Marriage discussion in this generation

[Akinwale Akinkunmi]

Would you prefer to get married early or just get married late? reasons also

[albon]

Not just age it is associated with something else so everything should be taken into consideration. Whether the boy or girl who is married is physically and mentally prepared, whether he thinks herself fit for such a great duties of life. Moreover, many things that are at the stage of the career work. All are advised to get married between 28 and 32 years to make married life. Many people are overwhelmed with marriage so doubt is created. If you suffer from depression then do all the points against marriage. Then analyze them at one time it would seem that the reasons against marriage have no meaning.

[Rruchi man]

Would you prefer to get married early or just get married late? reasons also

There is no medal being awarded for being the first to get married, and it is better to get married well than to get married and not marry well. Bad marriage has been the reason for some people’s early death. A bad home without peace is worse than a prison.

[Dr.Bitcoin_Strange]

I think anyone can get married at any point they feel that they have what it takes to get married regardless of the age. Early marriage has its advantages as well as disadvantages and so does marrying late.

If I were to choose, I think I would choose marrying early, by early I mean somewhere below 30, i believe around this age, one may have gotten all the experiences he needs to have his own family. But one thing I always tell people, it doesn’t matter the age, if you feel you don’t have the resources currently to take care of a family, then it’s best not to get into marriage.

[DragonF]

Getting married is one thing, but maintaining a peaceful home is another. To me, age should not be the determining factor in marriage, but rather compatibility with your spouse. There are many failed marriages because they were in a hurry to marry without even taking time to understand each other.

Sometimes the man is carried away by the beauty of his wife and so did not deem it necessary to study other aspects of his wife. Also, the woman may be carried away by the fact that the man is rich and so did not pay attention to his personality and character, and so after marriage those characters begin to manifest and both spouses begin to have a rethink.

Marriages today do not last as long as they did in the past because people marry for the wrong reasons, and when those reasons are no longer present, the marriage ends.

[milewilda]

Would you prefer to get married early or just get married late? reasons also

This will really be that situational because we do all know that entering marriage life is never been simple considering that you would really be having that responsibility and finding up that ideal girl or true love isnt something that you can be able to know and thats why whenever you do rush up on marriage then it might that not end up good. Go with the flow and you will be able to know on whats the right time and it wont be something that will be known in terms of duration but for me then as long you do have a good job and have some preparation on early marriage then i would go for it. yes, it might have that disadvantage but it does have some pros too on which if you do get married early then your kids will grown up and you arent that still old on which means that you can still enjoy those retirement days with them in compared on marrying late.

[libert19]

Late, possibly in 30s. I just feel you are more mature at this age since you go through some life experiences and your sex organs do less of taking cause lust has dipped down a bit compared to teen hood and 20s.

[joniboini]

I prefer late marriage, or as long as I have enough wealth to sustain a family. I think most of my peers think the same, our parents are usually the ones who push to get married asap because they want to have grandchildren and so on. Luckily with how expensive things are nowadays, my parents realize that marriage without good planning is a terrible idea. At the end of the day it's hard to figure the right time since we can't measure psychological development easily. Communication with your partner is key to that.

[bitterguy28]

Would you prefer to get married early or just get married late? reasons also

it doesnt matter really if you are young and you are already financially stable your family are also in good shape and do not entirely depend on you, your future is secured, and you are dating the love of your life then why not right? if all things fell into place at an early time then go for it but if it has not yet then there is nothing wrong with waiting for a bit

there is no deadline for marriage so it is either you can wait until whatever age you are in or you can marry now if you feel sure about it

[Findingnemo]

Would you prefer to get married early or just get married late? reasons also

Marrying early has health benefits but marrying when you are comfortable in your economic status give you the complete feeling of life assuming your partner is happy with you.

IMO, age is irrelevant factor cause we should be married only if we can able to take the responsibility on our shoulders which comes from life lesson and some may get that in their 20s and some won't even get that in their 40's.

[Aanuoluwatofunmi]

Would you prefer to get married early or just get married late? reasons also

I don't think a reasonable person should just come up with a decision of not getting married on time when they are in the right metal and physical fitness, what i know often caused for late marriage is the background level of a persons economy foundation, job, maturity and finding the right partner meant for one, but aside all these and all things being equal, i see no reason why someone should choose to remain unmarried toll age begin to run after them.

[Dr.Bitcoin_Strange]

I don't think a reasonable person should just come up with a decision of not getting married on time when they are in the right metal and physical fitness, what i know often caused for late marriage is the background level of a persons economy foundation, job, maturity and finding the right partner meant for one, but aside all these and all things being equal, i see no reason why someone should choose to remain unmarried toll age begin to run after them.

I believe there are several other reasons someone would decide not to get married. I read something online a certain time, although I don’t know how authentic it is. It’s about Chris Brown the popular American singer, said he wanted to get married , settle down and have his own family, but quickly changed his mind when he was reminded that  the woman who he intends to married could wake up one morning, file for a divorce and walk away with half of all he’s worked for all his life. This is exactly the reason why some people, especially celebrities, rich and notable people in the societies, cos honestly, some women have turned this into a business, date and marry rich men only to divorce them and make away with half of their wealth and fortune.

[Chilwell]

Would you prefer to get married early or just get married late? reasons also

Whether marrying early or late is insignificant, what matters are the advantages and disadvantages of marriage. Before getting married, several factors need to be considered. Marriage is a lifelong commitment, it is for better for worse, until eternity, if God willing. As a man, it is important to recognize that marriage brings significant responsibilities that last forever. In that case, before considering marriage, one should assess their financial stability, ensuring a steady income to support themselves and their future family.

But some individuals focus solely on the wedding expenses I.e food for guests, forgetting that these expenses are temporary, whereas the responsibilities of supporting a spouse and potential children is for eternity. Before getting married, it is really advisable and important to plan for the future, and ensure financial stability and security for yourself and your future family. You need to consider the factors apart from the wedding day, for instance providing for a spouse, children, and building a secure future together. Marriage is not a joke, it requires careful consideration. You can choose to marry early or late, but only when you have the power to carry on the future responsibilities.

[JoyMarsha]

When you are financially stable, mentally and emotional strong, marriage can come to heart for someone who wants to settle down because at that time that person is ready to get married.

Marriage is not what really should enter when they are not fully ready. Marriage comes with many ups and downs, someone who's not to deal with it, shouldn't come near it despite their age

[libert19]

dMarriage is not what really should enter when they are not fully ready. Marriage comes with many ups and downs, someone who's not to deal with it, shouldn't come near it despite their age

Yeah, this tbh. Parents often just look at their children's age and decide that (s)he is ready to get married, and children themselves say yes as well because of allure of sexual pleasures, especially if one is from conservative society.

I'm not sure what makes people marry early as in western countries though since there is no question of sex there (i.e, in society where it's allowed to have sex before marriage).