What are your reasons for still being single

[Jay-Jay247]

Good day guys, how are y'all doing?
In today's article I just want to ask a few questions on why some of guys are still single.


1. IS IT BECAUSE OF MONEY? 
It's true that so many guys don't want to be in a relationship because they don't have the money to buy the luxury thing she could probably ask for in the future. Although a lot of ladies do say they're aren't dating a guy because of his money, but the honest truth is at some point in the relationship you'll still want him to get something for you or even pay your bills and that's exactly what some guys out there is just  trying to avoid.

2. IS IT BECAUSE OF PAST EXPERIENCES FROM A TOXIC RELATIONSHIP?
A lot of guys really don't want to go into a relationship or give love a chance again because of their previous failed relationships and how toxic it was. Some guys gave their all into a relationship and was still treated badly or betrayed at the end, and for this reason lot's of them don't want to give love a chance in their lives anymore. But if you ask me, I'll advise you give love a chance again, because you never can tell how your new relationship can turn out to be, who knows if that will be the best relationship ever you'll ever find. Love at times can make people do crazy things by going the extra mile just to satisfy their partner but it hot most when you feel betrayed by that same person you're doing all these things for. Sometimes, no matter how much you love someone you really have to let them go just to stay happy and start afresh again and trust me you'll be happy you let go of them. I know it's not easy to let them go especially someone you've spent so many years of your life with but the truth is, you have to let them go because your peace of mind should be your top priority and nothing else.

3. ARE YOU A SHY TYPE?
Some guys honest can't approach a lady openly to express themselves and tell a her how they really feel about her.
This is to some extent really embarrassing that you can't talk to a girl you love even when you see her outside, although some guys can't call or excuse a lady simply because most times she's with her friends but guy what happens when she's alone. As a guy you really need to man up, put yourself together and walk up to her and talk to her, even if you can't tell her all the sweet things she want to hear right in front of her friends at that point in time, at least ask for her number and call her later or chat with her on the media (whatsapp). Some girls could even like you from the very beginning they first saw you but want you to talk to them and express yourself to her simply because she don't want to act cheap and desperate, so they want you to talk to them first.
Just man-up and stop thinking her only in your thoughts, talk to her as soon as you can before someone else help you do the needful.

4. ARE YOU JUST TOO BORING TO CHILL WITH?
Hmmm, this could be embarrassing too but some guys just ain't trying too, how can you be so up-tight that some cool babes or folks can't chill out with you? Just loosen up a bit and try to do something fun. A lot of girls like a guy who's fun to be with and keep them busy. Girls like guys who's interesting, someone who'll always tell them sweet words and beautiful things about them, someone who's just gonna look at them and compliment them for everything they do, and if you're a boring type! Trust me you ain't gonna date or be in a relationship except you want Mary-Amaka, prayer warrior or Mummy G.O for yourself.


Guys if you agree with me, drop a 💯 for me in the comment session.

[albon]

Being single has many benefits but in some cases loneliness in life can destroy your mental balance take care of yourself when a person is single, he gets time for himself. Sleep is so good it's so real that he doesn't have thoughts. You can keep your own schedule and your time will not be wasted on other activities. But single life is not always happy and joyful. There comes a time in every man life when he tries to find a partner. Everything in life has good and bad side so adapting everything is called life.

[bitterguy28]

Being single has many benefits but in some cases loneliness in life can destroy your mental balance

to me we should not depend our happiness and stability on someone else i really do believe that we should try and work on our own self first and make sure that we are comfortable and happy with ourselves before we go out and meet other people

being in a relationship means sharing your lives with one another but it does not mean you guys will have only one life between the two of you i am someone who believes in independency and individuality even in a relationship

[Aanuoluwatofunmi]

Many youths that have been found still single till this time will have one or two reason to their present condition for being a bachelor till now, some of them will give many excuses for this by saying the economy isn't favorable enough for them and they cant afford to be responsible in taking someone else's responsibilities, some will say that they are yet to get their perfect match and so on.

[albon]

Being single has many benefits but in some cases loneliness in life can destroy your mental balance

to me we should not depend our happiness and stability on someone else i really do believe that we should try and work on our own self first and make sure that we are comfortable and happy with ourselves before we go out and meet other people

being in a relationship means sharing your lives with one another but it does not mean you guys will have only one life between the two of you i am someone who believes in independency and individuality even in a relationship

Everyone wants to lead a personal independent life but of course when you get into a relationship that freedom is lost. But yes having friends is good but too many friends can be dangerous. Suppose that if you are always busy with work and forget to meet people, you might have a brain problem at some point. Because i felt that loneliness makes people wea.

[Hridoy7788]

No I just can't really clique with anyone Ig it's my problem

[JoyMarsha]

I think people have their reason for being single. It can be the reason for lack of money or past heartbreak experience. Well, that reason is enough to keep one single because not everyone would like to be in a relationship where they won't be in the right state of mind.

Being single is not a crime, and it is very acceptable in society. Being single can help one in a way that you have no one who bugs you with the demands of money, sex, or calls. you will just focus on yourself and your goal at heart without anyone stressing your entire existence on earth.

