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Title: Why do friend turn better than the other?
Post by: Munah on March 21, 2025, 09:33:31 AM
Some of us saw those we started together now doing much better, and in terms of hardwork we do it better than them, is it that grace is different or do things just turn out to be different for us or it just time? Good morning!
Title: Re: Why do friend turn better than the other?
Post by: memehunter on March 21, 2025, 10:01:07 AM
Some of us saw those we started together now doing much better, and in terms of hardwork we do it better than them, is it that grace is different or do things just turn out to be different for us or it just time? Good morning!

Good morning!, WTF, so you just wake from a nostalgic dream and chose to post it as your first post here? Not only is the title of the post is far beyond my comprehension skills but the post itself can be regarded as generic and too vague. Try to read more.
Title: Re: Why do friend turn better than the other?
Post by: Royal Cap on March 21, 2025, 10:39:15 AM
The Creator has not sent everyone to the world with the same knowledge. The Creator gives a lot of talent in someone through which they can achieve better results with less effort than you and you cannot become like them even with a lot of hard work.  It is a gift from God to your friends or to those who succeed with less effort.  So you look around and you will see that not everyone can be a leader but only those who have that quality in them. So we should not be sad about it.
Title: Re: Why do friend turn better than the other?
Post by: bitterguy28 on March 21, 2025, 12:15:07 PM
Some of us saw those we started together now doing much better, and in terms of hardwork we do it better than them, is it that grace is different or do things just turn out to be different for us or it just time? Good morning!
]i do understand your point but you also have to consider that success involves being at a right place at a right time and maybe they were exactly that it would feel horrible sometimes to feel a bit jealous of your friends who are doing better but i think it is only natural

instead i think this should motivate us more to try and catch up to them so that you and all your friends end up becoming successful together the way you probably dreamt of when you were younger
Title: Re: Why do friend turn better than the other?
Post by: bisdak40 on March 21, 2025, 02:44:35 PM
Some of us saw those we started together now doing much better, and in terms of hardwork we do it better than them, is it that grace is different or do things just turn out to be different for us or it just time? Good morning!
]i do understand your point but you also have to consider that success involves being at a right place at a right time and maybe they were exactly that it would feel horrible sometimes to feel a bit jealous of your friends who are doing better but i think it is only natural

instead i think this should motivate us more to try and catch up to them so that you and all your friends end up becoming successful together the way you probably dreamt of when you were younger
Yeah, I get what you're saying. Sometimes, success is about being in the right place at the right time. It’s normal to feel a little jealous when you see friends doing better, but instead of letting it bring you down, use it as motivation. Keep pushing forward, and one day, you might all succeed together, just like you once dreamed.



Title: Re: Why do friend turn better than the other?
Post by: JISAN on March 21, 2025, 04:45:19 PM
Some of us saw those we started together now doing much better, and in terms of hardwork we do it better than them, is it that grace is different or do things just turn out to be different for us or it just time? Good morning!
Hard work alone cannot make anyone successful.  Donkeys can also work very hard but their work is completely in vain.  You must do the right things at the right time to be successful and do well but must work hard. Nothing good can ever be done by laziness or slowness. Some people's success depends on their luck.  Many people get good things with little effort due to their good luck. However, hard work can never be avoided for doing something good. And must achieve the strategy of doing the right thing at the right time.
Title: Re: Why do friend turn better than the other?
Post by: Stuart on March 21, 2025, 05:41:29 PM
Some of us saw those we started together now doing much better, and in terms of hardwork we do it better than them, is it that grace is different or do things just turn out to be different for us or it just time? Good morning!

I feel the impulse of this post. Most times, the way we see or plan things is not really the way it turns out to be, and that is normal. We should do what we can and let what will be to be. Preparing oneself ahead of what is to come will be very helpful when the time of transformation comes.

Most times, all these changes and better living come is just a little push/touch, but it is very important to be ready for it.
Title: Re: Why do friend turn better than the other?
Post by: Rruchi man on March 21, 2025, 11:36:55 PM
Some of us saw those we started together now doing much better, and in terms of hardwork we do it better than them, is it that grace is different or do things just turn out to be different for us or it just time? Good morning!

