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Tonight, I was sitting alone and reminiscing about the days when all hope seemed lost, and there were no options in sight. If not for God's intervention, I often wonder where people like me would have ended up.
I feel compelled to share my story. I recall losing a writing gig in November, right when I was taking my final college exams to graduate. I desperately needed the money, but the person I was working with abruptly terminated our collaboration, citing a flimsy reason.
Fast-forward to today, and I'm grateful to say that new opportunities are emerging, and God has been guiding me. Interestingly, the same person who let me go even reached out, and we're still working together.
My experiences have taught me that there's always hope, no matter how bleak things may seem. This isn't the end of my story; greater things are still on the horizon for me.
To anyone reading this, I want to encourage you: don't give up. The challenges you're facing right now are just a phase, and you will get through them. Take care, and good night!
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There's a lesson to learn from every position you find yourself in, which is why you have to complain less and focus on learning the lesson so you can make progress with assurance in your heart that you are never returning to that phase. People who never learn the lesson or those who focus on progressing never make much progress because they are too focuse on the problem, instead of the solution.
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I really needed to read this right now, i am also going through a tough time personally in my own life, so you can understand why reading something like this will lift my spirits. I won't give up and i also encourage everyone out there who is going through a rough time not to give up, there is light at the end of the tunnel, hang in there.
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Every moment is just a phase and nothing remains permanent, so let the time to heal things while you working on the things that you wanted to accomplish. Once in a while take a moment to cherish the life you are having even though it's not what you expected because there's always someone is having worse day than us which is enough to be thankful for what we have.
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I really needed to read this right now, i am also going through a tough time personally in my own life, so you can understand why reading something like this will lift my spirits. I won't give up and i also encourage everyone out there who is going through a rough time not to give up, there is light at the end of the tunnel, hang in there.
I am really happy to see this comment, my friend you gats this! Don't give up and put your faith in God because he is a covenant keeping God.
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If you start to think about or try to count the things that God has done for you, you’d definitely lose count, and the best part of all this is that, He doesn’t even request for anything in return, which proves the depth of his love for us. There’s really nothing we could do to repay Gis goodness, except to just be thankful for His good deeds, so He actually sees we’re grateful and will enable Him to do even more.
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Tonight, I was sitting alone and reminiscing about the days when all hope seemed lost, and there were no options in sight. If not for God's intervention, I often wonder where people like me would have ended up.
I feel compelled to share my story. I recall losing a writing gig in November, right when I was taking my final college exams to graduate. I desperately needed the money, but the person I was working with abruptly terminated our collaboration, citing a flimsy reason.
Fast-forward to today, and I'm grateful to say that new opportunities are emerging, and God has been guiding me. Interestingly, the same person who let me go even reached out, and we're still working together.
My experiences have taught me that there's always hope, no matter how bleak things may seem. This isn't the end of my story; greater things are still on the horizon for me.
To anyone reading this, I want to encourage you: don't give up. The challenges you're facing right now are just a phase, and you will get through them. Take care, and good night!
Life gets tough sometimes, but it’s cool how things turned around for you. Wild how that same person came back to work with you it just shows good things always come back when you hang in there and keep going.
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I don't like dreaming because i really like to work hard to turn it into. There are so many stories and experiences in every human life so everything is different and everyone's success is a different way. Everything that comes in our life is the gift given from God so we should continue to try as long as you are successfully involved. However, it is good to have everyone's life because it strengthens your mind consciousness. The more you can get involved with the challenges in life then the more experience will comed.
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No doubt about life being a phase. Whatever life situation or position you face, it's just for a while; with time, it will be all over, to be forgotten stories. There is no need to kill oneself or feel bad about any situation because they are there to test, build, and make you stronger for life's challenges, whether ugly or beautiful, are permanent.
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Tonight, I was sitting alone and reminiscing about the days when all hope seemed lost, and there were no options in sight. If not for God's intervention, I often wonder where people like me would have ended up.
I feel compelled to share my story. I recall losing a writing gig in November, right when I was taking my final college exams to graduate. I desperately needed the money, but the person I was working with abruptly terminated our collaboration, citing a flimsy reason.
Fast-forward to today, and I'm grateful to say that new opportunities are emerging, and God has been guiding me. Interestingly, the same person who let me go even reached out, and we're still working together.
My experiences have taught me that there's always hope, no matter how bleak things may seem. This isn't the end of my story; greater things are still on the horizon for me.
To anyone reading this, I want to encourage you: don't give up. The challenges you're facing right now are just a phase, and you will get through them. Take care, and good night!
Life cant be perfect even if you do have tons of money but still there are problems on which cant be solved out with money but most of the time on which this world does have that the same problem on which it is really that talking about financial aspect. Life cant really be just that a smooth sail ride on which there are really those times or moments that you would be facing up tough challenges in life on which you do seem that there's no solution to it but there's still those things on which it is really that solution of your problems. It is really just that there are people who do easily gives up and thats why they do came up with bad decisions on which its not really that recommended at all.
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At times life can indeed be complicated, But am so happy how things have turned out so well for you. Life is full of lessons, and if you are wise enough you can learn something beneficial and valuable insights from your experiences. No matter the challenges and difficulties you're facing in life, never lose hope, and never give up because there is something greater ahead of it, God doesn't take anything away from someone, unless he is going to replace it with something more valuable, beneficial, and blessed than that.
