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Title: Why is my life so sad? What should I do?
Post by: Prabhu Pawar on July 01, 2022, 06:59:11 PM
Dear friend,
Our life is what we think about it. There are many more reasons are being sad and there are many more reasons to being happy. But the point is that which one we choose.

Your opinion is greatly appreciated.
Title: Re: Why is my life so sad? What should I do?
Post by: lolapaluuza on July 04, 2022, 06:24:53 PM
Without sadness, you cannot feel happiness. So let's swing this pendulum to feel alive....
Title: Re: Why is my life so sad? What should I do?
Post by: libertasbella on July 04, 2022, 08:00:10 PM
The harder you focus on becoming happy, the farther your goal appears to become.
Title: Re: Why is my life so sad? What should I do?
Post by: Yujjin on July 05, 2022, 05:32:30 PM
Have a magic wand and poof become happy at will, that would be nice or not :)
Title: Re: Why is my life so sad? What should I do?
Post by: HeavLeighGill on July 05, 2022, 06:22:04 PM
I saw some life advice once that said every day you wake up and choose whether to have a good or bad life. A lot of us think we have a bad life because we need more money, but money is just a concept invented by mankind. Sometimes, something as simple as clearing your mind, feeling the breeze, sitting outside and listening to birds chirping can change things. We all also have tools available to us to make a difference if we don't like where we live or who we are.
Title: Re: Why is my life so sad? What should I do?
Post by: Egg_burger on July 06, 2022, 02:22:34 AM
Without sadness, you cannot feel happiness. So let's swing this pendulum to feel alive....

Exactly. This is Yin Yang.
Title: Re: Why is my life so sad? What should I do?
Post by: FoggyStar on July 19, 2022, 12:03:48 PM
Dear friend,
Our life is what we think about it. There are many more reasons are being sad and there are many more reasons to being happy. But the point is that which one we choose.

Your opinion is greatly appreciated.
You should find a hobby that will really please you! A good and useful hobby is a joy for the soul and body. May your every day not be lived in vain. Do a good deed every day and then you will definitely stop being sad, as you will make other people happy!
Title: Re: Why is my life so sad? What should I do?
Post by: Dora Walletinvestor on July 19, 2022, 12:56:38 PM
I don't know. The world is a complicated place. Finding things (and people) that give you joy and trying to find something you can work towards that inspires you, whether work-wise or in your personal life, can make you feel better about it.
Title: Re: Why is my life so sad? What should I do?
Post by: yohananaomi on August 01, 2022, 02:36:29 PM

if you ask what will i choose? Obviously I would choose to be able to live happily, but happiness certainly cannot be determined because we already have property, but can be obtained from many other sides. sometimes we have limitations and cannot determine everything according to our wishes. so we may experience trials that make us sad but there is always a way out if we want to try to solve the problems we face. as religious people we clearly have to leave everything to those who determine our lives and we try to be able to follow correctly, what is desired.

Title: Re: Why is my life so sad? What should I do?
Post by: williams on October 25, 2022, 10:09:04 AM
I feel you. I had depression for some time because of my diagnosis. I have diabetes and last year was rough for me. My test results were bad for a long time, I had to buy victoza online as it was the only one treatment that helped me. Because of it, I lost a lot of weight and fell into depression. I started to take special medicine, focus on positive things and spend more time with my family. Now I'm feeling much better.
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Post by: Noah526 on January 05, 2023, 09:52:43 AM
I used to often think that my life had no meaning and was monotonous. Wake up, eat, go to work, and so on every day, we earn money at a job we don't like, so that we can pay for our health, which we lost in that job. I realized that I just needed to get out of that cage and then life would be better, I now work for myself, I do not owe anyone anything and my life is filled with colors. But you have to go through the dark tones of life in order for the bright ones to come.
Title: Re: Why is my life so sad? What should I do?
Post by: Gormicsta on January 18, 2024, 12:33:14 AM
All I can say is pray, anytime we feel sad or depressed we should pray but let's bear it in mind that it's not everyday, everytime we have to be happy at times we will be sad even if there is no cause for it, this world is program in this way, a time to be happy and a time to be sad, a time to cry and a time to laugh, etc.
Title: Re: Why is my life so sad? What should I do?
Post by: JoyMarsha on January 18, 2024, 10:34:00 PM
Dear friend,
Our life is what we think about it. There are many more reasons are being sad and there are many more reasons to being happy. But the point is that which one we choose.

