors could be pride and arrogance as these factors make people to feel big and always think that they are always better than others so to them what ever that they do is the best so even if they do something against other they are not obligated to say sorry to others and pride is one thing that has really brought many people down and this is one thing that we should fight against in our life as it's not a good attribute
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There are several factors that can contribute to someone not being able to say sorry to others and one of such factors could be pride and arrogance as these factors make people to feel big and always think that they are always better than others so to them what ever that they do is the best so even if they do something against other they are not obligated to say sorry to others and pride is one thing that has really brought many people down and this is one thing that we should fight against in our life as it's not a good attribute
I will agree with your opinion here, pride has caused the downfall of many people and when it comes to situations like this, people of that nature barely say sorry. I have encountered them in many situations, you can see their pride and arrogance they feel that they are above you, and for that, they do not bother to say sorry, they just ignore you and keep being arrogant like only them exist. This is the reason why when many of them start having issues, nobody goes for their support instead they avoid them and they fall straight to the ground without anybody coming their way.
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There are several factors that can contribute to someone not being able to say sorry to others and one of such factors could be pride and arrogance as these factors make people to feel big and always think that they are always better than others so to them what ever that they do is the best so even if they do something against other they are not obligated to say sorry to others and pride is one thing that has really brought many people down and this is one thing that we should fight against in our life as it's not a good attribute
I will agree with your opinion here, pride has caused the downfall of many people and when it comes to situations like this, people of that nature barely say sorry. I have encountered them in many situations, you can see their pride and arrogance they feel that they are above you, and for that, they do not bother to say sorry, they just ignore you and keep being arrogant like only them exist. This is the reason why when many of them start having issues, nobody goes for their support instead they avoid them and they fall straight to the ground without anybody coming their way.
People do think that once they do let someone passed through and commit out their mistake is that it do shows up some being weak and thats why other people be seeing this to be that a not a good thing. This is why their pride will really be raising them up and thats why forgiveness is something that will be out of their vocalbulary. This is the main reason on why it is really that hard to say sorry or accept out their mistakes on which there are indeed people whose like this. Each person does have their own different behavior and qualities and thats why we cant tell on what are the things that they would gonna do.
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Personally, if I am right, I will not apologize to the person who is my opponent, even if he is older than me, because my principle is that if I am right, I will stick to my personal beliefs, and what they did to me has left a deep impression in my heart and memory, it doesn't matter if people say I am vengeful.
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Personally, if I am right, I will not apologize to the person who is my opponent, even if he is older than me, because my principle is that if I am right, I will stick to my personal beliefs, and what they did to me has left a deep impression in my heart and memory, it doesn't matter if people say I am vengeful.
Well that’s a totally different case. It’s different from being wrong and finding it difficult to accept and acknowledge their mistakes and also refusing to apologize, on the basis that they are actually older than you. This is a very wrong way to act towards others. Although, sometimes, even when I know I’m right, to avoid further prolonging the issue, I’d just say sorry and just let the issue die off. This strategy is mostly effective when approaching or engaging in an argument with women. ;D ;D ;D
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