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Further Discussions => Economics , Sociology & Politics => Topic started by: Penlex_Writer on December 28, 2024, 11:55:04 PM
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It is really important to think before acting,because fast acting before thinking can really lead to mistakes,what i really notice is that people of that category are not good listeners,they acts towards there mindset,when your thinking is of the negative side always it can leads to life destruction,is better to think before you acts because it's later gives you a clear view to know if you acts what will be the outcome of it,(good or bad).
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isn’t this common sense? someone who acts before thinking is reckless and often indulges in risky behavior sometimes it works out for them due to nothing but luck but most of the time it ends up ruining their lives or whatnot
let’s say in business you can’t just do it without planning because it’s going to end up costing you more than you hope no one will be able to do anything perfectly if they don’t plan on it first
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Yeah anyone should think before acting to weight in the consequences of their actions because what we do affects not just us but also the people around us. Taking a moment to think can help us avoid problems later.
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Thinking first before doing some is the normal people do unlike the impulsive people who usually just say and something without thinking of consequences.
But this is learned by individual as they grow older. I use to get into o a fight every time wwhen I was still in grade school I learn to balance after I was expell and moved to another school where there are more bullies.
In politics, they learn all that since they have councils advising them what to do.
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isn’t this common sense? someone who acts before thinking is reckless and often indulges in risky behavior sometimes it works out for them due to nothing but luck but most of the time it ends up ruining their lives or whatnot
let’s say in business you can’t just do it without planning because it’s going to end up costing you more than you hope no one will be able to do anything perfectly if they don’t plan on it first
Exactly, reckless and lacks discipline would result in bad consequences this actually happened a lot to people every single day because of over confidence or problematic that needs help and supervision but for us in this crypto industry the reason we lose is that we take chances rather than thinking before acting.
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Yeah anyone should think before acting to weight in the consequences of their actions because what we do affects not just us but also the people around us. Taking a moment to think can help us avoid problems later.
Most people react without considering the consequences of their actions, particularly when they are angry. I have seen people destroy things out of rage only to later regret it when they are thinking clearly. This is why there is always a need to control anger, and those who find it difficult to control their anger should ensure that they walk away when someone attempts to make them angry.
This can even bring peace to the person because, in the end, he will be glad he walked away rather than doing something he would have regretted later. Listening to music is my personal antidote for anger. This therapy has helped me a lot in avoiding doing things I would later regret. With this, I am always in the right mind to think before acting.
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It is really important to think before acting,because fast acting before thinking can really lead to mistakes,what i really notice is that people of that category are not good listeners,they acts towards there mindset,when your thinking is of the negative side always it can leads to life destruction,is better to think before you acts because it's later gives you a clear view to know if you acts what will be the outcome of it,(good or bad).
Ideally, before talking any action, we could think twice before taking any action, this will help us to prevent making mistakes after all, some would have taking a step before realizing it was a wring move and they may have no option than paying for the consequence, there is nothing to rush about in life, we have to start thinking on how we could engage doing things the normal way instead of rushing into them as some of us are used to.
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It is very clear that anyone who's in a hurry to act is bound to make a mistake because they do not have time to analyze the thing they are about to do up and down, knowing whether it will just favor them or not.
I don't know whether there has been anyone who was in a hurry to make decisions that didn't later regret. Findings show that females are the ones who are in a hurry to make haste decisions than men.
Men will take time to analyze what they are to do before concluding but for most women, when they think it to be so, they act immediately
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It is really important to think before acting,because fast acting before thinking can really lead to mistakes,what i really notice is that people of that category are not good listeners,they acts towards there mindset,when your thinking is of the negative side always it can leads to life destruction,is better to think before you acts because it's later gives you a clear view to know if you acts what will be the outcome of it,(good or bad).
It's always advisable for someone who is under pressure to always have self control and restrain when reacting to undue pressure because taking rash decisions always lead to regret people should take drastic steps in making sure that they always have their temper in check because any man or woman who can successfully have his or her emotions in check has won a major battle in life
Personal I will recommend people to read books about temper and anger control because such material are very helpful with people who is finding it difficult in controlling their anger because any decision you take irrationally will definitely go a long way in telling the world how you are and the consequences of your irrationally decisions awaits you
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I used to be the kind of person that don't listen before acting far as I have heard my name in any matter but after these actions when I sit down alone when my temper is calm I begin to wonder what I did if it was right or wrong. The only way to control this act is when you have self control else you will always find yourself in this circle of over reaction.
