How will you feel if you find out that your wife of 5yrs is a gamble addict?

[Aanuoluwatofunmi]

How will you feel if you find out that your wife of 5yrs is a gamble addict?
A lot of gamblers tend to conceal their gambling escapeds. After years of success marriage, love and commitment you ask your wife to bring the money you were sprayed during your wedding that you asked her to keep and she opened up to you how gambling has drained the money.

What will be your reaction?

This shows that you both have not been acquainted with each other yet, because for you to have stayed together with a partner for over 5 years and still claims that there are some hidden aspect of such person life means you're both not been transparent to each other, we have to hold our self well and make it a decision to take the challenge up by starting our relationship with courtship in other to know each other more.

[JusticeDeGreat]

Gambling is motivated by greed. The quest to always make more or more than the usual, of which we have been encouraged to avoid greed and every sort of it. So the best is to give the woman chance to change. Explaining the consequences and the effect gambling can lead the family to. Give her chance to change.  Them if she doesn't, we will separate.

[MUGNIA]

How will you feel if you find out that your wife of 5yrs is a gamble addict?
A lot of gamblers tend to conceal their gambling escapeds. After years of success marriage, love and commitment you ask your wife to bring the money you were sprayed during your wedding that you asked her to keep and she opened up to you how gambling has drained the money.

What will be your reaction?

gambling is the same as someone who likes to get into debt in my opinion, a disease, if not fixed
sorry if your wife is a gambling addict, you can actually find out from the start because no matter how smart your woman is at keeping it, she will definitely find out,
if it takes 5 years for you to find out honestly I say the fault is on you because you are not sensitive and care about the condition of your wife, who likes to gamble
giving financial trust to your wife is okay but not 100%, because as a woman who has difficulty controlling finances, no matter how much money my husband gives me, it will run out quickly, so between husband and wife, work together to manage finances so that they are safe and under control,

[electronicash]

Gambling is motivated by greed. The quest to always make more or more than the usual, of which we have been encouraged to avoid greed and every sort of it. So the best is to give the woman chance to change. Explaining the consequences and the effect gambling can lead the family to. Give her chance to change.  Them if she doesn't, we will separate.

she will take that 2nd chance but i would hope the husband will still not give the hundred % trust to her. if i were the husband i be keeping the emergency money and all the funds for the necessities in the house re to be accounted.

but this time she need to contribute in bringing money in the house since she desires or it through gambling. she now has to work or her own money. she has to get a job, get busy so she'd stop thinking of gambling. divert her attention to something else.

[salad daging]

What a difficult situation if it's been 5 years since you found out your wife is a gambling addict? You might get angry and wonder why you only found out after so long.

This can lead to divorce because a husband only found out after a long time, but it's strange that they didn't know from the beginning, but I think few wives do this unless the husband is the one who is addicted to gambling but the wife doesn't know.

[electronicash]

What a difficult situation if it's been 5 years since you found out your wife is a gambling addict? You might get angry and wonder why you only found out after so long.

This can lead to divorce because a husband only found out after a long time, but it's strange that they didn't know from the beginning, but I think few wives do this unless the husband is the one who is addicted to gambling but the wife doesn't know.

could it be the grounds?

a good lawyer can build an argument that her addiction could be your reason for insolvent but it might not be enough for the divorce.
but you could tell  wife is bored to a husband that's why she is gambling. and for some reason she isn't really gambling but looking for  rich man in the casino to bid on her. its a good place to find a high roller to take her home.

[Didia Sofunichi]

How will you feel if you find out that your wife of 5yrs is a gamble addict?
A lot of gamblers tend to conceal their gambling escapeds. After years of success marriage, love and commitment you ask your wife to bring the money you were sprayed during your wedding that you asked her to keep and she opened up to you how gambling has drained the money.

What will be your reaction?

For me this situation will end so badly for her of course because I don't like secrets in a marriage especially it was all about the hard earned money based on that scenario but if it was her own then a break up would be a solution.

Before marrying your wife it's expected that you get to know her very well that is why we advocate for dating because if actually some the two of them where dating the husband must have find out some hidden things about the wife and that means the gambling habits so I will definitely put the blame on the husband because he didn't actually do a proper background check on the woman that he got married to

In this kind of case devoice is not an option because marriage for better and worst

You might not be fair to the husband if you blame him. Remember during dating they are not living together and humans can pretend, they can decide to hide their character

[|MINER|]

How will you feel if you find out that your wife of 5yrs is a gamble addict?
A lot of gamblers tend to conceal their gambling escapeds. After years of success marriage, love and commitment you ask your wife to bring the money you were sprayed during your wedding that you asked her to keep and she opened up to you how gambling has drained the money.