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In what ever situation that you find yourself just know that you are actually in a transitional phase of life so don't give up and forge ahead knowing that tomorrow has a better stock for us infact one thing that I have personally leant in life is that in what ever situation that you find yourself there is something to learn from it and every situation has something to teach you for the sake of tomorrow so no matter what you're passing through today always know that it's only a matter of time because life is in phases
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Opportunities are endless; you just have to keep working on your skill and talent. Procrastination is the enemy of progress, as long as you keep developing. Small failures can't hinder you from achieving your goal, so yes, everything is just a phase. As long as you keep holding on to your hope, you will be in a better phase leading to your success.
We've all gone through the hard phase in order to prepare us for the tough battle ahead.
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Everyone must go through their own phases, where this phase is often said to be a life process, rich people do not just get rich straight away, they start from the bottom phase first, and move up through a gradual process, so keep trying no matter what the results are because we don't know what's in front of us next
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Everyone must go through their own phases, where this phase is often said to be a life process, rich people do not just get rich straight away, they start from the bottom phase first, and move up through a gradual process, so keep trying no matter what the results are because we don't know what's in front of us next
Every stage of life that you are facing actually is preparing you for something tomorrow because life itself is in process and stages so your current stage of life is a transitional process that you are passing through so don't see your self as not meeting up to others but always see any condition you are going through as a lesson that will lunch you fo a better tomorrow because situations and challenges are what brings out greatness in life
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To anyone reading this, I want to encourage you: don't give up. The challenges you're facing right now are just a phase, and you will get through them. Take care, and good night!
it’s good to say this because you never know who might need to read this
many of us are going through a lot of different things some people may hide it better than others while some are outright not doing well but this doesn’t mean that those who appear okay are actually okay and maybe sometimes they just need some encouragement and reminder like this that time will pass so whatever it is you are going through shall also pass
nothing is permanent neither is your pain and hardship
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To anyone reading this, I want to encourage you: don't give up. The challenges you're facing right now are just a phase, and you will get through them. Take care, and good night!
it’s good to say this because you never know who might need to read this
many of us are going through a lot of different things some people may hide it better than others while some are outright not doing well but this doesn’t mean that those who appear okay are actually okay and maybe sometimes they just need some encouragement and reminder like this that time will pass so whatever it is you are going through shall also pass
nothing is permanent neither is your pain and hardship
We do know that there's no individual whose really that having that exemption when it comes to this on which there's that problem or lets say that it is really that a part of in our life on which we do face challenges but we do know that in each problem here comes a solution, it is really just that we do have different kinds of problems in life but mostly this would really be talking about finances. Talking generally then we do really know that this life isnt perfect that each problem will be having its solution, there are really just that people who cant be able to bare up such problems on which they will really be that totally surrendering and wont be coming back on what they have started. There are really those people who do easily gives up and dont look back but there are those who are really that good on handling out risks.
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To anyone reading this, I want to encourage you: don't give up. The challenges you're facing right now are just a phase, and you will get through them. Take care, and good night!
it’s good to say this because you never know who might need to read this
many of us are going through a lot of different things some people may hide it better than others while some are outright not doing well but this doesn’t mean that those who appear okay are actually okay and maybe sometimes they just need some encouragement and reminder like this that time will pass so whatever it is you are going through shall also pass
nothing is permanent neither is your pain and hardship
That's very true because there are people who are actually exparts when it comes to pretending so bringing up topics like this will help in encouraging others who may be facing similar situations like this, and let them know that in life there are different phases that we go through and every phase has it own peculiar challenges that accompanies it.
So they don't have to give up when it comes to what ever situation that I may be going through in life because every challenge that you come over makes you stronger in life
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Every stage of life that you are facing actually is preparing you for something tomorrow because life itself is in process and stages so your current stage of life is a transitional process that you are passing through so don't see your self as not meeting up to others but always see any condition you are going through as a lesson that will lunch you fo a better tomorrow because situations and challenges are what brings out greatness in life
I think that understanding that life is preparing you for something can only be understood in retrospect. You never know what these or those tests are for. But you can draw conclusions about how you apply your past experiences to today's situations. Of course, we always want to hope for the best. Unfortunately, sometimes we have to accept the fact that many efforts in life remain fruitless.
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Tonight, I was sitting alone and reminiscing about the days when all hope seemed lost, and there were no options in sight. If not for God's intervention, I often wonder where people like me would have ended up.
I feel compelled to share my story. I recall losing a writing gig in November, right when I was taking my final college exams to graduate. I desperately needed the money, but the person I was working with abruptly terminated our collaboration, citing a flimsy reason.
Fast-forward to today, and I'm grateful to say that new opportunities are emerging, and God has been guiding me. Interestingly, the same person who let me go even reached out, and we're still working together.
My experiences have taught me that there's always hope, no matter how bleak things may seem. This isn't the end of my story; greater things are still on the horizon for me.
To anyone reading this, I want to encourage you: don't give up. The challenges you're facing right now are just a phase, and you will get through them. Take care, and good night!
Well said, personally I will say that in every tunnel there is light at it's end, so as humans we should not give up at the slightest setback, rather we should keep moving forward because better days are ahead, days where we will recover all that we seem to have lost. Never loose hope, or sight of a better tomorrow. God bless everyone.
