Your current condition is just a phase

[Etranger]

No matter the situation that you find yourself there are people that are still living in a more worst situation because your own may be war but others are living in a country that their economy is just struggling with no hope of a better economy life expectancy is very low no good health sector and no electricity and not forgetting high inflation rate, but people are still finding a way to survive so you have to know that what you're going through is not a final bush stop but things will be ok war is something that is bad and there are people who has died in the process so the fact that you are alive shows that you are going to survive through the war

I'm not saying that my situation is the worst. I don't think so, especially considering that I see a huge number of people who have it much worse. What I wrote above was that the phrase "everything will be fine" is not enough. It sounds like a cliché, like a formality that needs to be said because it will be polite.

But in reality, in most cases, people don't put anything into these words. If they really got involved, if they delved into it, they would at least try to explain how exactly the situation can get better. And for that, you need to understand why it is terrible for someone now. In that case, it would be perceived as not indifference

[libert19]

it is deeply unfortunate that people decide to give up of course we can’t judge them because we are not in their shoes and we don’t know how heavy their baggage is but for those we can still save we can still tell them that things will get better soon no matter how impossible it may be i hope that people continue to hang on and try to survive life because life can get so beautiful sometimes

This all sounds great, and I used to think so myself. But now I personally live in extremely difficult conditions, my country has been at war for 3 years, the economy is destroyed and everything is only getting worse. And honestly, I am sick of the phrase "everything will get better", especially from people who have never even come close to being in a situation where all sorts of exploding garbage flies at your country, your city, your home and your child every night, which makes you practically sleepless. And all this is also superimposed on the fact that you are a young mother who, even in wonderful living conditions, suffers from lack of sleep. And the main thing is that objectively the situation is not getting any better. And there are no prerequisites to assume that it will get better.

This sounds bad but there is freedom accepting situations as they are, trying to divert away from fact often creates more conflict than accepting it, and it does look like you are accepting of the situation and not trying to be optimist here.

[Millionaire]

Thank you, your words really made me calm down a little. To be honest, right now I'm in a difficult situation and I'm forced to face all of this with grace. I've tried whatever I can, but I haven't found a way out, but I'm sure that slowly my problems will disappear. It's all just a matter of time and I always pray to God to make my path easier. I hope I can also find a way out soon, like you;)

[Dr.Bitcoin_Strange]

I really needed to read this right now, i am also going through a tough time personally in my own life, so you can understand why reading something like this will lift my spirits. I won't give up and i also encourage everyone out there who is going through a rough time not to give up, there is light at the end of the tunnel, hang in there.

You are correct, giving up is just like when is tired of living, which might result to committing of suicide or making one to involve in an illegal activities because he or she is tired to keeping pushing or trying forgetting what the holy bible says’ There is time for everything here on earth, a time to cry and laugh, a time plant and pluck etc’. So in this case whatever we situation we find ourselves is just to thank God and ask him to help us because nothing is permanent in this life, whatever thing that has a beginning has a end to it, all we have to do is just to keep pushing, keep going, keep saying that we won’t give up and one faithful day, all our struggles, tears, pains, worries will all be gone and then it will be a history.

[bisdak40]

No matter the situation that you find yourself there are people that are still living in a more worst situation because your own may be war but others are living in a country that their economy is just struggling with no hope of a better economy life expectancy is very low no good health sector and no electricity and not forgetting high inflation rate, but people are still finding a way to survive so you have to know that what you're going through is not a final bush stop but things will be ok war is something that is bad and there are people who has died in the process so the fact that you are alive shows that you are going to survive through the war

I'm not saying that my situation is the worst. I don't think so, especially considering that I see a huge number of people who have it much worse. What I wrote above was that the phrase "everything will be fine" is not enough. It sounds like a cliché, like a formality that needs to be said because it will be polite.

But in reality, in most cases, people don't put anything into these words. If they really got involved, if they delved into it, they would at least try to explain how exactly the situation can get better. And for that, you need to understand why it is terrible for someone now. In that case, it would be perceived as not indifference

Yeah, I get what you're saying. Just telling someone "everything will be fine" without actually understanding their struggles can feel empty. People say it out of habit but it doesn’t really help. What makes a difference is when someone listens, tries to understand what you're going through, and gives real advice or support. It’s not about just saying nice words it’s about showing that you actually care.

