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like the title says, do you believe that laziness is inherited? or at least that something we get from our parents? maybe it’s how we saw them growing up? or the principles and beliefs they instilled on us allowed us to grow too comfortable and therefore lazy? is it the result of the kind of environment you grew up on? where do people get their laziness from? and how can one overcome such thing?
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like the title says, do you believe that laziness is inherited? or at least that something we get from our parents? maybe it’s how we saw them growing up? or the principles and beliefs they instilled on us allowed us to grow too comfortable and therefore lazy? is it the result of the kind of environment you grew up on? where do people get their laziness from? and how can one overcome such thing?
Sort of, but not totally because being lazy will really be just that everything be according into you because there are some real life experiences that i have seen in other people whom i've known that their parents are way too lazy or simply living in poverty whose that their guardians are really just that dont mind about on getting a job or would really be that contented on what they do have, somehow their kids do make it as a driving force to do things on which this will be pertaining about doing hard work on which it will really be that making themselves that wanting to get out with poverty and this is why they do work hard even more on which i do see there's no such thing about being lazy could be inherited.
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No, I don't think Laziness is something you’re born with, but habits can rub off from your surroundings. If you grew up in a chill environment, you might pick up the same attitude. But at the end of the day, it’s all about mindset and discipline.
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like the title says, do you believe that laziness is inherited? or at least that something we get from our parents? maybe it’s how we saw them growing up? or the principles and beliefs they instilled on us allowed us to grow too comfortable and therefore lazy? is it the result of the kind of environment you grew up on? where do people get their laziness from? and how can one overcome such thing?
Yes and NO. The reason why I said Yes is because laziness can be inherited but when the person is growing up, that laziness can be taken from him by keeping him busy and in the long run, the person will be use to agility. Why I said NO, is because there are some character we human posses ourselves. If it's making money, that's by chance.
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In a way, laziness indeed is inherited. Attitude is formed by copying what parents do. If parents are lazy, dont expect children to be hardworking. Children are mirror of their parents. In fact, parents that scold their children must first look on themselves and ask if they wound not have done the same or have same result.
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I don't think laziness is inherited or any other behavior for that matter but if kid lives around people who are lazy then I believe he may get conditioned to being lazy.
You know as saying goes, you are what you surround yourself with.
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I don’t think that kind of thing is inherited, but I believe it is the environment around you growing up that makes you who you are. If the people around you when you were growing up were always doing nothing, meaning lazy, then you are probably lazy as well because that’s what you learn from. You can change a person with the right people around them.
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like the title says, do you believe that laziness is inherited? or at least that something we get from our parents?
It can be something you got from your parents, but not in the form of a genetic inheritance but a habit that you copied from them while growing up. Children who grew up around lazy parents have a very high potential for becoming lazy adults; only a few escape from this.
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Laziness is an attitude being developed when growing up. It is nurtured, and over time it turns into a habit. If it is not corrected on time, it becomes a habit that can't be easily let go.
The after-effects of laziness on someone can cause them to miss a whole lot of life opportunities. People will take them to be weak beings, and won't call them out for any given event that requires human energy
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To say you are lazy because you grew up watching your dad or your mum lazy around and doing nothing meaningful is a lame excuse. You are responsible for your own actions, if you are lazy it is on you, there is nothing stopping you from getting up and achieving your dreams.
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To say you are lazy because you grew up watching your dad or your mum lazy around and doing nothing meaningful is a lame excuse. You are responsible for your own actions, if you are lazy it is on you, there is nothing stopping you from getting up and achieving your dreams.
That's true, but I think the point is how did person come to be lazy and that often boils down to surroundings one grew up in.
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Laziness has nothing to do with the genetic transfer but I believe it to be an attitude you cultivate as a result of your environment and people around you most especially your parents because it is said that children always copy or watch their parents and always want to copy their parents in whatever thing they see them doing which is why parents are advised to always watch their actions in the presence of their children because they are their first role model in whom they want to be like so whatever thing they see their parents doing, they do it not looking or minding what they are doing if it is right or wrong.