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Life gets tough sometimes, but it’s cool how things turned around for you. Wild how that same person came back to work with you it just shows good things always come back when you hang in there and keep going.
Yeah when you hang in there, because not everyone has the strength to hang in there or keep pushing further whenever life takes a turn that’s contrary to their expectations and they’re unable to change it, some people just get too tired and fed up with the immediate reality of life and probably stopped trying. Without actually knowing that consistency and determination is the key to success, regardless how the temporary state of thing might.
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...Without actually knowing that consistency and determination is the key to success, regardless how the temporary state of thing might.
Even if people know that consistency and determination are key to success, this is hard to implement so some may despite knowing what works, are unable to implement in life due to laziness or other reasons.
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Even if people know that consistency and determination are key to success, this is hard to implement so some may despite knowing what works, are unable to implement in life due to laziness or other reasons.
Yeah and some people stopped trying simply because they’re either looking for a quick result and when the outcome fails to work out the way they imagined it, it becomes a problem for them and they feel they’re putting in the work and effort in the wrong place. Lack of patience and also adequate knowledge of what you’re doing or involved with.
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Yeah when you hang in there, because not everyone has the strength to hang in there or keep pushing further whenever life takes a turn that’s contrary to their expectations and they’re unable to change it, some people just get too tired and fed up with the immediate reality of life and probably stopped trying.
it is deeply unfortunate that people decide to give up of course we can’t judge them because we are not in their shoes and we don’t know how heavy their baggage is but for those we can still save we can still tell them that things will get better soon no matter how impossible it may be i hope that people continue to hang on and try to survive life because life can get so beautiful sometimes
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it is deeply unfortunate that people decide to give up of course we can’t judge them because we are not in their shoes and we don’t know how heavy their baggage is but for those we can still save we can still tell them that things will get better soon no matter how impossible it may be i hope that people continue to hang on and try to survive life because life can get so beautiful sometimes
You know what they say about life not (always) being a bed of roses. Yeah, life can be a thorn in the flesh, it can be difficult sometimes and a lot more easier other times. But the bitter truth is that, you’re the one who can actually motivate yourself, because everyone is going through one thing or the other in their own lives too, so if you’re looking or waiting for who to always motivate you before you feel motivated to keep pushing, you might end up missing it.
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it is deeply unfortunate that people decide to give up of course we can’t judge them because we are not in their shoes and we don’t know how heavy their baggage is but for those we can still save we can still tell them that things will get better soon no matter how impossible it may be i hope that people continue to hang on and try to survive life because life can get so beautiful sometimes
You know what they say about life not (always) being a bed of roses. Yeah, life can be a thorn in the flesh, it can be difficult sometimes and a lot more easier other times. But the bitter truth is that, you’re the one who can actually motivate yourself, because everyone is going through one thing or the other in their own lives too, so if you’re looking or waiting for who to always motivate you before you feel motivated to keep pushing, you might end up missing it.
This is what you should really be putting up into your mind is on which you should really be that accepting that this life isnt really just that talking about good things but rather it will really vice versa on which if theres good thing then theres a bad thing on which you should really be that making yourself that be prepared on what are the things that you would really be needing up to deal on with. Make yourself that being versatile so that you would be able to to with the flow,
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This is what you should really be putting up into your mind is on which you should really be that accepting that this life isnt really just that talking about good things but rather it will really vice versa on which if theres good thing then theres a bad thing on which you should really be that making yourself that be prepared on what are the things that you would really be needing up to deal on with. Make yourself that being versatile so that you would be able to to with the flow,
Sure, life has its ups as well as its downs, so it is only fair to also prepare for these possible outcomes. Yes, no one likes to encounter bad days, but that doesn’t change the fact that they are inevitable. I totally agree with you that it’s only fair to prepare for these rainy days. It’s just like having an insurance on your car or house, it not like you’re praying or wishing for something to happen to it, but that’s just a way of preparing, should it be that it eventually occurs.
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This is what you should really be putting up into your mind is on which you should really be that accepting that this life isnt really just that talking about good things but rather it will really vice versa on which if theres good thing then theres a bad thing on which you should really be that making yourself that be prepared on what are the things that you would really be needing up to deal on with. Make yourself that being versatile so that you would be able to to with the flow,
Sure, life has its ups as well as its downs, so it is only fair to also prepare for these possible outcomes. Yes, no one likes to encounter bad days, but that doesn’t change the fact that they are inevitable. I totally agree with you that it’s only fair to prepare for these rainy days. It’s just like having an insurance on your car or house, it not like you’re praying or wishing for something to happen to it, but that’s just a way of preparing, should it be that it eventually occurs.
There are really just that some people who are really confident that accidents and bad things wont happen into their lives and this is why they would really be that deciding that they wont really be getting or setting out some back up plans just because they've been that having that fixating their minds that it should be just that fine. When this things happen then this is where they will be starting on getting some insurances or getting some back up plans just because they have experienced the worst just because they havent been that being prepared. Our current condition is really just indeed a phase or something which isnt really that permanent and you would really be able to see the rainbow after the rain. There are really just that those individuals who do easily gives up at the time or moment that they do experience hardships.