Your opinion is greatly appreciated.
The point of being happy is what I will always choose over sad. No human being would like to choose sadness over happiness because being sad alone denies someone their peace of mind and makes them worried about every little thing and that could make them fall into depression as a result of that
Title: Re: Why is my life so sad? What should I do?
Post by: KingsDen on January 19, 2024, 12:37:00 AM
Dear friend,
Our life is what we think about it. There are many more reasons are being sad and there are many more reasons to being happy. But the point is that which one we choose.

Your opinion is greatly appreciated.
The point of being happy is what I will always choose over sad. No human being would like to choose sadness over happiness because being sad alone denies someone their peace of mind and makes them worried about every little thing and that could make them fall into depression as a result of that
No matter which ever way we see it, sometimes the choice to choose whether to be happy or sad do not lie in our hands only. It could be that I loved one will be the one to decide whether you be happy or sad at a particular time. Our peer group, friends or colleagues in one way or the other also contribute to our happiness or sadness. In as much as we are not in isolation in this world we need to always align our habits and mode to that of the environment. The choice to be happy lies with us and also with the environment we find ourselves, the kind of activities will engage ourselves with and what feeds our mindset.
Title: Re: Why is my life so sad? What should I do?
Post by: Primo1760 on January 20, 2024, 07:40:55 AM
Dear friend,
Our life is what we think about it. There are many more reasons are being sad and there are many more reasons to being happy. But the point is that which one we choose.

Your opinion is greatly appreciated.
No one ever wants to live a life of hardship, people always want to live a life of happiness and peace. But some people lose their happy life due to bad habits. Some of the bad habits missing from living a happy life are spending recklessly, sitting idly without working hard. While sitting and eating without any effort, once they owe money to people, as a result of which the burden of that day increases continuously, people jump from a happy life to a sad life. One has to work hard all the time in life only those who manage life through hard work can achieve happiness and peace in life.
Title: Re: Why is my life so sad? What should I do?
Post by: Bodhi2021 on January 21, 2024, 08:08:16 AM
Choose to be happy always and avoid being sad, because a happy man always have a beautiful face and think positively, doing that gives you a good relationship with people living around you. Because they always see your smiling face and not the other way round.
Title: Re: Why is my life so sad? What should I do?
Post by: Martyns on January 21, 2024, 01:25:19 PM
Dear friend,
Our life is what we think about it. There are many more reasons are being sad and there are many more reasons to being happy. But the point is that which one we choose.

Your opinion is greatly appreciated.
At a certain time in life its seems not to be all right and at that moment life become sad and unsuitable,but for the fact that life turn another way round does not mean we should not be happy or feel devastated. Life is not always  balance as all figures are not  equal. For that single reason, that all figures are not equal means that life can't be balance at all hours(time) and therefore as human, we must have to adjust our self when its not going smoothly and also try to create an atom of joy in order not to feel that particular moment that is not alright. The point of getting joy and happiness all depends on the  choice of decisions taken by human,for one to be sad all lies on the things and decision taken and passed by that person. For one to be happy you must be a kind of person that is very  jovial and free with others. Joy all comes from the mind because when our mind  is sat on things that are happening in our life and other countries in the world ,its make us downcasted and as such result to unhappiness.
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Post by: EluguHcman on January 22, 2024, 01:08:38 PM
Being happy is not negotiable neither is staying sad a choice for anyone. Although, there as humans, we either intensionally or unintentionally indulges on the occasions that could compromise our joy in the heart which brings about happiness. No one ever craves to be sad, we all chases about our comfortabilities but sometimes our intentions goes South and at most, we are the caused of such sadden situations because we are not concious and consciencelessly engaging on the activities with the potentials to resulting to disasterousities
Title: Re: Why is my life so sad? What should I do?
Post by: goaldot on January 24, 2024, 02:41:42 PM
I chose to be happy over sad. Sadness gives one heartache. It gives wrinkle face. It makes one to die young. Why should I be sad while a lot of good things I will remember to be happy? Happiness reduces your stress.
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Post by: Dr.Bitcoin_Strange on January 24, 2024, 10:06:45 PM
You did not really give much detail as to why your life is so sad, but if I were you, I would choose happiness over anything else. Usually life happens, and at that very moment we are trying to make ourselves feel happy. There are some circumstances that can just cause us sadness, but no matter what, trying to make yourself happy can help you not get so depressed to the extent of taking decisions that can harm you.