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It's important to think before acting. People who act before thinking are considered irrational and they lack wisdom because they will definitely regret their actions.
People who think before acting often are less likely to regret and say had I known
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I used to be the kind of person that don't listen before acting far as I have heard my name in any matter but after these actions when I sit down alone when my temper is calm I begin to wonder what I did if it was right or wrong. The only way to control this act is when you have self control else you will always find yourself in this circle of over reaction.
A lot of persons have done permanent damage to their lives because of jumping into matters unnecessarily. This is not a good way to live. Sometimes the ability to interpret what has been heard before acting upon it is more important than hearing.
There have been occasions when I misinterpreted something and thought it was a mockery to me, but after I got home and thought about it, I understood that it wasn't. It would have been bad if I had reacted wrongly before realizing that there was nothing wrong with what was said to me.
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It is really important to think before acting,because fast acting before thinking can really lead to mistakes,what i really notice is that people of that category are not good listeners,they acts towards there mindset,when your thinking is of the negative side always it can leads to life destruction,is better to think before you acts because it's later gives you a clear view to know if you acts what will be the outcome of it,(good or bad).
Assuming most of the people now are thinking well before acting, then things could have been well with us in many areas, because after having a second thought, we must have known the repercussion as well as the effect of what we are doing, this will also helps us to be thinking twice before we take actions over doing something, when we think well before acting, it helps us to achieve the best output from what we are running, after the rightful application.
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It is really important to think before acting,because fast acting before thinking can really lead to mistakes,what i really notice is that people of that category are not good listeners,they acts towards there mindset,when your thinking is of the negative side always it can leads to life destruction,is better to think before you acts because it's later gives you a clear view to know if you acts what will be the outcome of it,(good or bad).
Assuming most of the people now are thinking well before acting, then things could have been well with us in many areas, because after having a second thought, we must have known the repercussion as well as the effect of what we are doing, this will also helps us to be thinking twice before we take actions over doing something, when we think well before acting, it helps us to achieve the best output from what we are running, after the rightful application.
You're right, If more people took the time to think things through before acting, a lot of mistakes could be avoided. When we pause and consider the effects of our decisions, it helps us make better choices. Thinking twice before doing something not only prevents problems but also gives us a better chance of getting good results.
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Yeah anyone should think before acting to weight in the consequences of their actions because what we do affects not just us but also the people around us. Taking a moment to think can help us avoid problems later.
i agree with you,evryone need to think before acting to avoid problems,thinking before acting is totally wisdom.
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It is really important to think before acting
Unfortunately many people are not wired in this way to think before they act. There are people that act first and then later deal with whatever consequence that comes from the result of their actions. The transition of someone from a person who acts first and thinks later to someone who thinks first and acts later will require a conscious effort to be able to stop themselves from rash actions because there will not always be people around to stop them.
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There is a proverb that says, "Think before you act, don't act before your act." This is an eternal truth because those who do not act thoughtfully always have problems later on. Moreover, if enough planning and thinking is done before starting work, then mistakes in that work are less likely. No matter how quickly we work, if the work is not done according to plan, there will be some kind of mistake in the work later.
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It is really important to think before acting
Unfortunately many people are not wired in this way to think before they act. There are people that act first and then later deal with whatever consequence that comes from the result of their actions. The transition of someone from a person who acts first and thinks later to someone who thinks first and acts later will require a conscious effort to be able to stop themselves from rash actions because there will not always be people around to stop them.
I believe that most people who act in this manner are filled with hatred. People can be cruel, so they are always looking for the slightest opportunity to strike. Some persons have a conscious understanding of their action but their joy always comes from destruction.
When a person thinks this way, he will never be rational in how he interacts with others, and he will find it difficult to think before acting as a reasonable man would, but to him, that is how anyone would have acted.
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It is really important to think before acting
Unfortunately many people are not wired in this way to think before they act. There are people that act first and then later deal with whatever consequence that comes from the result of their actions. The transition of someone from a person who acts first and thinks later to someone who thinks first and acts later will require a conscious effort to be able to stop themselves from rash actions because there will not always be people around to stop them.
Your actually right because people who act before thinking always regret their actions later due to the consequences that their actions brings to them after and many people has landed themselves into problems because they where not patient enough to hold them self and put their emotions in check and so regrets their actions later which is always too late
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It is not possible to convert a thought outlook into an optimistic view overnight. But with consistent efforts, dedication and patience you will learn to go to things positively. Suppose the acting is definitely the result of practicing for a long time. To get a happy and healthy life you can always change your attitude towards life. The more optimistic you are the better you are to handle the stress. If you only thought and once you were stable you couldn't turn your fate upside down. So whenever you decide to do something it is important to have good thoughts inside you.
