In my opinion, this comparison is not fair, it is like comparing a first-year student to a university student, of course there is no comparison, even professionals were noobs at the beginning and then progressed little by little through gaining experience and knowledge.
It is not a shame to be a noob, but the shame is to remain as you are without taking a step forward and learning something new every time, so losing is not important at the beginning, but what is important is to learn from the loss and make it a lesson for you throughout your life.