Relationships in 2025!

[Findingnemo]

It's an interesting thing to see how relationships have evolved in the last few decades, there used to be a time when one support another while being together and grow together in terms of financially as well as emotionally but nowadays things are just instant, meet and greet then if something goes wrong it just ends and they will look for another part.

How do you see this kind of chances from your perspective?

[Asiska02]

Fake lives, imitations, social media lives, the world evolving are all part of what makes it very difficult for relationships to work out while they grow up together financially and emotionally. This is not about this year 2025, this has been happening for almost a decade too now and many have complained about it but it just keeps getting worst. The female genders now believe more that if you’re not an already made person, you can’t have a chance with them as they can’t help you to build but rather enjoy the fruit of your labour with you. There are still a couple of them that don’t see life this way, when you come across one, don’t let go off them and don’t do things that will send them away because when you lose one, you may never be able to get them back again.

[JoyMarsha]

Things have changed because we are living in a civilized world where people want an easy life without stress about whatever they are doing, be it relationships.

The use of social media, gadgets, and modern facilities has changed the mindset of people not to build long-lasting relationships with someone instead a short one that what you can offer as a man or woman will determine how long or sweet the relationship can be.

Nobody wants to be with someone who can't provide them with basic needs or wants. People now see relationships as ways to enrich themselves or satisfy their sexual urges.

[libert19]

The female genders now believe more that if you’re not an already made person, you can’t have a chance with them as they can’t help you to build but rather enjoy the fruit of your labour with you.

I think this has always been the case with females, I read article called Schopenhaur on women, and its about 175 years old since that was published, and same thing as you say here was said there (it's men's business to earn money, theirs to spend it).

[milewilda]

It's an interesting thing to see how relationships have evolved in the last few decades, there used to be a time when one support another while being together and grow together in terms of financially as well as emotionally but nowadays things are just instant, meet and greet then if something goes wrong it just ends and they will look for another part.

How do you see this kind of chances from your perspective?

In todays era where accessbility and the swiftness on how on when to meet someone could be that fast on which means that finding up into those persons whom you are interested into could be so easy and thats why whenever they do meet up someone who had been that able to do online and if they do make out some face to face meet up and sees up something which isnt nice then you can always choose up to ignore and reject them out instantly and never look back. Somewhat there are still those people who are going into those traditional way when it comes to relationship but just like on what we are talking on here is that there are those who are that already taking up such approach when finding someone that they might be interested into.

[Findingnemo]

Nobody wants to be with someone who can't provide them with basic needs or wants. People now see relationships as ways to enrich themselves or satisfy their sexual urges.

If someone can't provide a basic need then it's okay to move on but what happens is different, they want expensive shits that is not useful or worth but they want it and men have to work their ass off just to satisfy their expectations. But this lasts until they hit certain age and then they will settle for whoever they can find.

Relationships aren't about growing together?

[Dr.Bitcoin_Strange]

Nobody wants to be with someone who can't provide them with basic needs or wants. People now see relationships as ways to enrich themselves or satisfy their sexual urges.

If someone can't provide a basic need then it's okay to move on but what happens is different, they want expensive shits that is not useful or worth but they want it and men have to work their ass off just to satisfy their expectations. But this lasts until they hit certain age and then they will settle for whoever they can find.

Relationships aren't about growing together?

Exactly and also most ladies don't know what they actually want, even if men are satisfying them, they can still choose to do however they want, without looking back or remembering what men went through just to smile on their face and before they will realize themselves, its already too late for them and then they will unable to amend, rather they will just want to just settle withsoever person they came across with, which they will surely endure their shortcomings whether they like it or not and then they will regret their action on what they did, when they are been adored.

[Tribalchief]

How do you see this kind of chances from your perspective?

It's quite unfortunate that the world we live in today has been partially blinded by what we call "Disney Love stories", or the movie kind of relationships. We just want everything to look perfect when we can't even offer a work of perfection. Gone are those old days when people take time to know each other, grow and make plans together, and also enjoy everything together. Fine, there is a need for individual development and brilliance, but of what use would it be when someone is eventually trapped with the wrong person.

[libert19]

Nobody wants to be with someone who can't provide them with basic needs or wants. People now see relationships as ways to enrich themselves or satisfy their sexual urges.

If someone can't provide a basic need then it's okay to move on but what happens is different, they want expensive shits that is not useful or worth but they want it and men have to work their ass off just to satisfy their expectations. But this lasts until they hit certain age and then they will settle for whoever they can find.

Why do men feel that they have to satisfy their wants, can they not say, no? Or are men 'yes men' to get into their panties?

Relationships aren't about growing together?

They are, but you can't force it.

Fine, there is a need for individual development and brilliance, but of what use would it be when someone is eventually trapped with the wrong person.

Trapped? Op mentions, people are quick to move on these days if things go wrong.

[bisdak40]

Relationships before were about staying together, helping each other, and growing as a team. Now, it feels more fast and short. If something goes wrong, people just leave. It’s easier to move on than to fix things. Love is not a game. It’s not something you try when you’re bored and stop when it gets hard. Love needs time, effort, and care. Real love means staying, growing, and understanding each other, not just looking for someone new.

[albon]

The issue has changed a lot from the past because we are living in a new civilized society where life can be managed with any relationship without any pressure. However, due to social media such relationships are not able to last long because it has become much easier to get into a relationship. Instead of creating long term relationships, people are now living a short term with enjoy happy life. So no one wants to stay with someone for a long time without basic needs. Nowadays, most people are getting involved in false relationships out of sexual desire and everything is ending in a very short period of time.

[Rruchi man]

It's an interesting thing to see how relationships have evolved in the last few decades, there used to be a time when one support another while being together and grow together in terms of financially as well as emotionally but nowadays things are just instant, meet and greet then if something goes wrong it just ends and they will look for another part.

People are no longer patient with each other and no longer have time to waste; people no longer want to spend time with someone who is still trying to fix their life and develop themselves.

There are still good relationships, though; just fix yourself enough, and the right person will come along.

[Cryptsafe]

It's an interesting thing to see how relationships have evolved in the last few decades, there used to be a time when one support another while being together and grow together in terms of financially as well as emotionally but nowadays things are just instant, meet and greet then if something goes wrong it just ends and they will look for another part.

People are no longer patient with each other and no longer have time to waste; people no longer want to spend time with someone who is still trying to fix their life and develop themselves.

There are still good relationships, though; just fix yourself enough, and the right person will come along.

This is exactly what we have been hearing all the time: nobody wants to stress themselves all in the name of a relationship, but they forget it takes commitment to truly know who you are in a relationship with. These days, they prefer already-made so they can just live in luxury and have the fun they envisaged. These are all the causes of divorce in society as people get into the wrong relationship while some just wallow in pains just to be were they are and not go back to square one all in the name of fix up yourself and the right person will come that doesn't know the beginning of the fix up all because of impatience.

[bhadz]

It's an interesting thing to see how relationships have evolved in the last few decades, there used to be a time when one support another while being together and grow together in terms of financially as well as emotionally but nowadays things are just instant, meet and greet then if something goes wrong it just ends and they will look for another part.

How do you see this kind of chances from your perspective?

It depends on the person who's meeting their love. If they are not patient, they're going to chase it time and time again. But if someone is looking for a genuine love, they're going to be patient and understanding. One mistake won't end it all as long as it's tolerable and not related to cheating or incompatibilty issues. I still believe in a long lasting relationship because I have been there and fortunately, still on it.