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Title: Fake life is costly
Post by: Enyetusi on February 22, 2024, 12:00:13 PM
Avoid it like a plague. Whatever you are not, don’t pretend to be. Stop borrowing, cars, apartments, clothes, weavon, and attachments to look good. Whatever you can’t afford, use what you have. You will not die

At times, people may not notice it. If you live your life to impress people, that’s the number one mistake. Live a life of contentment. You may not know what people go through to live big and large.

Hooòocup and scamming are not a business. It might be profitable, but the end thereof is destruction.

In my conclusion, live a life of contentment, what you can not afford,  avoid.
Title: Re: Fake life is costly
Post by: Mr. Allcrypto on February 24, 2024, 04:33:08 PM
I totally agree with what you said at the conclusion. We all should live a life of contentment, because it helps us to grow. Just because Mr A bought a shoe of 100k and your monthly income is 70k you want to buy that shoe just to impress others, no that is not right it can bring your financial status down, and it will cause unnecessary loans, and credits which will affect you financially.
But being contented with what you have doesn't mean you have to fold your arms and rely on just one way of making money when there can be other possible means, you have to also work hard and put your efforts so that you will grow above your level.
Always work hard so that you can be useful in the society.
Title: Re: Fake life is costly
Post by: Don Pedro Dinero on February 25, 2024, 10:43:44 AM
Well, I would qualify. It is clear that borrowing to impress, which is very much in vogue, judging by the level of indebtedness of the population and what you see on social media, is one of the worst things you can do, financially speaking. But in the list of things you include flats, and it's one thing to buy a flat beyond your means and another to do it in a financially reasonable way: putting a minimum of 20% down, making sure that the total costs of the apartment including mortgage are no more than a third of your household's net income and that the loan is for 15 years or at most 20.
Title: Re: Fake life is costly
Post by: Sim_card on February 25, 2024, 05:43:19 PM
Anyone living a fake life is not been sincere to himself, because a time will come that people will know that you are faking your life. I also see those person as scammers because that is why they are borrowing clothes and the rest to look good, so that they can deceive whoever, that they have plan to scam. I have a friend when I was in the university, he claims what he is not and he borrows to show off, but one day when students find out that he is not what he claims, a lot of people admiring him, couldn't cope with his fake life anymore, and he was ashamed because nobody could trust him anymore, even his girlfriend. This was how he lost some of his friends that wanted to help him.
Title: Re: Fake life is costly
Post by: Dr.Bitcoin_Strange on February 25, 2024, 10:23:18 PM
There's a quote that says, "don't live a fake life in order to please others because no body can live your own life better than you do." I believe that anyone who live a life of contentment will really be more happy than someone who is living a fake life because even in the fake life, you are still spend to rent things you don't have meanwhile you should have just use those money to get things you can afford to have.  Most people that lives a fake rich lifestyle ends up to spend unwisely because they are always trying to show off and consequences of their actions can really hit hard on them.
Title: Re: Fake life is costly
Post by: JoyMarsha on April 19, 2024, 11:18:38 PM
I just wish those living a fake life will hear all these that fake life is costly and it doesn't pay shit or make one bigger or brighter than others who choose to be real with their fellow being. Anyway, I see those living a fake life as those who think less of themselves, needing the validation of others to feel like a whole being. Once they are not validated or recognized by others they begin to feel less or more uncomfortable with themselves. However, for them to feel belong in given society, they have to claim what they are not so that others will respect or have regards for them.
Title: Re: Fake life is costly
Post by: Cryptsafe on April 20, 2024, 04:55:15 PM
Avoid it like a plague. Whatever you are not, don’t pretend to be. Stop borrowing, cars, apartments, clothes, weavon, and attachments to look good. Whatever you can’t afford, use what you have. You will not die

At times, people may not notice it. If you live your life to impress people, that’s the number one mistake. Live a life of contentment. You may not know what people go through to live big and large.

Hooòocup and scamming are not a business. It might be profitable, but the end thereof is destruction.

In my conclusion, live a life of contentment, what you can not afford,  avoid.

