Your current condition is just a phase

[milewilda]

I really needed to read this right now, i am also going through a tough time personally in my own life, so you can understand why reading something like this will lift my spirits. I won't give up and i also encourage everyone out there who is going through a rough time not to give up, there is light at the end of the tunnel, hang in there.

You are correct, giving up is just like when is tired of living, which might result to committing of suicide or making one to involve in an illegal activities because he or she is tired to keeping pushing or trying forgetting what the holy bible says’ There is time for everything here on earth, a time to cry and laugh, a time plant and pluck etc’. So in this case whatever we situation we find ourselves is just to thank God and ask him to help us because nothing is permanent in this life, whatever thing that has a beginning has a end to it, all we have to do is just to keep pushing, keep going, keep saying that we won’t give up and one faithful day, all our struggles, tears, pains, worries will all be gone and then it will be a history.

Sometimes i do really hate up my wife when it comes into this aspect on which she's really that too easily giving up into challenges in life specially if we do able to encounter up some problems then she do just that easily gives up and having those kind of murmurs and even having that kind of telling about taking up a suicide on which it do really sucks. I do always have that kind of explaining moment that these problems does come up with a solution and its impossible that it wont really be having any solutions into it. So whenever you do able to have that kind of challenges in life then it will really be that best that you should be facing it out and trying out to find ways on sustaining to live this life. Yes, problems are just temporary and cant be permanent and once you do able to solve then you will be having that much better as a person on handling problems.

Same experience too, most people forget the fact that thinking or getting worried over it won’t help and won’t bring out the solution, that is why whenever we are in problem and we feel we can’t think of anything at the moment, all we have to do is pray for God intervention because he is the ultimate fighter to all our problems and also having that mindset that problems doesn’t last forever can also be of help, problems are part of life, that is what makes us human, there is no one on earth that don’t experience problems in their lives which they do overcome but that doesn’t mean we have to encounter problems that will take us to our early grave by ourselves because of the saying that says that there is no problem that don’t have solutions.
Please let’s also be conscious or mindful in what we say or do.

If you do panic then you cant be able to think up well because on the moment that you do have that kind of situation on which you do easily panic on which in compared into those who do have that calm mind on which they will really be able to think up on potential solutions or be able to find up ways that will really be able to get rid of the problem. On the time that you wont really be that not on your right mind or emotional aspect then it will really be that resulting into that failed on finding up ways. When you are really that trying out to have that disturbed mind then it will really be that just that making out that situations even more worst or the problem would really be that become even more bigger, the worst thing is that it will already affecting out your health on which this will really be the biggest problem.

[Etranger]

Of course, it's always tempting to think that your situation will improve and that things will get better. But this mindset, and most importantly, this kind of advice, isn't suitable for everyone. People who are in truly terrible situations don't want to hear such empty reassurances because their situation feels completely hopeless. And advice from people who have never been in similar circumstances seems like a cynical mockery and only serves to irritate.

[Dr.Bitcoin_Strange]

Every moment is just a phase and nothing remains permanent, so let the time to heal things while you working on the things that you wanted to accomplish. Once in a while take a moment to cherish the life you are having even though it's not what you expected because there's always someone is having worse day than us which is enough to be thankful for what we have.

On point, we should really be thankful to God in every situation we find ourselves in because there is always a reason for every action he takes, whether good or bad but we pray for bad not to befall on us. So let’s always take everything easily, for were we are now, we won’t be there forever and also we should always embrace others happiness until it get to our turn and always be positive and happy, try and stay away from things that will not add any meaningful value to your life.

[Flydove]

Tonight, I was sitting alone and reminiscing about the days when all hope seemed lost, and there were no options in sight. If not for God's intervention, I often wonder where people like me would have ended up.

I feel compelled to share my story. I recall losing a writing gig in November, right when I was taking my final college exams to graduate. I desperately needed the money, but the person I was working with abruptly terminated our collaboration, citing a flimsy reason.

Fast-forward to today, and I'm grateful to say that new opportunities are emerging, and God has been guiding me. Interestingly, the same person who let me go even reached out, and we're still working together.

My experiences have taught me that there's always hope, no matter how bleak things may seem. This isn't the end of my story; greater things are still on the horizon for me.