Different timing in life means you need to focus more on yourself and be happy for your friends when good things are happening for them. Your time will surely come as long as you keep working hard and stay focused on it. They are your friends does not mean things will happen at the same time for all of you; never let jealousy creep in; it stops growth.
Title: Re: Why do friend turn better than the other?
Post by: Dr.Bitcoin_Strange on March 22, 2025, 01:07:04 AM
The Creator has not sent everyone to the world with the same knowledge. The Creator gives a lot of talent in someone through which they can achieve better results with less effort than you and you cannot become like them even with a lot of hard work.  It is a gift from God to your friends or to those who succeed with less effort.  So you look around and you will see that not everyone can be a leader but only those who have that quality in them. So we should not be sad about it.

That is why, in some cases effort doesn’t require urgently but the wisdom, knowledge one has given by God, that is why some of our friends succeed more quickly than some of us, it doesn’t mean our handwork doesn’t pay, it does but not in the same field, just as we are higher than some people, that is how others are also higher than us. So we should always be satisfied and thankful to God in wherever place we are and not to compare with others because we don’t know what they did in secret to get where they are now or the sacrifice they pay for them to achieve all what they got, we should be thankful and always work diligently too because we don’t know who will lift us or promote us to a higher place.
Title: Re: Why do friend turn better than the other?
Post by: bhadz on March 22, 2025, 09:51:20 AM
Some of us saw those we started together now doing much better, and in terms of hardwork we do it better than them, is it that grace is different or do things just turn out to be different for us or it just time? Good morning!
Things and results don't do usually from how we think based on the effort that we've done. If things are doing good for us there is for sure that our friends will be glad about that, the real friends. But if you're doing good in life and these you thought friends of yours are not happy with how it goes for yourself, they are not your friends. And so as for yourself, if you've seen that in your circle of friends that doesn't cheer for a winning friend, you have to think. We don't know what these friends that does better than us behind the scene to make themselves better than anybody else.
Title: Re: Why do friend turn better than the other?
Post by: Sim_card on March 22, 2025, 05:19:28 PM
Some of us saw those we started together now doing much better, and in terms of hardwork we do it better than them, is it that grace is different or do things just turn out to be different for us or it just time? Good morning!
I have been in your shoes before, when I see friends, families and neighbors who are looking up to you because they know that you are more knowledgeable than them getting a better than me. There was a time I started thinking if I was not on the right track. Later, things turned around for me because I didn't give up but continued with the little thing I was doing to earn a living. When the right time came, I met the right person and things became different gradually.
Title: Re: Why do friend turn better than the other?
Post by: milewilda on March 22, 2025, 06:43:19 PM
Some of us saw those we started together now doing much better, and in terms of hardwork we do it better than them, is it that grace is different or do things just turn out to be different for us or it just time? Good morning!
We should know that success isnt something that be a guaranteed thing to happen on each individual even if we do say that you are doing the same thing on what your friend is doing or someone whom you do know. There would be factors that affects out outcome.

1. Time spent
2. Effort spent
3. Decisions made
4. Mix of luck
5. Timing

This is why you cant really be able to mimic out others success because just like been said that there would really be those
things on which that will be affecting the overall outcome and results.
Title: Re: Why do friend turn better than the other?
Post by: Z-tight on March 22, 2025, 11:48:34 PM
Don't think like this, lest you become envious of your friends and you know how bad envy can be, you begin to hate on your friends and think evil. Just work as hard as you can, and if good things happen to your friends, celebrate with them, don't be envious of them.
Title: Re: Why do friend turn better than the other?
Post by: bisdak40 on March 24, 2025, 04:29:01 PM
Don't think like this, lest you become envious of your friends and you know how bad envy can be, you begin to hate on your friends and think evil. Just work as hard as you can, and if good things happen to your friends, celebrate with them, don't be envious of them.
Yeah, envy can really mess things up. Instead of feeling bad about others doing well, just focus on your own grind. Celebrate their wins, and keep pushing for yours. Everyone has their own time!

Title: Re: Why do friend turn better than the other?
Post by: Z-tight on March 24, 2025, 11:45:42 PM
Yeah, envy can really mess things up. Instead of feeling bad about others doing well, just focus on your own grind. Celebrate their wins, and keep pushing for yours. Everyone has their own time!
Yeah, i know sometimes it can be hard not to feel jealous, but it is what you do with that jealousy that matters, do you let it turn into envy and then hatred, or do use it to motivate yourself. Always learn to congratulate people who are doing well or have achieved something good, rather than being jealous.
Title: Re: Why do friend turn better than the other?
Post by: Findingnemo on March 26, 2025, 12:18:01 PM
Or, the person is actually better than you. :P

Let's say two different babies born at the same time (not twins) and they are living the same life style, same food and everything same so you expect the both people should be exactly same in everything, genetics play a big part apart from the practice.
Title: Re: Why do friend turn better than the other?
Post by: Dr.Bitcoin_Strange on March 27, 2025, 01:37:19 AM
Yeah, envy can really mess things up. Instead of feeling bad about others doing well, just focus on your own grind. Celebrate their wins, and keep pushing for yours. Everyone has their own time!
Yeah, i know sometimes it can be hard not to feel jealous, but it is what you do with that jealousy that matters, do you let it turn into envy and then hatred, or do use it to motivate yourself. Always learn to congratulate people who are doing well or have achieved something good, rather than being jealous.