You have spoken well. I have come to realise that most times people give in to peer pressure which results them to living a fake life. They always allow the things of the society outweigh them as a result of their peer influence on them.
You can imagine you being in the midst of your peers that are doing well and you are just there making up the number but not in line with the fact that you been able to achieve something. This sometimes makes people to patch up their lapses just to remain in the circle by living a fake life
Some go extra miles to endulge in things that is not normal in the society just to meet up.

I have always say this that if one is in the midst of his or her peers and is under pressure to meet up, you just have to cut them off or if you can , learn from them if only they are legit, they would be willing to support you as long as you are their friend and you are good and passionate to grow up. Nothing stops them from helping you out if they are for real as your friends. Atleast they would want to see you be in the same level with them.
Fake life does not pay. It destroys ones life.
Title: Re: Fake life is costly
Post by: kulkhan on April 20, 2024, 05:30:40 PM
I also think fake life is like scamming. Who lead fake life i think today or tomorrow he will suffer about his fake life. He loses his credibility with everyone. And it also costly too for him.

Artificial or fake life maintain very costly, because to maintain fake life need luxurious lifestyle and everyone know luxurious lifestyle is too costly. So i think everyone should consus about fake life. Otherwise for fake life anyone could be fall in danger.
Title: Re: Fake life is costly
Post by: Dr.Bitcoin_Strange on April 21, 2024, 07:01:49 AM
The most ridiculous aspect of living a fake life is the amount of funds, stressand resources it requires to maintain that fake status. For instance, a person goes to rent a car and then pretend like the car is his just to make an impression and then whenever your friends or relatives have need for your car and it gets to a point you can't say no, you'll need to go and spend money to rent the car again just to keep convincing them you actually own the car.

This can be very demanding and requires a lot for you to be able to maintain such a lifestyle.
Title: Re: Fake life is costly
Post by: Sim_card on April 21, 2024, 08:27:49 AM
The most ridiculous aspect of living a fake life is the amount of funds, stressand resources it requires to maintain that fake status. For instance, a person goes to rent a car and then pretend like the car is his just to make an impression and then whenever your friends or relatives have need for your car and it gets to a point you can't say no, you'll need to go and spend money to rent the car again just to keep convincing them you actually own the car.

This can be very demanding and requires a lot for you to be able to maintain such a lifestyle.
For one to live a fake life, you must spend more, than when you are living for real and contented with what you have. It means that you are spending your money to decieve people for a short while, which I see as foolishness. Why will you do what will not last, and you will not enjoy it, because deep down in you, you know the truth. However, when you are not faking your life, you will be able to economize and save in order to plan for a better life. Fake life is a waste of time and resources, but I don't know why some people are enjoying it.
Title: Re: Fake life is costly
Post by: milewilda on April 21, 2024, 01:36:18 PM
Avoid it like a plague. Whatever you are not, don’t pretend to be. Stop borrowing, cars, apartments, clothes, weavon, and attachments to look good. Whatever you can’t afford, use what you have. You will not die

At times, people may not notice it. If you live your life to impress people, that’s the number one mistake. Live a life of contentment. You may not know what people go through to live big and large.

Hooòocup and scamming are not a business. It might be profitable, but the end thereof is destruction.

In my conclusion, live a life of contentment, what you can not afford,  avoid.
Sooner or later you would really be able to feel out that kind of shortage of funds on the time that you cant really be able to get in line on what you are trying to copy on.
You would really be ending up on taking up some loan just because you are really that tying out to impress someone on which we know that this is something which it isnt really
that recommended. Contentment would really be depending on someones issue because not all the time people are really that too lavish or that too unrealistic they way they do
live on which there are ones who are really that happy on what they do have on which this is something a must.
Title: Re: Fake life is costly
Post by: Mr. Magkaisa on April 21, 2024, 04:40:09 PM
          -  No matter what kind of fake it is, it will never be good because it's not real, and it's just pretending. Nowadays, there are many priests who are not being true to themselves, just to show that they can keep up with people who live a luxurious life.

Or others just go along with the trend even though they spend a lot. There are many people like that in this era. We must be true to ourselves and practical so that we don't get into trouble in the end, that's all.
Title: Re: Fake life is costly
Post by: Dr.Bitcoin_Strange on April 25, 2024, 12:31:53 AM
          -  No matter what kind of fake it is, it will never be good because it's not real, and it's just pretending. Nowadays, there are many priests who are not being true to themselves, just to show that they can keep up with people who live a luxurious life.