[Rruchi man]

In today's article I just want to ask a few questions on why some of guys are still single.

You should never be under pressure to be in a relationship simply because other people around you are in a relationship. As a guy with so many ambitions, you can decide to stay single and avoid relationship because actually some relationships can turn out to be more of a destruction than any form of companionship. Some men have realized this, hence the reason for not wanting to be in any form of relationship until they achieve some set goals for themselves.

[Agbe]

90% of people being single especially the guys is basically due to financial constraints as they don't have the means to provide and take care of themselves not to talk about adding another person so to them the best thing to do is to remain single. Finance play a very important role in relationships as it's the fuel that makes relationships go smoothly so many guys run away from relationship due to this reason. And if you careful look into it it's true because the fact is relationship is beyond feeling and love there's a whole allot of things involved like meeting the needs of your partner and living up to expectations .one of the first thing to one needs to look at for before going into a relationship should be the money factor

[milewilda]

90% of people being single especially the guys is basically due to financial constraints as they don't have the means to provide and take care of themselves not to talk about adding another person so to them the best thing to do is to remain single. Finance play a very important role in relationships as it's the fuel that makes relationships go smoothly so many guys run away from relationship due to this reason. And if you careful look into it it's true because the fact is relationship is beyond feeling and love there's a whole allot of things involved like meeting the needs of your partner and living up to expectations .one of the first thing to one needs to look at for before going into a relationship should be the money factor

We do have our reasons on which it could be the ff:

1. Establishing up themselves first
2. Didnt find the love of their life
3. Isnt read to get attached into someone
4. No one likes him/her
5. Family conflicts
etc....

Dont rush up yourself on having some relationship into someone.
We do have our own life on which means that we do make our own decisions.

[yohananaomi]

I think people have their reason for being single. It can be the reason for lack of money or past heartbreak experience. Well, that reason is enough to keep one single because not everyone would like to be in a relationship where they won't be in the right state of mind.

If you are heartbroken, you might be able to have another relationship with another dream woman, but I actually agree that usually men are single because their own finances are not enough. Of course, it is very risky if you want to marry a woman, then you will definitely be asked what you can give to the woman after marriage. Although it is possible to save together after marriage, to be able to give trust to a woman's parents, of course, you must have a stable job first.

[OSAMABBK]

Many youths that have been found still single till this time will have one or two reason to their present condition for being a bachelor till now, some of them will give many excuses for this by saying the economy isn't favorable enough for them and they cant afford to be responsible in taking someone else's responsibilities, some will say that they are yet to get their perfect match and so on.

I don't blame those that believes that been in relationships is burden on is own,
I tried to toast a girl few days ago  just she's aware that I'm into data business this asked me to send her data before she'll give me a chance which I did but you know if the love I have for her before is 75% it has to drop to 15% so if you are not ready to spend don't just involve yourself into relationship because girl out there are hungry and searching for who to buy them food not love

[rachael9385]

Many people today money is the main reason why they are single. But I don't think there is any single girl in my country as one girl maybe running shit with many men finding a trustworthy girl these days is a fight. Based on the situation of things in my country, having a girlfriend is as good as owing a loan. Once you have a girlfriend you've taken a loan to yourself.
Money is the reason for many being single.

[yohananaomi]

Many people today money is the main reason why they are single. But I don't think there is any single girl in my country as one girl maybe running shit with many men finding a trustworthy girl these days is a fight. Based on the situation of things in my country, having a girlfriend is as good as owing a loan. Once you have a girlfriend you've taken a loan to yourself.
Money is the reason for many being single.

Being single is a choice, but according to what you said, it also makes sense, because without money it will be difficult to do anything because everything nowadays needs money to solve problems.
Of course, there is a difficulty with not being single in your country if all relationships involve money that must be returned, aka debt. But indeed, all traditions in each country will be different and will not be the same. In my country, a girl rarely spends money to travel together because it is always her partner who usually pays, although sometimes it can be a girl but not too often.

[milewilda]

Many people today money is the main reason why they are single. But I don't think there is any single girl in my country as one girl maybe running shit with many men finding a trustworthy girl these days is a fight. Based on the situation of things in my country, having a girlfriend is as good as owing a loan. Once you have a girlfriend you've taken a loan to yourself.
Money is the reason for many being single.

Being single is a choice, but according to what you said, it also makes sense, because without money it will be difficult to do anything because everything nowadays needs money to solve problems.
Of course, there is a difficulty with not being single in your country if all relationships involve money that must be returned, aka debt. But indeed, all traditions in each country will be different and will not be the same. In my country, a girl rarely spends money to travel together because it is always her partner who usually pays, although sometimes it can be a girl but not too often.

Thats why i could say that against into those people that money couldnt be everything on which it is partly true but in general or in overall then this is really that somehting that you do primarily need for you to survive. This is why it is really that important that you should really be that knowing at least on what are your targets or goals on the moment or time that you do decide to go with relationship. Yes, money cant buy love but even with the simplest date that you would be making or some efforts then you would really be needing up that finances on trying to at least
provide on what you should really be needing up at least to have that good impressions. Lucky you if there's a girl that wont really be looking into this aspect.