[milewilda]

I really needed to read this right now, i am also going through a tough time personally in my own life, so you can understand why reading something like this will lift my spirits. I won't give up and i also encourage everyone out there who is going through a rough time not to give up, there is light at the end of the tunnel, hang in there.

You are correct, giving up is just like when is tired of living, which might result to committing of suicide or making one to involve in an illegal activities because he or she is tired to keeping pushing or trying forgetting what the holy bible says’ There is time for everything here on earth, a time to cry and laugh, a time plant and pluck etc’. So in this case whatever we situation we find ourselves is just to thank God and ask him to help us because nothing is permanent in this life, whatever thing that has a beginning has a end to it, all we have to do is just to keep pushing, keep going, keep saying that we won’t give up and one faithful day, all our struggles, tears, pains, worries will all be gone and then it will be a history.

Sometimes i do really hate up my wife when it comes into this aspect on which she's really that too easily giving up into challenges in life specially if we do able to encounter up some problems then she do just that easily gives up and having those kind of murmurs and even having that kind of telling about taking up a suicide on which it do really sucks. I do always have that kind of explaining moment that these problems does come up with a solution and its impossible that it wont really be having any solutions into it. So whenever you do able to have that kind of challenges in life then it will really be that best that you should be facing it out and trying out to find ways on sustaining to live this life. Yes, problems are just temporary and cant be permanent and once you do able to solve then you will be having that much better as a person on handling problems.

[Etranger]

Yeah, I get what you're saying. Just telling someone "everything will be fine" without actually understanding their struggles can feel empty. People say it out of habit but it doesn’t really help. What makes a difference is when someone listens, tries to understand what you're going through, and gives real advice or support. It’s not about just saying nice words it’s about showing that you actually care.

Yes, and this care is actually very rare. Not only because people are fixated on their own problems, but because most of them do not even try to delve into what others tell them. They are satisfied with superficial relationships that do not know depth. And so they believe that it is enough to say a few nice words for others to think about them, how polite and caring they are. But there are situations in which such empty words are perceived worse than even just silence.

[bitterguy28]

But in reality, in most cases, people don't put anything into these words. If they really got involved, if they delved into it, they would at least try to explain how exactly the situation can get better. And for that, you need to understand why it is terrible for someone now. In that case, it would be perceived as not indifference

Yeah, I get what you're saying. Just telling someone "everything will be fine" without actually understanding their struggles can feel empty. People say it out of habit but it doesn’t really help. What makes a difference is when someone listens, tries to understand what you're going through, and gives real advice or support. It’s not about just saying nice words it’s about showing that you actually care.

most of the time when we share our problems we are not hoping for them to solve our problems because we know that they are not in a position to do anything to help us either but the best they could do is to just listen because knowing that you are not alone and that you have support sometimes is enough for you to keep going even if your problem does not exactly go away

[Agbe]

But in reality, in most cases, people don't put anything into these words. If they really got involved, if they delved into it, they would at least try to explain how exactly the situation can get better. And for that, you need to understand why it is terrible for someone now. In that case, it would be perceived as not indifference

Yeah, I get what you're saying. Just telling someone "everything will be fine" without actually understanding their struggles can feel empty. People say it out of habit but it doesn’t really help. What makes a difference is when someone listens, tries to understand what you're going through, and gives real advice or support. It’s not about just saying nice words it’s about showing that you actually care.

most of the time when we share our problems we are not hoping for them to solve our problems because we know that they are not in a position to do anything to help us either but the best they could do is to just listen because knowing that you are not alone and that you have support sometimes is enough for you to keep going even if your problem does not exactly go away

One good thing that comes with sharing your problems is that it also helps others who are in similar problems to know that what is happening to them is not strange but others also are going through something similar what we should know is that problems makes us stronger because what defines you as a man defined by your ability to overcome and handle your current situation so no matter what you are through we should not give up but forge ahead because problems are temporary

[Dr.Bitcoin_Strange]

I really needed to read this right now, i am also going through a tough time personally in my own life, so you can understand why reading something like this will lift my spirits. I won't give up and i also encourage everyone out there who is going through a rough time not to give up, there is light at the end of the tunnel, hang in there.