You are totally right, instead of having hatred on people who are successful, channel the energy into working more harder to also be successful, learn positive things or skill from them and achieve something great from them and also it’s good to keep congratulating people because one day, it will get your turn and always remember to be always grateful for everything you have benefits from their kindness and also be optimistic.
But while we are learning from them or working hard to help ourselves, we shouldn’t forget that everything that glitters is not good and we should try and be satisfied with whatever we have.
Title: Re: Why do friend turn better than the other?
Post by: libert19 on March 27, 2025, 07:33:30 AM
People are different. Some learn faster, some slower. Some already feel at home with certain things, as soon as they see something they understand it, while some take a while before they understand it.

...and I would say it's wrong to compare when inherent abilities are different.
Title: Re: Why do friend turn better than the other?
Post by: MUGNIA on March 28, 2025, 12:01:37 AM
better friends, that is because of perseverance and seriousness in every effort, consistent commitment is also a foundation for becoming better, there is no need to be satisfied with achievements because the challenges ahead are still and even more complicated
Title: Re: Why do friend turn better than the other?
Post by: joniboini on March 28, 2025, 01:09:13 AM
Speaking of envy, I heard a story about someone who always complained about their life. They always compare themselves with other people and always feel dissatisfied with how their life is going. Objectively though, they're doing fairly well because they got married, have good kids, don't get bothered by loans, etc. They realize it's a problem but find it hard to be content with what they have.

To be fair though, being content with what you have can be quite difficult to distinguish from being passive/lazy. It's easier to judge if your life is decent, though, because you can't say you should accept your life the way it is when you're broke and don't put an effort into looking for a decent job.
Title: Re: Why do friend turn better than the other?
Post by: libert19 on March 28, 2025, 06:48:42 AM
Speaking of envy, I heard a story about someone who always complained about their life. They always compare themselves with other people and always feel dissatisfied with how their life is going. Objectively though, they're doing fairly well because they got married, have good kids, don't get bothered by loans, etc. They realize it's a problem but find it hard to be content with what they have.

It's hard to be content though, no? Particularly because world is so vast and there is always something more to do. Sure, basic needs may be satisfied, but there are more things to do.
Title: Re: Why do friend turn better than the other?
Post by: albon on March 28, 2025, 11:58:04 AM
Whenever you start working in crypto as a team, you will get a lot of energy. Working alone can be very time consuming and eventually you will get lazy about your work. To be successful you must do the right things at the right time and criticize everything with many people. There are many people who lead a lazy life, but nothing good can be done by laziness or ease. Many people's lives change with luck, but it is not for everyone. Some people are lucky from birth due to which they quickly taste success in any work.
Title: Re: Why do friend turn better than the other?
Post by: bisdak40 on March 28, 2025, 03:09:29 PM
Speaking of envy, I heard a story about someone who always complained about their life. They always compare themselves with other people and always feel dissatisfied with how their life is going. Objectively though, they're doing fairly well because they got married, have good kids, don't get bothered by loans, etc. They realize it's a problem but find it hard to be content with what they have.

To be fair though, being content with what you have can be quite difficult to distinguish from being passive/lazy. It's easier to judge if your life is decent, though, because you can't say you should accept your life the way it is when you're broke and don't put an effort into looking for a decent job.
Yeah, some people have a good life but still feel unhappy because they compare too much. Being content doesn’t mean being lazy. You can appreciate what you have while still working for more if needed.
Title: Re: Why do friend turn better than the other?
Post by: milewilda on March 28, 2025, 09:18:07 PM
Speaking of envy, I heard a story about someone who always complained about their life. They always compare themselves with other people and always feel dissatisfied with how their life is going. Objectively though, they're doing fairly well because they got married, have good kids, don't get bothered by loans, etc. They realize it's a problem but find it hard to be content with what they have.