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There is a proverb that says, "Think before you act, don't act before your act." This is an eternal truth because those who do not act thoughtfully always have problems later on. Moreover, if enough planning and thinking is done before starting work, then mistakes in that work are less likely. No matter how quickly we work, if the work is not done according to plan, there will be some kind of mistake in the work later.
Taking action in haste, may land you in regret sometime. Thoughtful thinking is essential before taking any decision. Planning before acting help a lot. Before starting work, you suppose to plan and put everything in order, because when the work comes and you haven't plan for it before, you will be confused on what to do and you will also lost confidence in yourself.
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Yep, I have had events happen where I did acts without thinking and it backfired royally, I still have those regrets looming despite it's been a years since these events happened.
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There is a proverb that says, "Think before you act, don't act before your act." This is an eternal truth because those who do not act thoughtfully always have problems later on. Moreover, if enough planning and thinking is done before starting work, then mistakes in that work are less likely. No matter how quickly we work, if the work is not done according to plan, there will be some kind of mistake in the work later.
Taking action in haste, may land you in regret sometime. Thoughtful thinking is essential before taking any decision. Planning before acting help a lot. Before starting work, you suppose to plan and put everything in order, because when the work comes and you haven't plan for it before, you will be confused on what to do and you will also lost confidence in yourself.
Yeah, rushing into things without thinking can lead to regrets. It's always better to plan first before taking action. When you prepare ahead, you won’t feel lost or unsure when the time comes to act. Planning makes things easier and helps avoid mistakes.
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There is a proverb that says, "Think before you act, don't act before your act." This is an eternal truth because those who do not act thoughtfully always have problems later on. Moreover, if enough planning and thinking is done before starting work, then mistakes in that work are less likely. No matter how quickly we work, if the work is not done according to plan, there will be some kind of mistake in the work later.
Taking action in haste, may land you in regret sometime. Thoughtful thinking is essential before taking any decision. Planning before acting help a lot. Before starting work, you suppose to plan and put everything in order, because when the work comes and you haven't plan for it before, you will be confused on what to do and you will also lost confidence in yourself.
Yeah, rushing into things without thinking can lead to regrets. It's always better to plan first before taking action. When you prepare ahead, you won’t feel lost or unsure when the time comes to act. Planning makes things easier and helps avoid mistakes.
emotions can sometimes make a person react in haste and will not think of consequences. its like shoot first before asking. its sometimes good and often times bad.
examples of these are gamblers who just rush to deposit to chase the lost amount. while luck can change, the person who are in a hurry to chase the loss may lose it all again for not thinking of strategy.
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Yep, I have had events happen where I did acts without thinking and it backfired royally, I still have those regrets looming despite it's been a years since these events happened.
Well I think it's not just you who have experienced that kinda thing because people around you might also done that including me. Regrets is the only thing that we can do when damage has been done from the consequences we got from our careless actions. That is why it is very important to give ourselves a moment to think first
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Yep, I have had events happen where I did acts without thinking and it backfired royally, I still have those regrets looming despite it's been a years since these events happened.
...Regrets is the only thing that we can do when damage has been done from the consequences we got from our careless actions. That is why it is very important to give ourselves a moment to think first
I don't do it deliberately though, regrets are just hovering in my head as if saying, you could have done better and I justify by understanding that I can't change past, sometimes it helps, most times it don't.
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People who get angry easily are the ones that might not think before acting. This has put a lot of them into making costly mistakes due to wrong decisions taken without proper thought. It's good that you take time to think about a situation on ground before acting because it's through your actions that will determine if you are wise or not.
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I don't do it deliberately though, regrets are just hovering in my head as if saying, you could have done better and I justify by understanding that I can't change past, sometimes it helps, most times it don't.
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Well yeah that is what it should be. And you are right, moving on from mistakes and finding better ways will get us less stress and productivity instead of spending our precious time with regrets not a good way to start another journey of change.
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It is really important to think before acting,because fast acting before thinking can really lead to mistakes,what i really notice is that people of that category are not good listeners,they acts towards there mindset,when your thinking is of the negative side always it can leads to life destruction,is better to think before you acts because it's later gives you a clear view to know if you acts what will be the outcome of it,(good or bad).