You are correct, giving up is just like when is tired of living, which might result to committing of suicide or making one to involve in an illegal activities because he or she is tired to keeping pushing or trying forgetting what the holy bible says’ There is time for everything here on earth, a time to cry and laugh, a time plant and pluck etc’. So in this case whatever we situation we find ourselves is just to thank God and ask him to help us because nothing is permanent in this life, whatever thing that has a beginning has a end to it, all we have to do is just to keep pushing, keep going, keep saying that we won’t give up and one faithful day, all our struggles, tears, pains, worries will all be gone and then it will be a history.

Sometimes i do really hate up my wife when it comes into this aspect on which she's really that too easily giving up into challenges in life specially if we do able to encounter up some problems then she do just that easily gives up and having those kind of murmurs and even having that kind of telling about taking up a suicide on which it do really sucks. I do always have that kind of explaining moment that these problems does come up with a solution and its impossible that it wont really be having any solutions into it. So whenever you do able to have that kind of challenges in life then it will really be that best that you should be facing it out and trying out to find ways on sustaining to live this life. Yes, problems are just temporary and cant be permanent and once you do able to solve then you will be having that much better as a person on handling problems.

Same experience too, most people forget the fact that thinking or getting worried over it won’t help and won’t bring out the solution, that is why whenever we are in problem and we feel we can’t think of anything at the moment, all we have to do is pray for God intervention because he is the ultimate fighter to all our problems and also having that mindset that problems doesn’t last forever can also be of help, problems are part of life, that is what makes us human, there is no one on earth that don’t experience problems in their lives which they do overcome but that doesn’t mean we have to encounter problems that will take us to our early grave by ourselves because of the saying that says that there is no problem that don’t have solutions.
Please let’s also be conscious or mindful in what we say or do.

[libert19]

^ there is quote, "If you have solution to problem, why worry? And if you don't, why worry?" — now, sure it can be hard times, but it's logical and proves why worry is vain affair.

[MUGNIA]

Thank you, your words really made me calm down a little. To be honest, right now I'm in a difficult situation and I'm forced to face all of this with grace. I've tried whatever I can, but I haven't found a way out, but I'm sure that slowly my problems will disappear. It's all just a matter of time and I always pray to God to make my path easier. I hope I can also find a way out soon, like you;)

It's true that every problem will definitely have a solution, it doesn't take a process instantly, patience is the main key.  solving problems, sometimes think why life always has problems???

[Etranger]

most of the time when we share our problems we are not hoping for them to solve our problems because we know that they are not in a position to do anything to help us either but the best they could do is to just listen because knowing that you are not alone and that you have support sometimes is enough for you to keep going even if your problem does not exactly go away

I am not saying that someone should solve my problems for me. That is not the point. But the feeling that you are not alone when you tell someone about your problems can only arise if you feel sympathy from the interlocutor. Only then can understanding arise, which is the basis of the feeling of not being alone and of сonnection with someone.

[libert19]

.. solving problems, sometimes think why life always has problems???

Because life itself is a problem. It comes with task of maintaining itself the very moment you are born, you don't give food/water to sustain life, you feel miserable. So life being itself is problem, problems are inescapable part of it.

[Roseline492]

Well said, personally I will say that in every tunnel there is light at it's end, so as humans we should not give up at the slightest setback, rather we should keep moving forward because better days are ahead, days where we will recover all that we seem to have lost. Never loose hope, or sight of a better tomorrow. God bless everyone.

I don't mean to sound negative but let the fact be told, not all tunnels has lights at the end because there are people who are moving from one edge to another but still could not find there way out of the tunnel, which is why there are people whom they say they're unsuccessful, because they were not determined as others who located the bright side of the tunnel.

So in life someone must have the belief to make it no matter the situation because life can posses a lot of threats in terms of succeeding but determination will the amour to shield them, so like you said tomorrow is very important because a failure today can become a winner tomorrow.