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Wider Crypto World => Gambling & Crypto Casinos => Gambling discussion => Topic started by: SmartGold01 on January 10, 2024, 09:47:30 AM
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I have already made this post in the other forum so I just have to quote it down here to see separate overview from people over the two forum..
Quite sometimes now i have been active in the gambling section and have pick interest to start gambling i have gone through lots of material in both the forum, i have seen that I can control my emotion as well as controlling my finance this includes;
- Not involving myself in a revenge gambling
- Not chasing profit after lost
- Not involving oneself into compulsive gambling
- Not solely replying on every game to be 100 percent correct
- Not hoping that gamble is guaranteed
- Not gambling with all my income or salaries
- Among all, gambling for fun and not to enrich oneself
The point is my husband doesn't know that i have been secretly gambling and involving myself with gambling discussions and the rest, So, this morning when i woke something in me keeps telling me i should let him know to understand my involvement to practice gambling.
Does this worth telling him or not please i need you collective ideas.
Please i don't know if this violets the rules, and if yes then i don't mind locking this topic immediately.
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What's the set up in your household? He's the main provider and he gives you the funds to manage/budget every month? If the answer is yes, then I think he deserves to know what you're up to. This involves money and your gambling activity is a risk that could potentially burn it.
If the set up is 50/50 and you always give your share, then I guess he doesn't have to know.
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Is this a trick question?
What can we say about those who do not have a husband but a wife? :o
Now seriously, gambling can be a serious vice and if you do it secretly without the knowledge of the people closest to you, you are certainly in deep trouble. This is the first signal that you either change your habits and stop gambling or that you change your husband/wife who does not understand your needs.
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As I have said to your thread on the other forum,
It's a bad idea to hide this kind of information from your husband as it is possible to lead to problems in the future if he finds out. The fact that you have this question in your mind only shows that you know the personality of your husband and you consider the best thing to do. He might react in a negative way or unexpectedly, but the best approach is to have an open and honest discussion with him, explain your actions and thoughts, and try to find the best action together.
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if it gets you in trouble why tell him. just to avoid anything that is will lead to arguments, just keep it to yourself. it doesn't count as a violation like you are not loyal to your husband when you don't tell him about it. it wouldn't count as lying either.
but in case you feel guilty. and there is the need to tell him. you just have to be prepared for the reasons and after all you are in crypto and are prone to see casinos in every page. ;D
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First of all I want to know whether you are the head of your family or your husband? Second, I want to know who provides money in the family? These two questions are interrelated. If your husband is the head of your family and he is supporting the family with money then you should inform him about this. Then if he gives you permission later and if any harm comes to you after that then he cannot complain to you. And if it is profitable, then it will come to your own benefit. And if you are the head of the household then I would say it is entirely your own choice. If your husband understands you very well and loves you, he will never contradict you or is very unlikely to do so. Before doing whatever you do, you can discuss this matter with very close people around you and also you can question your own conscience.
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Is this a trick question?
What can we say about those who do not have a husband but a wife? :o
Now seriously, gambling can be a serious vice and if you do it secretly without the knowledge of the people closest to you, you are certainly in deep trouble. This is the first signal that you either change your habits and stop gambling or that you change your husband/wife who does not understand your needs.
Usually I don't intend to gamble often or to regularly gamble maybe once in a month or twice since my involvement to this industry requires to have a gambling knowledge to be able to involved in most of the discussions, of a true I really understand that basics and the bad effects it would caused me if I suddenly became a gambling addicts that was why I am trying my best not to involve fully into gambling rather developing interest to watch some matches even though I must gambling it be I am only using about 1 to 5 percent of my income to gamble with this I can maintain some certain stability or within some limits without going oftrack.
Again as you asked, those who doesn't have husband are free to do whatever they feels like with their lives I believe no one is there to have a general direction and control over them, in as much I am still legally married I don't mind revealing it to my husband but it should be with careful as few people already suggested the other side.
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Why are we keeping it secret? That's your husband, and he will understand. Also, there would be someone looking after you if you were going beyond the limit to prevent addiction. Probably you are just scared of what he will say, it will be test a in your relationship in case he disagrees. In today's generation, most people know about gambling, while others are casual gamblers, people already accept it except those who are very religious, but others are good at it as long as you are not addicted to it.
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So you are a wife?
Why not tell your husband? Is it because of fear? You are involved in gambling, when he is not happy with your actions in gambling then this will be a problem in your family.
My suggestion is that you should tell your own husband that you are involved in gambling but not addicted as you point out, when your husband gives the green light then your heart will be a little calmer.
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You should tell him, and better because if it is something that you like, that you are passionate about, then he must understand it, besides it is about money, of some kind, because he should find out, it is not known if he also wants to try it and also how you have more It is experience because you tell him that you can do how he can do certain things, and you can grow together, so when you plan to play and have money, then he does not get angry, even though I say that you are a free woman in your finances and that you He must be clear about that, but it doesn't matter, because he can later complain to you for any thing and tell you that you have hidden so many other things from him. Believe me, that later causes problems, in case he discovers that you are playing hidden, you can also offer, because he will regret that you do not trust him.
And I can assure you that because when my wife doesn't care about something in particular, she suddenly says that I don't take her into account for the things that she does and no, that's a needless fight, and if you tell her and he doesn't like it, because he has to accept it anyway, because it's your freedom and it's just what you like to do and he must Respect that.
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As couples bond in love, it is a good idea to tell your husband what you found yourself doing to know his take on it, to be cool with you partaking in it, or to feel terrified of it.
Telling your husband about what you are doing(gambling) is to give him that maximum respect than for it to come as a surprise to him when knows. Men don't like the things their wife does, to come unexpected to them. They want to know the things their wives get themselves into so that they can know how to support or advise them on the best step to take to succeed in them than to hear their wife mess up in a particular thing they would have helped before the messing happened.
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As I have answered to your thread,
It's not a good idea to hide anything from your husband as it can lead to problems in the future if he ever finds out. The fact that you're asking this question shows that you understand your husband's personality and are considering the best course of action. It's possible that he may react negatively or unexpectedly, but the best approach is to have an open and honest discussion with him, explain your actions and thoughts, and try to find the best action together.
Truly, you had the answer. People fail to understand that one of the attributes of a successful marriage is openness. You need to let your husband know that you are into gambling. Behaviours of such shouldn't be hidden in marriage.
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I think trust and transparency are very important parts of life. So yes. in my opinion Husbands should know what their wives are doing and Wives should know what their husbands are doing too. but it is a sad fact that there are so many relationships going with lies and fakeness.
We can't blame the wife for not telling her husband about his gambling, because most husbands don't tell their Wives too about their gambling habits. but if all the financial burden is on husband's shoulder, if he gives all the money to the wife to run the house and cover expenses then first wife should not spend those money in gambling if she does then it is very important that husand know about that.
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If you are a wife, you can certainly turn your husband away from gambling and give him the green light. Basically when you tell your husband to quit gambling he will want to continue gambling in many ways but he has to stop you enough. When your husband gambles you will never be happy for his actions and you should not be happy if he hits the jackpot if you are a good and anti gambling wife. Of course you have to keep in mind that a woman can never ruin her family so if you want your family members to live a good life then you must stop gambling. Especially when you get your husband back from gambling then your family will be happy and there will be no trouble and your husband will not be addicted and family will not be harmed.
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If you are a wife, you can certainly turn your husband away from gambling and give him the green light. Basically when you tell your husband to quit gambling he will want to continue gambling in many ways but he has to stop you enough. When your husband gambles you will never be happy for his actions and you should not be happy if he hits the jackpot if you are a good and anti gambling wife. Of course you have to keep in mind that a woman can never ruin her family so if you want your family members to live a good life then you must stop gambling. Especially when you get your husband back from gambling then your family will be happy and there will be no trouble and your husband will not be addicted and family will not be harmed.
My husband doesn't gambling rather he loves watching wrestling and football and he does that for fun, although sometimes I do discussed with him things about football and he was shocked to see the sudden interest in me though there is every possibility that he is suspecting me that I am gambling but, he doesn't know how to ask me that was why I raised those topic to have different opinions from you guys to know what best way to approach because it would be bad when he discovers that himself instead it's better I inform him.
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Usually I don't intend to gamble often or to regularly gamble maybe once in a month or twice since my involvement to this industry requires to have a gambling knowledge to be able to involved in most of the discussions, of a true I really understand that basics and the bad effects it would caused me if I suddenly became a gambling addicts that was why I am trying my best not to involve fully into gambling rather developing interest to watch some matches even though I must gambling it be I am only using about 1 to 5 percent of my income to gamble with this I can maintain some certain stability or within some limits without going oftrack.
I think that for the sake of the future and a good relationship, you need to be honest and explain everything to your husband. You don't know what will happen in the future, so it is probably better for him to be at least a little familiar with what you are doing, than for him to find out if some unpleasant situation happens. (Yes, shit happens, unexpectedly and inevitably)
I used to work as a system admin, where one of the clients was a live (hot) cam studio, where I met a bunch of girls in their underwear every day. Of course, my wife knew that then. Later it turned out that it was good that I didn't hide it.
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I used to work as a system admin, where one of the clients was a live (hot) cam studio, where I met a bunch of girls in their underwear every day. Of course, my wife knew that then. Later it turned out that it was good that I didn't hide it.
What?
How where you able to overcome that seeing girls with their underwear, don't you get triggered and how was your wife able to cope with you?
I know this is hard to explain but sometimes they have no option than to accept provided that you are earning ends meet over there.
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Usually I don't intend to gamble often or to regularly gamble maybe once in a month or twice since my involvement to this industry requires to have a gambling knowledge to be able to involved in most of the discussions, of a true I really understand that basics and the bad effects it would caused me if I suddenly became a gambling addicts that was why I am trying my best not to involve fully into gambling rather developing interest to watch some matches even though I must gambling it be I am only using about 1 to 5 percent of my income to gamble with this I can maintain some certain stability or within some limits without going oftrack.
I think that for the sake of the future and a good relationship, you need to be honest and explain everything to your husband. You don't know what will happen in the future, so it is probably better for him to be at least a little familiar with what you are doing, than for him to find out if some unpleasant situation happens. (Yes, shit happens, unexpectedly and inevitably)
I used to work as a system admin, where one of the clients was a live (hot) cam studio, where I met a bunch of girls in their underwear every day. Of course, my wife knew that then. Later it turned out that it was good that I didn't hide it.
Yes you are correct, is actually midnight here and I woke up to see if I can read some of this discussion and I wanted to telling yesterday eve and noticed that he was not in a cool mood, so decided to shift it till morning or anytime I noticed he is more happier. Though he knows that I do post on both forum even when I am awake he knew that I must be posting and doesn't access through my profile. But still I appreciate for your time and contribution +karma for you!
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It is better to tweak or replace some words to avoid plagiarism but anyway, since it has already been posted here my response is the money is a conjugal property whatever you used for gambling is coming from your husband's effort so it's very unfair not to be honest in your activity, being a wife you should practice honesty in the house.
