Letter to young men out there!

[Akinwale Akinkunmi]

Dear Young Man,

A relationship that does not support your personal growth, provide encouragement, and foster development may ultimately hinder your progress.

 Avoid it. Yes avoid it...

You may mistakenly assume she loves you due to her pretended desire for your attention, which distracts you from your goals and life's purpose.

Despite being informed, you might disregard this warning and continue down a path of gradual manipulation.

Are you truly convinced that you are in love? This conviction is misinformed.

Once she has successfully conquered you, she will discard you, dump you, trash you and move forward with her life, having achieved her objectives. She will still shame you by telling you that you aren't serious with your life.

Regardless of your profound affection for your partner, prioritize your personal growth, objectives, and aspirations above the relationship.

Remain focused...

Stay wise..

[albon]

Distribute your time properly and keep some time apart for your work or personal time and let him know. You can create special moments for each other, but that does not mean that to be extra dependent on each other. Moreover, there should be some limits in your relationship which will teach a person to give confidence and respect for each other. Instead of sustaining clinging behavior increase the respect for each other's freedom. All situations should be dealt with properly then the difficult time of life will be easy.

[libert19]

All relationships are giving and receiving and it takes sometimes immense energy to maintain them which could have been better directed to your own goals.

Regarding encouragement — I think it should come from within, rather than being expected of someone else.

[EluguHcman]

Gone are those days when love hold the key to relationship and then women were not privatizing their responsibilities on the man but to share their problems accordingly.

Not today's generation where women think they can not do without the financial support of their men as life they were not living well before having a date/relationship with the man.

So for a promising man that I be successful in life, you must not acquaint yourself to a gold digger and a consumer who are not contributing to your needs of emotional support or financial support otherwise, you will end up labouring in vain because while you are struggling to grow in your investment portfolio or educational, she would be generously eating you up before your notice you are gone and worn.

[bisdak40]

Dear Young Man,

A relationship that does not support your personal growth, provide encouragement, and foster development may ultimately hinder your progress.

 Avoid it. Yes avoid it...

You may mistakenly assume she loves you due to her pretended desire for your attention, which distracts you from your goals and life's purpose.

Despite being informed, you might disregard this warning and continue down a path of gradual manipulation.

Are you truly convinced that you are in love? This conviction is misinformed.

Once she has successfully conquered you, she will discard you, dump you, trash you and move forward with her life, having achieved her objectives. She will still shame you by telling you that you aren't serious with your life.

Regardless of your profound affection for your partner, prioritize your personal growth, objectives, and aspirations above the relationship.

Remain focused...

Stay wise..

If a relationship isn’t helping you grow, it’s only slowing you down. She might act like she cares, but if she’s just after attention, you’ll end up lost and distracted. And once she’s done, she’ll leave like nothing happened. Love shouldn’t cost you your goals. Stay focused and choose wisely.

[Rruchi man]

Dear Young Man,

Relationships are in no way helpful to an individual who is still trying to find his life and knows within themselves that they have no intention of marriage. It is better to be single and trying to find your life than to be tangled in a relationship that may stop you and hinder you from meeting other individuals that may help you achieve your purpose.

[Dr.Bitcoin_Strange]

So what you’re trying to say OP is that you women are naturally deceptive and would do nothing but hinder your goal and progress in life. As a man, if you’re with a woman who doesn’t really love you but is only pretending to, you’d definitely know, so it’ll be up to you to stay in that relationship or to take a walk. Women have this very complicated nature, that even a woman who loves you can sometimes make you feel unloved but it’s very easy to detect a woman who really do actually love you and one who is leading you on. But it’s important to note that not all women are what you’ve described in your letter and you have failed to state that, making it look like all women are just deceptive which is totally false.

[MUGNIA]

So what you’re trying to say OP is that you women are naturally deceptive and would do nothing but hinder your goal and progress in life. As a man, if you’re with a woman who doesn’t really love you but is only pretending to, you’d definitely know, so it’ll be up to you to stay in that relationship or to take a walk. Women have this very complicated nature, that even a woman who loves you can sometimes make you feel unloved but it’s very easy to detect a woman who really do actually love you and one who is leading you on. But it’s important to note that not all women are what you’ve described in your letter and you have failed to state that, making it look like all women are just deceptive which is totally false.