Or others just go along with the trend even though they spend a lot. There are many people like that in this era. We must be true to ourselves and practical so that we don't get into trouble in the end, that's all.
No matter what kind of fake it is, it will never be good because it's not real, and it's just pretending. Nowadays, there are many priests who are not being true to themselves, just to show that they can keep up with people who live a luxurious life.

Or others just go along with the trend even though they spend a lot. There are many people like that in this era. We must be true to ourselves and practical so that we don't get into trouble in the end, that's all.
Title: Re: Fake life is costly
Post by: Findingnemo on April 25, 2024, 09:27:42 AM
The modern generation are living their life with the help of credit cards and personal loans just because they fell into the consumerism trap.

You can see people claim having iPhone is mandatory and they consider it as financial statement but in reality $1000 iPhone or $100 android do the same tasks and we have to choose which one will comes under our budget.

Trying to impress others has no benefits at all.
Title: Re: Fake life is costly
Post by: Cryptsafe on April 25, 2024, 09:33:51 PM
I also think fake life is like scamming. Who lead fake life i think today or tomorrow he will suffer about his fake life. He loses his credibility with everyone. And it also costly too for him.

Artificial or fake life maintain very costly, because to maintain fake life need luxurious lifestyle and everyone know luxurious lifestyle is too costly. So i think everyone should consus about fake life. Otherwise for fake life anyone could be fall in danger.

Yes of-course fake life is  a scam that is why you see scammers everywhere.  The repercussion of living or leading a fake life is very disastrous as it causes one to lose credibility as you have said.  Look around, people who live a fake life always end up with shame  an regrets in the long run. They mess themselves up just for the gains that would not last long as a result of how they got it.

As you have said, a fake life is an expensive lifestyle because you will be going for things you can not afford and that would lead you into committing atrocities which ordinarily, you would not have done. This is the reason why we are advised to live according to as we can afford so that we do not put ourselves under pressure just to please people that do not matter in our lives just for the fact of covering up lapses.
Title: Re: Fake life is costly
Post by: yahoo62278 on April 25, 2024, 11:55:06 PM
Avoid it like a plague. Whatever you are not, don’t pretend to be. Stop borrowing, cars, apartments, clothes, weavon, and attachments to look good. Whatever you can’t afford, use what you have. You will not die

At times, people may not notice it. If you live your life to impress people, that’s the number one mistake. Live a life of contentment. You may not know what people go through to live big and large.

Hooòocup and scamming are not a business. It might be profitable, but the end thereof is destruction.

In my conclusion, live a life of contentment, what you can not afford,  avoid.
Living life to impress people is just silly. Impressing a woman is 1 thing, but living a lie to do so would be crazy. You might get laid once or twice but the truth will come out eventually and likely lose you the relationship.

Always be yourself. If you want nice things, work hard and get them.
Title: Re: Fake life is costly
Post by: robelneo on May 04, 2024, 05:58:18 PM
Not only costly but risky too, because people don't want to get fooled, and if you're living a fake life especially if you associate yourself with people who are considered high profile they think that you have a bad intention by not showing who you are.

So live a true life and show your true colors and what you have, people love and be friends with people who are true to themselves.
Title: Re: Fake life is costly
Post by: NotATether on May 05, 2024, 11:14:23 AM
Avoid it like a plague. Whatever you are not, don’t pretend to be. Stop borrowing, cars, apartments, clothes, weavon, and attachments to look good. Whatever you can’t afford, use what you have. You will not die

I think you should also add "going to Dubai unless its for business purposes".

I see too many influencers going there and posting about it on their Instagram and unspeakable things happening, or some get rich quick dude basically runs away over to that city in order to not get arrested by their country's police.
Title: Re: Fake life is costly
Post by: Cryptsafe on May 10, 2024, 02:40:17 PM
Avoid it like a plague. Whatever you are not, don’t pretend to be. Stop borrowing, cars, apartments, clothes, weavon, and attachments to look good. Whatever you can’t afford, use what you have. You will not die

I think you should also add "going to Dubai unless its for business purposes".