To be fair though, being content with what you have can be quite difficult to distinguish from being passive/lazy. It's easier to judge if your life is decent, though, because you can't say you should accept your life the way it is when you're broke and don't put an effort into looking for a decent job.
Yeah, some people have a good life but still feel unhappy because they compare too much. Being content doesn’t mean being lazy. You can appreciate what you have while still working for more if needed.
Contentment on what you do have on which do really bring up that happiness. You can be able to differentiate into those people who are really that truly being contented on what they do have now despite on having some hardship in terms of financial but still they are really that happy with it. In speaking about having some progress or having some improvement then it will really be that  depending on a certain individual on whether they would be trying out to make some changes then they would really be needing to exert extra effort for that so they would really be able to achieve on what their targets or goals. Each person does have that different mentality on which it do came up with different decisions to be taken into their own lives.
Title: Re: Why do friend turn better than the other?
Post by: libert19 on March 29, 2025, 07:58:24 AM
Whenever you start working in crypto as a team, you will get a lot of energy. Working alone can be very time consuming and eventually you will get lazy about your work.

I don't think this is universal truth, and it depends on individual. Personally, I like to work alone, I am more focused that way and I find people distracting.
Title: Re: Why do friend turn better than the other?
Post by: Dr.Bitcoin_Strange on April 02, 2025, 02:02:42 PM
Whenever you start working in crypto as a team, you will get a lot of energy. Working alone can be very time consuming and eventually you will get lazy about your work.

I don't think this is universal truth, and it depends on individual. Personally, I like to work alone, I am more focused that way and I find people distracting.

That's true @libert19, every one is not the same, some people usually prefer to work  silently alone while their results and success will be a proof that they are really doing something great but some people too prefer teamwork because let to them alone, they will just easily give up if there's nobody that is there to push them or motivate them to strive harder. You know that there are some people that often prefer to get motivation from their friends or relatives before they can be able to keep chasing after their goals but they get lazy when they don't get those motivation.
Title: Re: Why do friend turn better than the other?
Post by: libert19 on April 02, 2025, 02:32:38 PM
Whenever you start working in crypto as a team, you will get a lot of energy. Working alone can be very time consuming and eventually you will get lazy about your work.
I don't think this is universal truth, and it depends on individual. Personally, I like to work alone, I am more focused that way and I find people distracting.
That's true @libert19, every one is not the same, some people usually prefer to work  silently alone while their results and success will be a proof that they are really doing something great but some people too prefer teamwork because let to them alone, they will just easily give up if there's nobody that is there to push them or motivate them to strive harder. You know that there are some people that often prefer to get motivation from their friends or relatives before they can be able to keep chasing after their goals but they get lazy when they don't get those motivation.

Yeah, when you have support around, it's good motivation but it kind of dependency and one might not always have this support so if one can get motivations from within it's better in comparison IMO.
Title: Re: Why do friend turn better than the other?
Post by: Chilwell on April 06, 2025, 11:23:27 PM
Some of us saw those we started together now doing much better, and in terms of hardwork we do it better than them, is it that grace is different or do things just turn out to be different for us or it just time? Good morning!
Every individual is created differently, the way we think is also different. Even identical twins born together exhibit differences talk less of friends. You will have a friend that share a common goal with you. but your ways of approaching the goals must be different. What lead to success for one person may not be the same for another person. Your friend success may lied in one work but yours may not, your own success may lie in another work and even if your friend joins the work with you, he may likely not be successful as you are, because his success doesn't lied there. Everything about life is vice versa. Everyone is created in their own unique ways, everyone has the potential to be successful, but their success may manifest in differents ways and at different times.
Title: Re: Why do friend turn better than the other?
Post by: Joeboy on April 06, 2025, 11:52:25 PM
Some of us saw those we started together now doing much better, and in terms of hardwork we do it better than them, is it that grace is different or do things just turn out to be different for us or it just time? Good morning!
Grace follow time sef follow. Not every individual will be successful, it not a curse it a fact, every body has their own grace some is mightier than the other. And also the Bible says there is time for everything under the sun, this means that the day of success differs amongst people, some will succeed today some in years to come while some will not even succeed even if all the time is given to them.
Title: Re: Why do friend turn better than the other?
Post by: SamReomo on April 06, 2025, 11:57:12 PM
Some of us saw those we started together now doing much better, and in terms of hardwork we do it better than them, is it that grace is different or do things just turn out to be different for us or it just time?
Those who get better than us are the ones who do far more hard work than most of us, not only hard work but smart work. Most of us think that we're more hard working than those who got higher success than us but that's not true in most cases.

