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Title: I love her so much
Post by: Akinwale Akinkunmi on February 03, 2025, 12:06:54 AM
How do i tell my bestfriend to let us start dating and improve the relationship
Title: Re: I love her so much
Post by: Rruchi man on February 04, 2025, 08:56:51 AM
Do you think you are in the position to be in a relationship? this should be a question you ask yourself.

Most young relationships these days is mostly for sexual intercourse and non-actually promoting self-developments among both partners this is why it is highly advised that until you are able to understand yourself and achieve a level of financial independence you should abstain from anything relationships and focus on self developments.
Title: Re: I love her so much
Post by: Akinwale Akinkunmi on February 04, 2025, 12:26:12 PM
Do you think you are in the position to be in a relationship? this should be a question you ask yourself.

Most young relationships these days is mostly for sexual intercourse and non-actually promoting self-developments among both partners this is why it is highly advised that until you are able to understand yourself and achieve a level of financial independence you should abstain from anything relationships and focus on self developments.
Thanks got this
Title: Re: I love her so much
Post by: Sim_card on February 05, 2025, 06:35:27 PM
How do i tell my bestfriend to let us start dating and improve the relationship
Relationship is for adults and not kids, focus on your studies and possibly learn a skill to develop yourself so that you will have good potentials and increase your value in the society. When you have done that and start making money, it's your friend that will ask you out.  ;D
Title: Re: I love her so much
Post by: JoyMarsha on February 05, 2025, 09:37:11 PM
How do i tell my bestfriend to let us start dating and improve the relationship
Most long-lasting relationships start by being best of friends before they mature into a relationship. Don't let the urge for something more destroy the friendship built for years.

I will advise you to still hold on and not to tell your best friend your relationship intention until when you're financially, emotionally, and mentally ready to take the friendship to the next level.

Nothing destroys the friendship built for years when you both are not ready to take the relationship to the next level.
Title: Re: I love her so much
Post by: albon on February 06, 2025, 04:27:48 PM
Another green flag in the relationship that is very important in today relationship is the future plan. You cannot stay at present without imagining anyone future. However, most of the relationships are currently seen inside the sexual because people and accept it more. Everyone wants to enjoy life and lead life with different ways. If your friend or partner talks to you the next step in your life is a positive signing of future plans and moving together.
Title: Re: I love her so much
Post by: DragonF on February 07, 2025, 07:34:37 AM
I will advise you to keep the friendship at the bestfriend level because asking her for a relationship may jeopardize the friendship if that is not how she feels about you. It is always preferable to define the relationship at the outset so that your intentions are known and the other party is also aware of your intentions, rather than changing intentions later on. It does not always work out, and if you are rejected, you start to hold a grudge against her, which will only grow stronger if she starts dating someone else.

Do you think you are in the position to be in a relationship? this should be a question you ask yourself.

This is an excellent question that should also be considered. Most relationships today are very demanding, and every girl believes that her boyfriend should pay all of her bills. Are you financially prepared to fund a relationship? There are some things she will not ask for from you as her best friend, but once you are in an intimate relationship with her, she begins to demand, and even when she does not demand openly, she still expects you to provide. Relationships today are transactional, so you should be prepared.
Title: Re: I love her so much
Post by: bisdak40 on February 27, 2025, 12:36:55 PM
I will advise you to keep the friendship at the bestfriend level because asking her for a relationship may jeopardize the friendship if that is not how she feels about you. It is always preferable to define the relationship at the outset so that your intentions are known and the other party is also aware of your intentions, rather than changing intentions later on. It does not always work out, and if you are rejected, you start to hold a grudge against her, which will only grow stronger if she starts dating someone else.

Do you think you are in the position to be in a relationship? this should be a question you ask yourself.