To anyone reading this, I want to encourage you: don't give up. The challenges you're facing right now are just a phase, and you will get through them. Take care, and good night!

always remember, there is always hope for a tree, even if it's cut down once water finds its way into it will it spring up again. Just like a pregnant woman, the months of pregnancy which is usually characterized with pains, discomfort, inconvenience and stress can easily be forgotten at the sound of her newborn baby. Be strong!
a guiding philosophy that has kept me going over the years:
1) Be happy with God, don't find any offense against him
2) Be happy with yourself, enjoy yourself
3) Be happy with your level, where you are now is just a phase

[MUGNIA]

.. solving problems, sometimes think why life always has problems???

Because life itself is a problem. It comes with task of maintaining itself the very moment you are born, you don't give food/water to sustain life, you feel miserable. So life being itself is problem, problems are inescapable part of it.

That's true, sometimes and almost every day problems always arise, in order to solve them, I don't know whether I can solve them wisely or just leave and forget about the problem, so that it doesn't burden my mind too much that day.

[libert19]

.. solving problems, sometimes think why life always has problems???

Because life itself is a problem. It comes with task of maintaining itself the very moment you are born, you don't give food/water to sustain life, you feel miserable. So life being itself is problem, problems are inescapable part of it.

That's true, sometimes and almost every day problems always arise, in order to solve them, I don't know whether I can solve them wisely or just leave and forget about the problem, so that it doesn't burden my mind too much that day.

I used to ignore problems but sooner or later they would blow up, so I don't think it's wise thing to do.

[Bodhi2021]

Tonight, I was sitting alone and reminiscing about the days when all hope seemed lost, and there were no options in sight. If not for God's intervention, I often wonder where people like me would have ended up.

I feel compelled to share my story. I recall losing a writing gig in November, right when I was taking my final college exams to graduate. I desperately needed the money, but the person I was working with abruptly terminated our collaboration, citing a flimsy reason.

Fast-forward to today, and I'm grateful to say that new opportunities are emerging, and God has been guiding me. Interestingly, the same person who let me go even reached out, and we're still working together.

My experiences have taught me that there's always hope, no matter how bleak things may seem. This isn't the end of my story; greater things are still on the horizon for me.

To anyone reading this, I want to encourage you: don't give up. The challenges you're facing right now are just a phase, and you will get through them. Take care, and good night!

So true, This life is a journey where you will come across so many things, sweet and bitter but the successful one's are the patient type. Your first mistake, second or third should not be the end of you given up for what you stood up to achieve in life, never give up when you fall you rise again to face the challenges and definitely success shall be yours one day, with every process or practice one takes, it's makes it perfect more and more and easy affairs in achieving our goals in life.

[Etranger]

So true, This life is a journey where you will come across so many things, sweet and bitter but the successful one's are the patient type. Your first mistake, second or third should not be the end of you given up for what you stood up to achieve in life, never give up when you fall you rise again to face the challenges and definitely success shall be yours one day, with every process or practice one takes, it's makes it perfect more and more and easy affairs in achieving our goals in life.

People often write such general things in which everyone can see something that relates to their situation, but the point is that people understand success, failure, difficulties in life differently. For one, a difficult period can be failing exams, and for another, the death of a loved one in a war. And these things are incommensurable. Therefore, there is no universal advice here, everything is very situational and individual.

[Salahmu]

That's true, sometimes and almost every day problems always arise, in order to solve them, I don't know whether I can solve them wisely or just leave and forget about the problem, so that it doesn't burden my mind too much that day.

Problem is endemic, it never stop so long as the live continues, though it doesn't have to be regularly and nobody wish to have a problem or with anyone but we have to make up our mind that whatever it be it needs to be taking care of so that it will be settled and it doesn't have to happen again, though problem can have other form but the one that needs immediately resolution should be attended to but the one that requires backing down on to avoid escalating should also be handled that way.

[Etranger]

Problem is endemic, it never stop so long as the live continues, though it doesn't have to be regularly and nobody wish to have a problem or with anyone but we have to make up our mind that whatever it be it needs to be taking care of so that it will be settled and it doesn't have to happen again, though problem can have other form but the one that needs immediately resolution should be attended to but the one that requires backing down on to avoid escalating should also be handled that way.