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their parents are way too lazy or simply living in poverty whose that their guardians are really just that dont mind about on getting a job or would really be that contented on what they do have, somehow their kids do make it as a driving force to do things on which this will be pertaining about doing hard work on which it will really be that making themselves that wanting to get out with poverty
ironically enough i also know a lot of people who did not have good childhoods and even when they grew up their parents stayed irresponsible financially which i guess what motivated them to keep working hard
however we all also know that generational poverty is a thing not all poor people, despite irresponsible and lazy parents, get our of poverty a lot of them stay in the same place actually
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their parents are way too lazy or simply living in poverty whose that their guardians are really just that dont mind about on getting a job or would really be that contented on what they do have, somehow their kids do make it as a driving force to do things on which this will be pertaining about doing hard work on which it will really be that making themselves that wanting to get out with poverty
ironically enough i also know a lot of people who did not have good childhoods and even when they grew up their parents stayed irresponsible financially which i guess what motivated them to keep working hard
however we all also know that generational poverty is a thing not all poor people, despite irresponsible and lazy parents, get our of poverty a lot of them stay in the same place actually
I said similar in some other thread. Impressions that one receives during his childhood are hard to get rid of that's why children often repeat same mistakes as their parents.
I see cases where even if person is earning well, they still continue to have that poor mindset. It's really sad to see, because here child is not at fault, he's been just handed over miserable mindset from their parents.
This is why only those who are well off materially and psychologically should bring children into the world.
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It is not common sense because there is no where in the world that laziness is inherited anyone who is lazy got to that state due to the king of life style he decides to live because laziness is a product of not taking responsibility, the kind of characters and lifestyle that anyone have is delibrate because no parents will teach their children to be lazy even the most laziest they will always inculcate good values into their children and one of which is hard work and taking responsibility so laziness is
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I don't think so because it's not a condition just a habit which we form mostly due to our life style. Like if you are living comfortable, got a normal job and doesn't look for anything more along with that your surrounding is kind of encouraging that average life then it's more likely you will turn out to be lazy overtime. If you are living uncertain life, doesn't know what happens next then it's not possible to be lazy at that situation.
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I don't think so because it's not a condition just a habit which we form mostly due to our life style. Like if you are living comfortable, got a normal job and doesn't look for anything more along with that your surrounding is kind of encouraging that average life then it's more likely you will turn out to be lazy overtime. If you are living uncertain life, doesn't know what happens next then it's not possible to be lazy at that situation.
Laziness is not a condition as you have said, it is an attitude formed over time as a result of our environment or comfort we have long adopted as a lifestyle. I have known people who are very comfortable with their lifestyle and when I ask them, they tell me that they earn good pay, have good houses, and can afford to live a good life why would they start jumping about to make money when they are comfortable with the one they have. These sets of individuals are likely to be comfortable with their comfort zone and would always display some kind of lazy attitude outwardly without minding it.
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Laziness is not a hereditary factor, but rather a personal habit of each individual. Usually, lazy people are people who do not have the enthusiasm to live a better life. They can only dream of being rich without any effort. In my opinion, lazy people are usually synonymous with failure.
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Idk but i said no, it's the environment the child/adult grows up. Especially for a child where s/he saw such behaviour then copy it until the child used to it and that's it becomes until something happened that could lead a major changes to the child's behaviour.
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like the title says, do you believe that laziness is inherited? or at least that something we get from our parents? maybe it’s how we saw them growing up? or the principles and beliefs they instilled on us allowed us to grow too comfortable and therefore lazy? is it the result of the kind of environment you grew up on? where do people get their laziness from? and how can one overcome such thing?
Genetically, I don’t think there’s any possibility of actually inheriting laziness, but you make a good point about how people often end up inheriting laziness or other forms of social behaviours from their parents or immediate families. When a child is growing up and is in a learning stage, he tends to acquire and absorb all the available information at his disposal, so whatever idea you pass to that young mind is what he accepts and grows up with. If you make them feel too comfortable without teaching them that at some point they’ll also need to work for themselves, then they could end up growing up having that perspective of life that whatever they need could be given to them in a platter and that’s how laziness is learned by a child and if he continues in that path without unlearning it, they’ll grow up to be extremely lazy.
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Laziness is not a hereditary factor, but rather a personal habit of each individual. Usually, lazy people are people who do not have the enthusiasm to live a better life.
