Thank you all for your answers. I do understand that ICO got obsolete in 2017 but still there are platforms where you can list your token just to gain some eyes that too without a fees obviously.
In exchanges everyone is just looking at vanity metrics as to how many followers does one have on X and how big the community is. Hence the problem.
Main goal is to get listed on Big Exchanges that's for sure. But to gain a community is the main problem.
Understand the point of telegram and twitter KOLs but nowadays its also very Scammy and cannot rely on it. If anyone has any list of KOLs or work in it that would be great.
Thank you again for answering