I see too many influencers going there and posting about it on their Instagram and unspeakable things happening, or some get rich quick dude basically runs away over to that city in order to not get arrested by their country's police.
You are very correct sir. I think this is another aspect of show off people who are not even well to do use to confuse others and celebrity mostly do this. Little wonder one of the musical artist sang " no be by force to go Dubai" I had to go deep into why he sang that I discovered that one of his baby mamas were on him to send them to Dubai which ordinarily they could not afford but he himself as a musician could afford it but he said no that it would not happen. I had to understand that she was just wanting to use it to showoff when she can not afford it but for the fact that her baby papa who is wealthy could so she wants to pressure him to do so and it resulted to a misunderstanding between the both of them and that was how their relationship possibly went south and they parted ways.
Title: Re: Fake life is costly
Post by: OSAMABBK on May 19, 2024, 08:13:04 AM
In deed fake life is not for someone like me, I never in my lifetime pretend to be who I'm not, at times fake life leads to early grave, because you will be so desperate to please people while must don't send your achievements, talkles of faking it, fake life is a desperation life that most time lead to stealing, gambling, womanizing, smoking and to mention few of desperate life at times brought shame when they found out that you're not up to the stands you claim you're, at times your destiny will think you have already made it while you're desperately in need of help
Note fake life is quite different from dress night and chasing dreams, at times you need to dress neat for people to see how energetic you're, sometimes if you're so dirty even your destiny will not like to come close to you, eat balance diet life is too short to be dirty, i know of local government in Niger south called Bida, her youth used dress well even if they're broke while other neighborhoods local government do criticize them for faking life as for me that's not what fake life is all about but safe respect and contentment, i think in this century we need more enlightened the differences between fake life and dress properly
Title: Re: Fake life is costly
Post by: Dr.Bitcoin_Strange on May 23, 2024, 08:49:50 PM
Avoid it like a plague. Whatever you are not, don’t pretend to be. Stop borrowing, cars, apartments, clothes, weavon, and attachments to look good. Whatever you can’t afford, use what you have. You will not die

At times, people may not notice it. If you live your life to impress people, that’s the number one mistake. Live a life of contentment. You may not know what people go through to live big and large.

Hooòocup and scamming are not a business. It might be profitable, but the end thereof is destruction.

In my conclusion, live a life of contentment, what you can not afford,  avoid.
Living life to impress people is just silly. Impressing a woman is 1 thing, but living a lie to do so would be crazy. You might get laid once or twice but the truth will come out eventually and likely lose you the relationship.

Always be yourself. If you want nice things, work hard and get them.
Sometimes women are the reason why guys fake their lifestyle and status in order to impress them, because ladies nowadays place themselves so high and classy, even when they're not really that classy, and in other to get their attention, men need to meet their taste of class and if you're not classy or look classy, they'd see you like trash,, not like it's the right thing to do, but if ladies on their own side can be a lot more real, then there will be no point for men to fake a lifestyle in order to impress them 
Title: Re: Fake life is costly
Post by: LogitechMouse on June 02, 2024, 05:29:15 AM
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Re: Fake life is costly
I wonder why there are some people who are trying to do these things.
Validation? Impress other people? Attention-seeker They want to get validated by other people thus, they are living the life that they really aren't afford. They want attention that's why they are doing these.

They are buying things that are way above their means just to get validation online. They are borrowing expensive things just to get validation. They are going to different countries to travel and post it online just to get validation from random strangers. TBH, until now I can't think of any reason as to why there are people who are doing these kinds of things. I'm just an average person, and I don't need validation from other people thus, I don't do these kinds of things.

I just hope that these people will realize at one point that these will lead to nothing, but it will only backfire on them. Like what OP has said, be contented with our life.
Title: Re: Fake life is costly
Post by: JoyMarsha on June 03, 2024, 10:41:17 PM
Fake life is costly, draining, and incredibly challenging for one to live up to it as a life for oneself.

Someone living a fake life hardly acknowledges the truth that honesty and being authentic pay off and easily maintain. Why live a life on pretense that's hard to maintain and it won't fetch anything meaningful in life. That's stupidity.
Title: Re: Fake life is costly
Post by: Cryptsafe on June 04, 2024, 06:19:41 PM
Fake life is costly, draining, and incredibly challenging for one to live up to it as a life for oneself.

