Forum court or forum board should be good for this, when you get to each one of them, try to see the kind of discussions going on there and from there, you will be able to pick on wether it's this or not, I think this is also a common challenge that most of us find in getting used to this new home than from where we are coming from, but with time, we are getting along already and things are going to be more fun as well than when we started.