Your husband and your children will lose respect for you if you're hiding something and they find out through other people or by accident, and it's hard to explain when it's too late.
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@SmartGold01, you know your husband better, and you know how he will react if he actually finds out that his precious wife is a gambler.
I am a male and yet unmarried, but let's assume if I get married today and I find out that my wife is a gambler, I will first observe her gambling habit, and if she is not really gambling compulsive or leaving to do the important duties first before gambling, then I will have a need to stop her from gambling, but if her gambling habit is very okey, I will not stop her from gambling.
Although you can still tell your husband but if he doesn't like you to gamble, I hope you will be happy to stop gambling.
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Yes you are correct, is actually midnight here and I woke up to see if I can read some of this discussion and I wanted to telling yesterday eve and noticed that he was not in a cool mood, so decided to shift it till morning or anytime I noticed he is more happier. Though he knows that I do post on both forum even when I am awake he knew that I must be posting and doesn't access through my profile. But still I appreciate for your time and contribution +karma for you!
You can start more smartly. For example, when there is the next campaign or reward for testing or reviewing gambling platforms, just explain what it is about. You get $xx for testing and you have to play on the platform for $xx to write a real review, I'm sure he will understand. Maybe you can even ask him to help you, to add some suggestions, that way he will become a part of it and will not only blame you.
What?
How where you able to overcome that seeing girls with their underwear, don't you get triggered and how was your wife able to cope with you?
I know this is hard to explain but sometimes they have no option than to accept provided that you are earning ends meet over there.
I was extremely professional at the time, and as I presented it at home, I would have to be a master of lying to cover something up. Of course, I didn't convey all the details of what I saw there. :-X
What is interesting is that trust only grew stronger then.
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I don't share my personal things with family especially I never share my source of income and spending with my wife. I usually bet occasionally in gambling though 2-4 of my colleagues know but my wife doesn't know about my betting and I don't want to share such things with my wife in future. Also, I always try to avoid these things from the family so that my personal habits do not affect my children so that my children do not follow me and get involved in these bad habits. But an important point is that every husband should openly share these matters with his wife and every wife with her husband. But I have kept all these habits hidden from my family due to my personal issues.
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Of course my wife knows about me and knows that I am a good gambler. But sometimes my wife comforts me when I face a big loss. I find a lot of joy in gambling with my wife's encouragement and she sometimes helps me financially.
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it would be bad when he discovers that himself instead it's better I inform him.
You should tell him. I can assure you that he will not have any wrong feelings since you are disciplined but then, if he finds out by himself there is a tendency that he will begin to doubt your sincerity.
Men are overthinkers and your husband might feel insecure that there are other things you might be hiding from him. To avoid all of these, please tell him. You will be surprised to know that he is also a gambler.
In my understanding, gambling is never a bad thing what matters is how we approach it and the kind of influence it has on the gambler. So, don't feel you are doing something wrong. Tell him.
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Its good ideas or not but I don't explain to my wife about my habit in gambling, will make my household bad in the future because gambling most restrict thing before marriage. I don't think have transparent with all activities in household and some time need privacy exactly with gambling. Personally I am not addict with gambling just have fun only on weekend and limitation with amount use for betting.
Not much problem if my wife know with my gambling because I use few amount of my salary for betting and likely can't make my household financial bad. I have decision to stop with gambling but need time looking for another activities how to make me forget with gambling.
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Its good ideas or not but I don't explain to my wife about my habit in gambling, will make my household bad in the future because gambling most restrict thing before marriage. I don't think have transparent with all activities in household and some time need privacy exactly with gambling. Personally I am not addict with gambling just have fun only on weekend and limitation with amount use for betting.
Not much problem if my wife know with my gambling because I use few amount of my salary for betting and likely can't make my household financial bad. I have decision to stop with gambling but need time looking for another activities how to make me forget with gambling.
Actually, in a household there must be openness from both parties, both wife and husband. The husband will usually feel that it is legitimate when not telling his wife because the money is the result of his work and as long as it does not interfere with family finances.
However, problems will definitely come in the future when caught having a gambling habit, even though it is not much money, and from there it can cause a rift in the household. This must be anticipated, because something that is considered a small thing actually causes big things. Moreover, this is related to gambling, which not everyone accepts and even openly rejects its existence.
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Its good ideas or not but I don't explain to my wife about my habit in gambling, will make my household bad in the future because gambling most restrict thing before marriage. I don't think have transparent with all activities in household and some time need privacy exactly with gambling. Personally I am not addict with gambling just have fun only on weekend and limitation with amount use for betting.
Not much problem if my wife know with my gambling because I use few amount of my salary for betting and likely can't make my household financial bad. I have decision to stop with gambling but need time looking for another activities how to make me forget with gambling.
Actually, in a household there must be openness from both parties, both wife and husband. The husband will usually feel that it is legitimate when not telling his wife because the money is the result of his work and as long as it does not interfere with family finances.
However, problems will definitely come in the future when caught having a gambling habit, even though it is not much money, and from there it can cause a rift in the household. This must be anticipated, because something that is considered a small thing actually causes big things. Moreover, this is related to gambling, which not everyone accepts and even openly rejects its existence.
i wouldn't expect Armanda to be transparent. SHE even have a wife! ;D
seriously i wouldn't mind whether a person keep his gambling activity secret as long as he isn't ruining other's lives. if he is pretty much responsible to his wife and fair to his children, its his way for doing things.
i'm form a family of gamblers, we literally gamble just within our backyard but i don't wanna show to my family member that i'm serious with my gambling. i'd rather be drinking beers with them than playing cards with them.
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it would be bad when he discovers that himself instead it's better I inform him.
You should tell him. I can assure you that he will not have any wrong feelings since you are disciplined but then, if he finds out by himself there is a tendency that he will begin to doubt your sincerity.
Men are overthinkers and your husband might feel insecure that there are other things you might be hiding from him. To avoid all of these, please tell him. You will be surprised to know that he is also a gambler.
In my understanding, gambling is never a bad thing what matters is how we approach it and the kind of influence it has on the gambler. So, don't feel you are doing something wrong. Tell him.
Yes I did that already and he was neutral over our discussion although his respond was so funny in a way that I couldn't even know he would take it so common where he said "Haa nawao na so this hustling don carry you go reach" so as woman i really understand my limits and where I shouldn't go above my bands and limits or even without gambling to double my income.
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Actually, in a household there must be openness from both parties, both wife and husband. The husband will usually feel that it is legitimate when not telling his wife because the money is the result of his work and as long as it does not interfere with family finances.
However, problems will definitely come in the future when caught having a gambling habit, even though it is not much money, and from there it can cause a rift in the household. This must be anticipated, because something that is considered a small thing actually causes big things. Moreover, this is related to gambling, which not everyone accepts and even openly rejects its existence.
i wouldn't expect Armanda to be transparent. SHE even have a wife! ;D
seriously i wouldn't mind whether a person keep his gambling activity secret as long as he isn't ruining other's lives. if he is pretty much responsible to his wife and fair to his children, its his way for doing things.
i'm form a family of gamblers, we literally gamble just within our backyard but i don't wanna show to my family member that i'm serious with my gambling. i'd rather be drinking beers with them than playing cards with them.
Yes, I also don't mind what other people do, because of course everyone has their own way of doing anything, including gambling.
It's just a difference of views in responding to something and that's fine, we just have to choose which one is better to do, of course everything has its own risks.
In my opinion, this is a commitment that must be formed from the beginning, since it will build a household. So that there are no secrets between us. ;D
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From what I can see, you are earning money for yourself and your family even as a woman, and this is completely outside of what your husband gives you for the family's feeding and children's up keep - this is number one.
Secondly, I checked you out on the other forum, and discovered that you are working/getting paid by online gambling casino for your signature ad space, and as such, this alone qualifies and justifies you being a gambler, or getting involved in gambling, as personally, I believe one can not be promoting a gambling casino to other people while him or her self is not gambler, you have to gamble once in a while to have an idea of what to discuss with other gamblers, as it is a criteria to engage in gambling discussions as long as you are promoting a gambling casino.
So, for this two reasons, I believe you have every right to gamble, whether your husband knows it or not, it is a mandatory thing to do as a promoter of a gambling casino, so, if you are going to tell your husband that you now get involved in gambling, it's up to you and also make him understand that it's a mandatory thing to do based on whos paying you for your online posts.
I hope this makes sense to you.
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The point is my husband doesn't know that i have been secretly gambling and involving myself with gambling discussions and the rest, So, this morning when i woke something in me keeps telling me i should let him know to understand my involvement to practice gambling.... That conscience that inspired you the thought is out of your guiltiness conscienceness that you are either doing the wrong thing or you are cheating on your husband.
You know your husband more than everyone else here, so if you know he can tolerate such a thing from you or if you know he would abuse you or you know the situation would cause you a marriage catastrophe in your married then it is best know to you.
So, let your research and conscience determine for you if you have to tell him or not. Otherwise, of he wouldn't tolerate it with you then I must say you should quit gambling and yet keep your past gambling experiences away from him in other to secure your marriage because of a gambling.
Does this worth telling him or not please i need you collective ideas.
Please i don't know if this violets the rules, and if yes then i don't mind locking this topic immediately.
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Me a male ...
I usually share what I do with my wife because she helps me in many bad situations and if I break down she is close to comfort me in times of trouble. So my wife has known since long that I am involved in gambling. Many times if I lose a gambling bet for some reason, my wife consoles me and helps me cope with the situation.
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Me a male ...
I usually share what I do with my wife because she helps me in many bad situations and if I break down she is close to comfort me in times of trouble. So my wife has known since long that I am involved in gambling. Many times if I lose a gambling bet for some reason, my wife consoles me and helps me cope with the situation.
This is exactly how a home should be built. There shouldn't be private living in a home. A husband should know everything that his wife does and vice versa. This will form a basis for trust and the confidence to vouch for a wife or husband when the need arises.
It will amount to a misunderstanding and mistrust for the spouse if an outsider tells us what our wife or husband is doing. This has broken so many homes and so, it shouldn't be taken for granted. Thus, if you are into gambling tell your partner. If he or she isn't comfortable with it, pause to save your marriage.
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If a gambler is a wife or a husband, and if one of the two is a gambler, the gambler may want to share this with his wife or husband. A wife lives in the same house with her husband, so if she keeps this matter a secret, there may be a bad relationship between them. If the husband does not want his wife to gamble, the wife may have to give up gambling, but if the wife gambles after discussing it openly with the husband, then I think that the relationship between the two will be maintained. Husbands are usually a bit different in this regard, they try to gamble in secret if the rest of the family does not like gambling. While husbands have the opportunity to gamble secretly, wives do not have the opportunity to gamble secretly from their husbands.
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My answer remains the same, it is your choice whether to tell your husband or not. If you feel that your husband is a patient person and can tolerate what you do, you should tell him about your gambling, because after all he is your husband. However, if you feel that he gets emotional easily and tends not to tolerate what you do, you should not tell him about your gambling, because you also gamble responsibly so it won't be too obvious on your relationship.
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Husband? its first time I know OP is the women and amazing with gambling platform usually dominance by men but here have super wonder women in gambling.