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it is deeply unfortunate that people decide to give up of course we can’t judge them because we are not in their shoes and we don’t know how heavy their baggage is but for those we can still save we can still tell them that things will get better soon no matter how impossible it may be i hope that people continue to hang on and try to survive life because life can get so beautiful sometimes
This all sounds great, and I used to think so myself. But now I personally live in extremely difficult conditions, my country has been at war for 3 years, the economy is destroyed and everything is only getting worse. And honestly, I am sick of the phrase "everything will get better", especially from people who have never even come close to being in a situation where all sorts of exploding garbage flies at your country, your city, your home and your child every night, which makes you practically sleepless. And all this is also superimposed on the fact that you are a young mother who, even in wonderful living conditions, suffers from lack of sleep. And the main thing is that objectively the situation is not getting any better. And there are no prerequisites to assume that it will get better.
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it is deeply unfortunate that people decide to give up of course we can’t judge them because we are not in their shoes and we don’t know how heavy their baggage is but for those we can still save we can still tell them that things will get better soon no matter how impossible it may be i hope that people continue to hang on and try to survive life because life can get so beautiful sometimes
This all sounds great, and I used to think so myself. But now I personally live in extremely difficult conditions, my country has been at war for 3 years, the economy is destroyed and everything is only getting worse. And honestly, I am sick of the phrase "everything will get better", especially from people who have never even come close to being in a situation where all sorts of exploding garbage flies at your country, your city, your home and your child every night, which makes you practically sleepless. And all this is also superimposed on the fact that you are a young mother who, even in wonderful living conditions, suffers from lack of sleep. And the main thing is that objectively the situation is not getting any better. And there are no prerequisites to assume that it will get better.
No matter the situation that you find yourself there are people that are still living in a more worst situation because your own may be war but others are living in a country that their economy is just struggling with no hope of a better economy life expectancy is very low no good health sector and no electricity and not forgetting high inflation rate, but people are still finding a way to survive so you have to know that what you're going through is not a final bush stop but things will be ok war is something that is bad and there are people who has died in the process so the fact that you are alive shows that you are going to survive through the war
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No matter the situation that you find yourself there are people that are still living in a more worst situation because your own may be war but others are living in a country that their economy is just struggling with no hope of a better economy life expectancy is very low no good health sector and no electricity and not forgetting high inflation rate, but people are still finding a way to survive so you have to know that what you're going through is not a final bush stop but things will be ok war is something that is bad and there are people who has died in the process so the fact that you are alive shows that you are going to survive through the war
I'm not saying that my situation is the worst. I don't think so, especially considering that I see a huge number of people who have it much worse. What I wrote above was that the phrase "everything will be fine" is not enough. It sounds like a cliché, like a formality that needs to be said because it will be polite.
But in reality, in most cases, people don't put anything into these words. If they really got involved, if they delved into it, they would at least try to explain how exactly the situation can get better. And for that, you need to understand why it is terrible for someone now. In that case, it would be perceived as not indifference
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it is deeply unfortunate that people decide to give up of course we can’t judge them because we are not in their shoes and we don’t know how heavy their baggage is but for those we can still save we can still tell them that things will get better soon no matter how impossible it may be i hope that people continue to hang on and try to survive life because life can get so beautiful sometimes
This all sounds great, and I used to think so myself. But now I personally live in extremely difficult conditions, my country has been at war for 3 years, the economy is destroyed and everything is only getting worse. And honestly, I am sick of the phrase "everything will get better", especially from people who have never even come close to being in a situation where all sorts of exploding garbage flies at your country, your city, your home and your child every night, which makes you practically sleepless. And all this is also superimposed on the fact that you are a young mother who, even in wonderful living conditions, suffers from lack of sleep. And the main thing is that objectively the situation is not getting any better. And there are no prerequisites to assume that it will get better.
This sounds bad but there is freedom accepting situations as they are, trying to divert away from fact often creates more conflict than accepting it, and it does look like you are accepting of the situation and not trying to be optimist here.
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Thank you, your words really made me calm down a little. To be honest, right now I'm in a difficult situation and I'm forced to face all of this with grace. I've tried whatever I can, but I haven't found a way out, but I'm sure that slowly my problems will disappear. It's all just a matter of time and I always pray to God to make my path easier. I hope I can also find a way out soon, like you;)
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I really needed to read this right now, i am also going through a tough time personally in my own life, so you can understand why reading something like this will lift my spirits. I won't give up and i also encourage everyone out there who is going through a rough time not to give up, there is light at the end of the tunnel, hang in there.
You are correct, giving up is just like when is tired of living, which might result to committing of suicide or making one to involve in an illegal activities because he or she is tired to keeping pushing or trying forgetting what the holy bible says’ There is time for everything here on earth, a time to cry and laugh, a time plant and pluck etc’. So in this case whatever we situation we find ourselves is just to thank God and ask him to help us because nothing is permanent in this life, whatever thing that has a beginning has a end to it, all we have to do is just to keep pushing, keep going, keep saying that we won’t give up and one faithful day, all our struggles, tears, pains, worries will all be gone and then it will be a history.