What you can do is make yourself happy. Don't overthink any bad situations that you are passing through now that are making your life sad.
Title: Re: Why is my life so sad? What should I do?
Post by: Gormicsta on February 13, 2024, 10:19:17 AM
Whenever you fell you are sad, all you have to do it's to look for things that makes you happy, you take a walk it also relieve and you can also talk to someone who you trust or thinks can help you, praying can also help, you can watch a movie or listen to music etc.
Title: Re: Why is my life so sad? What should I do?
Post by: JoyMarsha on April 19, 2024, 11:53:43 PM
Dear friend,
Our life is what we think about it. There are many more reasons are being sad and there are many more reasons to being happy. But the point is that which one we choose.

Your opinion is greatly appreciated.
I choose to be happy than sad because happiness will give me a reason to live for the day to pursue my dreams and ambition all day but as for being sad, it will demoralize my spirit of living for the moment and enjoying my true self potential.
Title: Re: Why is my life so sad? What should I do?
Post by: Cryptsafe on April 20, 2024, 04:39:57 PM
OP, I have read your post but it does not really really tally with your topic as you have not given us details as to why your life is sad. Maybe members could come to your rescue if you drop a little details as to what is really happening to you so that we could be able to give you advice on what to do and how to go about it. Life is very much precious and as such should be well lived and one taking good care of themselves.
You see in life, it is always a two sided coin but it depends on which one you want at the moment you are. Being sad sometimes is as a result of a reaction of your current state of mind maybe you have been having some thoughts that bothers you a lot and such thought sometimes changes the state of ones mind and condition which reflects physically on ones mode at the moment but however, it does not pay to be in such condition because the more you think about your worries and being sad the more problem you put yourself into.
 
In the other hand, happiness is a relief and healing process to ones state of mind and wellbeing. Happiness is something one would need to always be in so as to avoid being in a condition that is unpleasant. It is advisable to always be happy no matter how life treats you. All you just have to do is to put efforts in that thing you find worth doing and doing it well would definitely pay in the long run.
Title: Re: Why is my life so sad? What should I do?
Post by: Alston Liu on April 22, 2024, 06:24:01 AM
Without sadness, you cannot feel happiness. So let's swing this pendulum to feel alive....

Exactly. This is Yin Yang.
Kind of like the author Mark Mansion said. Happiness comes from solving the problems in your life, instead of not acknowledging it or pretending you don't have any problems in your life. You will feel happy if you solve a problem or have a negative experience, like hitting the gym will make you feel miserable since you have to go through the whole process of lifting, doing hundreds of push out, etc. But the outcome will make you feel happy because you are in a better shape of yourself and more healthy
Title: Re: Why is my life so sad? What should I do?
Post by: emmybd on April 27, 2024, 12:16:15 PM
We all have got problems in our life. Despite all these problems we have to try to be happy. If your expectations are too high then you would feel sad if you can not fullfil those. So content with whatever you have and be happy.
Title: Re: Why is my life so sad? What should I do?
Post by: Cryptsafe on April 27, 2024, 07:46:56 PM
We all have got problems in our life. Despite all these problems we have to try to be happy. If your expectations are too high then you would feel sad if you can not fullfil those. So content with whatever you have and be happy.