Someone living a fake life hardly acknowledges the truth that honesty and being authentic pay off and easily maintain. Why live a life on pretense that's hard to maintain and it won't fetch anything meaningful in life. That's stupidity.
Fake life is indeed very draining and costly.  This has resulted to many youths being under pressure to meet up with their false  life they live. I have no doubt most of the undoings in the society today is as a result of the fake life the culprit do live. In the course of living their fake life, they would want to meet up with their competitors just to make a good for nothing impression. As a matter of fact, they end up putting themselves in tight corners and on most cases, being under pressure and would have no option than committing crime in the society.
Title: Re: Fake life is costly
Post by: albon on June 04, 2024, 09:06:35 PM
It is right for me that i don't like to think about what is not and also i don't borrow much but sometimes i borrow from my friend. Personally i love handmade work so i always want to learn something new. I never use other people's things because it makes me look too small which hurts my ego. Also, I feel comfortable using things that i buy with my own money. One has to influence one's life in one's own way, so practicing other people's fundamentals can mess up one's own life. People are more ruined by hookups and scamming.
Title: Re: Fake life is costly
Post by: Dr.Bitcoin_Strange on June 09, 2024, 02:28:28 PM
I just wish those living a fake life will hear all these that fake life is costly and it doesn't pay shit or make one bigger or brighter than others who choose to be real with their fellow being. Anyway, I see those living a fake life as those who think less of themselves, needing the validation of others to feel like a whole being. Once they are not validated or recognized by others they begin to feel less or more uncomfortable with themselves. However, for them to feel belong in given society, they have to claim what they are not so that others will respect or have regards for them.

I totally agree with you and I think those who are living a fake life is actually in bondage in essence that if they didn't impress others, their lives are not yet fulfilled, that is why whatever they do, they do it to impress people, people who always talk on whatever they do, whether good or bad. So let's be real and avoid fake life, it's not only costly, it also kill. That is if you don't have anything like money or clothes to impress people, they will definitely go into illegal activities like stealing, kidnapping etc and it might lead them to prison or to early grave, and it can also lead one into depression, frustration and can also affect our mental health because of excess thinking. So let's be real and be ourselves, most people will love us for who we are and might be given opportunities.
Title: Re: Fake life is costly
Post by: bisdak40 on June 11, 2024, 12:36:31 PM
In my conclusion, live a life of contentment, what you can not afford,  avoid.

I agree with this line because most people tend to buy things above their budget just to brag to other people like buying the latest phones or shoes which is bad. After all, it is not a practical use of money.
Title: Re: Fake life is costly
Post by: Dr.Bitcoin_Strange on June 11, 2024, 11:56:35 PM
In my conclusion, live a life of contentment, what you can not afford,  avoid.


I agree with this line because most people tend to buy things above their budget just to brag to other people like buying the latest phones or shoes which is bad. After all, it is not a practical use of money.
Without being told, everyone knows that spending money on irrelevances and expensive stuffs just to impress others or maintain a fake life would lead to nothing but financial ruin, it's not worth breaking ones bank just because sime people around you are buying something and then you feel left out and wish to feel among. One should always stick their budgets and never spend beyond their budgets, except of course it's an emergency.
Title: Re: Fake life is costly
Post by: Dr.Bitcoin_Strange on June 12, 2024, 12:08:52 AM
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Title: Re: Fake life is costly
Post by: albon on October 24, 2024, 11:21:29 AM
In my conclusion, live a life of contentment, what you can not afford,  avoid.