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No matter the situation that you find yourself there are people that are still living in a more worst situation because your own may be war but others are living in a country that their economy is just struggling with no hope of a better economy life expectancy is very low no good health sector and no electricity and not forgetting high inflation rate, but people are still finding a way to survive so you have to know that what you're going through is not a final bush stop but things will be ok war is something that is bad and there are people who has died in the process so the fact that you are alive shows that you are going to survive through the war
I'm not saying that my situation is the worst. I don't think so, especially considering that I see a huge number of people who have it much worse. What I wrote above was that the phrase "everything will be fine" is not enough. It sounds like a cliché, like a formality that needs to be said because it will be polite.
But in reality, in most cases, people don't put anything into these words. If they really got involved, if they delved into it, they would at least try to explain how exactly the situation can get better. And for that, you need to understand why it is terrible for someone now. In that case, it would be perceived as not indifference
Yeah, I get what you're saying. Just telling someone "everything will be fine" without actually understanding their struggles can feel empty. People say it out of habit but it doesn’t really help. What makes a difference is when someone listens, tries to understand what you're going through, and gives real advice or support. It’s not about just saying nice words it’s about showing that you actually care.
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I really needed to read this right now, i am also going through a tough time personally in my own life, so you can understand why reading something like this will lift my spirits. I won't give up and i also encourage everyone out there who is going through a rough time not to give up, there is light at the end of the tunnel, hang in there.
You are correct, giving up is just like when is tired of living, which might result to committing of suicide or making one to involve in an illegal activities because he or she is tired to keeping pushing or trying forgetting what the holy bible says’ There is time for everything here on earth, a time to cry and laugh, a time plant and pluck etc’. So in this case whatever we situation we find ourselves is just to thank God and ask him to help us because nothing is permanent in this life, whatever thing that has a beginning has a end to it, all we have to do is just to keep pushing, keep going, keep saying that we won’t give up and one faithful day, all our struggles, tears, pains, worries will all be gone and then it will be a history.
Sometimes i do really hate up my wife when it comes into this aspect on which she's really that too easily giving up into challenges in life specially if we do able to encounter up some problems then she do just that easily gives up and having those kind of murmurs and even having that kind of telling about taking up a suicide on which it do really sucks. I do always have that kind of explaining moment that these problems does come up with a solution and its impossible that it wont really be having any solutions into it. So whenever you do able to have that kind of challenges in life then it will really be that best that you should be facing it out and trying out to find ways on sustaining to live this life. Yes, problems are just temporary and cant be permanent and once you do able to solve then you will be having that much better as a person on handling problems.
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Yeah, I get what you're saying. Just telling someone "everything will be fine" without actually understanding their struggles can feel empty. People say it out of habit but it doesn’t really help. What makes a difference is when someone listens, tries to understand what you're going through, and gives real advice or support. It’s not about just saying nice words it’s about showing that you actually care.
Yes, and this care is actually very rare. Not only because people are fixated on their own problems, but because most of them do not even try to delve into what others tell them. They are satisfied with superficial relationships that do not know depth. And so they believe that it is enough to say a few nice words for others to think about them, how polite and caring they are. But there are situations in which such empty words are perceived worse than even just silence.
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But in reality, in most cases, people don't put anything into these words. If they really got involved, if they delved into it, they would at least try to explain how exactly the situation can get better. And for that, you need to understand why it is terrible for someone now. In that case, it would be perceived as not indifference
Yeah, I get what you're saying. Just telling someone "everything will be fine" without actually understanding their struggles can feel empty. People say it out of habit but it doesn’t really help. What makes a difference is when someone listens, tries to understand what you're going through, and gives real advice or support. It’s not about just saying nice words it’s about showing that you actually care.
most of the time when we share our problems we are not hoping for them to solve our problems because we know that they are not in a position to do anything to help us either but the best they could do is to just listen because knowing that you are not alone and that you have support sometimes is enough for you to keep going even if your problem does not exactly go away
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But in reality, in most cases, people don't put anything into these words. If they really got involved, if they delved into it, they would at least try to explain how exactly the situation can get better. And for that, you need to understand why it is terrible for someone now. In that case, it would be perceived as not indifference
Yeah, I get what you're saying. Just telling someone "everything will be fine" without actually understanding their struggles can feel empty. People say it out of habit but it doesn’t really help. What makes a difference is when someone listens, tries to understand what you're going through, and gives real advice or support. It’s not about just saying nice words it’s about showing that you actually care.
most of the time when we share our problems we are not hoping for them to solve our problems because we know that they are not in a position to do anything to help us either but the best they could do is to just listen because knowing that you are not alone and that you have support sometimes is enough for you to keep going even if your problem does not exactly go away
One good thing that comes with sharing your problems is that it also helps others who are in similar problems to know that what is happening to them is not strange but others also are going through something similar what we should know is that problems makes us stronger because what defines you as a man defined by your ability to overcome and handle your current situation so no matter what you are through we should not give up but forge ahead because problems are temporary
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I really needed to read this right now, i am also going through a tough time personally in my own life, so you can understand why reading something like this will lift my spirits. I won't give up and i also encourage everyone out there who is going through a rough time not to give up, there is light at the end of the tunnel, hang in there.