I have come to  realize that in life, there are always happy moment and sad moment but your ability to control your emotions shows how strong and matured you are. No matter the gravity of the challenge one is going through, one should not allow it to weigh them down. Because the more you are always sad, the more you mount pressure  on your hearth and stress your health as well. So you could see that you are losing much more than you could imagine and if you are always sad then what do you think would happen to you.
Title: Re: Why is my life so sad? What should I do?
Post by: bisdak40 on April 29, 2024, 10:18:38 AM
Dear friend,
Our life is what we think about it. There are many more reasons are being sad and there are many more reasons to being happy. But the point is that which one we choose.

Your opinion is greatly appreciated.

You control your own life and choose to be happy as life is so short to be full of misery. Problems will pass and don't be too attached to it as that will make you sad. Seek family support if you have problems, open up to them on how can you be happy because being open to your family will free yourself of worries.
Title: Re: Why is my life so sad? What should I do?
Post by: OSAMABBK on May 18, 2024, 11:11:42 PM
Dear friend,
Our life is what we think about it. There are many more reasons are being sad and there are many more reasons to being happy. But the point is that which one we choose.

Your opinion is greatly appreciated.
In today's century if you want to leave a happy life, always appreciate the little you i.e be contented envy no one, life is short to envy fellow being, because you can't stop what creator has ordained always pray against the wasted efforts, don't depend on anyone either financially or anything human can fail you at any moment but the Creator will never, do your best to provide for yourself and for your families avoid competition with anyone, it's might be someone you are competing with have someone that will provide for them, while your families count on it take good care of the little you perhaps what you have today is someone's dream, don't downgrade your work it might turn to big investment tomorrow, try to assist someone with the little you have, if you come across any opportunities that sweet your friends refer them single tree doesn't make forest, there success is yours they will one day be there for you whenever you need emergency assistance
Title: Re: Why is my life so sad? What should I do?
Post by: OSAMABBK on May 21, 2024, 03:35:11 PM
Dear friend,
Our life is what we think about it. There are many more reasons are being sad and there are many more reasons to being happy. But the point is that which one we choose.

Your opinion is greatly appreciated.

You control your own life and choose to be happy as life is so short to be full of misery. Problems will pass and don't be too attached to it as that will make you sad. Seek family support if you have problems, open up to them on how can you be happy because being open to your family will free yourself of worries.
Happiness is free no matter what choose happiness over sadness what you don't have today, might come your way tomorrow nobody have it all at times mingle with friends to avoid over thinking, because it's kills faster head up be yourself, don't handover your happiness into anyone's hand do what makes you happy, if it's charting you are addicted to on your data logging into social media laugh out your sorrow, if its film we are now global world take out your smart phone and watch some series of movies if its novel we have thousands of authors that you will never regret reading their books, if it is sport believed me football is one of the best sports you'll never regret, if you are not good in playing you'll be good in watching try to watch cristiano Ronaldo (goat)  greatest of all time, mind you if you want to be happy avoid gambling, because is another heartbreak on it own
Stay safe and be happy
Title: Re: Why is my life so sad? What should I do?
Post by: milewilda on May 23, 2024, 03:52:56 PM
Dear friend,
Our life is what we think about it. There are many more reasons are being sad and there are many more reasons to being happy. But the point is that which one we choose.

Your opinion is greatly appreciated.