Possibly because they are content where they are?
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Laziness is not a hereditary factor, but rather a personal habit of each individual. Usually, lazy people are people who do not have the enthusiasm to live a better life.
Possibly because they are content where they are?
Comfortability is one thing that we should avoid in life especially when we are not established in life because it's a hindrance to progress because when ever you get comfortable in the place where you find yourself and is not doing anything else to change your position overtime you will find out that you are not where you supposed to be in your growth process
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like the title says, do you believe that laziness is inherited? or at least that something we get from our parents? maybe it’s how we saw them growing up? or the principles and beliefs they instilled on us allowed us to grow too comfortable and therefore lazy? is it the result of the kind of environment you grew up on? where do people get their laziness from? and how can one overcome such thing?
For me, its more on the environment a person grew up with, nobody is born lazy; its their environment and the people that set the example of how and what living is, A child can only imitate how their relatives lives and incorporate more of their traits If the parents lacks the drive and are lazy then the child will see to it as the right way to live and will do the same.
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like the title says, do you believe that laziness is inherited? or at least that something we get from our parents? maybe it’s how we saw them growing up? or the principles and beliefs they instilled on us allowed us to grow too comfortable and therefore lazy? is it the result of the kind of environment you grew up on? where do people get their laziness from? and how can one overcome such thing?
Yes and NO. The reason why I said Yes is because laziness can be inherited but when the person is growing up, that laziness can be taken from him by keeping him busy and in the long run, the person will be use to agility. Why I said NO, is because there are some character we human posses ourselves. If it's making money, that's by chance.
Children tend to follow their parent's footsteps and whatever a child sees their parents doing, the same thing they will like to do also, so a father can pass lazy habits to the kids, just like ungratefulness if you see a family where either the father or mother is ungrateful and doesn't appreciate things, you will see their kids growing up with such mentality also.
You see that when they receive things from others they won't know how to appreciate the gift despite that it is just a kind gesture to them, there are not thought values and the right way of perceiving things.
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It is wrong to say that laziness is inherited but it is inherited from your family members. Because if your family members do not introduce you to any activity for a worker place since childhood then you will get a gift of idleness. A rich family sons and daughters suffer from a lot of laziness because they always lead a happy life and the main reason is that they have a lot of money. On the other hand, the children of a family work hard from an early age to earn money, so laziness cannot catch them.
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That's true, but I think the point is how did person come to be lazy and that often boils down to surroundings one grew up in.
Even if you grew up in an environment where the adults lazy around doing nothing, i don't think it is an excuse to follow in their footsteps. It may be harder for such a person, but if they are very determined, they would be hardworking and achieve all the success they deserve.
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like the title says, do you believe that laziness is inherited?
No, laziness isn't inherited, it happens because of environment and it has nothing to do with the genes. I personally know many people whose parents are quite hard working and even in their 60's they are still hard working but their kids are so much lazy and they don't work at all.
I believe the ones who get everything without effort tends to get lazier overtime but even those people can get working again if they introspect themselves. However, it's going to be tough to reform ones habits.
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That's true, but I think the point is how did person come to be lazy and that often boils down to surroundings one grew up in.
Even if you grew up in an environment where the adults lazy around doing nothing, i don't think it is an excuse to follow in their footsteps. It may be harder for such a person, but if they are very determined, they would be hardworking and achieve all the success they deserve.
Yes, it's not an excuse but understanding helps to know why people are as they are.
Early on child learns behaviors from surroundings without using reasoning (whether some behavior is right or not), and once he becomes an adult and learns that laziness is not normal and not right for growth, the fight starts to get above it but it's hard to rewire brain from conditioned behaviors, sure not impossible but hard, so some just give up this fighting.
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like the title says, do you believe that laziness is inherited?
No, laziness isn't inherited, it happens because of environment and it has nothing to do with the genes. I personally know many people whose parents are quite hard working and even in their 60's they are still hard working but their kids are so much lazy and they don't work at all.
I believe the ones who get everything without effort tends to get lazier overtime but even those people can get working again if they introspect themselves. However, it's going to be tough to reform ones habits.
