Just another thing to add to the discussion is that elections could be so polarizing that even long time friends and family members fight among themselves just to defend their chose politicians. Do not follow this path because most of these politicians do not really hate each other on a personal level. After election is over, you see them all smiles at different social gatherings and hugging each other (they could be allies in the next one). It's all business to them at the end of the day. Meanwhile, the friends and family who might have said something nasty to each other in the past makes it more difficult to reconcile.