Actually have transparent between wife and husband about gambling activities, since not break the household financial I don't think problem for wife or husband active in gambling platform.
Firstly need transparent not only for wife but also husband have make the same thing tell to his wife about his gambling activities, make limitation deposit fund in gambling platform and never use money allocated for household needed if you want protect you marriage keep existing forever.
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I have already made this post in the other forum so I just have to quote it down here to see separate overview from people over the two forum..
Quite sometimes now i have been active in the gambling section and have pick interest to start gambling i have gone through lots of material in both the forum, i have seen that I can control my emotion as well as controlling my finance this includes;
- Not involving myself in a revenge gambling
- Not chasing profit after lost
- Not involving oneself into compulsive gambling
- Not solely replying on every game to be 100 percent correct
- Not hoping that gamble is guaranteed
- Not gambling with all my income or salaries
- Among all, gambling for fun and not to enrich oneself
The point is my husband doesn't know that i have been secretly gambling and involving myself with gambling discussions and the rest, So, this morning when i woke something in me keeps telling me i should let him know to understand my involvement to practice gambling.
Does this worth telling him or not please i need you collective ideas.
Please i don't know if this violets the rules, and if yes then i don't mind locking this topic immediately.
If you have to hide your activities, then you are in the wrong period. Hiding is just as bad as cheating IMO. I would confess and let them know that you are sorry for your actions and will not do it any longer. They may or may not forgive you, but it is the right thing to do.
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The point is my husband doesn't know that i have been secretly gambling and involving myself with gambling discussions and the rest, So, this morning when i woke something in me keeps telling me i should let him know to understand my involvement to practice gambling.
Does this worth telling him or not please i need you collective ideas.
My basic thinking falls on "Honesty" because with honesty we can respect yourself, your husband and even other people.
If you gamble but are not honest with your husband, it is the same as lying to yourself and it hurts worse than being pricked by a thorn from a rose.
If you are honest that you gamble, maybe your husband will think twice, whether to forbid it at all or not even forbid or support you in gambling, but with the following conditions:
-Do not spend money on gambling.
-The maximum daily gambling limit is 100 USD.
-Don't gamble in front of your family, especially small children.
-Or maybe your husband also gambles but with the limit of not excessively using funds.
Try to be "Honest" with your husband first because I'm sure you can do that easily and your husband will definitely open his eyes to find the best solution. ;)
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Yes I did that already and he was neutral over our discussion although his respond was so funny in a way that I couldn't even know he would take it so common where he said "Haa nawao na so this hustling don carry you go reach" so as woman i really understand my limits and where I shouldn't go above my bands and limits or even without gambling to double my income.
I missed a bit to follow the development of this situation. I'm glad that you took courage and told the truth, which as you can see, was not so scary.
And please, I don't know what country you live in, but you don't need to think that as a woman you have special limits. The Internet is a free space and the only limitations are the ones we have in our heads. If you hadn't said yourself that you were a woman, the rest of us would never have been able to know, therefore gender does not affect equality
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Yes I did that already and he was neutral over our discussion although his respond was so funny in a way that I couldn't even know he would take it so common where he said "Haa nawao na so this hustling don carry you go reach" so as woman i really understand my limits and where I shouldn't go above my bands and limits or even without gambling to double my income.
As I understand it, your husband welcomes that you're hustling for a side income but he doesn't want you to go overboard with your gambling. Please translate what he said in English because we don't want to be lost in translation.
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I have already made this post in the other forum so I just have to quote it down here to see separate overview from people over the two forum..
Quite sometimes now i have been active in the gambling section and have pick interest to start gambling i have gone through lots of material in both the forum, i have seen that I can control my emotion as well as controlling my finance this includes;
- Not involving myself in a revenge gambling
- Not chasing profit after lost
- Not involving oneself into compulsive gambling
- Not solely replying on every game to be 100 percent correct
- Not hoping that gamble is guaranteed
- Not gambling with all my income or salaries
- Among all, gambling for fun and not to enrich oneself
The point is my husband doesn't know that i have been secretly gambling and involving myself with gambling discussions and the rest, So, this morning when i woke something in me keeps telling me i should let him know to understand my involvement to practice gambling.
Does this worth telling him or not please i need you collective ideas.
Please i don't know if this violets the rules, and if yes then i don't mind locking this topic immediately.
Tell him about everything don't tell lies or even keep secrets with your husband. You two are the only people who can solve the family's problems so telling him the truth won't make any difference. Keeping the trust between you and your husband will make the foundation of your family become even more stronger.
Set your gambling limits prioritize the family's needs than gambling. But if money isn't your problem and gambling is just a pastime to you I think it's all good. I know how hard it is to be a wife most especially if you have children as I can see it theough my neighbors it's not that easy thing. So I think gambling on a free time is reasonable as long as you are responsible.
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I used to work as a system admin, where one of the clients was a live (hot) cam studio, where I met a bunch of girls in their underwear every day. Of course, my wife knew that then. Later it turned out that it was good that I didn't hide it.
What?
How where you able to overcome that seeing girls with their underwear, don't you get triggered and how was your wife able to cope with you?
I know this is hard to explain but sometimes they have no option than to accept provided that you are earning ends meet over there.
In advance countries seeing a naked woman is nothing for them. It is part of your lifestyle and it is not in Africa when we see a woman with underwear, we will salivating and all the sexual organs arose. And also going back the topic of the thread. Most women didn't tell husbands that they gamble and most time they are caught in the act. And if the husbands knew it in most cases they would be a very big quarrel between them. So to avoid problem some them keep quiet and play gamble to themselves.
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Husband? its first time I know OP is the women and amazing with gambling platform usually dominance by men but here have super wonder women in gambling.
Yeps, I also just saw on this forum that there is a woman who has been gambling for a long time.
But in a world where women are willing to gamble, I see a lot of them and it's not surprising.
But maybe I also can't give too much advice because I don't gamble and don't want to gamble.
I was in a position that was traumatized by gambling because my ex-husband used to gamble and forgot about our family. :'(
Maybe it's also best for the OP to speak frankly to her husband because maybe one day he will be found out if the OP is gambling with his money.
Before her husband finds out, OP must do her best at the start, telling him what has happened so far that he likes to gamble.
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To avoid conflict, it is better to tell your husband that you gamble because sooner or later he will know that you are into that activity and that might be the start that your family being broken as you keep secrets. I saw a lot of woman who gamble here in our place and there's no problem with that because they have the blessings of their husbands and also they gamble together.
Nothing can be kept secret forever, just remember that.
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I have already made this post in the other forum so I just have to quote it down here to see separate overview from people over the two forum..
Quite sometimes now i have been active in the gambling section and have pick interest to start gambling i have gone through lots of material in both the forum, i have seen that I can control my emotion as well as controlling my finance this includes;
- Not involving myself in a revenge gambling
- Not chasing profit after lost
- Not involving oneself into compulsive gambling
- Not solely replying on every game to be 100 percent correct
- Not hoping that gamble is guaranteed
- Not gambling with all my income or salaries
- Among all, gambling for fun and not to enrich oneself
The point is my husband doesn't know that i have been secretly gambling and involving myself with gambling discussions and the rest, So, this morning when i woke something in me keeps telling me i should let him know to understand my involvement to practice gambling.
Does this worth telling him or not please i need you collective ideas.
Please i don't know if this violets the rules, and if yes then i don't mind locking this topic immediately.
Gambling is usually played by people for fun, I like gambling but not addicted. Gambling is usually done by the big and rich people who contribute to the big business. I usually participate in gambling four days a week and the rest of the days I retire. Gambling gives me a lot of pleasure because here only the history of fortunes can be observed where I find the essence of my fortune. In the beginning when I gambled I lost a lot of money and the risk of losing was higher when I became addicted. So now I stop being addicted now and I am now on my way to success.
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To avoid conflict, it is better to tell your husband that you gamble because sooner or later he will know that you are into that activity and that might be the start that your family being broken as you keep secrets. I saw a lot of woman who gamble here in our place and there's no problem with that because they have the blessings of their husbands and also they gamble together.
Nothing can be kept secret forever, just remember that.
You are right,as long as both of you are legally married,there is nothing you will hide from him and he will not know.Even a cheating wife will try to cover and hide her act,but as long as your husband is staying with you,one day,he will eventually know,and it will cause alot of problem.I don't like women that gamble because they are supposed to be the one who keeps the family,and protect the riches of the man,but Instead,she is the one who goes about gambling and waisting the husband's money.The only case where I can say the woman will gamble and it won't bring problem is when the woman is the bread winner of the house,in that case,whatever money she wastes on gambling won't be from the husband,and whether the husband know,I don't think there will be anything he can do about it.
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I have already made this post in the other forum so I just have to quote it down here to see separate overview from people over the two forum..
The point is my husband doesn't know that i have been secretly gambling and involving myself with gambling discussions and the rest, So, this morning when i woke something in me keeps telling me i should let him know to understand my involvement to practice gambling.
Does this worth telling him or not please i need you collective ideas.
Let's say this is also related to the question, what if a husband gambles, would it be better if he told his wife?
Personally, openness in a household is very important. Moreover, this is a very crucial thing in a family, related to finances.
Plus, on the other hand, gambling is also something that is very risky and the possibility of becoming addicted is very high. So, there's no harm in telling our partner about this activity. The purpose is:
- Mutual openness
- Know the flow of money out for gambling
- So that someone can control and control us in spending money on gambling
- Prevent the occurrence of gambling addiction, by working well with our partners and reminding each other not to get too into the realm of gambling addiction
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To avoid conflict, it is better to tell your husband that you gamble because sooner or later he will know that you are into that activity and that might be the start that your family being broken as you keep secrets. I saw a lot of woman who gamble here in our place and there's no problem with that because they have the blessings of their husbands and also they gamble together.
Nothing can be kept secret forever, just remember that.
You are right,as long as both of you are legally married,there is nothing you will hide from him and he will not know.Even a cheating wife will try to cover and hide her act,but as long as your husband is staying with you,one day,he will eventually know,and it will cause alot of problem.I don't like women that gamble because they are supposed to be the one who keeps the family,and protect the riches of the man,but Instead,she is the one who goes about gambling and waisting the husband's money.The only case where I can say the woman will gamble and it won't bring problem is when the woman is the bread winner of the house,in that case,whatever money she wastes on gambling won't be from the husband,and whether the husband know,I don't think there will be anything he can do about it.
I say something, sometimes a person who is married does not want to say that I have to limit everything to the other, no, there must be privacy between the two of them, because otherwise it becomes a very toxic relationship, for me the real reason why things are excellent in a relationship is confidence, if you know that there is something that is not done well, then you have to say it, because it is very ugly for the other person to discover it, I say that a thing as simple as going to a casino , but sometimes you don't have to say it, or maybe yes, the idea is that the other person doesn't care.
What happens is that when there is no Control over everything, then the person can do whatever it takes to have the lowest possible expense as a good result, if there is less expense it is better, otherwise things cannot be done well , if not There is trust but it is also difficult, I say that if you go to the casino very frequently it is necessary to communicate it, because if you go to the casino it is not the Idea.
