How will you feel if you find out that your wife of 5yrs is a gamble addict?

[Didia Sofunichi]

How will you feel if you find out that your wife of 5yrs is a gamble addict?
A lot of gamblers tend to conceal their gambling escapeds. After years of success marriage, love and commitment you ask your wife to bring the money you were sprayed during your wedding that you asked her to keep and she opened up to you how gambling has drained the money.

What will be your reaction?

[robelneo]

How will you feel if you find out that your wife of 5yrs is a gamble addict?
A lot of gamblers tend to conceal their gambling escapeds. After years of success marriage, love and commitment you ask your wife to bring the money you were sprayed during your wedding that you asked her to keep and she opened up to you how gambling has drained the money.

What will be your reaction?

Concealing this kind of addiction can lead to divorce or separation. Since we've been together for five years, I will still give her a chance to change or mend her way, and if I find out that she is not changing her way, I have no choice but to ask her to go to a rehabilitation facility or I will divorce her as her addiction will drain our finances that will lead to our quarrel.

[Penlex_Writer]

How will you feel if you find out that your wife of 5yrs is a gamble addict?
A lot of gamblers tend to conceal their gambling escapeds. After years of success marriage, love and commitment you ask your wife to bring the money you were sprayed during your wedding that you asked her to keep and she opened up to you how gambling has drained the money.

What will be your reaction?

it's very funny,you having a wife to be a gambler your finished,her duty as a wife is to protect and save your money to handle the affair of your home,she been a gambler the home is on fire.

[DragonF]

How will you feel if you find out that your wife of 5yrs is a gamble addict?
A lot of gamblers tend to conceal their gambling escapeds. After years of success marriage, love and commitment you ask your wife to bring the money you were sprayed during your wedding that you asked her to keep and she opened up to you how gambling has drained the money.

What will be your reaction?

I will never trust her with money again. She will keep using funds for maintenance of the family to gamble, which will have a negative impact on the family. Addiction is a bad thing and very worst for a woman. Her focus on gambling will divert her attention away from handling house affairs properly.

To control this, I will take more responsibility than I am supposed to. Little errands she is supposed to run, I would prefer to do them myself as long as they involve money. Whatever requires money, I handle because addiction is extremely difficult to overcome. 

[Zed0X]

It will be a tough situation. It's already hard enough to earn money as the bread winner of the family and then you come home to take care of the groceries, utilities, and house bills. Instead of relaxing after a day/week's work, you still have to think about those things because you cannot trust your wife to handle money due to gambling addiction.

[LUCKMCFLY]

Well that would be a surprise, and not a pleasant one at that, because if I hid that it's not healthy, in fact I would feel bad because I would tell myself where's the trust then? Why didn't she talk? If I had talked I would have helped her cure that addiction, there are many methods, but honestly I would feel disappointed, there would be no excuse, except that that is not done, therefore when something like that happens it has to be confronted well and asked why she didn't do it, and the reasons have to be very strong because it is not something normal.

[Rubel007]

It would be really sad if a wife is addicted to gambling for a long time and then reveals it to her husband. Normally husbands keep the money to their wives for family expense or others but if that money is spent on gambling regularly and it is for a long time then it must be said that they have lost a lot. And at such a stage, the state of mind of the earning person is definitely depressed. This can come to the center of divorce or infidelity in some cases. For such gamblers, my advice is that of course, with the permission of your husband, if possible, you can tell him for temporary pleasure and if you can understand him, it is different and if he does not agree, then you should do according to his order.

[koang]

Ahh... gambling addiction. I hate to say this, but unless you want to lose money or keep fighting about lost funds, you need to get him to stop gambling.
The sad truth is that we will never be the same again but we all need support, love, and understanding to some degree.
I am by no means a medical professional but first, you need to get his finances under control if possible, this is probably the first thing you should do

[bitbit97]

First of all I would be angry on myself for being blind. How can it be real? You live with your second half, and only in 5 years finds out about addiction. Then I would be disappointed in wife for not having trust in me, because she has kept her gambling passion in secret for 5 years, which lead to addiction. If there were more trust, husband or partner must have helped second half with such problem. I will be disappointed not because of gambling, but because there are secrets between us. That is what ruin union between two.