Environment and indeed into the people around you will really be the main determining factor on why someone do become lazy. Even though lets say that it doesnt work on certain individuals but mostly you would really be ending up on the same when you are really that having that kind of environment. We do know that laziness cant be passed through genes and this is something that will really be that speaking about into the influence of people who are really that around you. Somewhat if you are really that wanting to have a progressive life or having that kind of changes then you will be needing up to act and not really just that lying down and doing nothing. It will really be that up to you on how you would really be making out such act but if you are just that contented on what you do have now then its up to you.
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Idk but i said no, it's the environment the child/adult grows up. Especially for a child where s/he saw such behaviour then copy it until the child used to it and that's it becomes until something happened that could lead a major changes to the child's behaviour.
Yeah, kids mostly learn from what they see around them. If they grow up seeing certain habits, they pick them up without even thinking. It just becomes part of who they are. But sometimes, something big happens that makes them change how they act.
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but it's hard to rewire brain from conditioned behaviors, sure not impossible but hard, so some just give up this fighting.
Too bad for those who give up, they will never know what it feels to be on top of their game, they will never know what is is like to go out and chase their dreams. It is very importantu for parents to lay the right foundation for their children, it is important for their growth and future.
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but it's hard to rewire brain from conditioned behaviors, sure not impossible but hard, so some just give up this fighting.
Too bad for those who give up, they will never know what it feels to be on top of their game, they will never know what is is like to go out and chase their dreams. It is very importantu for parents to lay the right foundation for their children, it is important for their growth and future.
There's always that difference into those kids that being raised up well by their parents well and to those who arent. Usually the things that you've seen on your environment will really be that giving out such impact towards you on which it will really be that recommended that as a parent then you should really be teaching up them well in regarding behavior, virtues and values related things on which this will really be molding them up into much better individual on which of course there would be some factors that might affect along the way but its different when you do teach them on what would be the things that will really be helpful for them in the future. There's always that fine line in regarding about the benefits in compared into those who havent been raised up that well.
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Too bad for those who give up, they will never know what it feels to be on top of their game, they will never know what is is like to go out and chase their dreams. It is very importantu for parents to lay the right foundation for their children, it is important for their growth and future.
Learning is quite easier than trying to unlearn, especially things we’ve learned as kids, those things can stick to our brains and minds, and literally shaping our lives as well as our attitudes about life as we grow up. This is the reason why I agree with you that the best thing that we can do for our kids is to impact good morals and also laying a better foundation for our kids, so they may impact the society around them in a much more positive way, which is exactly what the world needs to be a better place.
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Nothing like inherited laziness, people only chose to be lazy by their own, there is no generic inheritance on being lazy, even a giant man son can decide to be lazy while a no man child can develop the boldness, courage and abilities for hardworking performance in what they do, it's more of an individual determination towards the kind of person they want to be and not what their background or family history tells about them, we can choose by ourselves not to be lazy.
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like the title says, do you believe that laziness is inherited? or at least that something we get from our parents? maybe it’s how we saw them growing up? or the principles and beliefs they instilled on us allowed us to grow too comfortable and therefore lazy? is it the result of the kind of environment you grew up on? where do people get their laziness from? and how can one overcome such thing?
Laziness isn't inherited it is rather learned from the environment having friends who are lazy will no how make one to be lazy someday and the best way to overcome this is for one to be very mindful of the kind of company you keep and associate yourself with
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I don't believe that laziness is being inherited but being hardworking is. Laziness is a choice for the situations that we're dealing with. Sometimes, it's hard to look at our day to day lives and we are losing inspiration to work better and that's why someone becomes lazy. Also, problems that we're dealing with can make us lazy because it also contributes to ourselves that we're trying to solve with but if things don't go accordingly to what we're planning, it makes us lose hope and lazy.
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Its unlikely that laziness is directly inherited from parents, however we can inherit a certain kind of character or tendencies that might contribute to lazy behavior, our genetic behavior can influence our temperament, which might affect our motivation and energy level, also growing up in a comfortable environment can lead to sense of constant feeling of contentment and self-satisfaction and is often accompanied by a lack of concern or urgency, while there might be some genetic component to laziness it's largely shaped by environmental and learned factors.
