Does it make sense to have bestfriend of an opposite sex?

[Cryptsafe]

Exactly, how can a married man have a female best friend and how can a married woman have a male best friend. That doesn't make any sense to me.

Yeah, it does not make any sense to me, even if you were friends before you got married or got into a serious relationship, you have to limit the relationship, you may not necessarily have to cut your friend off, but you can limit the closeness. Nobody will be happy if their partner has a very close friend.

Not every spouse would be comfortable with such a relationship. Naturally, humans are jealous and would never allow their spouse to remain in such a relationship after marriage. The best thing to do is for both couples to talk over it and reach a mutual understanding, binding them with respect to their relationship. If they agree to do away with their bestie, it's fine, but if they do not, it's fine as it solely depends on them to decide.

[milewilda]

Exactly, how can a married man have a female best friend and how can a married woman have a male best friend. That doesn't make any sense to me.

Yeah, it does not make any sense to me, even if you were friends before you got married or got into a serious relationship, you have to limit the relationship, you may not necessarily have to cut your friend off, but you can limit the closeness. Nobody will be happy if their partner has a very close friend.

Not every spouse would be comfortable with such a relationship. Naturally, humans are jealous and would never allow their spouse to remain in such a relationship after marriage. The best thing to do is for both couples to talk over it and reach a mutual understanding, binding them with respect to their relationship. If they agree to do away with their bestie, it's fine, but if they do not, it's fine as it solely depends on them to decide.

Case to case basis but most of the time our spouse will definitely prohibits us on having some relationship with other sexes specially if we are that dealing up with the opposite ones then it cant be able to avoid on how to have that jealousy on which we know that its normal because we've seen tons of relationships turned out to be a mess just because of potential temptation in between opposite sex on which there's always that high probability that it could really happen and thats why most of the time we will be that preferring on not wanting for them to get involved as much as possible even if we do speak about your bestfriends on which it could potentially be having that probability for it to happen.

[Dr.Bitcoin_Strange]

For me, it's really possible to have a best friend of the opposite sex and still have nothing going on between them. I think it depends on respect and knowing your limits. Just because two people are close doesn't mean they like each other in a romantic way. But I understand why people always talk about it. Sometimes, your real partner may feel uncomfortable or jealous if they don't fully understand the friendship. That's why it's important to be open, honest, and not hide anything. If your partner feels safe and knows everything, there should be no problem. Most problems happen when there are secrets or things that make others confused.

Indeed you are right, when one is into a relationship or when marriage is involved, and one still intend of maintaining their old relationship or friendship know as ' Bestfriends', then I don't see anything wrong or worth hiding it from their spouse's or their partners, they should know the truth to avoid future problems or misunderstandings, which might lead to destruction, which will not result in good seed. So its better, wise and beneficial not to hide the truth especially to those that deserve or that matters.