You control your own life and choose to be happy as life is so short to be full of misery. Problems will pass and don't be too attached to it as that will make you sad. Seek family support if you have problems, open up to them on how can you be happy because being open to your family will free yourself of worries.
Happiness is free no matter what choose happiness over sadness what you don't have today, might come your way tomorrow nobody have it all at times mingle with friends to avoid over thinking, because it's kills faster head up be yourself, don't handover your happiness into anyone's hand do what makes you happy, if it's charting you are addicted to on your data logging into social media laugh out your sorrow, if its film we are now global world take out your smart phone and watch some series of movies if its novel we have thousands of authors that you will never regret reading their books, if it is sport believed me football is one of the best sports you'll never regret, if you are not good in playing you'll be good in watching try to watch cristiano Ronaldo (goat)  greatest of all time, mind you if you want to be happy avoid gambling, because is another heartbreak on it own
Stay safe and be happy
The key on here is to get contented on what you do have and be happy on what you do own or whatever condition that you have. Problems is always that part of our life and the key
on here is that you should not make yourself that easily give up and would be having the strength on solving out those problems because there's no problems which cant really be solved on which it wouldnt be that right that you will really be that giving up or the worst on which you do commit suicide. Deal up with things on which could make you happy.
If there are some problems then try to solve it and dont easily give up.
Title: Re: Why is my life so sad? What should I do?
Post by: Dr.Bitcoin_Strange on May 23, 2024, 05:37:46 PM
Choose to be happy always and avoid being sad, because a happy man always have a beautiful face and think positively, doing that gives you a good relationship with people living around you. Because they always see your smiling face and not the other way round.
As long as this life is concerned, there'll always be things that'll make someone feel sad and unhappy, so it's left for everyone to choose how to react to those situations as well as how to handle them.
You can choose to let your problems frustrate you and lead you to depression or you can pretend to not even see them and they'll have less impact on you, let alone make you feel devastated.

It's important to know that problems will always be there, even when you solve them, another one will just erupte from nowhere, so it's essential to always stay positive and know that problems won't last forever.
Title: Re: Why is my life so sad? What should I do?
Post by: Gurujebs on May 23, 2024, 05:41:15 PM
You control your own life and choose to be happy as life is so short to be full of misery. Problems will pass and don't be too attached to it as that will make you sad. Seek family support if you have problems, open up to them on how can you be happy because being open to your family will free yourself of worries.

I just checked OP last seen was August 2022, he even left before I became too active here but I think his description of depression is money. He is a Bounty hunger and airdrop kind of person and perhaps he came to the forum with the hope of making something but that time Bounties weren't active here and most of them turned out to be scam.

Many people are not happy and think there current financial situation will not lead the any where but some of us has been there, done it and beat it and life is better today, there is nothing to worry over something you can't control.
Title: Re: Why is my life so sad? What should I do?
Post by: lolitalit on May 24, 2024, 12:01:33 AM
How about a new hobby? Golf, painting, yoga? Or how about getting a pet? My life became much more fun after I got a dog. I am now looking at Pet Prescription Without Vet (https://worldpetexpress.net/) for vitamins for him and I am not bored or sad. In general, a dog is a really good option if you feel lonely
Title: Re: Why is my life so sad? What should I do?
Post by: Cryptsafe on May 25, 2024, 08:40:07 PM
You control your own life and choose to be happy as life is so short to be full of misery. Problems will pass and don't be too attached to it as that will make you sad. Seek family support if you have problems, open up to them on how can you be happy because being open to your family will free yourself of worries.

I just checked OP last seen was August 2022, he even left before I became too active here but I think his description of depression is money. He is a Bounty hunger and airdrop kind of person and perhaps he came to the forum with the hope of making something but that time Bounties weren't active here and most of them turned out to be scam.

Many people are not happy and think there current financial situation will not lead the any where but some of us has been there, done it and beat it and life is better today, there is nothing to worry over something you can't control.
Possibly OP must have been through alot thinking he or she would get little relief here but the opposite was the case forcing OP to make this post. People are really going through life and hoping to get through it but the obviously, it is not going as they thought it would.

I wish OP could come back here to read through and see peoples opinions and maybe he could get something to hold onto yo get comfort. It is really terrible out there. The street is very cold.
Title: Re: Why is my life so sad? What should I do?
Post by: JoyMarsha on June 03, 2024, 11:14:18 PM
Choose to be happy always and avoid being sad, because a happy man always have a beautiful face and think positively, doing that gives you a good relationship with people living around you. Because they always see your smiling face and not the other way round.
As long as this life is concerned, there'll always be things that'll make someone feel sad and unhappy, so it's left for everyone to choose how to react to those situations as well as how to handle them.
You can choose to let your problems frustrate you and lead you to depression or you can pretend to not even see them and they'll have less impact on you, let alone make you feel devastated.