Some people who are very successful pretend to show that they're lucky that's why they got such level of success but in reality those people have worked really hard to get that success.
Title: Re: Why do friend turn better than the other?
Post by: libert19 on April 07, 2025, 10:20:11 AM
Some of us saw those we started together now doing much better, and in terms of hardwork we do it better than them, is it that grace is different or do things just turn out to be different for us or it just time?
Those who get better than us are the ones who do far more hard work than most of us, not only hard work but smart work. Most of us think that we're more hard working than those who got higher success than us but that's not true in most cases.

This is true, there is quote, "if hard work were to be recipe to become rich, labourers would be richest"

Quote
Some people who are very successful pretend to show that they're lucky that's why they got such level of success but in reality those people have worked really hard to get that success.

I don't think they pretend, it's just they don't feel they did anything so they don't like to take credit for it. There are people who enjoy what they do, it never feels like work to them, success comes to them, and they don't think they did anything.
Title: Re: Why do friend turn better than the other?
Post by: Z-crypt on April 07, 2025, 11:57:19 AM
Some of us saw those we started together now doing much better, and in terms of hardwork we do it better than them, is it that grace is different or do things just turn out to be different for us or it just time? Good morning!
Every individual is created differently, the way we think is also different. Even identical twins born together exhibit differences talk less of friends. You will have a friend that share a common goal with you. but your ways of approaching the goals must be different. What lead to success for one person may not be the same for another person. Your friend success may lied in one work but yours may not, your own success may lie in another work and even if your friend joins the work with you, he may likely not be successful as you are, because his success doesn't lied there. Everything about life is vice versa. Everyone is created in their own unique ways, everyone has the potential to be successful, but their success may manifest in differents ways and at different times.
You really nailed it! Alot of of people don’t know this, we all have different aspects of our lives where we can be thrive the best and be successful. This is the reason it’s bad to follow the crowd, people nowadays just want to join any industry that’s trending and seem “cool” instead of focusing on their strengths. I’ve seen a lot of instances. Grace also have an impact, aspect in which each individual will find grace is different.
Title: Re: Why do friend turn better than the other?
Post by: Amug123 on April 07, 2025, 12:36:37 PM
Each and everyone of one of us are created and wird differently,some even if they double slow they will get it eventually, while some individuals may have had access to better opportunity, or financial support which can help them push their business goal, and sometimes being in the right place at the right time can also add to one been successful in business but in life not everyone can be successful.
Title: Re: Why do friend turn better than the other?
Post by: milewilda on April 10, 2025, 10:10:58 PM
Each and everyone of one of us are created and wird differently,some even if they double slow they will get it eventually, while some individuals may have had access to better opportunity, or financial support which can help them push their business goal, and sometimes being in the right place at the right time can also add to one been successful in business but in life not everyone can be successful.
Different person could have that different condition and factors on which it would be affecting out their success and its true that even if both do the same thing but still it wont be guarantee that it could give out on the same outcome in both persons on which just been said that not all will be the same with those things mentioned. Decision making and steps taken will be that differ due to different decision factor on which this definitely affects overall outcome. Also, with some mix of luck on what you are currently doing then it will be that something that mainly affects success rate too and thats why not all people will be ending up on the same fate or result at the time that they would gonna tend to do on the same thing. There's no way that it will be precisely be ending up on this way.
Title: Re: Why do friend turn better than the other?
Post by: Basedjack on April 11, 2025, 08:25:21 AM
Some of us saw those we started together now doing much better, and in terms of hardwork we do it better than them, is it that grace is different or do things just turn out to be different for us or it just time? Good morning!

The Creator has given us all the same knowledge and the power of hard work. But many people use it, many are not interested in this work. If you look around us, you will see that many people are working hard and many are not interested in work. Every person should think from his own place. His entire family and generation is looking at him. Actually, this is the same thing in the case of friends. In fact, knowledge has been given to everyone, many people work hard and reach the door of success. On the other hand, many do not reach out to this work. Many may have lost to the situation and many have become victims of the situation. We should not give up on our situation. Even after falling down again and again, we have to get up and reach the door of success.
Title: Re: Why do friend turn better than the other?
Post by: Millionaire on April 11, 2025, 02:32:43 PM
Some of us saw those we started together now doing much better, and in terms of hardwork we do it better than them, is it that grace is different or do things just turn out to be different for us or it just time? Good morning!
Everyone has their own destiny to achieve success and it cannot be changed by the destiny that has been created by God. Indeed, there are those who are successful at a young age and there are also those who are successful at an old age. It has all been determined, but as humans, we should not give up easily just because we have not achieved our desires like our friends. We need to try harder to be like them.
Title: Re: Why do friend turn better than the other?
Post by: JoyMarsha on April 13, 2025, 12:00:16 AM
Our destines are not the same, so as our character, pursuit of life and belief.