You are correct, giving up is just like when is tired of living, which might result to committing of suicide or making one to involve in an illegal activities because he or she is tired to keeping pushing or trying forgetting what the holy bible says’ There is time for everything here on earth, a time to cry and laugh, a time plant and pluck etc’. So in this case whatever we situation we find ourselves is just to thank God and ask him to help us because nothing is permanent in this life, whatever thing that has a beginning has a end to it, all we have to do is just to keep pushing, keep going, keep saying that we won’t give up and one faithful day, all our struggles, tears, pains, worries will all be gone and then it will be a history.
Sometimes i do really hate up my wife when it comes into this aspect on which she's really that too easily giving up into challenges in life specially if we do able to encounter up some problems then she do just that easily gives up and having those kind of murmurs and even having that kind of telling about taking up a suicide on which it do really sucks. I do always have that kind of explaining moment that these problems does come up with a solution and its impossible that it wont really be having any solutions into it. So whenever you do able to have that kind of challenges in life then it will really be that best that you should be facing it out and trying out to find ways on sustaining to live this life. Yes, problems are just temporary and cant be permanent and once you do able to solve then you will be having that much better as a person on handling problems.
Same experience too, most people forget the fact that thinking or getting worried over it won’t help and won’t bring out the solution, that is why whenever we are in problem and we feel we can’t think of anything at the moment, all we have to do is pray for God intervention because he is the ultimate fighter to all our problems and also having that mindset that problems doesn’t last forever can also be of help, problems are part of life, that is what makes us human, there is no one on earth that don’t experience problems in their lives which they do overcome but that doesn’t mean we have to encounter problems that will take us to our early grave by ourselves because of the saying that says that there is no problem that don’t have solutions.
Please let’s also be conscious or mindful in what we say or do.
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^ there is quote, "If you have solution to problem, why worry? And if you don't, why worry?" — now, sure it can be hard times, but it's logical and proves why worry is vain affair.
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Thank you, your words really made me calm down a little. To be honest, right now I'm in a difficult situation and I'm forced to face all of this with grace. I've tried whatever I can, but I haven't found a way out, but I'm sure that slowly my problems will disappear. It's all just a matter of time and I always pray to God to make my path easier. I hope I can also find a way out soon, like you;)
It's true that every problem will definitely have a solution, it doesn't take a process instantly, patience is the main key. solving problems, sometimes think why life always has problems???
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most of the time when we share our problems we are not hoping for them to solve our problems because we know that they are not in a position to do anything to help us either but the best they could do is to just listen because knowing that you are not alone and that you have support sometimes is enough for you to keep going even if your problem does not exactly go away
I am not saying that someone should solve my problems for me. That is not the point. But the feeling that you are not alone when you tell someone about your problems can only arise if you feel sympathy from the interlocutor. Only then can understanding arise, which is the basis of the feeling of not being alone and of сonnection with someone.
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.. solving problems, sometimes think why life always has problems???
Because life itself is a problem. It comes with task of maintaining itself the very moment you are born, you don't give food/water to sustain life, you feel miserable. So life being itself is problem, problems are inescapable part of it.
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Well said, personally I will say that in every tunnel there is light at it's end, so as humans we should not give up at the slightest setback, rather we should keep moving forward because better days are ahead, days where we will recover all that we seem to have lost. Never loose hope, or sight of a better tomorrow. God bless everyone.
I don't mean to sound negative but let the fact be told, not all tunnels has lights at the end because there are people who are moving from one edge to another but still could not find there way out of the tunnel, which is why there are people whom they say they're unsuccessful, because they were not determined as others who located the bright side of the tunnel.
So in life someone must have the belief to make it no matter the situation because life can posses a lot of threats in terms of succeeding but determination will the amour to shield them, so like you said tomorrow is very important because a failure today can become a winner tomorrow.
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I really needed to read this right now, i am also going through a tough time personally in my own life, so you can understand why reading something like this will lift my spirits. I won't give up and i also encourage everyone out there who is going through a rough time not to give up, there is light at the end of the tunnel, hang in there.
You are correct, giving up is just like when is tired of living, which might result to committing of suicide or making one to involve in an illegal activities because he or she is tired to keeping pushing or trying forgetting what the holy bible says’ There is time for everything here on earth, a time to cry and laugh, a time plant and pluck etc’. So in this case whatever we situation we find ourselves is just to thank God and ask him to help us because nothing is permanent in this life, whatever thing that has a beginning has a end to it, all we have to do is just to keep pushing, keep going, keep saying that we won’t give up and one faithful day, all our struggles, tears, pains, worries will all be gone and then it will be a history.
Sometimes i do really hate up my wife when it comes into this aspect on which she's really that too easily giving up into challenges in life specially if we do able to encounter up some problems then she do just that easily gives up and having those kind of murmurs and even having that kind of telling about taking up a suicide on which it do really sucks. I do always have that kind of explaining moment that these problems does come up with a solution and its impossible that it wont really be having any solutions into it. So whenever you do able to have that kind of challenges in life then it will really be that best that you should be facing it out and trying out to find ways on sustaining to live this life. Yes, problems are just temporary and cant be permanent and once you do able to solve then you will be having that much better as a person on handling problems.
Same experience too, most people forget the fact that thinking or getting worried over it won’t help and won’t bring out the solution, that is why whenever we are in problem and we feel we can’t think of anything at the moment, all we have to do is pray for God intervention because he is the ultimate fighter to all our problems and also having that mindset that problems doesn’t last forever can also be of help, problems are part of life, that is what makes us human, there is no one on earth that don’t experience problems in their lives which they do overcome but that doesn’t mean we have to encounter problems that will take us to our early grave by ourselves because of the saying that says that there is no problem that don’t have solutions.
