My question is, do the tokens I get in exchange for points part of token distribution? As far as I can understand the answer is yes, since the above quote was found in the section about token distribution.
So basically I want to know. If I become a patron and I exchange my points for token do I get the 10%-30% bonus?
This bonus is only for airdrops/bounties, but not seasonal ALTS tokens distribution. ALTS are specifically distributed by 10:1 ratio, no bonus' to anyone (that I know of at least). Patrons and Royalty receive bonus' on any
potential future bounties that are managed by the forum bounty management team, but only through participation. If there is a future airdrop/bounty for ALTS tokens (as opposed to withdrawals), then you would otherwise receive the bonus I assume.
The next questions I want to know "Patrons get 10-30% bonus on airdrops and crypto distributions managed by the forum" & "Royalty & Patrons will get a share of the tokens and coins we collect from ICOs and Token offerings"
Does this mean I am automatically placed in airdrops? If I was a free member how would I get some of the share of the tokens that you guys collect? Or is this exclusive for patrons/donors?
No, you would still need to apply for airdrops and participate in bounties, that are forum-managed, in order to receive the bonus'. You otherwise would need to remain active on the forum to receive distributions in general, as far as I understand. Many ALTS withdrawals were skipped as participants weren't active in the past month:
2- You are not active during the last month, your points will drop sharply, and your withdrawal will no be processed.
If you are not a donor (a free member?), you receive a share of the remaining 70-90% of the tokens. Please bare in mind there hasn't been a forum-managed airdrop/bounty for sometime, therefore if you want to donate to the forum then do so because you want to contribute to this friendly forum, or because you expect there to be more forum-managed bounties in future for example.
I have tried explaining this as well as I can. Thank you for the help. If I like what I hear I think I will become a patron. 
Your welcome, +1 for the good questions. Hope that helps answer your questions. Feel free to ask more.