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To avoid conflict, it is better to tell your husband that you gamble because sooner or later he will know that you are into that activity and that might be the start that your family being broken as you keep secrets. I saw a lot of woman who gamble here in our place and there's no problem with that because they have the blessings of their husbands and also they gamble together.
Nothing can be kept secret forever, just remember that.
You are right,as long as both of you are legally married,there is nothing you will hide from him and he will not know.Even a cheating wife will try to cover and hide her act,but as long as your husband is staying with you,one day,he will eventually know,and it will cause alot of problem.
In marriage, open and honest communication is essential. If gambling is a significant part of your life, it is important to discuss it with your husband in the spirit of transparency and trust. Viewing it from another lens also, sharing your gambling habits with your spouse can provide an opportunity for mutual support and understanding. Your spouse may offer emotional support and help you navigate any challenges associated with gambling, such as managing impulses or seeking help if needed.
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To avoid conflict, it is better to tell your husband that you gamble because sooner or later he will know that you are into that activity and that might be the start that your family being broken as you keep secrets. I saw a lot of woman who gamble here in our place and there's no problem with that because they have the blessings of their husbands and also they gamble together.
Nothing can be kept secret forever, just remember that.
You are right,as long as both of you are legally married,there is nothing you will hide from him and he will not know.Even a cheating wife will try to cover and hide her act,but as long as your husband is staying with you,one day,he will eventually know,and it will cause alot of problem.
In marriage, open and honest communication is essential. If gambling is a significant part of your life, it is important to discuss it with your husband in the spirit of transparency and trust. Viewing it from another lens also, sharing your gambling habits with your spouse can provide an opportunity for mutual support and understanding. Your spouse may offer emotional support and help you navigate any challenges associated with gambling, such as managing impulses or seeking help if needed.
Me and my wife are both gamblers though, and in the last 10 years or so we have like gambling together in land base casinos. However, I don't know, she was really very unlucky as compare to me wherein I win and win big. I can only count in my hands how many times she won. ;D
But in any case, we still enjoy gambling together and it's not a hindrance to our relationship. Or course, we try to be responsible and prioritize things and not gamble in front of our kids. And with the proliferation of online gambling, we just prefer it and like play slots in front of a laptop like we are still in land base casinos and cheering each other, LOL.
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In married life it is not right to hide something from your partner, it is important to be honest in the relationship so it is good practice to discuss with each other even about gambling, it will not ruin the relationship. You are hiding it now but sometime if he finds out that you are in trouble then his trust in you will be broken. So I think you should discuss this with an open mind and not hide anything from your husband. By doing this, you will be saved from any major problems in the future.
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Actually I think it totally depends on her to share his personal habhit like gambling. If she isn't comfortable to share this matter to anyone else then I don't find anything wrong on that. But if she is going to addicted on gambling or gambling can affect his family or relationship then it will be better to share this to his partner.
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Actually I think it totally depends on her to share his personal habhit like gambling. If she isn't comfortable to share this matter to anyone else then I don't find anything wrong on that. But if she is going to addicted on gambling or gambling can affect his family or relationship then it will be better to share this to his partner.
Well, in the case with my wife it is different, she actually tells me everything, and well I always support her, for the things that she always has in mind I say yes, as long as they are nice things that don't bring me problems and Let it be something beneficial, if she decides to play in a casino, well I support her, but first I would give her a lot of advice because I don't want the best girl to become addicted and that becomes a problem for me, that's not the idea.
But both women and men should share this type of pleasure, because it is not known if they even play together and help, that is the idea, to share , and always have everything as clear as possible, always when it comes to hiding things that It will always be known because Between heaven and earth there is nothing hidden, and it is a reality that things will always come to light, even if you hide and lie with lies, nothing is sustained.
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Actually I think it totally depends on her to share his personal habhit like gambling. If she isn't comfortable to share this matter to anyone else then I don't find anything wrong on that. But if she is going to addicted on gambling or gambling can affect his family or relationship then it will be better to share this to his partner.
Need transparent for wife talk to his husband about gambling and bad effect if not talk them with their relationship, don't make your household broken without transparent yet exactly for husband have more responsibility with his wife. I think bad effect if any one wife make gambling without get passive income and spent his husband money, but if have own work could be help awhile and need allow from husband is very important how to keep their household without get problem.
But not all husbands have agreement looking their wife active in gambling, I think get impact with their household condition with time spending more for gambling than for his husband.
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I will ask differently - what benefits you would have if you gamble secretly from your partner. Secrets can only spoil relationships. And for most families it is no use to hide gambling, as will time it will be noticeable that partner is in short of money when starts to economize on default things, or has extra money when starts spending them.
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My wife has known for a long time that I am a non-professional gambler and she encourages me to indulge in gambling when I am sometimes depressed and do not have enough space to relax. I sometimes borrow some money from my wife's savings and invest in gambling and when I get profit from gambling, I give 50% of that profit to my wife. But one thing is very important that my wife gives me time to indulge in maximum gambling one day in a week and other 6 days I never give time to gambling. Only on holidays my wife gives me time to invest in gambling.
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I have already made this post in the other forum so I just have to quote it down here to see separate overview from people over the two forum..
Quite sometimes now i have been active in the gambling section and have pick interest to start gambling i have gone through lots of material in both the forum, i have seen that I can control my emotion as well as controlling my finance this includes;
- Not involving myself in a revenge gambling
- Not chasing profit after lost
- Not involving oneself into compulsive gambling
- Not solely replying on every game to be 100 percent correct
- Not hoping that gamble is guaranteed
- Not gambling with all my income or salaries
- Among all, gambling for fun and not to enrich oneself
The point is my husband doesn't know that i have been secretly gambling and involving myself with gambling discussions and the rest, So, this morning when i woke something in me keeps telling me i should let him know to understand my involvement to practice gambling.
Does this worth telling him or not please i need you collective ideas.
Please i don't know if this violets the rules, and if yes then i don't mind locking this topic immediately.
If you are a wife you have to let your husband know you gamble, because a day might come when you will lose a huge amount of money, if you don't I have someone you can talk to an ease yourself you might have a big problem, that can even affect your health condition, that's why you need to let him know that you gamble, so in case of necessity you might have a shoulder to lean on .
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My wife has known for a long time that I am a non-professional gambler and she encourages me to indulge in gambling when I am sometimes depressed and do not have enough space to relax. I sometimes borrow some money from my wife's savings and invest in gambling and when I get profit from gambling, I give 50% of that profit to my wife. But one thing is very important that my wife gives me time to indulge in maximum gambling one day in a week and other 6 days I never give time to gambling. Only on holidays my wife gives me time to invest in gambling.
No offence but borrowing to gamble is not a healthy behaviour. The unpredictable nature of gambling makes it irrational to borrow because you can easily accumulate debts if you borrow to gamble. Even though, you borrow from your wife the fact remains that borrowing is wrong. I`m surprised to hear that your wife encourages your gambling activity. Well, I can only tell you not to borrow to gamble and to be very careful not to become a compulsive gambler.
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She knows that i gamble, no need to keep it secret from her. Besides i'm not a problematic gambler, high bettor, and i just gamble occasionally. Sometimes i explained it to her why i bet this fight (talking to sports betting) and why i choose the fighter or team.
I'm open for that as well as she is understandable, well, since she have some quite a bit expensive hobbies too so it's a tie lol.
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Show me a successful marriage and I will show you a marriage that is built on transparency and sincerity. If you are a gambler, you need to let your husband know about it. If he found out by himself he would doubt your sincerity in all areas.
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@SmartGold01 I just noticed your signature on the Bitcointalk forum ;D
Now I'm curious, how your husband reacted to that and whether you told him what you were promoting?
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Gambling doesn't equate anything bad or dangerous act, there is nothing that gives peace of mind than telling your partner what you are doing. If he is the kind of a person that doesn't like gambling and he later found that you are gambling and hiding it, there will be a problem and it will bring lack of trust between you guys, the earlier you tell him the better for the health of the relationship.
You never can tell if the both of you might like gambling you know, putting two heads in some gambling situation is better than one and when you lose, you are not the only person that would worry buy the both of you and no way depression will comes.
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Well, I am a woman and I will tell you, as long as I know about gambling in cryptocurrency, I prefer not to talk about it to my husband. I don't want him to think badly about the finances I hold in my household, because the money I use for gambling is only 25% of the trading profits I get. So my husband doesn't need to know, I also still control the level of addiction to gambling places.
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Gambling doesn't equate anything bad or dangerous act, there is nothing that gives peace of mind than telling your partner what you are doing. If he is the kind of a person that doesn't like gambling and he later found that you are gambling and hiding it, there will be a problem and it will bring lack of trust between you guys, the earlier you tell him the better for the health of the relationship.
You never can tell if the both of you might like gambling you know, putting two heads in some gambling situation is better than one and when you lose, you are not the only person that would worry buy the both of you and no way depression will comes.
Openness is necessary in a relationship, whether it is something our partner doesn't want to hear or something they want to hear. So in this case, openness may be needed between two people, because after all, when we are married there is more responsibility for what we do.
You are right, if we hide it maybe it will create new problems, although there is no guarantee when we tell them it will not create a problem. This should be done slowly in my opinion,
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Well, I am a woman and I will tell you, as long as I know about gambling in cryptocurrency, I prefer not to talk about it to my husband. I don't want him to think badly about the finances I hold in my household, because the money I use for gambling is only 25% of the trading profits I get. So my husband doesn't need to know, I also still control the level of addiction to gambling places.
I love your sincerity and the way you decided not to bend your words while passing your message but do you think your decision is right? Is it actually good for you to continue gambling without the notice of your husband? And if he happens to know one day that you gamble and also kept your gambling engagements away from his knowledge, don't you think it's going to make him start to question your integrity going forward? I suggest you open up to him about your gambling engagements and if he forbids it, you stop it totally so you can protect your home from crashing. My one cents though
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Well, I am a woman and I will tell you, as long as I know about gambling in cryptocurrency, I prefer not to talk about it to my husband. I don't want him to think badly about the finances I hold in my household, because the money I use for gambling is only 25% of the trading profits I get. So my husband doesn't need to know, I also still control the level of addiction to gambling places.
I wonder how long you can hold to this secret to yourself. What happens if he goes through your phone and find out? Also, most persons claim to be using small percentage out of their profit to gamble but in reality, they don't do it. I am an overthinker if I am your husband and then get to find out myself, I will be forced to think that you might be hiding other things from me. This is not a good sign for a healthy marriage.
My wife was into drugs for years without my notice and I was shocked to find out. I didn't get angry that she was into drugs but my anger stemmed from the fact she hid it from me. I believe in transparency and that is why I don't do anything without my wife's notice.
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@SmartGold01 I just noticed your signature on the Bitcointalk forum ;D
Now I'm curious, how your husband reacted to that and whether you told him what you were promoting?
Lolz :D :D but sex is part and parcel of human life so he might do nothing but the people that would frown against it are the religion group. They might would not even allow you to promote such project. There are some women and men do not like gambling so when they see their spouse involved or promoting it even in the real life they would not like it. But smartGold01's case, she might lost into the middle of men. Lolz 😂.