Please let’s also be conscious or mindful in what we say or do.
If you do panic then you cant be able to think up well because on the moment that you do have that kind of situation on which you do easily panic on which in compared into those who do have that calm mind on which they will really be able to think up on potential solutions or be able to find up ways that will really be able to get rid of the problem. On the time that you wont really be that not on your right mind or emotional aspect then it will really be that resulting into that failed on finding up ways. When you are really that trying out to have that disturbed mind then it will really be that just that making out that situations even more worst or the problem would really be that become even more bigger, the worst thing is that it will already affecting out your health on which this will really be the biggest problem.
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Of course, it's always tempting to think that your situation will improve and that things will get better. But this mindset, and most importantly, this kind of advice, isn't suitable for everyone. People who are in truly terrible situations don't want to hear such empty reassurances because their situation feels completely hopeless. And advice from people who have never been in similar circumstances seems like a cynical mockery and only serves to irritate.
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Every moment is just a phase and nothing remains permanent, so let the time to heal things while you working on the things that you wanted to accomplish. Once in a while take a moment to cherish the life you are having even though it's not what you expected because there's always someone is having worse day than us which is enough to be thankful for what we have.
On point, we should really be thankful to God in every situation we find ourselves in because there is always a reason for every action he takes, whether good or bad but we pray for bad not to befall on us. So let’s always take everything easily, for were we are now, we won’t be there forever and also we should always embrace others happiness until it get to our turn and always be positive and happy, try and stay away from things that will not add any meaningful value to your life.
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Tonight, I was sitting alone and reminiscing about the days when all hope seemed lost, and there were no options in sight. If not for God's intervention, I often wonder where people like me would have ended up.
I feel compelled to share my story. I recall losing a writing gig in November, right when I was taking my final college exams to graduate. I desperately needed the money, but the person I was working with abruptly terminated our collaboration, citing a flimsy reason.
Fast-forward to today, and I'm grateful to say that new opportunities are emerging, and God has been guiding me. Interestingly, the same person who let me go even reached out, and we're still working together.
My experiences have taught me that there's always hope, no matter how bleak things may seem. This isn't the end of my story; greater things are still on the horizon for me.
To anyone reading this, I want to encourage you: don't give up. The challenges you're facing right now are just a phase, and you will get through them. Take care, and good night!
always remember, there is always hope for a tree, even if it's cut down once water finds its way into it will it spring up again. Just like a pregnant woman, the months of pregnancy which is usually characterized with pains, discomfort, inconvenience and stress can easily be forgotten at the sound of her newborn baby. Be strong!
a guiding philosophy that has kept me going over the years:
1) Be happy with God, don't find any offense against him
2) Be happy with yourself, enjoy yourself
3) Be happy with your level, where you are now is just a phase
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.. solving problems, sometimes think why life always has problems???
Because life itself is a problem. It comes with task of maintaining itself the very moment you are born, you don't give food/water to sustain life, you feel miserable. So life being itself is problem, problems are inescapable part of it.
That's true, sometimes and almost every day problems always arise, in order to solve them, I don't know whether I can solve them wisely or just leave and forget about the problem, so that it doesn't burden my mind too much that day.
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.. solving problems, sometimes think why life always has problems???
Because life itself is a problem. It comes with task of maintaining itself the very moment you are born, you don't give food/water to sustain life, you feel miserable. So life being itself is problem, problems are inescapable part of it.
That's true, sometimes and almost every day problems always arise, in order to solve them, I don't know whether I can solve them wisely or just leave and forget about the problem, so that it doesn't burden my mind too much that day.
I used to ignore problems but sooner or later they would blow up, so I don't think it's wise thing to do.
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Tonight, I was sitting alone and reminiscing about the days when all hope seemed lost, and there were no options in sight. If not for God's intervention, I often wonder where people like me would have ended up.
I feel compelled to share my story. I recall losing a writing gig in November, right when I was taking my final college exams to graduate. I desperately needed the money, but the person I was working with abruptly terminated our collaboration, citing a flimsy reason.
Fast-forward to today, and I'm grateful to say that new opportunities are emerging, and God has been guiding me. Interestingly, the same person who let me go even reached out, and we're still working together.
My experiences have taught me that there's always hope, no matter how bleak things may seem. This isn't the end of my story; greater things are still on the horizon for me.
To anyone reading this, I want to encourage you: don't give up. The challenges you're facing right now are just a phase, and you will get through them. Take care, and good night!
So true, This life is a journey where you will come across so many things, sweet and bitter but the successful one's are the patient type. Your first mistake, second or third should not be the end of you given up for what you stood up to achieve in life, never give up when you fall you rise again to face the challenges and definitely success shall be yours one day, with every process or practice one takes, it's makes it perfect more and more and easy affairs in achieving our goals in life.
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So true, This life is a journey where you will come across so many things, sweet and bitter but the successful one's are the patient type. Your first mistake, second or third should not be the end of you given up for what you stood up to achieve in life, never give up when you fall you rise again to face the challenges and definitely success shall be yours one day, with every process or practice one takes, it's makes it perfect more and more and easy affairs in achieving our goals in life.
