Fetus knows no existence, it makes no difference to it if you discard it and it's not like creating another baby is big deal, you just fuck again when you are ready.
I’ll go no further then with this needless argument, since you feel getting a woman pregnant and asking her to abort it simply because you feel you’re not ready should be normalized, while there are several ways that you could’ve prevented such situation. And have you also thought about the health implications of this practice on the women? Or you think there are no catches?
How is it needless argument? How can you refute which is fact? I don't understand why are you so keen on defending something that knows no existence. Regarding complications, giving birth leads to complications as well and on top of it you'll have another life to take care of.
Would you want 3 people to suffer for unwanted birth or abort it and fuck again when ready?
Why do you want kid to go through misery in first place?
I don’t, it is the man that got a woman pregnant and the woman that allowed herself to get pregnant that actually want the children to go through misery
To avoid the misery for kid and themselves they'll be aborting!?
..because there are in fact several measures that would’ve been employed to avoid such situation from occurring, but didn’t simply they have the same messed up mindset as you do, that they can easily abort the pregnancy if they’re not ready and then fuck again to have another one when they’re ready.
Don't assume it's carelessness that leads to pregnancy, often even if couple took contraceptive measures, they fail. Hence, abortion is available as last resort.
You tell me I have messed up mindset, I would be happy to change it if you give me arguments that make me do so, which you don't.