Back to the topic. In most families gambling is a secret something so there is no need for them to tell their spouse they gamble because it they do there must be a serious quarrel. While some men would just look over it and focus their work.
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Yes, i do tell my wife my online activity in gambling, well, always after the game. Haha. Regardless the outcome, but better if i win.
@SmartGold01 I just noticed your signature on the Bitcointalk forum ;D
Now I'm curious, how your husband reacted to that and whether you told him what you were promoting?
I guess, her husband will just let it slide, the most important is she earns. Haha. I have that transparency to my wife too, telling everything what she wants to learn from me on this small online works, because you can't hide it when you're too busy facing the computer or phone.
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I have already made this post in the other forum so I just have to quote it down here to see separate overview from people over the two forum..
Quite sometimes now i have been active in the gambling section and have pick interest to start gambling i have gone through lots of material in both the forum, i have seen that I can control my emotion as well as controlling my finance this includes;
- Not involving myself in a revenge gambling
- Not chasing profit after lost
- Not involving oneself into compulsive gambling
- Not solely replying on every game to be 100 percent correct
- Not hoping that gamble is guaranteed
- Not gambling with all my income or salaries
- Among all, gambling for fun and not to enrich oneself
The point is my husband doesn't know that i have been secretly gambling and involving myself with gambling discussions and the rest, So, this morning when i woke something in me keeps telling me i should let him know to understand my involvement to practice gambling.
Does this worth telling him or not please i need you collective ideas.
Please i don't know if this violets the rules, and if yes then i don't mind locking this topic immediately.
Of course, good relationship between husband and wife is very important, if there is no good relationship between husband and wife, then the relationship can never be sweet. Here the wife involved in gambling must inform her husband that she gambles. If husband gives permission then she can indulge herself in gambling and if husband does not give permission then she will never gamble. Girls should not gamble because girls are the beauty of the house if they gamble then a family will never be happy. Women play the most important role in raising their family and children here if a wife is involved in gambling then her family can never be good. The way this wife secretly gambles shows that at some point she will get drunk on winning and later sell some of the family to participate in the gambling. Because gambling is a deadly addiction, if he doesn't have enough money to gamble, he will be forced to sell everything and later find that he has ruined his entire family.
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@SmartGold01 I just noticed your signature on the Bitcointalk forum ;D
Now I'm curious, how your husband reacted to that and whether you told him what you were promoting?
Of course he knows about the signature campaign I am promoting, but still that doesn't make him limit me or stops me from running the promotion. Why because I am also putting my best as woman supporting the family and why would he limit me from promotion. Inasmuch I don't join physically, so I am not in anyway attached rather my profile on Bitcointalk and altcointalk running the promotion. Same thing applicable with when Mixers were ban we all moved down here to join and continue with them not necessarily mean we are physically with them, rather our profile are being rented out for promotion and of course we give them the promotion needed.
However you don't always give credit to my post on Bitcointalk, did I commit any offense to you?
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Of course if you're a woman and you're gambling, its best for ,ou to open up and tell your husband, because he is your companion. Opening up to your close once about gambling can be helpful to you, incase your becoming too addicted to it they can help you.
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Of course if you're a woman and you're gambling, its best for ,ou to open up and tell your husband, because he is your companion. Opening up to your close once about gambling can be helpful to you, incase your becoming too addicted to it they can help you.
But if she wasnt a woman, should she then keep gambling habit as secret?
Now being serious, hiding something from someone isnt good imo. I strongly believe in balance of things in the world. If you hide something, then there is a high chance that someone will also be hiding something from you. I cant explain why, but I often face such effect of equality. I do something good, something good someone does to me and etc. Speaking about hiding - truth always comes out. I have learned that many times. It is better to say, before someone «makes a wrong opinion about you or thing you hide», as it will be harder to explain everything in future.
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I have not indulged in gambling till now but maybe for two or four days I bet on cricket matches in online gambling but I have not continued that habit till now rather I have completely stopped myself from this gambling addiction. Also my family knows a lot about me but I am not a gambler so my family has not asked me anything about this till now. Since I am up to nowSingle so my wife won't know anything about it yes but maybe my wife will ask me about this after getting married in future but I believe I will never get myself addicted to gambling rather I will always control myself and always refrain from gambling addiction.
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Re: Do you tell your husband you gamble?
I'm a man so I'll change it to wife.
Yes I did said it to her that I will gamble, but I only used a small amount of money to gamble. I think around when I told to her that I will gamble, I only spent around $10 which is pretty low especially to those who are spending huge amounts of money in gambling.
Currently, I stopped gambling already because it affected me a bit especially with the things that I need. There was a time where I need something, but I decided to use that money to gamble, and lost of course. I'm a bit disappointed with that decision that I made, but it's ok. I don't need to tell to her anymore because I'm not gambling anymore. I believe that all of the users who are gambling must say it to their husband/wife because not saying it will affect both of you financially especially if you're the type of gambler who is spending large money in gambling.
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Well am a man and with the way gambling is being seen in my society I Will definitely get it hurt with my woman if actually find her gambling because I know what she can face being a woman that gamble and of not for anything for the fact that she is very fragile and filled with emotions and can maybe handle some huge loss in gambling with the wrong approach whereas a man can take it all in that's if she turns out to gamble roughly.
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Well am a man and with the way gambling is being seen in my society I Will definitely get it hurt with my woman if actually find her gambling because I know what she can face being a woman that gamble and of not for anything for the fact that she is very fragile and filled with emotions and can maybe handle some huge loss in gambling with the wrong approach whereas a man can take it all in that's if she turns out to gamble roughly.
Got your point mate and i do agree that woman is full of emotion and emotions is not a good contributor when it comes to gambling. But to answer to the question of telling the husband/wife when you gamble, i think it is very important that partners should have open communication with regards to this matter as secrets could often result in broken relationship.
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Do you have steady income?
are you a good wife and mother to them even if you are into gambling?
do you trust him and will listen to what will he say about your gambling activities?
answer those questions and we will go along , because I also have wife and family and she stays in house taking care of us , soif one day she will tell me that being in gambling? since she continues to do the same as what she was from the beginning ? then I will just support her and may gamble with her together.
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Absolutely, I talk to my wife about my gambling. Of course, it would be possible not to speak. Because it's like I spend only personal savings. But in full confidence it seems to me more fun. She can always tease me a bit, and from the other side as well she's my voice of reason. Sensitive support that keep me in check, making sure our leisure activities don't overshadow our commitments and responsibilities.
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Well am a man and with the way gambling is being seen in my society I Will definitely get it hurt with my woman if actually find her gambling because I know what she can face being a woman that gamble and of not for anything for the fact that she is very fragile and filled with emotions and can maybe handle some huge loss in gambling with the wrong approach whereas a man can take it all in that's if she turns out to gamble roughly.
Got your point mate and i do agree that woman is full of emotion and emotions is not a good contributor when it comes to gambling. But to answer to the question of telling the husband/wife when you gamble, i think it is very important that partners should have open communication with regards to this matter as secrets could often result in broken relationship.
Well, yes that's definitely true. Most of the time the relationship between husband and wife starts to have an issue if they hide things from each other. Giving information that you are into gambling will not hurt as long as you tell the truth to your partner, besides this can also be another activity to enjoy together instead of hiding it.
However, this can also lead to addiction and other worse scenarios. What's best is to inform each other and help each other to control the gambling activity. Hiding will not get anything good for the relationship between husband and wife, it will only make it worse.
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Well am a man and with the way gambling is being seen in my society I Will definitely get it hurt with my woman if actually find her gambling because I know what she can face being a woman that gamble and of not for anything for the fact that she is very fragile and filled with emotions and can maybe handle some huge loss in gambling with the wrong approach whereas a man can take it all in that's if she turns out to gamble roughly.
Got your point mate and i do agree that woman is full of emotion and emotions is not a good contributor when it comes to gambling. But to answer to the question of telling the husband/wife when you gamble, i think it is very important that partners should have open communication with regards to this matter as secrets could often result in broken relationship.
That's very correct because if am to be the husband and I found out by myself that my wife is into gambling and she has been keeping the act a secret from me , damn I will be pissed because honesty is everything especially when it's a delicate matter like gambling so I would definitely not want to find out by myself at all so that too is noted but when it comes to the emotion side I know there are some woman as hard as a nutshell too 😁
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Absolutely, I talk to my wife about my gambling. Of course, it would be possible not to speak. Because it's like I spend only personal savings. But in full confidence it seems to me more fun. She can always tease me a bit, and from the other side as well she's my voice of reason. Sensitive support that keep me in check, making sure our leisure activities don't overshadow our commitments and responsibilities.
Good for you, at least your wife understands it and obviously, you have to speak to hear as it involves your personal or even mutual savings. So it's really important to us to really tell them that we gamble and we do hope that we are not that addicted though and with that our wife could understand that we just have to be entertained and who knows, maybe if we play on a land base casinos, you can bring her with you to also have some fun from time to time.
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Absolutely, I talk to my wife about my gambling. Of course, it would be possible not to speak. Because it's like I spend only personal savings. But in full confidence it seems to me more fun. She can always tease me a bit, and from the other side as well she's my voice of reason. Sensitive support that keep me in check, making sure our leisure activities don't overshadow our commitments and responsibilities.
Good for you, at least your wife understands it and obviously, you have to speak to hear as it involves your personal or even mutual savings. So it's really important to us to really tell them that we gamble and we do hope that we are not that addicted though and with that our wife could understand that we just have to be entertained and who knows, maybe if we play on a land base casinos, you can bring her with you to also have some fun from time to time.
Thank you for affirming the importance of open communication it truly makes all the difference. My wife’s understanding and involvement add a layer of enjoyment to the whole experience.
And absolutely, we do enjoy the occasional outing to a land-based casino. It’s a delightful change of scenery and another way to create shared memories.
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Well am a man and with the way gambling is being seen in my society I Will definitely get it hurt with my woman if actually find her gambling because I know what she can face being a woman that gamble and of not for anything for the fact that she is very fragile and filled with emotions and can maybe handle some huge loss in gambling with the wrong approach whereas a man can take it all in that's if she turns out to gamble roughly.
Got your point mate and i do agree that woman is full of emotion and emotions is not a good contributor when it comes to gambling. But to answer to the question of telling the husband/wife when you gamble, i think it is very important that partners should have open communication with regards to this matter as secrets could often result in broken relationship.
Faith plays an important role in building a strong bond between husband and wife. It can be said that this relationship rests on the pillar of trust. If a wife gambles it is not her fault but when she refrains from giving any information about it to her husband, the relationship can start to break down. Although not everyone wants to open up about gambling, if it comes to husband and wife, they should be well informed. Otherwise, big problems will arise. If the wife shares her husband about gambling and he accepts it as temporary excitement, he may later manage the gambling more subtly.
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However you don't always give credit to my post on Bitcointalk, did I commit any offense to you?