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Nothing like inherited laziness, people only chose to be lazy by their own, there is no generic inheritance on being lazy, even a giant man son can decide to be lazy while a no man child can develop the boldness, courage and abilities for hardworking performance in what they do, it's more of an individual determination towards the kind of person they want to be and not what their background or family history tells about them, we can choose by ourselves not to be lazy.
Sure, there are certain human attributes that may be considered to be hereditary and I agree that being being lazy isn’t one of those, because it’s completely one’s choice to make. Yes, not everyone possesses the same level of strength to work or perform physical tasks, which means that some people can be more hardworking than others, but being lazy is completely a decision one makes, either knowingly or unknowingly. Yes, some people can choose a path to laziness without even realizing it or in their subconscious mind and a good example of this is being in an environment where laziness is normalized.
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Yes, some people can choose a path to laziness without even realizing it or in their subconscious mind and a good example of this is being in an environment where laziness is normalized.
so basically it is not inherited but laziness can be something you can pass on to your kids if you set up the wrong environment kids are very impressionable at a young age they will usually copy what they see and bring it until they have grown so it is possible that they do not even notice the habit until someone points it out to them because it has been so natural for them and their family
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Yes, some people can choose a path to laziness without even realizing it or in their subconscious mind and a good example of this is being in an environment where laziness is normalized.
so basically it is not inherited but laziness can be something you can pass on to your kids if you set up the wrong environment kids are very impressionable at a young age they will usually copy what they see and bring it until they have grown so it is possible that they do not even notice the habit until someone points it out to them because it has been so natural for them and their family
We do know that kids could really easily adapt into the things that they've seen around specially in our own home on which we know that it will really be starting on here. If your kids seeing on what their parents behavior then they will really be mostly be following it or copying it. This is why we can say that it will really be that better that as a parent then you should really be teaching up your kids on the behavior and proper etiqutte and other the same thing on which it will be that making your kids to be a good well being as they grow up. Our kids will always reflect out on how well we do raise them on which basing up on the behavior and on the actions that they are making. Somehow laziness couldnt be that adapted on which it comes naturally on some people too.
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so basically it is not inherited but laziness can be something you can pass on to your kids if you set up the wrong environment kids are very impressionable at a young age they will usually copy what they see and bring it until they have grown so it is possible that they do not even notice the habit until someone points it out to them because it has been so natural for them and their family
Yeah and then it’ll appear to the outsiders as though laziness runs in the family or it’s actually hereditary. Children especially at their very tender age learns pretty fast, especially when it’s their parents doing it. Because the parents are the children’s Number one role models and whatever the parents are doing will completely appear right to the children so even if parents who weren’t lazy create an environment that promotes laziness for their children, the children will definitely become lazy and at this point, we can’t really say they inherited it from their parents.
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like the title says, do you believe that laziness is inherited? or at least that something we get from our parents? maybe it’s how we saw them growing up? or the principles and beliefs they instilled on us allowed us to grow too comfortable and therefore lazy? is it the result of the kind of environment you grew up on? where do people get their laziness from? and how can one overcome such thing?
Ok, I can believe that my parents could have been lazy but definitely not my grandparents or your great-grandparents (they would not have survived). Entire human genome is full of hard work and adaptability ;D.
IMO cut carbs and take ample protein with enough water. ;D ;D ;D
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I would not say that laziness is inherited; children does not born already lazy. However they copy a lot of their parents behavior or copy life style of surroundings (however surrounding force them to be like others). If children really inherit characters of their parents fully, we would not be having so different people, and most of children future will be predetermined.
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Laziness is not inherited, the behavior of the child depends on the type of discipline that he get from the parents, the habits of a child typically depend on his upbringing and the environment he grow up in. Children does not only observe the habit of their parents, they also observed and copied certain things from people around them. That is why it is very important for parents to consider the kind of environment they live in, whether the people around them will influence the children positively or negatively. It is also important for the parents to monitor their children to know the kind of companies they keep, or the kind of friends they associate with. Some parents are hard working but due to poor parenting they end up raising a lazy child. Some parents will be spoiling their children granting them all their wishes, despite knowing that the child is doing the wrong thing, they will ignore it in the name of love for their children, not knowing that, that is not the best way to train child.