It's important to know that problems will always be there, even when you solve them, another one will just erupte from nowhere, so it's essential to always stay positive and know that problems won't last forever.
Exactly. That problem doesn't last forever, and that's why we should treat any given situation we find ourselves on a lighter note than hitting on ourselves so hard doesn't solve the problem at hand but makes it worse. That's why it is an idea to focus on the future and believe that problems of life are temporary, not permanent. We should take life situations or challenges on a lighter note than hard one
Title: Re: Why is my life so sad? What should I do?
Post by: Hridoy7788 on June 04, 2024, 05:18:08 PM
When I find myself in a more depressive state I just like to think about the things that make me happy and how I can do them more often and even find more things to make me happy.
Title: Re: Why is my life so sad? What should I do?
Post by: albon on June 04, 2024, 08:38:58 PM
This affects the student life more especially when you leave school and go to college. Because then you will need more money in your life, so you will not be able to spend that time well even if you want to. That was the case in my life but I had a great time starting a business because i spent most of my time outside so it was a good time. The thought will end only when you can secure a job or business. But if you want to be happy evaluate what your needs are and then arrange to meet them, then you can always be sure and happy.
Title: Re: Why is my life so sad? What should I do?
Post by: yahoo62278 on June 04, 2024, 10:59:24 PM
If you are sad and depressed, ask yourself what makes you happy. Once you answer this question, start thinking about how to achieve the things that make you happy. Don't set the bar so high it's unachievable. Be realistic! Only you can change your life, noone else will change it for you.
Title: Re: Why is my life so sad? What should I do?
Post by: milewilda on June 05, 2024, 10:15:54 PM
If you are sad and depressed, ask yourself what makes you happy. Once you answer this question, start thinking about how to achieve the things that make you happy. Don't set the bar so high it's unachievable. Be realistic! Only you can change your life, noone else will change it for you.
Well said! This is something that people should really be needing up to realize. The wrong thing of some people is that they do always reflect out themselves into someone on which this could really cause up that kind of huge disappointment at the moment that they would really be able to failed up on achieving t hose conditions.This is where things becomes wrong at the moment that
you are thriving on something which cant really be that easily be reached out.
Title: Re: Why is my life so sad? What should I do?
Post by: Cryptsafe on June 05, 2024, 11:39:39 PM
If you are sad and depressed, ask yourself what makes you happy. Once you answer this question, start thinking about how to achieve the things that make you happy. Don't set the bar so high it's unachievable. Be realistic! Only you can change your life, noone else will change it for you.
You are right sir. Sometimes it is only the Individual that can be able to sort things out by themselves to make sure that  they suppress that state of condition they are into. Depression is not what someone would go through. Depression is suicidal and not what I wish my one close to me to go through. I had had this experience so I know what I am  saying. It is very dangerous to let a depressed person stay alone because you can not tell what would be their next move.
In some cases, depressed person's need someone to regularly check on them, visiting and spending time with them just Could help alot.
Title: Re: Why is my life so sad? What should I do?
Post by: Rruchi man on June 07, 2024, 11:59:27 PM
It is very dangerous to let a depressed person stay alone because you can not tell what would be their next move.
In some cases, depressed person's need someone to regularly check on them, visiting and spending time with them just Could help alot.
Depression is in stages, and there are some cases of depression where the individual needs to be left alone to sort themselves out. We have all experienced depression at one stage in our life and we all have our different responses state I have experienced the mouth state of depression my response is to withdraw from public and social life and then find my peace. This is my method. If you know someone who is depressed, try to help them by knowing how to help them.

