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The forum is not trying to be friendly. The forum is supposed to be very much friendly until it gathers enough traffic before it will become harsh. It is not good to request sensitive information from people in the forum.
I don't agree at all with what you say. No one on this forum is trying to generate traffic and then turn us into oppressive tyrants who ban users without any explanation, to give a very basic example. You've probably seen on several occasions how we try to give more opportunities to users who commit infractions and break forum rules, sometimes even more than necessary, this is an example of what we try to do here, with our time, with our effort.
If this forum had ten times more traffic than it does now, we'd still be doing the same thing, with more effort and more work, but that wouldn't change our vision of where (and how) we're moving forward.
MrSpasybo thank you so much as always!