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I would not say that laziness is inherited; children does not born already lazy. However they copy a lot of their parents behavior or copy life style of surroundings (however surrounding force them to be like others). If children really inherit characters of their parents fully, we would not be having so different people, and most of children future will be predetermined.
Indeed. With the inquisitive and ever ready nature of children to learn and adapt with the current situation of their immediate surroundings and environment, it remains the duty of parents to shape their children’s behavior and learning, while it’s also true that parents can’t teach their children everything as they may also go to school to learn certain behaviors too, if we start by teaching them some basic lessons, morals and principles of life, that’ll be enough to guard their learning outside, even when we are not currently their to monitor them.
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I would not say that laziness is inherited; children does not born already lazy. However they copy a lot of their parents behavior or copy life style of surroundings (however surrounding force them to be like others). If children really inherit characters of their parents fully, we would not be having so different people, and most of children future will be predetermined.
Indeed. With the inquisitive and ever ready nature of children to learn and adapt with the current situation of their immediate surroundings and environment, it remains the duty of parents to shape their children’s behavior and learning, while it’s also true that parents can’t teach their children everything as they may also go to school to learn certain behaviors too, if we start by teaching them some basic lessons, morals and principles of life, that’ll be enough to guard their learning outside, even when we are not currently their to monitor them.
You know I used to think the expensive schools were useless and kids can learn same on government schools but I realized later on that the surroundings for the kid are much better in expensive schools than in government ones, just because money lowers the lintel for who can come in and that flushes out lot of bad blood.
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Sometimes laziness itself comes from our environment, how much our parents educate us to be responsible individuals and work is an obligation for someone to be able to meet daily needs, if we continue to follow our laziness there will be no progress, it is indeed very relaxing to be in a comfort zone but as humans, what is the point of living if we are just lazy?
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You know I used to think the expensive schools were useless and kids can learn same on government schools but I realized later on that the surroundings for the kid are much better in expensive schools than in government ones, just because money lowers the lintel for who can come in and that flushes out lot of bad blood.
That’s true. Lots of bad blood would definitely be flushed out but there’ll still be many to go around for those who are willing to receive them. Sometimes, the government schools are not totally filled with bad blood or influence and people would think. When I see the pupils who attend the government schools, rather than negative influences, i see kids of poor parents who for some reasons can’t afford give their kids a much better education. And most of these kids, though may not have the best learning environment, but do have one of the best home training than most of those spoilt kids who are in the private schools.
Yes, the private schools expands the horizons of the kids and opens their young minds to diverse possibilities and ideas about the field of study and also general knowledge and I believe that’s the only advantage that the private schools have over the government schools.
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You know I used to think the expensive schools were useless and kids can learn same on government schools but I realized later on that the surroundings for the kid are much better in expensive schools than in government ones, just because money lowers the lintel for who can come in and that flushes out lot of bad blood.
That’s true. Lots of bad blood would definitely be flushed out but there’ll still be many to go around for those who are willing to receive them. Sometimes, the government schools are not totally filled with bad blood or influence and people would think.
Yes, not all will bad blood, there will be exceptions certainly but since barrier being low you would be seeing more students with poor upbringing, lack of hygiene, lack of morals — it's not their fault, they are result of their environment but now they'll be taking these influences and will be influencing others.
When I see the pupils who attend the government schools, rather than negative influences, i see kids of poor parents who for some reasons can’t afford give their kids a much better education. And most of these kids, though may not have the best learning environment, but do have one of the best home training than most of those spoilt kids who are in the private schools.
Understood. If you can't send your kid to a good private school, government schools are best option available. It's better to be educated with option that you can afford than not at all.
Yes, the private schools expands the horizons of the kids and opens their young minds to diverse possibilities and ideas about the field of study and also general knowledge and I believe that’s the only advantage that the private schools have over the government schools.
I was implying more than that. There is saying, "you are what you surround with" — quality private school will have children that have etiquettes, moral standards, hygiene— and whatever else qualities that one takes for granted when one is from a good background. And when your kid is put amongst these kids, he'll be influenced with these 'good' qualities instead of bad ones as in government schools.
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Yes, not all will bad blood, there will be exceptions certainly but since barrier being low you would be seeing more students with poor upbringing, lack of hygiene, lack of morals — it's not their fault, they are result of their environment but now they'll be taking these influences and will be influencing others.