If you observe that an individual who is your friend is constantly depressed or his depressive state has stayed for too long then you should know that such a person needs help.
Title: Re: Why is my life so sad? What should I do?
Post by: MUGNIA on June 08, 2024, 05:27:41 PM
no one wants to live a difficult and sad life, but if we force ourselves to always be the same as other people but not according to our abilities, that's what sometimes makes us lose our sense of happiness, because we always lack and  ambition,
There are many levels of happiness in a person, not just money, but having money is a plus for someone
Title: Re: Why is my life so sad? What should I do?
Post by: Sim_card on June 08, 2024, 06:08:16 PM
When I find myself in a more depressive state I just like to think about the things that make me happy and how I can do them more often and even find more things to make me happy.
What I do is that, I forget as if I have those problems that are making me depressed and I look for people who will keep me company and encourage me to move on with life. I don't always allow it way me down so that I can overcome the situation by accepting whatever scenario that plays out. I do this in order to overcome the situation because I know it will not last for long.
Title: Re: Why is my life so sad? What should I do?
Post by: Vx1 on June 08, 2024, 06:17:08 PM
no one wants to live a difficult and sad life, but if we force ourselves to always be the same as other people but not according to our abilities, that's what sometimes makes us lose our sense of happiness, because we always lack and  ambition,
There are many levels of happiness in a person, not just money, but having money is a plus for someone
Being yourself is indeed more fun, but sometimes human nature makes us unable to enjoy it.  So we always look at other people and we want to be like them even though we can't, this will become a burden and our life will be like suffering. Don't be like that because it's not good for your health, it's better to be yourself. Work hard, collect lots of money.  Then we enjoy it with pleasure and joy.
Title: Re: Why is my life so sad? What should I do?
Post by: Dr.Bitcoin_Strange on June 08, 2024, 08:55:03 PM
Choose to be happy always and avoid being sad, because a happy man always have a beautiful face and think positively, doing that gives you a good relationship with people living around you. Because they always see your smiling face and not the other way round.
As long as this life is concerned, there'll always be things that'll make someone feel sad and unhappy, so it's left for everyone to choose how to react to those situations as well as how to handle them.
You can choose to let your problems frustrate you and lead you to depression or you can pretend to not even see them and they'll have less impact on you, let alone make you feel devastated.

It's important to know that problems will always be there, even when you solve them, another one will just erupte from nowhere, so it's essential to always stay positive and know that problems won't last forever.
Exactly. That problem doesn't last forever, and that's why we should treat any given situation we find ourselves on a lighter note than hitting on ourselves so hard doesn't solve the problem at hand but makes it worse. That's why it is an idea to focus on the future and believe that problems of life are temporary, not permanent. We should take life situations or challenges on a lighter note than hard one
Someone once told me that a situation or challenge is only as big as you make it look, when you exalt a situation way too high, it becomes an actual problem and a depressing one, that you just become depressed when you think about it.
But seeing a problem as minor, regardless of how critical it may appear to be, gives you more control over that problem, and also gives you the chance and time to think of a possible way out.
Title: Re: Why is my life so sad? What should I do?
Post by: Cryptsafe on June 08, 2024, 09:23:16 PM
It is very dangerous to let a depressed person stay alone because you can not tell what would be their next move.
In some cases, depressed person's need someone to regularly check on them, visiting and spending time with them just Could help alot.
Depression is in stages, and there are some cases of depression where the individual needs to be left alone to sort themselves out. We have all experienced depression at one stage in our life and we all have our different responses state I have experienced the mouth state of depression my response is to withdraw from public and social life and then find my peace. This is my method. If you know someone who is depressed, try to help them by knowing how to help them.

