Warnings from other people's losses are actually a good thing, if we are able to understand them and learn from that bad experience. But unfortunately, often people will not learn if they have not experienced the failure themselves.
it is because experiencing it ourselves is a different feeling than we could ever expect it’s hard to actually think logically when you are in the situation already and whatever you thought you were prepared for would make you realize that you aren’t that prepared yet until you have experienced it yourself
what would be more foolish is if even after you have experienced something you still do not learn from the experience and continue to make the same mistakes
Yes, I agree with you, because experiencing it yourself is much more real and makes us really affected by the results.
If it is a loss, we will definitely feel a burden that may vary, and it will definitely make our feelings a little complicated, directly.
and if it is profiting, then we ourselves will feel the satisfaction and happiness of the victory.
yes, indeed, that makes sense. Although in fact, from other sources we should also be able to take experience and lessons, especially if it is related to silly things, big losses, scams, and others that cause big losses or even crime or suicide.