Honestly, you drew a little more attention to yourself on this forum. I may have criticized you recently on Btt, but believe me, it was well-intentioned. Now I will tell you a little more openly, maybe you are trying too hard to win the sympathy of certain members there.
You have a solid rank there, the relationship between activity vs. merit is quite good and that's why you have to be more relaxed. Now is the time to focus on building your authority, for example, don't get into meaningless and endless discussions.
I have absolutely nothing against you, I even have certain sympathies after this thread, for example. ;)
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However you don't always give credit to my post on Bitcointalk, did I commit any offense to you?
Honestly, you drew a little more attention to yourself on this forum. I may have criticized you recently on Btt, but believe me, it was well-intentioned. Now I will tell you a little more openly, maybe you are trying too hard to win the sympathy of certain members there.
You have a solid rank there, the relationship between activity vs. merit is quite good and that's why you have to be more relaxed. Now is the time to focus on building your authority, for example, don't get into meaningless and endless discussions.
I have absolutely nothing against you, I even have certain sympathies after this thread, for example. ;)
At first, I have to appreciate you for understanding me because it's not easily to grind over there in btt. As a woman who is trying hard to grow in the forum and sometimes with the way I am being attack makes me feels to so weak. But what do I do, growing over there means one must earn enough merits and when people keeps saying that my post doesn't worth it makes me feels that maybe because I am a lady but what more if not of Lovesmayfamilis keeps supporting me after knowing I am a real woman.
Yes, I am lady and I uploaded some of my pictures on a post created when I bought my phone, lot of them suggested I should remove those pictures for privacy but what privacy, do I harm anyone or steal someone assets, at some point I got discourage and I edited that post and remove my pictures.
However, when you come across my post you can also well support me to grow in btt knowing too well that is hard to grow, lot of people has supported me with little they could especially brainboss after knowing I am Nigerian he doesn't ceased to credit me to build up my rank and I really appreciate him for that, seeing how a woman is determined to stand firm in the forum makes him encouraging me, I didn't write him for that but I was shocked.
When I wrote on LoyceV thread he discredited my post and made me feels so inferior like I don't know what I was doing. Well, I just have to let that go because I am not sure he has even contributed to my growth till my 717 merits records. And of course, I won't kill myself over just to prove to him that my post worth it, considering my level of education and I have to give him some reasons and how I do evaluate post that is all.
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I remember seeing this topic on the other forum but I didn't have the chance to reply to it.
I notice that the statements you follow while you're gambling are very healthy and wise because you set rules to yourself in order to avoid impulsiveness and being drawn by emotions, usually that is what causes addiction and negativity in gambling.
Since your gambling activities and habit are this healthy why not confronting your husband about it? I mean a healthy relationship should be based on honesty, hiding anything from your partner is bad let along something like gambling, I highly encourage you to do so because it might strengthen your relationship more. I hope your husband is an understanding person who can be okay with what you are doing and be supportive.
Personally I am not married but recently I have introduced my girlfriend into the gambling world, so at first she kind of judged the situation because for her back then gambling had a bad image only, but as soon as she watched me gamble and tried together she really enjoyed it especially when we do it together, she sometimes gets luckier than I am, we gamble from time to time only and we try to follow strict rules about it. The point here is that it is ×10 times more fun when you share such activities with your partner, I am sure that if I hid my gambling habits from her and she discovered them after, she would be upset and it could ruin our relationship.
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Absolutely, I talk to my wife about my gambling. Of course, it would be possible not to speak. Because it's like I spend only personal savings. But in full confidence it seems to me more fun. She can always tease me a bit, and from the other side as well she's my voice of reason. Sensitive support that keep me in check, making sure our leisure activities don't overshadow our commitments and responsibilities.
Problems arise between husband and wife when they keep something secret from each other. But most of the time wives don't like it when their husband gambles, and it creates more problems if the husband openly talks about gambling to his wife, because they feel insecure. There are many reasons behind this, if one becomes addicted to gambling then he will lose a lot financially, and in reality this is happening, and this is why they are afraid.
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Absolutely, I talk to my wife about my gambling. Of course, it would be possible not to speak. Because it's like I spend only personal savings. But in full confidence it seems to me more fun. She can always tease me a bit, and from the other side as well she's my voice of reason. Sensitive support that keep me in check, making sure our leisure activities don't overshadow our commitments and responsibilities.
Problems arise between husband and wife when they keep something secret from each other. But most of the time wives don't like it when their husband gambles, and it creates more problems if the husband openly talks about gambling to his wife, because they feel insecure. There are many reasons behind this, if one becomes addicted to gambling then he will lose a lot financially, and in reality this is happening, and this is why they are afraid.
The only time that they don't like it is when you are hiding things from them, or you are more committed to gambling than taking care of them. I agree that they will feel insecure, that's actually true, especially if you have less time for them, they will think negatively and that's probably when the conflict will start between each other.
When it comes to gambling addiction, is the result of spending more time gambling than your partner. It will indeed affect the financial status of the family, but if the spouse gives more time to his partner, it will not result in that. Having a partner is a great help especially if you have more time with each other as it reduces the time you have in gambling.
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Absolutely, I talk to my wife about my gambling. Of course, it would be possible not to speak. Because it's like I spend only personal savings. But in full confidence it seems to me more fun. She can always tease me a bit, and from the other side as well she's my voice of reason. Sensitive support that keep me in check, making sure our leisure activities don't overshadow our commitments and responsibilities.
A wife is always a place where a husband can share good, bad and sorrows, so no matter how much we protect our privacy, we have to share them with the wife. Moreover, a wife always wishes well for an ideal husband and a wife can sometimes bring her husband back from the wrong path to the right path with good advice and consolation. If a gambling husband talks to his wife about gambling then surely she will give him proper advice if she is ideal and wise. Many a time there are many wives who bring the husband back to the right path with honest advice and suggestions from difficult situations and make many changes in his life. So every husband should properly share any situation with his wife at any moment.
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But to answer to the question of telling the husband/wife when you gamble, i think it is very important that partners should have open communication with regards to this matter as secrets could often result in broken relationship.
Agree. It is better to let our wife/husband know that we are playing gambling. So, if we have a problem with gambling, they will know it and can help us. It is not only about to have a good communication, it is needed to prevent bad things to happen. If something bad happens with us in gambling, they can't help us if they don't know anything with our gambling activities.
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Absolutely, I talk to my wife about my gambling. Of course, it would be possible not to speak. Because it's like I spend only personal savings. But in full confidence it seems to me more fun. She can always tease me a bit, and from the other side as well she's my voice of reason. Sensitive support that keep me in check, making sure our leisure activities don't overshadow our commitments and responsibilities.
A wife is always a place where a husband can share good, bad and sorrows, so no matter how much we protect our privacy, we have to share them with the wife. Moreover, a wife always wishes well for an ideal husband and a wife can sometimes bring her husband back from the wrong path to the right path with good advice and consolation. If a gambling husband talks to his wife about gambling then surely she will give him proper advice if she is ideal and wise. Many a time there are many wives who bring the husband back to the right path with honest advice and suggestions from difficult situations and make many changes in his life. So every husband should properly share any situation with his wife at any moment.
That's true, but sometimes they still don't want to tell you about things they might consider trivial, but I think that regarding finances, husbands and wives should be informed whatever happens, they must be open to building a family with a good economy.
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I don't think need to tell your husband when use your own fund for gambling, but if you use your husband fund better need transparent and ask their allowing agree or not with your hobbies is gambling.
If your husband money not stable better not try with gambling and prefer for your daily needed, I think every wife and husband need transparent each other about financial condition and what for money spending, if you use for gambling talk them and ask is allow or not depend you don't have good financial condition and still deposit using your husband fund.
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I don't think need to tell your husband when use your own fund for gambling, but if you use your husband fund better need transparent and ask their allowing agree or not with your hobbies is gambling.
If your husband money not stable better not try with gambling and prefer for your daily needed, I think every wife and husband need transparent each other about financial condition and what for money spending, if you use for gambling talk them and ask is allow or not depend you don't have good financial condition and still deposit using your husband fund.
You're absolutely right about the importance of transparency between spouses, especially regarding finances. However, I believe the terminology of 'allowed or not allowed' might not be the most constructive way to frame the conversation. It’s more about mutual understanding and respect. Both partners should be aware of each other’s hobbies and agree on how they manage their finances, regardless of whose money is involved. If gambling is approached responsibly and doesn't compromise financial stability or well-being, it should be treated like any other form of entertainment. Open dialogue about these topics can help ensure that both partners feel comfortable and respected in their shared financial life.
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That's true, but sometimes they still don't want to tell you about things they might consider trivial, but I think that regarding finances, husbands and wives should be informed whatever happens, they must be open to building a family with a good economy.
Marriage is more like two people going into a partnership business, it'll be unethical and illogical for one person to make decisions concerning the business without confiding on the other.
Couples should always be open and honest towards each other, especially when it concerns financial matters and especially when it involves something as risky as gambling.
Although sometimes it can be really difficult to discuss your gambling losses with your partner but the outcome could even be more disastrous when the other person gets to find out by himself as it I might lead to much bigger problems. The best option is just to be open minded and tell your partner about your gambling life so they can also be helping you to make certain assessments.
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Although sometimes it can be really difficult to discuss your gambling losses with your partner but the outcome could even be more disastrous when the other person gets to find out by himself as it I might lead to much bigger problems. The best option is just to be open minded and tell your partner about your gambling life so they can also be helping you to make certain assessments.
So have you told your husband that you gamble?
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Although sometimes it can be really difficult to discuss your gambling losses with your partner but the outcome could even be more disastrous when the other person gets to find out by himself as it I might lead to much bigger problems. The best option is just to be open minded and tell your partner about your gambling life so they can also be helping you to make certain assessments.
So have you told your husband that you gamble?
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Lol 😂, @examplens bro, I am a man human 8), not yet married and I bet I wouldn't be happy to find out by my self that my wife is a damn gambler.
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This will depend on how the two parties communicate. This DNA will also depend on the financial conditions of the family. However, it would be much better if it was based on honesty, so that our partners know what we are doing, and can prevent various unexpected things. because many people play gambling secretly and then experience addiction and big losses. In the end, it is his family who must handle this problem. Because of that, I personally will continue to prioritize communication with my partner, whatever the outcome will be. because it can also help us control ourselves for gambling.
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I am wondering why husbands don't have any idea about the wifes gambling activities? If they are living together, then why bother not saying anything right? Or even if you don't, your husband will still knew it and as long as you both are financially stable and talk about it I think it doesn't really matter.
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I have already made this post in the other forum so I just have to quote it down here to see separate overview from people over the two forum..
Quite sometimes now i have been active in the gambling section and have pick interest to start gambling i have gone through lots of material in both the forum, i have seen that I can control my emotion as well as controlling my finance this includes;
- Not involving myself in a revenge gambling
- Not chasing profit after lost
- Not involving oneself into compulsive gambling
- Not solely replying on every game to be 100 percent correct
- Not hoping that gamble is guaranteed
- Not gambling with all my income or salaries
- Among all, gambling for fun and not to enrich oneself
The point is my husband doesn't know that i have been secretly gambling and involving myself with gambling discussions and the rest, So, this morning when i woke something in me keeps telling me i should let him know to understand my involvement to practice gambling.