You are totally right, we ought to think before acting on a matter, because it’s very bad to act out of anger without proper investigation before taking decisions on what to do and also to put things into consideration like the impact it will have whether it will be positive on negative because in this life, whatever we do or however we act without proper thinking can lead us to destruction, which it’s better to avoid in life just like you said because it can never yield anything good from acting without thinking.
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It is really important to think before acting,because fast acting before thinking can really lead to mistakes,what i really notice is that people of that category are not good listeners,they acts towards there mindset,when your thinking is of the negative side always it can leads to life destruction,is better to think before you acts because it's later gives you a clear view to know if you acts what will be the outcome of it,(good or bad).
Very well said, actions without thought is absolute ungodly, this is because acting or speaking without thinking it through may end up affecting or hurting the feelings of others, who knows this emotionally hurt individual may be our very helper in the future or eve the wife or husband to ur brothers or sisters, so as individual our thought should always preeceed our actions. Even God self has his own thoughts the Bible says the thoughts I have towards you, is that of good and not of evil to bring you to an expected end. Shalom
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It is really important to think before acting,because fast acting before thinking can really lead to mistakes,what i really notice is that people of that category are not good listeners,they acts towards there mindset,when your thinking is of the negative side always it can leads to life destruction,is better to think before you acts because it's later gives you a clear view to know if you acts what will be the outcome of it,(good or bad).
You are totally right, we ought to think before acting on a matter, because it’s very bad to act out of anger without proper investigation before taking decisions on what to do and also to put things into consideration like the impact it will have whether it will be positive on negative because in this life, whatever we do or however we act without proper thinking can lead us to destruction, which it’s better to avoid in life just like you said because it can never yield anything good from acting without thinking.
A lot of things would have gone wrong and so many people will be offended if you act before thinking. It doesn't show any smartness in you because you didn't take your time to think and come up with a good conclusion.
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A lot of things would have gone wrong and so many people will be offended if you act before thinking. It doesn't show any smartness in you because you didn't take your time to think and come up with a good conclusion.
There’s every tendency that every decision or action we make without adequately considering it may turn out to be futile or wasted effort. It’s always smart to think every decision through before implementing them. It’s really not about people’s reaction towards the after effects, or people being offended, but what’s more important is the effect of the action on you.
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It is really important to think before acting,because fast acting before thinking can really lead to mistakes,what i really notice is that people of that category are not good listeners,they acts towards there mindset,when your thinking is of the negative side always it can leads to life destruction,is better to think before you acts because it's later gives you a clear view to know if you acts what will be the outcome of it,(good or bad).
There are some emergency situations where an individual may have to act before thinking, imagine someone who is at gun point and he or she is asked to bring out all the money he or she has, without even thinking, the person quickly obliges. In this case if one begin to this before he acts he may not even want to release his personal belongings to the criminals because that belongings be it phone or money may be not even be his own, it may be for a friend or so.
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I don't do it deliberately though, regrets are just hovering in my head as if saying, you could have done better and I justify by understanding that I can't change past, sometimes it helps, most times it don't.
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Well yeah that is what it should be. And you are right, moving on from mistakes and finding better ways will get us less stress and productivity instead of spending our precious time with regrets not a good way to start another journey of change.
Exactly, no one can undo what has been done, it is very important to think before making a decision, but in a situation where by an individual make a decision in haste which land him in regret, it is very important for the person to move on, you just have to learn from the mistake and take proper correction to avoid same mistake, wise man says "mistake is a mistake when done once, but never a mistake when repeat" and "every mistake need to be corrected so that such mistake shouldn't repeat itself again". It is very important for someone to move on in life despite any situation he found himself, because as long as there is life, there is hope.
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It is really important to think before acting,because fast acting before thinking can really lead to mistakes,what i really notice is that people of that category are not good listeners,they acts towards there mindset,when your thinking is of the negative side always it can leads to life destruction,is better to think before you acts because it's later gives you a clear view to know if you acts what will be the outcome of it,(good or bad).
There are some emergency situations where an individual may have to act before thinking, imagine someone who is at gun point and he or she is asked to bring out all the money he or she has, without even thinking, the person quickly obliges. In this case if one begin to this before he acts he may not even want to release his personal belongings to the criminals because that belongings be it phone or money may be not even be his own, it may be for a friend or so.