If you observe that an individual who is your friend is constantly depressed or his depressive state has stayed for too long then you should know that such a person needs help.
Obviously, depression is not worth the experience.. A depressed individual can be going through alot which resulted to their current state of depression.
I think I should say something about this. Although it is a bit into this but I think it is necessary to I say it.
Being kind and nice to people helps a lot.. This in one way or the other gives hope to people who are already depressed without notice. Checking on individuals, friends and loved ones too helps alot because at some stage of depression when nobody would shows up, the depressed would be or might be suicidal because they would feel it's them alone and their challenges at this point it is very dangerous and it would require checking on them regularly to know how they are coping. I think this could help in one way or the other.
Title: Re: Why is my life so sad? What should I do?
Post by: JoyMarsha on June 08, 2024, 10:04:19 PM
Someone once told me that a situation or challenge is only as big as you make it look, when you exalt a situation way too high, it becomes an actual problem and a depressing one, that you just become depressed when you think about it.
But seeing a problem as minor, regardless of how critical it may appear to be, gives you more control over that problem, and also gives you the chance and time to think of a possible way out.
In all, think like an outsider when you are faced with a challenge. Thinking that way(as an outsider) would help you have a proper outlook on the problem and think out of the box on how to find a lasting solution to the problem.

I was opportune to know about this when I had an issue of missing a script(result) in my school. Our school counselor had to tell me how to face the challenge by thinking out of the box like a stranger. Like this out of the box when a friend tells you about their problems. what advice would you give such a friend?

However, that method of tackling my problem has helped me a lot to navigate how to deal with my life challenges.
Title: Re: Why is my life so sad? What should I do?
Post by: bisdak40 on June 14, 2024, 11:18:03 AM
Without sadness, you cannot feel happiness. So let's swing this pendulum to feel alive....

I agree with this, you cannot feel happiness without sadness. In my opinion If your life is sad, you should go outside and try to appreciate the beautiful surroundings and breathe fresh air, find something that makes you happy and spend time with it, and get support from friends and family.
Title: Re: Why is my life so sad? What should I do?
Post by: Cryptsafe on June 14, 2024, 06:57:58 PM
Without sadness, you cannot feel happiness. So let's swing this pendulum to feel alive....

I agree with this, you cannot feel happiness without sadness. In my opinion If your life is sad, you should go outside and try to appreciate the beautiful surroundings and breathe fresh air, find something that makes you happy and spend time with it, and get support from friends and family.

Well I believe all these happens for a reason and this reason likely is the fact that one should be experienced enough to know how to control their emotions in the long run.  Having both feelings as a life encounter would help shapen or mould someone to be able to weather the storm, serve as a help to people who are going through such experience.
If someone has been in a depressed state and was able to overcome notwithstanding the encounters he or she had during that time, I believe such an individual would be able to help others out of such situations.
Title: Re: Why is my life so sad? What should I do?
Post by: Gurujebs on June 14, 2024, 07:23:50 PM
Dear friend,
Our life is what we think about it. There are many more reasons are being sad and there are many more reasons to being happy. But the point is that which one we choose.

Your opinion is greatly appreciated.

I don't have much to say but see life as a manualess place, leave it and dream anything you want but know that something can be off limit, you can't always have what you want but sometimes when you push harder, you will exceed some places you don't expect and don't ever try to depend on any man for a man will fail you one day.

If you ever feel down, pray to God, he is the only person that can give guide and direct you towards a better place and lastly, don't be a lazy person because a prayer without actions will lead you no where.
Title: Re: Why is my life so sad? What should I do?
Post by: JoyMarsha on July 01, 2024, 11:57:11 PM
Without sadness, you cannot feel happiness. So let's swing this pendulum to feel alive....

I agree with this, you cannot feel happiness without sadness. In my opinion If your life is sad, you should go outside and try to appreciate the beautiful surroundings and breathe fresh air, find something that makes you happy and spend time with it, and get support from friends and family.
Exactly. Appreciate the little things life has given you, more especially your family and friends because they are the ones that can come for you and support you in terms of your difficult moments. Make sure you have a peaceful relationship with them always so that you can have people who can stand up and give you the necessary backing to grow in life or business
Title: Re: Why is my life so sad? What should I do?
Post by: Ricardo11 on July 02, 2024, 10:10:23 AM
Life gives every person a taste of both happiness and sadness. If you don't have sadness in your life, you can't understand the value of happiness. Whatever happens in your life, you should praise the Creator for everything. Now to turn the sadness of your life into happiness, you have to work hard on yourself. If you work hard at good work, it will surely turn into happiness.