I wonder why women are always blamed when a relationship ends, even though it is not 100% the woman's fault. If there is mutual understanding and openness in a relationship, then the relationship will always last and there will be no suspicion.

[Dr.Bitcoin_Strange]

I wonder why women are always blamed when a relationship ends, even though it is not 100% the woman's fault. If there is mutual understanding and openness in a relationship, then the relationship will always last and there will be no suspicion.

Exactly. There’s not a single relationship without its flaws, its ups and its downs, and most of the times you can’t blame the women because men are naturally stronger than women, both physically, emotionally and even mentally. Women may be smarter than men but men are always stronger, now there are situations that a man can overlook, women can’t. And without an actual understanding of this fact, the women could be seen as problematic and dramatic. It’s all about mutual understanding.

[MUGNIA]

I wonder why women are always blamed when a relationship ends, even though it is not 100% the woman's fault. If there is mutual understanding and openness in a relationship, then the relationship will always last and there will be no suspicion.

Exactly. There’s not a single relationship without its flaws, its ups and its downs, and most of the times you can’t blame the women because men are naturally stronger than women, both physically, emotionally and even mentally. Women may be smarter than men but men are always stronger, now there are situations that a man can overlook, women can’t. And without an actual understanding of this fact, the women could be seen as problematic and dramatic. It’s all about mutual understanding.

haha, women are the strongest race in the world, especially when they are sulking, long-term problems will be remembered, even the smallest things will be brought up in detail, this is my personal experience and my husband's

[Sim_card]

Dear Young Man,

Relationships are in no way helpful to an individual who is still trying to find his life and knows within themselves that they have no intention of marriage. It is better to be single and trying to find your life than to be tangled in a relationship that may stop you and hinder you from meeting other individuals that may help you achieve your purpose.

Exactly, why will put relationship first when you have a goal to achieve in life and you haven't started yet. As long as you are not planning to get married soon, don't think about any relationship because it wouldn't lead you to anywhere since you are using it distract yourself from planning a better life for yourself.

[Findingnemo]

People of young age will hate people who give advices so I am not going to insist anyone, let them learn their lessons from their own experience.

Love is nothing without the money when it comes to male so don't make the mistake of confusing love and life cause money is essential in life and women consider a loser when the man isn't financially successful.

[Vx1]

Is this a love problem?! If yes, then everyone must have experienced this phase, where our hearts will fall to someone we love.
But as time goes by, this phase will pass and we will definitely be able to think more maturely. More mature in making decisions and more mature in taking action.

[Dr.Bitcoin_Strange]

haha, women are the strongest race in the world, especially when they are sulking, long-term problems will be remembered, even the smallest things will be brought up in detail, this is my personal experience and my husband's

That’s very true. The female mind is like sticky wall, when something happens, they stick it to their mind and it stays there for as long as possible, even for several decades, and when something happens in the future that’ll require them to make reference to that particular event, they’ll simply just go straight to that sticky wall, unstick it and unfold everything without leaving a single detail. I used to think like most people that this is one of the bad qualities that women possess, but then again, I have come to the realization that it’s in fact the opposite as this could be actually put into good use. That’s why women fits in best in secretary positions, Lol . There are also several ways this quality could be effectively harnessed, even in the family.

[MUGNIA]

haha, women are the strongest race in the world, especially when they are sulking, long-term problems will be remembered, even the smallest things will be brought up in detail, this is my personal experience and my husband's

That’s very true. The female mind is like sticky wall, when something happens, they stick it to their mind and it stays there for as long as possible, even for several decades, and when something happens in the future that’ll require them to make reference to that particular event, they’ll simply just go straight to that sticky wall, unstick it and unfold everything without leaving a single detail. I used to think like most people that this is one of the bad qualities that women possess, but then again, I have come to the realization that it’s in fact the opposite as this could be actually put into good use. That’s why women fits in best in secretary positions, Lol . There are also several ways this quality could be effectively harnessed, even in the family.

haha , sangat kompleks  bila bicara masalah wanita ,   pokok nya agar hubungan selalu haromis harus saling pengertian satu sama lain.  buang rasa saling egois  yang akut  itu akan membuat rumah tangga atau hubungan tidak akan langeng