Even before you released you bag to them, you must have quickly given it a thought. This your example is strange, but in such bad situation that you described, you are at the point of danger and all your brain could think of is fear and safety, such situation your brain must have already calculated and concluded that you should hand your stuffs to the thieves before they harm you. There are situation where a single thieves will attack you, even with gun, you can still think and act faster than him.
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Even before you released you bag to them, you must have quickly given it a thought. This your example is strange, but in such bad situation that you described, you are at the point of danger and all your brain could think of is fear and safety, such situation your brain must have already calculated and concluded that you should hand your stuffs to the thieves before they harm you. There are situation where a single thieves will attack you, even with gun, you can still think and act faster than him.
On this example, critical thinking really matters especially in that kind of situation where potential harm and danger is in progress. This is where awareness kicks in since it is part of our thinking habit that everyone should consider especially nowadays as it buys us time to react and execute the better if not the best option to decide in getting out safely.
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Even before you released you bag to them, you must have quickly given it a thought. This your example is strange, but in such bad situation that you described, you are at the point of danger and all your brain could think of is fear and safety, such situation your brain must have already calculated and concluded that you should hand your stuffs to the thieves before they harm you. There are situation where a single thieves will attack you, even with gun, you can still think and act faster than him.
On this example, critical thinking really matters especially in that kind of situation where potential harm and danger is in progress. This is where awareness kicks in since it is part of our thinking habit that everyone should consider especially nowadays as it buys us time to react and execute the better if not the best option to decide in getting out safely.
Yeah, in that kind of situation, thinking clearly is super important. When you're in danger, being aware of what's going on can really help. It gives you a little time to react and make a smarter move to get out safely, even if it's not the perfect option.
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Thinking before acting can help an individuals avoid making decisions that may lead to regret, by considering different options and potential outcomes , individuals can make better decisions with greater confidence, reducing the likelyhood of regret.
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Yeah anyone should think before acting to weight in the consequences of their actions because what we do affects not just us but also the people around us. Taking a moment to think can help us avoid problems later.
True, one should be mindful of what they do either by words or actions, so that it will also affect others.
Putting things into consideration can really be of help, especially if handled with calmly, it won’t escalate or resulting to any kind of conflict which might lead to injury or death.
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Yeah anyone should think before acting to weight in the consequences of their actions because what we do affects not just us but also the people around us. Taking a moment to think can help us avoid problems later.
True, one should be mindful of what they do either by words or actions, so that it will also affect others.
Putting things into consideration can really be of help, especially if handled with calmly, it won’t escalate or resulting to any kind of conflict which might lead to injury or death.
But this is why you need to think of negative as well to see which way things may go because it could happen so fast without warning. You will see things go south with just one word spoken.
So if you think of something negative that might happen all the time, you get to warn yourself that something or anything could happen. Lightning could strike.
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Yeah, in that kind of situation, thinking clearly is super important. When you're in danger, being aware of what's going on can really help. It gives you a little time to react and make a smarter move to get out safely, even if it's not the perfect option.
Samples of these are those road rages that happened recently here in our country that also goes viral on social media. All those things can be avoided though they chose not to. They don't think that they have families waiting for them, they chose to be provocative and aggressive on the road because of their ego or pride that is why they ended up in a devastating consequences. I agree that getting out as quick as you can in a posible threat or danger even if it's "not the perfect option" would be the best critical moments of thinking rather than staying within the perimeter and get harmed.
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But this is why you need to think of negative as well to see which way things may go because it could happen so fast without warning. You will see things go south with just one word spoken.
So if you think of something negative that might happen all the time, you get to warn yourself that something or anything could happen. Lightning could strike.
I agree because the quest for positive thinking has made people forgotten that negative thinking can also prevent an unforeseen circumstances because is from that people sees what they might face if plans are not properly set, negative thinking can have a different form because when people reason about failure it gives them the mindset or fear that no matter what they must be productive so that all there efforts will not be waste, so actually what negative does is to give people determination of resisting failure.
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It is really important to think before acting,because fast acting before thinking can really lead to mistakes,what i really notice is that people of that category are not good listeners,they acts towards there mindset,when your thinking is of the negative side always it can leads to life destruction,is better to think before you acts because it's later gives you a clear view to know if you acts what will be the outcome of it,(good or bad).
Frustration and anger are situations that can drive one into acting before thinking. These can make you burn down a bridge in a moment before realizing shortly thereafter that you need that same bridge to return.
Regrettable actions are a result of acting before thinking.
