There is nothing hard about this forum to learn, its just that we may have to wait while earning the learning process we have to put in place, starting anything from the beginning always looks hard but if we give it all that is required, then we are going to enjoy the best from it later on, my advise for everyone coming here newly as a newbie is to be patient, have the desire to learn and follow the rules and grow over the time.
OP seems not to be online for over 2 weeks plus and I am still wondering why OP started a thread and is not even bothered to come check for himself to see how the thread he created for his own inquiry is going on.
Come to talk of it, OP has not officially introduced himself as stated by Agbe. I think that should be the step forward so that members would get acquainted with OP here.
It was because of the Op of this thread, I created the introduction thread to know where is coming from but as you said, the guy just abandoned the thread and leave. From the way he spoke on the Op, I was suspecting that the guy is not a Nigerian but a passersby. And all these, we are also part of the caused because we no dey used Pidgin like dat and we use pure English in most time. There are some local boards you go enter and nobody go tell you, you go just left without comment even if they mentioned your name. Because you would not understand anything.
We can definitely all take something out of situations like this as well. Although it is not realized, with new people, distances are created, due to language barriers or communication mostly. It is still possible to expand our contacts and increase discourse inclusiveness so that everyone who comes to the forum will feel comfortable and can actively contribute. Therefore, if we keep the language and our forums simple, and do not close the doors to anyone, people of all sides feel free to speak up their mind or story. If we all strive to embrace each other’s presence, the feeling of ‘togetherness’ will be much more meaningful .