The point is that when the problem is related to another person or people, it is very difficult to solve it on your own. Solving interpersonal problems requires the involvement of both parties, and their mutual motivation to solve the problem. If this is not the case, then no matter how hard one party tries, nothing will work out. Because this is a one-sided game and it will not be crowned with a result, unfortunately.

[milewilda]

Problem is endemic, it never stop so long as the live continues, though it doesn't have to be regularly and nobody wish to have a problem or with anyone but we have to make up our mind that whatever it be it needs to be taking care of so that it will be settled and it doesn't have to happen again, though problem can have other form but the one that needs immediately resolution should be attended to but the one that requires backing down on to avoid escalating should also be handled that way.

The point is that when the problem is related to another person or people, it is very difficult to solve it on your own. Solving interpersonal problems requires the involvement of both parties, and their mutual motivation to solve the problem. If this is not the case, then no matter how hard one party tries, nothing will work out. Because this is a one-sided game and it will not be crowned with a result, unfortunately.

There are problems on which you can resolve on your own and there are ones that you do need up someone to help you out. Its true that it is that really that easy to make out some advise to someone on how they should gonna handle their problems but we do know in reality that problems will be depending or basing up on how severe the problem could be then its really that hard when we are on the actual situation or when we are on their feet. It will be that up to you on how you do adjust accordingly. For problems then its part of our life and each one of us do have problems but its true that it is just that a phase into our life on which we do need up to adjust accordingly and each problem does have its own solution.

[Etranger]

There are problems on which you can resolve on your own and there are ones that you do need up someone to help you out. Its true that it is that really that easy to make out some advise to someone on how they should gonna handle their problems but we do know in reality that problems will be depending or basing up on how severe the problem could be then its really that hard when we are on the actual situation or when we are on their feet. It will be that up to you on how you do adjust accordingly. For problems then its part of our life and each one of us do have problems but its true that it is just that a phase into our life on which we do need up to adjust accordingly and each problem does have its own solution.

I also believe that every problem has a solution, you can always find a way out of the situation. But here there is also a question of time, which often aggravates the problem itself. For example, most people solve their financial problems one way or another. But the question is: when? Some solve them almost immediately, without having time to suffer too much emotionally, while others take so much time that during this period the person is simply exhausted, and even solving the problem that caused so much stress and suffering no longer brings him the desired relief, because he is exhausted and has no resources for anything.

[Dr.Bitcoin_Strange]

I really needed to read this right now, i am also going through a tough time personally in my own life, so you can understand why reading something like this will lift my spirits. I won't give up and i also encourage everyone out there who is going through a rough time not to give up, there is light at the end of the tunnel, hang in there.

One thing about life is that, no matter how bad a situation is, it will never remain permanent, a solution will always come out.
So any time you feel bad or you think things are not moving or going the way you want, just take a deep breath, do your best and leave the rest for God, knowing no condition is permanent and always be positive and happy.

[Etranger]

One thing about life is that, no matter how bad a situation is, it will never remain permanent, a solution will always come out.
So any time you feel bad or you think things are not moving or going the way you want, just take a deep breath, do your best and leave the rest for God, knowing no condition is permanent and always be positive and happy.

Here it is also very important in a difficult and seemingly hopeless situation, to still, despite everything, find the strength to rejoice at least in something. You can always find something good and positive, no matter how difficult it is. And even if a difficult period drags on, you need to allocate emotional resources not only for despondency and disappointment, but also for hope.

[Dr.Bitcoin_Strange]

No doubt about life being a phase. Whatever life situation or position you face, it's just for a while; with time, it will be all over, to be forgotten stories. There is no need to kill oneself or feel bad about any situation because they are there to test, build, and make you stronger for life's challenges, whether ugly or beautiful, are permanent.

Very right, there is nothing on that is permanent, everything happens at its own time, that is why its good for one to always do their best and leave the rest for God, because no matter how we do things in haste just to meet up, we can never get there if it's not yet time and even if it turns out to what we want, it will never last forever and it might leads to danger. That is why people has to always wait for their turn in life, for when its the right time for them, everything will just be in place and they will benefit more from it, which they even forget they once suffer. That is why they say' A patient dog eat the fattest bone'.