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I have learnt this one unique lesson from the senior citizens, they don't talk except they have something to say, instead they have learnt to be more observant than in speaking, same also they do by listening carefully before you can see them act or speak, we should also learn from all these, because some of us in this generation can be too quick in action and this has led to the down fall of many in life.
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It is really important to think before acting,because fast acting before thinking can really lead to mistakes,what i really notice is that people of that category are not good listeners,they acts towards there mindset,when your thinking is of the negative side always it can leads to life destruction,is better to think before you acts because it's later gives you a clear view to know if you acts what will be the outcome of it,(good or bad).
Frustration and anger are situations that can drive one into acting before thinking. These can make you burn down a bridge in a moment before realizing shortly thereafter that you need that same bridge to return.
Regrettable actions are a result of acting before thinking.
I burned a bridge sometime back, and felt regret that I shouldn't have done that. But after a while I was out it, now I am like, as long we don't ever meet again I am fine, I mean it would just feel awkward so, lmao.
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It is really important to think before acting,because fast acting before thinking can really lead to mistakes,what i really notice is that people of that category are not good listeners,they acts towards there mindset,when your thinking is of the negative side always it can leads to life destruction,is better to think before you acts because it's later gives you a clear view to know if you acts what will be the outcome of it,(good or bad).
You are totally right, we ought to think before acting on a matter, because it’s very bad to act out of anger without proper investigation before taking decisions on what to do and also to put things into consideration like the impact it will have whether it will be positive on negative because in this life, whatever we do or however we act without proper thinking can lead us to destruction, which it’s better to avoid in life just like you said because it can never yield anything good from acting without thinking.
A lot of things would have gone wrong and so many people will be offended if you act before thinking. It doesn't show any smartness in you because you didn't take your time to think and come up with a good conclusion.
Reckless decisions can lead destruction for many people, that is why it is crucial not to take decision making lightly. A smart person is someone that put everything in order and approaches every situation calmly and make calculated decisions to make sure that no one gets hurt. It's crucial to think wisely before taking any decision because a single mistake can ruin many lives.
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Reckless decisions can lead destruction for many people, that is why it is crucial not to take decision making lightly. A smart person is someone that put everything in order and approaches every situation calmly and make calculated decisions to make sure that no one gets hurt. It's crucial to think wisely before taking any decision because a single mistake can ruin many lives.
Absolutely correct, one has to make thoughtful decisions about their lives and other people who are around them if they’re to take action without proper thought.
Yeah, it’s true that it’s very difficult or hard to make decisions especially if they are angry at that point, but instead of doing something at that time just to ease their pain or anger just like the way most people do, they are to walk away from that moment or remain silent or take a deep breath which will try and calm their nerves down a bit, then after then, they are to think what actually went wrong, if they are to be blame or not, and if they are not to be blamed, should they take action or not and what if they take action, will it affect them in future or not, all this should be what is should be running through their minds and by so doing, it will really be of help to them and also to the society at large.
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Reckless decisions can lead destruction for many people, that is why it is crucial not to take decision making lightly. A smart person is someone that put everything in order and approaches every situation calmly and make calculated decisions to make sure that no one gets hurt. It's crucial to think wisely before taking any decision because a single mistake can ruin many lives.
Absolutely correct, one has to make thoughtful decisions about their lives and other people who are around them if they’re to take action without proper thought.
Yeah, it’s true that it’s very difficult or hard to make decisions especially if they are angry at that point, but instead of doing something at that time just to ease their pain or anger just like the way most people do, they are to walk away from that moment or remain silent or take a deep breath which will try and calm their nerves down a bit, then after then, they are to think what actually went wrong, if they are to be blame or not, and if they are not to be blamed, should they take action or not and what if they take action, will it affect them in future or not, all this should be what is should be running through their minds and by so doing, it will really be of help to them and also to the society at large.
Indeed, you are right, there is something inadmissibly human that tends to look for an immediate retaliation every time one gets offended or feels disrespected. But, the more I delve more into, the more it becomes apparent that the course of action is not what the first thing one would choose. There are those that he are able to spare themselves talking even when their mind is all occupied with thoughts and sentiments that they do not want to express because, well, they know that once said, those words to hold a way of stabbing. Sometimes apology cannot ease the suffering which was inflicted by one person on the other. When someone chooses to take their time, it is not because such a person is struggling or scared but because he or she is actually looking for a perspective that is other than he or she is in a particular moment. In it there is a kind of responsibility which is not always obvious and obvious eyed.