Does this worth telling him or not please i need you collective ideas.
Please i don't know if this violets the rules, and if yes then i don't mind locking this topic immediately.
Gambling should be shared between husband and wife. Because if any trouble arises later, one can blame the other. Of course my wife knows that I participate in gambling and that is her right. Because if I am misguided for any reason then surely my spouse can warn me or help me. A wife is the greatest helper of a husband and it will surely be better if the half-hearted wife can tell everything to her and share everything with her. Because gambling can be fun by sharing two injured parties for fun. I would definitely suggest sharing your issue with your husband.
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This will depend on how the two parties communicate. This DNA will also depend on the financial conditions of the family. However, it would be much better if it was based on honesty, so that our partners know what we are doing, and can prevent various unexpected things. because many people play gambling secretly and then experience addiction and big losses. In the end, it is his family who must handle this problem. Because of that, I personally will continue to prioritize communication with my partner, whatever the outcome will be. because it can also help us control ourselves for gambling.
couples who are not usually in good terms are likely hiding what they are doing with their money. and the paranoia also is hard to stop when one feels strange.
couples usual won't be trusting each other anymore when the relationship turned sour because of in-laws. this is usually the case in all sort of couple break ups, its either 3rd party or in laws to be.
no 3rd party to one of the couple i knew but when his wife told him that she will have the house and the kid while they were having verbal argument, he has it in mind already that he wouldn't buy any other house.
gambling remains online as rules what happens in vegas stays in vegas, what happens online stays online. ;D
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I am wondering why husbands don't have any idea about the wifes gambling activities? If they are living together, then why bother not saying anything right? Or even if you don't, your husband will still knew it and as long as you both are financially stable and talk about it I think it doesn't really matter.
You can live with someone who gambles, and you would never know, except you're told, especially someone who gamble online.
Tell me exactly how a husband would know that his wife gambles when does it on an online casino in her phone and especially when/if she also controls her own finance, she can easily fund her account, gamble without the husband knowing or even suspecting, especially if/when the husband isn't a gambler too.
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she can easily fund her account, gamble without the husband knowing or even suspecting, especially if the husband isn't a gambler too.
If your husband gambles, or ha had experience with gamblers, it will be easier for him to notice the signs of a gambler because these signs are easily observable in someone who has developed a serious gambling addiction.
Tell me exactly how a husband would know that his wife gambles when does it on an online casino in her phone
Husbands and wives these days share access to each other's devices for emergency reasons as well. It will be difficult for a lady to hide her casino apps or casino website history from her husband if he regularly uses her phone.
To avoid plenty of drama in relationships and marriage, it is important that you always let your partner know the habit that you are engaged in so that they are not surprised by it later and make it a reason for divorce.
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she can easily fund her account, gamble without the husband knowing or even suspecting, especially if the husband isn't a gambler too.
If your husband gambles, or ha had experience with gamblers, it will be easier for him to notice the signs of a gambler because these signs are easily observable in someone who has developed a serious gambling addiction.
Tell me exactly how a husband would know that his wife gambles when does it on an online casino in her phone
Husbands and wives these days share access to each other's devices for emergency reasons as well. It will be difficult for a lady to hide her casino apps or casino website history from her husband if he regularly uses her phone.
To avoid plenty of drama in relationships and marriage, it is important that you always let your partner know the habit that you are engaged in so that they are not surprised by it later and make it a reason for divorce.
First of all, I'm a man.
Secondly, it's about hiding one's gambling habits and not gambling addiction.
Yes it's quite obvious to easily detect when a person is suffering from a gambling problem or addiction. But what if the person in question has never had any experiences with gambling, how exactly would the person be able to detect that their spouse is gambling.
And yeah you're right that it'll be best for partners to tell each other about their habits before it turns into an addiction and start breaking the relationship.
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First of all, I'm a man.
Secondly, it's about hiding one's gambling habits and not gambling addiction.
Yes it's quite obvious to easily detect when a person is suffering from a gambling problem or addiction. But what if the person in question has never had any experiences with gambling, how exactly would the person be able to detect that their spouse is gambling.
And yeah you're right that it'll be best for partners to tell each other about their habits before it turns into an addiction and start breaking the relationship.
In that you are absolutely right, because basically things with women are difficult, but addiction is something that cannot be hidden, it is evident that at some point it will be uncovered, but the habit of gambling is something that also cannot be hide a lot because in some way things will always be invented and nothing good comes of lies, a woman has to be sincere, just as one as a man must be, the thing is that in most cases the opposite happens, always It is the woman who is deceived by the man to hide the gambling, the man is usually the one who Always goes to the casino and Gambles, so it makes no sense to hide something like that.
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Absolutely, I talk to my wife about my gambling. Of course, it would be possible not to speak. Because it's like I spend only personal savings. But in full confidence it seems to me more fun. She can always tease me a bit, and from the other side as well she's my voice of reason. Sensitive support that keep me in check, making sure our leisure activities don't overshadow our commitments and responsibilities.
A wife is always a place where a husband can share good, bad and sorrows, so no matter how much we protect our privacy, we have to share them with the wife. Moreover, a wife always wishes well for an ideal husband and a wife can sometimes bring her husband back from the wrong path to the right path with good advice and consolation. If a gambling husband talks to his wife about gambling then surely she will give him proper advice if she is ideal and wise. Many a time there are many wives who bring the husband back to the right path with honest advice and suggestions from difficult situations and make many changes in his life. So every husband should properly share any situation with his wife at any moment.
That's true, but sometimes they still don't want to tell you about things they might consider trivial, but I think that regarding finances, husbands and wives should be informed whatever happens, they must be open to building a family with a good economy.
However, there should not be any kind of distance between husband and wife because it deteriorates the relationship. But many wives are reluctant to tell their husbands about gambling. Because not everyone likes gambling. A wife may feel that her husband may be angry with her if she shares his gambling. If the wife engages in responsible gambling, the husband will not want to accept her gambling. Usually the wife does not want to tell her husband because of all these fears. Moreover, the wife also gets the best idea about the class of her husband. If she feels that sharing the matter will have no effect on her, then she will share and if she cannot simply accept gambling after being told, then on the one hand she will lose her appreciation to her husband and on the other hand their relationship will deteriorate. But ultimately what should be done is best understood by the gambler himself since he has no other idea of his master.
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If you are gambling with you husband's money and have won a big jackpot then it is most likely that your husband would be happy if you tell him about it. If your family is not financially very well off and you are gambling with your husband's hard earned money and making a big loss then it may ruin your marital life.
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If you are gambling with you husband's money and have won a big jackpot then it is most likely that your husband would be happy if you tell him about it. If your family is not financially very well off and you are gambling with your husband's hard earned money and making a big loss then it may ruin your marital life.
In my opinion, this depends on how someone evaluates gambling itself. If someone thinks gambling is something bad, then even if they hear the news of a win they probably won't be happy with it.
However, if someone can accept gambling then the response we will see is as you said. If they hear news of victory they will be happy and conversely if they hear news of defeat they will not be happy.
The reason is that we cannot deny that not everyone accepts gambling.
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Long to hide addiction to games will not work - sooner or later it will be discovered. So it's better to tell you right away. But the way your spouse will treat it - it can be quite unpleasant. Although ... He may also turn out to be an avid gambler - then lose money together will be more fun. And the family budget will zero faster ;D
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Me a male ...
I usually share what I do with my wife because she helps me in many bad situations and if I break down she is close to comfort me in times of trouble. So my wife has known since long that I am involved in gambling. Many times if I lose a gambling bet for some reason, my wife consoles me and helps me cope with the situation.
A wife's duty is to be by her husband's side. One must consult the wife before doing anything. If husband and wife consult to do something together, that work can be done successfully. Here like you my wife is always by my side she helps me in any task. I gamble here my wife knows, if ever I get hurt by gambling she tries to comfort me. If the life partner is very good, one can live happily and peacefully in the world and if the life partner is bad, there is no place of hell in the world. So I would say every husband and wife should always go ahead with each other's advice which will result in a beautiful family.
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If you are gambling with you husband's money and have won a big jackpot then it is most likely that your husband would be happy if you tell him about it. If your family is not financially very well off and you are gambling with your husband's hard earned money and making a big loss then it may ruin your marital life.
Either ways, it's very important to always tell your spouse about how your gambling lifestyle is going, whether or not as a wife you're using your husband's money or from your own personal reserve. This is because, when your spouse is also helping to monitor your gambling lifestyle, it'll reduce the risks of addiction rather than when you're doing it alone without anyone supervising your progress.
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If you are gambling with you husband's money and have won a big jackpot then it is most likely that your husband would be happy if you tell him about it. If your family is not financially very well off and you are gambling with your husband's hard earned money and making a big loss then it may ruin your marital life.
Well yeah that is why it is important to have communication with your partner so things are going easy and good as long as you two agree on specific thing like gambling. We all know that gambling seems to be part of humans life but yeah it all still depends upon the situation no matter what.
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If you are gambling with you husband's money and have won a big jackpot then it is most likely that your husband would be happy if you tell him about it. If your family is not financially very well off and you are gambling with your husband's hard earned money and making a big loss then it may ruin your marital life.
Avoid thinking that you will always win the jackpot round by gambling with your husband's money because the opposite can happen with the jackpot round. Your husband doesn't know that you are gambling and you are using your husband's money for gambling and you are using your husband's money but if you gamble and lose money periodically then there will be chaos in your family. Since your husband is the breadwinner of the family, you must do everything with his permission. If you do it with your husband's permission and if your husband accepts your gains and losses and gives you permission, then there will be no turmoil in your family.
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If you are gambling with you husband's money and have won a big jackpot then it is most likely that your husband would be happy if you tell him about it. If your family is not financially very well off and you are gambling with your husband's hard earned money and making a big loss then it may ruin your marital life.
Women gambling in general is a very bad sign, I think women would never participate if they earned their own money and gambled. A man knows how to make hard money, but the odds of winning the jackpot are slim. Most of the women participate by stealing their husband's money out of greed and the chances of divorce are high. Because a man never becomes addicted to gambling and the woman he likes is addicted to gambling, there is a high probability of breaking up the family.
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If you are gambling with you husband's money and have won a big jackpot then it is most likely that your husband would be happy if you tell him about it. If your family is not financially very well off and you are gambling with your husband's hard earned money and making a big loss then it may ruin your marital life.
I totally agree with you because if someone gambles with her husband's money, she should definitely inform her husband about the gambling. Whether you win the jackpot or not, making any decisions together with your husband is good for both of you. And if the husband's family is not very well off and if the husband is a day laborer then that husband should never gamble with his hard earned money in this case I will never support that wife. Now, if my wife spends the money I earn through gambling, it will definitely cause trouble between us as husband and wife. Especially in the case of husband and wife after marriage, it is better for the wife to completely give up gambling because in the husband's family, the wife must take care of the important work of the family, she can never take part in gambling. In the family of a husband, the wife will bear the responsibility of the whole family and raise the children like human beings, that is the job of a wife. So after marriage I don't support wife's gambling because wife is one of the nurses to take care of the family.