That’s true and I agree with you on that. I also think that government schools are also different, like, those in most Urban areas may actually meet the criteria you’ve also listed compared to those within the rural areas right?
I was implying more than that. There is saying, "you are what you surround with" — quality private school will have children that have etiquettes, moral standards, hygiene— and whatever else qualities that one takes for granted when one is from a good background. And when your kid is put amongst these kids, he'll be influenced with these 'good' qualities instead of bad ones as in government schools.
Still true!
But the truth is, parents can’t always rely on these schools to impact all the necessary morals and values on their kids, charity they say begins from the home, they’re mostly influenced by what they learn from home, particularly their parents and even if they’ll be influence in school, if there’s no foundation from home, it’ll be even more difficult to fit them to easily learn it.
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I would not say that laziness is inherited; children does not born already lazy. However they copy a lot of their parents behavior or copy life style of surroundings (however surrounding force them to be like others). If children really inherit characters of their parents fully, we would not be having so different people, and most of children future will be predetermined.
Indeed. With the inquisitive and ever ready nature of children to learn and adapt with the current situation of their immediate surroundings and environment, it remains the duty of parents to shape their children’s behavior and learning, while it’s also true that parents can’t teach their children everything as they may also go to school to learn certain behaviors too, if we start by teaching them some basic lessons, morals and principles of life, that’ll be enough to guard their learning outside, even when we are not currently their to monitor them.
You know I used to think the expensive schools were useless and kids can learn same on government schools but I realized later on that the surroundings for the kid are much better in expensive schools than in government ones, just because money lowers the lintel for who can come in and that flushes out lot of bad blood.
Not to have that looking down into those parents who do let their kids go to public schools but there are indeed that significant differences in between into those who do go into private schools thant with those public schools. Yes, the learning is just the same but we do know that there are some or lets say that most of those some private schools does have that a little bit advanced when it comes to lesson plans. Same goes for having that good discipline since they do really that implement out rules on which should really be that followed and due to small numbers that with those on public, then each children could easily monitored out. When it comes to value, you can be able to differentiate in between to those kids who do go into private than with those who are in public.
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When it comes to value, you can be able to differentiate in between to those kids who do go into private than with those who are in public.
This is really concise statement. Students from the good private schools look well mannered, well spoken and confident to otherwise.
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like the title says, do you believe that laziness is inherited? or at least that something we get from our parents? maybe it’s how we saw them growing up? or the principles and beliefs they instilled on us allowed us to grow too comfortable and therefore lazy? is it the result of the kind of environment you grew up on? where do people get their laziness from? and how can one overcome such thing?
I had a friend (lets call him Daniel)who was brought up in a family of 8.6 siblings plus the mother and father. This family wasn’t financially stable at all.By at all, they all shared a self con.both parents werent well to do basically and i could remember the father as a drunk and the mum a house wife.
Daniel’s siblings were all relaxed just like the parents and imagine the kind of imapct that clukd have om him also.But daniel was different, he was academically almost perfect, hardworking and positively enthusiastic. Although he was considered a black sheep within the family ironically , adaniel never relied on the background of his family as a factor that he should be relaxed.
Fast forward to today, daniel controls a multi national banking firm that operates in carious countries. People who wouldn't know his story would say he came from a hardworking well to do family but this is the opposite.
I think laziness is a thing of choice. As well as the environment around you might influence or nurture this attitude, it is still a thing of choice basically, you choose what you want as an individual either it benefits you or not.
So, i think laziness shouldn’t be in place with inheritance.It us a thing of choice basically.The environment which includes family, friends and the rest of them just nurtures it. No one is to blame at all. We are free humans aren’t we?
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like the title says, do you believe that laziness is inherited? or at least that something we get from our parents? maybe it’s how we saw them growing up? or the principles and beliefs they instilled on us allowed us to grow too comfortable and therefore lazy? is it the result of the kind of environment you grew up on? where do people get their laziness from? and how can one overcome such thing?
I had a friend (lets call him Daniel)who was brought up in a family of 8.6 siblings plus the mother and father. This family wasn’t financially stable at all.By at all, they all shared a self con.both parents werent well to do basically and i could remember the father as a drunk and the mum a house wife.
