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It seems to me that it is better to evaluate everything carefully and be a little late than to be the first and at the same time constantly lose. This is my personal opinion and is based on my observations.
I agree, it must always be preceded by an evaluation first, of course it will be better, so that it can be accurately determined the next step. with a little late action, does not mean to rule out the opportunity to be able to get the best. always trying to get the best is the main goal that we must do, even though it feels like easy to say but will be difficult to do if not with patience.
it's true no one wants defeat that happens continuously as you experience. it will of course always have an impact in every subsequent move, which can very well end up being too cautious. this is a natural step if you take these steps, I too can certainly do something like that.
Expressing opinions, of course, must always be respected. because whatever other people's opinions will not be able to determine the steps everyone wants to accept or not. because the right to decide is yourself, not others because they won't want to know what will happen to us.