I agree with this line because most people tend to buy things above their budget just to brag to other people like buying the latest phones or shoes which is bad. After all, it is not a practical use of money.
Without being told, everyone knows that spending money on irrelevances and expensive stuffs just to impress others or maintain a fake life would lead to nothing but financial ruin, it's not worth breaking ones bank just because sime people around you are buying something and then you feel left out and wish to feel among. One should always stick their budgets and never spend beyond their budgets, except of course it's an emergency.
Those who do not budget their expenses to manage their life and spend more than their income always face financial crisis. Then if they have drug addiction and gambling addiction then due to financial crisis, they sell all their assets and become poor. What my neighbor buys and i have to buy it is absolutely stupid. I don't mind spending money in some areas of life. But since i have a family i always have to keep extra money. Especially with that money used only to manage life.
Title: Re: Fake life is costly
Post by: Dr.Bitcoin_Strange on October 24, 2024, 01:47:49 PM
Those who do not budget their expenses to manage their life and spend more than their income always face financial crisis. Then if they have drug addiction and gambling addiction then due to financial crisis, they sell all their assets and become poor. What my neighbor buys and i have to buy it is absolutely stupid. I don't mind spending money in some areas of life. But since i have a family i always have to keep extra money. Especially with that money used only to manage life.
The problem with people is that they fail to differentiate between their needs and wants, thus the reason why people tend to spend extravagantly without proper budgeting. A person who mixes up his needs and wants would always end up in financial lack and insufficiency, regardless of how much they earn. This is because human wants are insatiable and ending, the moment you finish satisfying this particular want, the next one immediately comes up, and when you continue to satisfy these wants and your needs, you’ll end up even spending your earnings even before they arrive. So it’s important to always sort your needs and separate them from your wants so you can be able to spend on necessities rather than on irrelevances. That way, you’ll be able to save up for your future and subsequent emergencies.
Title: Re: Fake life is costly
Post by: bisdak40 on October 24, 2024, 04:25:37 PM
Those who do not budget their expenses to manage their life and spend more than their income always face financial crisis. Then if they have drug addiction and gambling addiction then due to financial crisis, they sell all their assets and become poor. What my neighbor buys and i have to buy it is absolutely stupid. I don't mind spending money in some areas of life. But since i have a family i always have to keep extra money. Especially with that money used only to manage life.
The problem with people is that they fail to differentiate between their needs and wants, thus the reason why people tend to spend extravagantly without proper budgeting. A person who mixes up his needs and wants would always end up in financial lack and insufficiency, regardless of how much they earn. This is because human wants are insatiable and ending, the moment you finish satisfying this particular want, the next one immediately comes up, and when you continue to satisfy these wants and your needs, you’ll end up even spending your earnings even before they arrive. So it’s important to always sort your needs and separate them from your wants so you can be able to spend on necessities rather than on irrelevances. That way, you’ll be able to save up for your future and subsequent emergencies.
It’s important to know the difference between what we need and want. It’s so easy to spend on unnecessary things and then have no savings. we must try and budget our money as much as possible for emergencies and use extra money to spend on our wants hat way, we can avoid financial stress when unexpected things happen.
Title: Re: Fake life is costly
Post by: bitterguy28 on October 25, 2024, 10:13:46 AM
I don't mind spending money in some areas of life. But since i have a family i always have to keep extra money. Especially with that money used only to manage life.
even if you have no family of your own just yet i think you should practice good financial management because you still never know what could happen you might find yourself in an emergency and have nothing or no one to seek help from in terms of financial support

so just because you have money now doesn’t mean you should go ahead and buy everything your heart desires no save some for your future self just in case
Title: Re: Fake life is costly
Post by: Agbe on October 25, 2024, 04:01:42 PM
Living a fake life is one of the problem in our society right now as people use it to impress and make cheap point no thanks to the internet which has made the world closer to everyone. Fake life is seem as a life style that most people especially the youths have engaged as many will go as far as borrowing cars, clothes, phones to show off and tell their friends that they have arrived,  fake life has made allot of persons to go into many illegal activities just to maintain the kind of life they want people to see
Title: Re: Fake life is costly
Post by: philipma1957 on October 25, 2024, 04:06:33 PM
Avoid it like a plague. Whatever you are not, don’t pretend to be. Stop borrowing, cars, apartments, clothes, weavon, and attachments to look good. Whatever you can’t afford, use what you have. You will not die

At times, people may not notice it. If you live your life to impress people, that’s the number one mistake. Live a life of contentment. You may not know what people go through to live big and large.

Hooòocup and scamming are not a business. It might be profitable, but the end thereof is destruction.

In my conclusion, live a life of contentment, what you can not afford,  avoid.

Forgive my question but what is Hoooocup.

