In that position, we must try to understand them, because if we treat them the same way, then maybe something worse will happen, like we could become hostile.
But usually I do it in a joking way, it looks like a joke but there is a message conveyed even though it also depends on how they hear it. If they think it's a joke, then that's it, but if they look for the meaning of what is said then they will think.
That’s an amazing approach, because by really putting ourselves in their shoes, we’ll be able to really understand them and potentially avoid escalating conflict and also create a more conducive and positive atmosphere for an understanding interaction.
I think your approach of conveying your messages in joking manner is quite commendable because that can in fact be a very effective way of expressing oneself without coming across as rude or confrontational, it’s just all about striking a balance between being playful and also being profound.
Yes, because people like that cannot be judged, because if we judge, the impact is the creation of a tense atmosphere and that leads to hostility.
We are the ones who have to enter their world, don't force them into our thinking, because once again that will be contradictory. And indeed that way is more effective, because no one ends up feeling excluded and when it is packaged well, it also creates a more fluid atmosphere.