[bitterguy28]

How will you feel if you find out that your wife of 5yrs is a gamble addict?

excited to have a partner in gambling as well  haha just joking

A lot of gamblers tend to conceal their gambling escapeds. After years of success marriage, love and commitment you ask your wife to bring the money you were sprayed during your wedding that you asked her to keep and she opened up to you how gambling has drained the money.

this is actually a very very common thing to happen and i have lost count of how much i have heard this kind of story first of all of course i would feel betrayed because i trusted her to keep the money and i had fully expected her to do what i had asked her to do may i ask what do you intend to do with the money, though? because if it is just for a vacation and it is not that big of an amount to be life altering then yes i would lose trust but i would also try to understand where she is coming from and just make sure we can bounce back from it

but if it was intended for paying the school fees of our children then i would be beyond angry because then now it affects the lives of our children and she has put our family in a tight position

the action i will take depends on how much this money was and what we planned for it

[Findingnemo]

The life will not be pleasant anymore if you spend the money you as couple saved for years and you just went rogue and spend all of them on a weekend. I am not sure that the wife is gambler here or it's you and your wife find about that after 5 years of marriage.

Either way, don't keep secrets when you decided to live as couple that could make life a lot easier.

[0t3p0t]

How will you feel if you find out that your wife of 5yrs is a gamble addict?
A lot of gamblers tend to conceal their gambling escapeds. After years of success marriage, love and commitment you ask your wife to bring the money you were sprayed during your wedding that you asked her to keep and she opened up to you how gambling has drained the money.

What will be your reaction?

For me this situation will end so badly for her of course because I don't like secrets in a marriage especially it was all about the hard earned money based on that scenario but if it was her own then a break up would be a solution.

[electronicash]

the thrill of the double life.   this is the kind off story you will find in a TV show "who the bleep did i marry?"

i somehow wouldn't be surprise about wives keeping secrets. we all do have secrets. my wife doesn't even know i'm gambling online as well but sure thing i don't spend amount that she's be shock upon learning.

but if i learn my wife she's gambling and spend our emergency money, that's really something else. because this is where i will finally get even. if wives nags all the time about their husbands all because they forgot to throw the trash every collection day, maybe its time for me to do the nagging as well. see if she likes to be reminded every minute of the day.

[Didia Sofunichi]

How will you feel if you find out that your wife of 5yrs is a gamble addict?
A lot of gamblers tend to conceal their gambling escapeds. After years of success marriage, love and commitment you ask your wife to bring the money you were sprayed during your wedding that you asked her to keep and she opened up to you how gambling has drained the money.

What will be your reaction?

Concealing this kind of addiction can lead to divorce or separation. Since we've been together for five years, I will still give her a chance to change or mend her way, and if I find out that she is not changing her way, I have no choice but to ask her to go to a rehabilitation facility or I will divorce her as her addiction will drain our finances that will lead to our quarrel.

Fair enough, atleast you gave her a second chance. Most men might not be patient enough to give her a second chance to change and right her wrongs

[Agbe]

How will you feel if you find out that your wife of 5yrs is a gamble addict?
A lot of gamblers tend to conceal their gambling escapeds. After years of success marriage, love and commitment you ask your wife to bring the money you were sprayed during your wedding that you asked her to keep and she opened up to you how gambling has drained the money.

What will be your reaction?

For me this situation will end so badly for her of course because I don't like secrets in a marriage especially it was all about the hard earned money based on that scenario but if it was her own then a break up would be a solution.

Before marrying your wife it's expected that you get to know her very well that is why we advocate for dating because if actually some the two of them where dating the husband must have find out some hidden things about the wife and that means the gambling habits so I will definitely put the blame on the husband because he didn't actually do a proper background check on the woman that he got married to

In this kind of case devoice is not an option because marriage for better and worst