This is an excellent question that should also be considered. Most relationships today are very demanding, and every girl believes that her boyfriend should pay all of her bills. Are you financially prepared to fund a relationship? There are some things she will not ask for from you as her best friend, but once you are in an intimate relationship with her, she begins to demand, and even when she does not demand openly, she still expects you to provide. Relationships today are transactional, so you should be prepared.
If she only sees you as a best friend, pushing for a relationship might ruin what you have. It's best to be clear from the start. Also, ask yourself if you're ready for a relationship, especially since many come with financial expectations. Think it through before making a move.
Title: Re: I love her so much
Post by: bitterguy28 on February 28, 2025, 07:46:25 PM
How do i tell my bestfriend to let us start dating and improve the relationship
just confess and tell her what you really feel genuinely i know that some people are scared to risk of ruining the friendship but you might also regret if you do not say anything now and lose the chance because you never know that she might also be harboring some feelings for you and just also scared to let you know

my advice is to just speak to her from the heart and be sincere
Title: Re: I love her so much
Post by: electronicash on February 28, 2025, 08:29:14 PM

try just asking her to come with you eat something somewhere or have a coffee. she may think its not a date but you can treat it as a date. jsut tell her its a date when she is there drinking her coffee. that will sound funny to her but that's the trick.

i once told a girl to come with me in the rest room. she asked why, i told her what else should we do there. she was puzzled. almost slap me. but i said i'm going to leak and she should leak on the girls rest room. that's just it. she did come with me which seems funny still. that's when you know she likes you too.
Title: Re: I love her so much
Post by: Cryptsafe on February 28, 2025, 11:07:26 PM
Before you think of going into a relationship, are you mentally, emotionally, psychologically, and financially stable?
Ask yourself all these questions and think about it because if you are not mature enough to take responsibility, do not think about it as you will end up frustrating yourself out of the relationship. Until then, hustle and make good money before discussing a relationship.
Title: Re: I love her so much
Post by: Agbe on March 01, 2025, 08:09:44 PM
Not all relationships that you find yourself that should be intimate or turned into dating because one thing that I have found out life is that there are relationship that you find yourself that last for a life time so when it comes to your best friend you should not do the mistake of asking your best friend out for dating because at the long run you will regret doing that. Relationship should be valued especially when it comes to someone who is close to you giving you good advice and share important things with you so don't do the mistake of asking your best friend out because it always don't end well at the end
Title: Re: I love her so much
Post by: libert19 on March 10, 2025, 08:25:03 AM
Not all relationships that you find yourself that should be intimate or turned into dating because one thing that I have found out life is that there are relationship that you find yourself that last for a life time so when it comes to your best friend you should not do the mistake of asking your best friend out for dating because at the long run you will regret doing that. Relationship should be valued especially when it comes to someone who is close to you giving you good advice and share important things with you so don't do the mistake of asking your best friend out because it always don't end well at the end

IMO it's ok if there is attraction from both individuals towards each other, and op should be upfront and ask whether she feels attracted towards him, if she does then proceed in relationship.

Regarding, best friend being partner, I think this is best relationship there can be since both know each other already well.
Title: Re: I love her so much
Post by: Stuart on March 11, 2025, 09:07:16 AM
Relationships these days is tied to sexual satisfaction and chase of money. When there is money made available, then the sexual misuse is free.

I will say, maintaining the friendship for the moment is okay, but, if the right actions are not taken now, someone else might do that which you would have. Taking the first step, by asking, makes you the man, but with you being the man, there are lots of responsibilities attached to it. Having something tangible at hand is a step ahead, and having a skill or profession is very needful tool for a better future for both of you.
Title: Re: I love her so much
Post by: Dr.Bitcoin_Strange on March 11, 2025, 08:09:54 PM
Don’t!
Trust me, you both are better off as friends or best friends or whatever you guys are. You may be pretty much attached to her right now and maybe the feeling might be mutual, which might get you feeling like you’re ready to step up your game. But my advise to you, if you value what you both have so much, then keep things the way they are because being too attached to each other doesn’t mean you can both handle the stress and fuzz that comes with relationships. So better enjoy what you’ve got going on in peace.