I agree. Indeed, in the end, the determination is up to you, and it cannot be avoided if you want to invest or trade, Because the process cannot trick the situation and all of that process always happens without the process. Then what exists is the inability to complete it perfectly.
For that, let the process run well without forgetting the funds that are also needed.
I also agree with you when you said that no process is a one way process. But there is a part of that sentence that creates an oxymoron of the fact that all processes occur without a process. Perhaps, you meant that something is stagnant, but it also changes always, no matter how dish order or chaotic it may seem. You are correct regarding the fact that when it comes to investing and trading, the choice always lies in your hands, and this is something that can be delegated. However, I would like to stress that the process in question is not have to be perfect. What you lack is the receptivity to change and the patience not to act when conditions in the market are causing your head to boil. You cannot fake youth, but you do not have to be guilty of failure the moment something does not go as planned. As long focusing on the heart direction and counting the steps, that is enough.