What will be your reaction?

If I were to find myself in such a situation, my reaction would certainly never be good, nor would I ever want such a situation to ever come into anyone's life.
And to avoid such situations, I think we need to be more open with our partners so that we keep each other informed about all our activities. And at the same time, we can stop each other in time before we go astray. My reaction in such a situation would not be good, but I would initially show my wife to a psychologist for that activity so that she can come out of the addiction.

[Rubel007]

What a difficult situation if it's been 5 years since you found out your wife is a gambling addict? You might get angry and wonder why you only found out after so long.

This can lead to divorce because a husband only found out after a long time, but it's strange that they didn't know from the beginning, but I think few wives do this unless the husband is the one who is addicted to gambling but the wife doesn't know.

Women are less likely to become addicted to gambling. They are mostly busy with family work, which is why they are less likely to become addicted. On the other hand, men can spend a lot of free time after coming home after completing their work outside, which is why men are more likely to become addicted than women. But if a woman is addicted to gambling, then it should be considered very carefully and as much as possible, the wife should be brought back from the situation.

[DragonF]

Women are less likely to become addicted to gambling. They are mostly busy with family work, which is why they are less likely to become addicted. On the other hand, men can spend a lot of free time after coming home after completing their work outside, which is why men are more likely to become addicted than women. But if a woman is addicted to gambling, then it should be considered very carefully and as much as possible, the wife should be brought back from the situation.

I don't agree, the way it takes a man to be addicted the same way it takes a woman. Addiction generally is not easy and it comes gradually. A woman who can gamble despite her tight schedule also have a possibility of becoming addicted. It is no news that the rate at which women gamble is on the increasing so also stories of addiction.

Some of these women visit casino house because they are lonely and feels that a casino house is where they can meet people, interact with them and gamble alongside and so the casino house has become a fortress for them. This is why it has become easier for women, particularly divorcees, to become addicted to gambling. 

[Rruchi man]

How will you feel if you find out that your wife of 5yrs is a gamble addict?

I don't know about the wedding vows in your country and how it is but in my country wedding ceremonies and the vow involved is usually for better and for worse which means that after marriage whatever behavior or character that you discover your partner to have is something you should learn to live with and if you cannot live with it, get a divorce.

[$crypto$]

Disappointment is certain, I think everyone would be disappointed if they found out their partner was not open enough to something sensitive like this and we know that something related to money will be sensitive.

But we also judge them, because that will not solve the problem and it will not make our money back. So one thing that can be done is to discuss or improve communication so that the same thing does not happen in the future.

[LUCKMCFLY]

Disappointment is certain, I think everyone would be disappointed if they found out their partner was not open enough to something sensitive like this and we know that something related to money will be sensitive.

That's where the problem lies because based on everything that can be generated is distrust, and in every couple when one distrusts the other, things turn into fights and sooner or later they end the relationship, so I think that is a unique break, the person has to do a lot to regain trust and the truth is I see it as very difficult for him to be able to carry things well, I personally would not give him the opportunity because if he was able to hide something like that, then he could hide stronger things and that is something that cannot be allowed.

[$crypto$]

Disappointment is certain, I think everyone would be disappointed if they found out their partner was not open enough to something sensitive like this and we know that something related to money will be sensitive.

That's where the problem lies because based on everything that can be generated is distrust, and in every couple when one distrusts the other, things turn into fights and sooner or later they end the relationship, so I think that is a unique break, the person has to do a lot to regain trust and the truth is I see it as very difficult for him to be able to carry things well, I personally would not give him the opportunity because if he was able to hide something like that, then he could hide stronger things and that is something that cannot be allowed.

Trust, openness is one of the most important things in a relationship, especially if it is a household relationship. And one of the things that can create it is good communication too.

How many households are broken because of lack of communication caused by several things. Even in any relationship communication is very important, good and bad must be resolved through communication.

[LUCKMCFLY]

How many households are broken because of lack of communication caused by several things. Even in any relationship communication is very important, good and bad must be resolved through communication.

It is very true, bears will always be like that with communication, sometimes we as men can let things go, we do not give them so much importance, but the fact of hiding those types of things is different, if one does something minimal, not with the relevance that she did, but hiding other things, at least my wife starts to fight and remind me all the time and Every time she Feels like fighting and that is annoying, so it gets tiring , when she says it I do not Encourage her because I feel that it is Wasting time to fight over silly things, but over big things like that it is a Reason to say that that person is not good for her.