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If you are gambling with you husband's money and have won a big jackpot then it is most likely that your husband would be happy if you tell him about it. If your family is not financially very well off and you are gambling with your husband's hard earned money and making a big loss then it may ruin your marital life.
I totally agree with you because if someone gambles with her husband's money, she should definitely inform her husband about the gambling. Whether you win the jackpot or not, making any decisions together with your husband is good for both of you. And if the husband's family is not very well off and if the husband is a day laborer then that husband should never gamble with his hard earned money in this case I will never support that wife. Now, if my wife spends the money I earn through gambling, it will definitely cause trouble between us as husband and wife. Especially in the case of husband and wife after marriage, it is better for the wife to completely give up gambling because in the husband's family, the wife must take care of the important work of the family, she can never take part in gambling. In the family of a husband, the wife will bear the responsibility of the whole family and raise the children like human beings, that is the job of a wife. So after marriage I don't support wife's gambling because wife is one of the nurses to take care of the family.
What if the case is that your wife is into gambling even before your marriage? Without you knowing that gambling is already been one of his hobbies that she never told you anything about.
You see, it's all about having a deep discussion with your wife. It's not about supporting or not but more of understanding why she would do gambling despite the family's financial status. It's more on receiving and giving a word to help her realize and the impact of gambling to your family. If you just suddenly stop supporting your wife, who know what will happen to your family.
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What if the case is that your wife is into gambling even before your marriage? Without you knowing that gambling is already been one of his hobbies that she never told you anything about.
You see, it's all about having a deep discussion with your wife. It's not about supporting or not but more of understanding why she would do gambling despite the family's financial status. It's more on receiving and giving a word to help her realize and the impact of gambling to your family. If you just suddenly stop supporting your wife, who know what will happen to your family.
Before entering into a domestic relationship, it would be good for us to be open with our partners, don't let them find out after marriage or they find out about our habits from other people, this is one of the factors that will create a rift in the household.
However, they will definitely accept everything if they really love us. Whether something is good or bad can be communicated, and it would be better if we were open before marriage.
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Before entering into a domestic relationship, it would be good for us to be open with our partners, don't let them find out after marriage or they find out about our habits from other people, this is one of the factors that will create a rift in the household.
However, they will definitely accept everything if they really love us. Whether something is good or bad can be communicated, and it would be better if we were open before marriage.
In as much I don't see anything wrong with gambling, I don't think all this formality is needed but be transparent in everything you do in your relationship, you should ask each other questions, ask your hobbies and what you love to do in your free time so you don have to start any explanation when he later see you pressing your phone or changing tab from one casino to the other. ;D
Make sure not to be a person that is addicted, it is going to affect your relationship a lot because one of the problems of relationship when there is financial misunderstanding and zero accountability, gambling gives you these two.
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What if the case is that your wife is into gambling even before your marriage? Without you knowing that gambling is already been one of his hobbies that she never told you anything about.
You see, it's all about having a deep discussion with your wife. It's not about supporting or not but more of understanding why she would do gambling despite the family's financial status. It's more on receiving and giving a word to help her realize and the impact of gambling to your family. If you just suddenly stop supporting your wife, who know what will happen to your family.
Before entering into a domestic relationship, it would be good for us to be open with our partners, don't let them find out after marriage or they find out about our habits from other people, this is one of the factors that will create a rift in the household.
However, they will definitely accept everything if they really love us. Whether something is good or bad can be communicated, and it would be better if we were open before marriage.
Well, that's the common thing to happen for most people. Being open on everything and confessing everything they need to their partners, a situation where there were nothing they could hide and give all their trust to their partner.
However, there are some people who choose to hide something from their partner, just like gambling. It's possible to have a thought of being unable to be accepted by their partner if ever they were found out about this kind of hobby.
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For the sake of the married ones, i don't think its that perfect enough for a married woman to be gambling in her matrimonial home, it could have been better if the man is the one gambling than when the woman is involved in this, we can say gambling is a means of being entertained by having fun, also there are times we may need to get more of being concentrated on the family affairs than other activities, which a woman should know that once she's married, there is a limit to all these.
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For the sake of the married ones, i don't think its that perfect enough for a married woman to be gambling in her matrimonial home, it could have been better if the man is the one gambling than when the woman is involved in this, we can say gambling is a means of being entertained by having fun, also there are times we may need to get more of being concentrated on the family affairs than other activities, which a woman should know that once she's married, there is a limit to all these.
If the woman gets enough time to gamble after completing all the household chores and if she decides to gamble and her husband supports her gambling then I don't see anything wrong here. But something bad will happen when the woman forgets her family, disobeys her husband's orders and gambles even when her husband forbids her, then this matter will turn worse. If the husband and wife do not have a good relationship then that relationship does not last long so if the husband does not like gambling then the wife should give up gambling at that time and follow the way the husband tells her to do so there will be peace in the family.
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Before entering into a domestic relationship, it would be good for us to be open with our partners, don't let them find out after marriage or they find out about our habits from other people, this is one of the factors that will create a rift in the household.
However, they will definitely accept everything if they really love us. Whether something is good or bad can be communicated, and it would be better if we were open before marriage.
In as much I don't see anything wrong with gambling, I don't think all this formality is needed but be transparent in everything you do in your relationship, you should ask each other questions, ask your hobbies and what you love to do in your free time so you don have to start any explanation when he later see you pressing your phone or changing tab from one casino to the other. ;D
Make sure not to be a person that is addicted, it is going to affect your relationship a lot because one of the problems of relationship when there is financial misunderstanding and zero accountability, gambling gives you these two.
This will also have a good impact when we are open with our partners, so there are people who will always remind us when we start not being good at gambling, I mean we are leading to a bad addiction. By being open with your partner, there is control that they can exert without us having to tell them.
This is something important, because maybe if it were our partner, we would be more accepting of what they say, because we know that a household contains two people who must understand each other. When they start reminding us, it means there is something wrong with us.
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Before entering into a domestic relationship, it would be good for us to be open with our partners, don't let them find out after marriage or they find out about our habits from other people, this is one of the factors that will create a rift in the household.
However, they will definitely accept everything if they really love us. Whether something is good or bad can be communicated, and it would be better if we were open before marriage.
In as much I don't see anything wrong with gambling, I don't think all this formality is needed but be transparent in everything you do in your relationship, you should ask each other questions, ask your hobbies and what you love to do in your free time so you don have to start any explanation when he later see you pressing your phone or changing tab from one casino to the other. ;D
Make sure not to be a person that is addicted, it is going to affect your relationship a lot because one of the problems of relationship when there is financial misunderstanding and zero accountability, gambling gives you these two.
This will also have a good impact when we are open with our partners, so there are people who will always remind us when we start not being good at gambling, I mean we are leading to a bad addiction. By being open with your partner, there is control that they can exert without us having to tell them.
This is something important, because maybe if it were our partner, we would be more accepting of what they say, because we know that a household contains two people who must understand each other. When they start reminding us, it means there is something wrong with us.
When there is a good relationship between each other, one will give importance to the other's opinion, one will support the other's decision, but then there will be peace in that family. The constant turmoil between husband and wife, if someone does not give importance to someone's opinion or respect someone's decision, then there will never be peace in that world. The husband decided to gamble, if the wife supports him, then the husband will get confidence, and if the wife is interested in gambling, if the husband helps her, then both of them can do their jobs well. If husband and wife work in such a way that both of them are unhappy, then there will always be trouble in that family.
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Before entering into a domestic relationship, it would be good for us to be open with our partners, don't let them find out after marriage or they find out about our habits from other people, this is one of the factors that will create a rift in the household.
However, they will definitely accept everything if they really love us. Whether something is good or bad can be communicated, and it would be better if we were open before marriage.
In as much I don't see anything wrong with gambling, I don't think all this formality is needed but be transparent in everything you do in your relationship, you should ask each other questions, ask your hobbies and what you love to do in your free time so you don have to start any explanation when he later see you pressing your phone or changing tab from one casino to the other. ;D
Make sure not to be a person that is addicted, it is going to affect your relationship a lot because one of the problems of relationship when there is financial misunderstanding and zero accountability, gambling gives you these two.
This will also have a good impact when we are open with our partners, so there are people who will always remind us when we start not being good at gambling, I mean we are leading to a bad addiction. By being open with your partner, there is control that they can exert without us having to tell them.
This is something important, because maybe if it were our partner, we would be more accepting of what they say, because we know that a household contains two people who must understand each other. When they start reminding us, it means there is something wrong with us.
When there is a good relationship between each other, one will give importance to the other's opinion, one will support the other's decision, but then there will be peace in that family. The constant turmoil between husband and wife, if someone does not give importance to someone's opinion or respect someone's decision, then there will never be peace in that world. The husband decided to gamble, if the wife supports him, then the husband will get confidence, and if the wife is interested in gambling, if the husband helps her, then both of them can do their jobs well. If husband and wife work in such a way that both of them are unhappy, then there will always be trouble in that family.
Wise words! If gambling doesn't hurt your family, and you can spend some money on gambling just to have fun, I don't see any problems here!
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This will also have a good impact when we are open with our partners, so there are people who will always remind us when we start not being good at gambling, I mean we are leading to a bad addiction. By being open with your partner, there is control that they can exert without us having to tell them.
This is something important, because maybe if it were our partner, we would be more accepting of what they say, because we know that a household contains two people who must understand each other. When they start reminding us, it means there is something wrong with us.
Yes that's one of the advantages of being open with our gambling life to our partners, because at some point in a gambler's life, he'll need someone to help call him back or regulate him whenever he's gradually gambling out of control or going out of line and this is the point where our loved ones or partners comes in.
If you feel like you always encounter some gambling problems along the line then always confiding in your partner can be really helpful because when you have someone to always keep an eye on you, it'll be easier for you to be called to order whenever that happens.
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This will also have a good impact when we are open with our partners, so there are people who will always remind us when we start not being good at gambling, I mean we are leading to a bad addiction. By being open with your partner, there is control that they can exert without us having to tell them.
This is something important, because maybe if it were our partner, we would be more accepting of what they say, because we know that a household contains two people who must understand each other. When they start reminding us, it means there is something wrong with us.
Yes that's one of the advantages of being open with our gambling life to our partners, because at some point in a gambler's life, he'll need someone to help call him back or regulate him whenever he's gradually gambling out of control or going out of line and this is the point where our loved ones or partners comes in.
If you feel like you always encounter some gambling problems along the line then always confiding in your partner can be really helpful because when you have someone to always keep an eye on you, it'll be easier for you to be called to order whenever that happens.
So that's the problem, even though we can gamble regularly now, that doesn't mean we're free from the threat of addiction, because that potential will always be there for every gambler, so having a partner who can remind you is a good thing.
Someone who is addicted to gambling, at first they just play for fun, but over time it will become a problem that can ultimately harm them. And as I said before, even though you can now control yourself, the risk will always be there.