SCAMMING is a crime it can put you in jail.

In general you speak a lot of truth.
Title: Re: Fake life is costly
Post by: Celph on October 25, 2024, 04:12:34 PM
Here's my attempt:

"Y'know, pretending to be someone you're not? It's bad news. My friend's brother, he was like that. Always trying to impress. But people saw right through. Now he's lonely. Being real, that's key. You get real friends that way. No need for fancy words or fake smiles. Just be you, simple.
I learned that from my grandma. She's always saying, 'Be true to yourself.' She's right basically.Life's easier when you're not pretending. You don't gotta remember lies or worry about being caught. Just live, be honest, and good things come.
You are being wise like that.
Title: Re: Fake life is costly
Post by: albon on October 25, 2024, 04:24:28 PM
Here's my attempt:

"Y'know, pretending to be someone you're not? It's bad news. My friend's brother, he was like that. Always trying to impress. But people saw right through. Now he's lonely. Being real, that's key. You get real friends that way. No need for fancy words or fake smiles. Just be you, simple.
I learned that from my grandma. She's always saying, 'Be true to yourself.' She's right basically.Life's easier when you're not pretending. You don't gotta remember lies or worry about being caught. Just live, be honest, and good things come.
You are being wise like that.
I want to keep myself correct as much as possible, so I always try to correct my mistakes. I believe when i sit down if i make a mistake then i have to fix it myself. We always want to think about the mistakes and bad deeds of others, but in that case we face more problems. However, i have never found a true friend who wants to be with me without interest. People want to think directly about their positive aspects. Even man is always the best in acting so one who has it in him should be avoided. Let's lead the life in the right direction and do all the good deeds so that all the good things in life can be found.
Title: Re: Fake life is costly
Post by: Hatchy on October 25, 2024, 05:59:32 PM
Hooòocup and scamming are not a business. It might be profitable, but the end thereof is destruction.
In my conclusion, live a life of contentment, what you can not afford,  avoid.

I wonder what someone would archive, living a fake life. It's not actually a good life style I'll recommend for anyone. Trying to make people see who you aren't. You end up wasting your precious time impressing others who really don't matter. Life is beautiful when you are your self. It doesn't matter if you are rich or poor. By just being yourself, you get to live without worry too much about what other people thinks of you. Living a fake life might push a way your helper. People that were meant to come create a good path for your success.
Title: Re: Fake life is costly
Post by: Dr.Bitcoin_Strange on October 25, 2024, 07:54:02 PM
It’s important to know the difference between what we need and want. It’s so easy to spend on unnecessary things and then have no savings. we must try and budget our money as much as possible for emergencies and use extra money to spend on our wants hat way, we can avoid financial stress when unexpected things happen.
That’s absolutely correct.
Being able to distinguish between one’s needs and wants can indeed help one come up with a much better budget. Because you’ll be able to identify the necessary things that your money should go to, and of course give you the flexibility to save up for rainy days because surely emergencies would surely occur in the future and if there are no emergency or backup funds, you’ll surely encounter financial stress.  And also, you’ll be able to make reasonable investments too. But if one is unable to sort out his wants, it’ll be difficult or even possible to secure an emergency fund, let alone investing.
Title: Re: Fake life is costly
Post by: Gurujebs on October 25, 2024, 08:45:36 PM
I wonder what someone would archive, living a fake life. It's not actually a good life style I'll recommend for anyone. Trying to make people see who you aren't. You end up wasting your precious time impressing others who really don't matter. Life is beautiful when you are your self. It doesn't matter if you are rich or poor. By just being yourself, you get to live without worry too much about what other people thinks of you. Living a fake life might push a way your helper. People that were meant to come create a good path for your success.

I will tell you that they achieve a lot to be honest even though faking life to be what you are not is really expensive but they don't do that without aims and objectives. They make sure that anything they have on their mind comes to reality.

