Looks like our experience are difference. Many forums i've used which use "modern" software (e.g. Discourse) or has more modern UI let user delete or edit post with little limitation. Although i guess it's partially because they decide to comply with GDPR or other privacy laws.
That's right, most of forums I communicated on were of previous generations like Invision Power Board, vBulletin, phpbb, etc. But it shows at least that the way of dealing with those options can be different. As a mod I can see many disadvantages in deleting or editing of posts older than several days, because it can lead to different manipulations, but if you'll convince admin, I'll be okay with that as well.