People often write such general things in which everyone can see something that relates to their situation, but the point is that people understand success, failure, difficulties in life differently. For one, a difficult period can be failing exams, and for another, the death of a loved one in a war. And these things are incommensurable. Therefore, there is no universal advice here, everything is very situational and individual.
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That's true, sometimes and almost every day problems always arise, in order to solve them, I don't know whether I can solve them wisely or just leave and forget about the problem, so that it doesn't burden my mind too much that day.
Problem is endemic, it never stop so long as the live continues, though it doesn't have to be regularly and nobody wish to have a problem or with anyone but we have to make up our mind that whatever it be it needs to be taking care of so that it will be settled and it doesn't have to happen again, though problem can have other form but the one that needs immediately resolution should be attended to but the one that requires backing down on to avoid escalating should also be handled that way.
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Problem is endemic, it never stop so long as the live continues, though it doesn't have to be regularly and nobody wish to have a problem or with anyone but we have to make up our mind that whatever it be it needs to be taking care of so that it will be settled and it doesn't have to happen again, though problem can have other form but the one that needs immediately resolution should be attended to but the one that requires backing down on to avoid escalating should also be handled that way.
The point is that when the problem is related to another person or people, it is very difficult to solve it on your own. Solving interpersonal problems requires the involvement of both parties, and their mutual motivation to solve the problem. If this is not the case, then no matter how hard one party tries, nothing will work out. Because this is a one-sided game and it will not be crowned with a result, unfortunately.
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Problem is endemic, it never stop so long as the live continues, though it doesn't have to be regularly and nobody wish to have a problem or with anyone but we have to make up our mind that whatever it be it needs to be taking care of so that it will be settled and it doesn't have to happen again, though problem can have other form but the one that needs immediately resolution should be attended to but the one that requires backing down on to avoid escalating should also be handled that way.
The point is that when the problem is related to another person or people, it is very difficult to solve it on your own. Solving interpersonal problems requires the involvement of both parties, and their mutual motivation to solve the problem. If this is not the case, then no matter how hard one party tries, nothing will work out. Because this is a one-sided game and it will not be crowned with a result, unfortunately.
There are problems on which you can resolve on your own and there are ones that you do need up someone to help you out. Its true that it is that really that easy to make out some advise to someone on how they should gonna handle their problems but we do know in reality that problems will be depending or basing up on how severe the problem could be then its really that hard when we are on the actual situation or when we are on their feet. It will be that up to you on how you do adjust accordingly. For problems then its part of our life and each one of us do have problems but its true that it is just that a phase into our life on which we do need up to adjust accordingly and each problem does have its own solution.
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There are problems on which you can resolve on your own and there are ones that you do need up someone to help you out. Its true that it is that really that easy to make out some advise to someone on how they should gonna handle their problems but we do know in reality that problems will be depending or basing up on how severe the problem could be then its really that hard when we are on the actual situation or when we are on their feet. It will be that up to you on how you do adjust accordingly. For problems then its part of our life and each one of us do have problems but its true that it is just that a phase into our life on which we do need up to adjust accordingly and each problem does have its own solution.
I also believe that every problem has a solution, you can always find a way out of the situation. But here there is also a question of time, which often aggravates the problem itself. For example, most people solve their financial problems one way or another. But the question is: when? Some solve them almost immediately, without having time to suffer too much emotionally, while others take so much time that during this period the person is simply exhausted, and even solving the problem that caused so much stress and suffering no longer brings him the desired relief, because he is exhausted and has no resources for anything.
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I really needed to read this right now, i am also going through a tough time personally in my own life, so you can understand why reading something like this will lift my spirits. I won't give up and i also encourage everyone out there who is going through a rough time not to give up, there is light at the end of the tunnel, hang in there.
One thing about life is that, no matter how bad a situation is, it will never remain permanent, a solution will always come out.
So any time you feel bad or you think things are not moving or going the way you want, just take a deep breath, do your best and leave the rest for God, knowing no condition is permanent and always be positive and happy.
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One thing about life is that, no matter how bad a situation is, it will never remain permanent, a solution will always come out.
So any time you feel bad or you think things are not moving or going the way you want, just take a deep breath, do your best and leave the rest for God, knowing no condition is permanent and always be positive and happy.
Here it is also very important in a difficult and seemingly hopeless situation, to still, despite everything, find the strength to rejoice at least in something. You can always find something good and positive, no matter how difficult it is. And even if a difficult period drags on, you need to allocate emotional resources not only for despondency and disappointment, but also for hope.
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No doubt about life being a phase. Whatever life situation or position you face, it's just for a while; with time, it will be all over, to be forgotten stories. There is no need to kill oneself or feel bad about any situation because they are there to test, build, and make you stronger for life's challenges, whether ugly or beautiful, are permanent.
Very right, there is nothing on that is permanent, everything happens at its own time, that is why its good for one to always do their best and leave the rest for God, because no matter how we do things in haste just to meet up, we can never get there if it's not yet time and even if it turns out to what we want, it will never last forever and it might leads to danger. That is why people has to always wait for their turn in life, for when its the right time for them, everything will just be in place and they will benefit more from it, which they even forget they once suffer. That is why they say' A patient dog eat the fattest bone'.