I will explain one for you. There is this guy that I know, he didn't came from a poor background neither did he came from a rich background but he forms and act like his father is a politician just to blend among people who are high class, you will never know his moves and this guy will borrow money to buy expensive cloths and pay later even to the point of been dragged before he pay but today, the guy is doing well in his line of clothing and only patronize rich folks, he was acting rich and was forming networking and now he is making the money but only few of them have the sense to plan this way.
Title: Re: Fake life is costly
Post by: Rruchi man on October 25, 2024, 11:17:31 PM
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If you leave a fake life, you risk missing help from all the people that should help you because, based on your fake life, they will be thinking that you are someone that does not require their help. This is why you have to be real, because someone will only help you when they observe that you are someone who has accepted that you need help, not someone still faking reality. Accepting your reality is also a part and sign of maturity; people who try to lie or fake their situation are still immature.
Title: Re: Fake life is costly
Post by: libert19 on October 26, 2024, 07:33:35 PM
I tend to fall into this materialism temptations so I keep telling myself lately that my needs are minimal — those being food, water, clothing, internet (it has become a necessity, don't it?) and shelter (although, this one can be costly), eveything else is unnecessary.

The less needs I have, less I own, less burden I feel.

I also hate maintaining things, so if I don't own a thing in first place, I won't have to maintain it, although if something adds significant value to my life, and requires some maintenance along the way, it's alright.
Title: Re: Fake life is costly
Post by: _act_ on October 26, 2024, 09:44:11 PM
Living a fake life is very bad and its not what one should do or encourage others to go for, its a very bad idea, we should be whom we are and appreciate the value and personality in us, then this will help us to identify more areas of weakness and strength which we must be aware of concerning ourself, living a fake life is a life full of deception and those living it will have to regret making such decision later in life.
Title: Re: Fake life is costly
Post by: Chilwell on November 01, 2024, 08:01:53 PM
Avoid it like a plague. Whatever you are not, don’t pretend to be. Stop borrowing, cars, apartments, clothes, weavon, and attachments to look good. Whatever you can’t afford, use what you have. You will not die

At times, people may not notice it. If you live your life to impress people, that’s the number one mistake. Live a life of contentment. You may not know what people go through to live big and large.

Hooòocup and scamming are not a business. It might be profitable, but the end thereof is destruction.

In my conclusion, live a life of contentment, what you can not afford,  avoid.
Living a fake life is actually expensive just as said, because the imposter will not have peace of mind, he will always be feeling guilty and ashame of himself , the cars, houses and clothes you borrow to impress people will not always be with you, imagine you return those things you borrowed, and you come across one of the people that think you are rich, because they saw you living a luxurious life, then your image will be tarnished and you will lose credibility. Don't be an imposter because you are cheating yourself, if you don't have and you said you have, your destiny helper will come and go, because you will not know who will be willing to help you. Fake life can cause a lot of damages to you, that you will not even imagine.
Title: Re: Fake life is costly
Post by: _act_ on November 01, 2024, 08:54:11 PM
Why should one live a fake life, those that do this cannot be trusted for anything because they have already failed themselves and the way people see them wasn't their real identity or way of life, living a life full of pretense is not good, because it also brings about shame to us whenever those we are hiding the truth from eventually discover many things about us, we cant win back their trust.
Title: Re: Fake life is costly
Post by: milewilda on November 02, 2024, 03:10:36 PM
It’s important to know the difference between what we need and want. It’s so easy to spend on unnecessary things and then have no savings. we must try and budget our money as much as possible for emergencies and use extra money to spend on our wants hat way, we can avoid financial stress when unexpected things happen.
That’s absolutely correct.
Being able to distinguish between one’s needs and wants can indeed help one come up with a much better budget. Because you’ll be able to identify the necessary things that your money should go to, and of course give you the flexibility to save up for rainy days because surely emergencies would surely occur in the future and if there are no emergency or backup funds, you’ll surely encounter financial stress.  And also, you’ll be able to make reasonable investments too. But if one is unable to sort out his wants, it’ll be difficult or even possible to secure an emergency fund, let alone investing.

The issue on here is that a certain person would really be only making out those kind of realization on the moment that they are really that on a tough situation or condition yet not all would really be having that kind of consideration in trying out to determine on where they would be focusing which it could be on their main needs or wants. There are ones who could be able to make out such balance but there are those people who are really that trying out to focus more in terms of their wants and ending up on overdropped or missed out on making some allocation into their needs on which this one is really that much needed or something that crucial.