Daniel’s siblings were all relaxed just like the parents and imagine the kind of imapct that clukd have om him also.But daniel was different, he was academically almost perfect, hardworking and positively enthusiastic. Although he was considered a black sheep within the family ironically , adaniel never relied on the background of his family as a factor that he should be relaxed.
Fast forward to today, daniel controls a multi national banking firm that operates in carious countries. People who wouldn't know his story would say he came from a hardworking well to do family but this is the opposite.
I think laziness is a thing of choice. As well as the environment around you might influence or nurture this attitude, it is still a thing of choice basically, you choose what you want as an individual either it benefits you or not.
So, i think laziness shouldn’t be in place with inheritance.It us a thing of choice basically.The environment which includes family, friends and the rest of them just nurtures it. No one is to blame at all. We are free humans aren’t we?
That's a good story. I think some minds just intuitively know which traits to follow and which not to, so they refuse to be conditioned by some behaviours, even though they may be brought up in particular surroundings.
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like the title says, do you believe that laziness is inherited? or at least that something we get from our parents? maybe it’s how we saw them growing up? or the principles and beliefs they instilled on us allowed us to grow too comfortable and therefore lazy? is it the result of the kind of environment you grew up on? where do people get their laziness from? and how can one overcome such thing?
I had a friend (lets call him Daniel)who was brought up in a family of 8.6 siblings plus the mother and father. This family wasn’t financially stable at all.By at all, they all shared a self con.both parents werent well to do basically and i could remember the father as a drunk and the mum a house wife.
Daniel’s siblings were all relaxed just like the parents and imagine the kind of imapct that clukd have om him also.But daniel was different, he was academically almost perfect, hardworking and positively enthusiastic. Although he was considered a black sheep within the family ironically , adaniel never relied on the background of his family as a factor that he should be relaxed.
Fast forward to today, daniel controls a multi national banking firm that operates in carious countries. People who wouldn't know his story would say he came from a hardworking well to do family but this is the opposite.
I think laziness is a thing of choice. As well as the environment around you might influence or nurture this attitude, it is still a thing of choice basically, you choose what you want as an individual either it benefits you or not.
So, i think laziness shouldn’t be in place with inheritance.It us a thing of choice basically.The environment which includes family, friends and the rest of them just nurtures it. No one is to blame at all. We are free humans aren’t we?
That's a good story. I think some minds just intuitively know which traits to follow and which not to, so they refuse to be conditioned by some behaviours, even though they may be brought up in particular surroundings.
Once ability to becoming lazy is not inherited but is a function of how you decides to live your life this is so because you can decide if you want to be lazy or not any one that is lazy is so on purpose because they decide not to work but love comfort over hard work which is the pillar of success and progress in life, there are people who don't like leaving their comfort zone so they can struggle and make earns meat but is always comfortable where they are and over time it becomes a problem to such people
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When it comes to value, you can be able to differentiate in between to those kids who do go into private than with those who are in public.
This is really concise statement. Students from the good private schools look well mannered, well spoken and confident to otherwise.
This is where parents do really want to sent out their kids into those well known schools on which it doesnt matter if its a bit expensive compared to public schools but they do know that it could make their kids bit that much more better when it comes to behavior, mannerism and on the quality of education on which there's that significant difference. Somehow it wont be still that a guarantee that kids success is already been set. We do know that there are those who dont have been able to go to private expensive schools do still manages out to achieve that pinnacle of success due to hardwork. We do know that things could be learnt up along the way and this is why its not that a guarantee if we do ask on this one.
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I was implying more than that. There is saying, "you are what you surround with" — quality private school will have children that have etiquettes, moral standards, hygiene— and whatever else qualities that one takes for granted when one is from a good background. And when your kid is put amongst these kids, he'll be influenced with these 'good' qualities instead of bad ones as in government schools.
this is quite a big generalization there are still bad kids even in private schools you just need to make sure that your kid is not easily influenced because even if you put him in a private school there is still a chance that he will be with those kids that are bad influence and might drag your kid into doing wrong things and just abandoning their studies
though private schools offer more comfort and ease when it comes to studying they might also have better quality education though it still depends on the kind of school