Knowing what I mentioned above, would help one to know that each of us on earth has our destines, and when we all going to be successful in life because there are some friends who's gonna succeed in life more than us, there are those who will make in life at old age. Someone shouldn't kill themselves with all that because nature didn't create all us to be equal. Life success is turn by turn, not at the same time and day.
Title: Re: Why do friend turn better than the other?
Post by: MUGNIA on April 17, 2025, 04:04:43 AM
Some of us saw those we started together now doing much better, and in terms of hardwork we do it better than them, is it that grace is different or do things just turn out to be different for us or it just time? Good morning!
]i do understand your point but you also have to consider that success involves being at a right place at a right time and maybe they were exactly that it would feel horrible sometimes to feel a bit jealous of your friends who are doing better but i think it is only natural

instead i think this should motivate us more to try and catch up to them so that you and all your friends end up becoming successful together the way you probably dreamt of when you were younger
Yeah, I get what you're saying. Sometimes, success is about being in the right place at the right time. It’s normal to feel a little jealous when you see friends doing better, but instead of letting it bring you down, use it as motivation. Keep pushing forward, and one day, you might all succeed together, just like you once dreamed.
It's true, make it a motivation for other people's success and make it a lesson if we experience failure. If these two are done correctly, then our lives will always be grateful for what we have achieved, because if we always look up, we will never feel satisfied, but on the other hand, if we look down, we will realize that there is still something more difficult below us.
Title: Re: Why do friend turn better than the other?
Post by: Dr.Bitcoin_Strange on April 17, 2025, 11:42:57 PM
Some of us saw those we started together now doing much better, and in terms of hardwork we do it better than them, is it that grace is different or do things just turn out to be different for us or it just time? Good morning!

Different timing in life means you need to focus more on yourself and be happy for your friends when good things are happening for them. Your time will surely come as long as you keep working hard and stay focused on it. They are your friends does not mean things will happen at the same time for all of you; never let jealousy creep in; it stops growth.

Never stop trying and never stop believing that one faithful day, that day is gonna change for good and you life will never remain the same, but all this can come to pass when you are hardworking just like you said.
Never you envy others success or progress, keep congratulating them until it’s your turn because in this life nothing is permanent and also stay positive.
Title: Re: Why do friend turn better than the other?
Post by: milewilda on April 25, 2025, 09:36:51 PM
Some of us saw those we started together now doing much better, and in terms of hardwork we do it better than them, is it that grace is different or do things just turn out to be different for us or it just time? Good morning!

Different timing in life means you need to focus more on yourself and be happy for your friends when good things are happening for them. Your time will surely come as long as you keep working hard and stay focused on it. They are your friends does not mean things will happen at the same time for all of you; never let jealousy creep in; it stops growth.

Never stop trying and never stop believing that one faithful day, that day is gonna change for good and you life will never remain the same, but all this can come to pass when you are hardworking just like you said.
Never you envy others success or progress, keep congratulating them until it’s your turn because in this life nothing is permanent and also stay positive.
We do know that each person is different on whic hthere are those who are that happy on someones success and there are ones who do bashes or doesnt really like seeing others success and thats why they would be ending up on getting jealous. Instead on trying out to make those people as an inspiration then do rather that disrupt themselves on wrong mindset and emotions just because they cant just that accept on why they are currently failing and why others achieving success? There are different types of people and thats why they do end up on having that kind of different approach whenever they do see someone whose that successful.
Title: Re: Why do friend turn better than the other?
Post by: Roseline492 on April 25, 2025, 10:23:44 PM
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Some people who are very successful pretend to show that they're lucky that's why they got such level of success but in reality those people have worked really hard to get that success.

I don't think they pretend, it's just they don't feel they did anything so they don't like to take credit for it. There are people who enjoy what they do, it never feels like work to them, success comes to them, and they don't think they did anything.

That's right nobody will pretend to be lucky for being successful, on the contrary the lucky ones are actually the type who brag about being so hardworking to have arrived at the point they are, anybody that undergone hardship before successful always share there testimony of how things became so tough for them before out of there consistent struggles drift from their and landed in wealth. So I wonder what the person who is pretending will be getting from telling lies of there success when they could have use their experience to teach others going that part.
Title: Re: Why do friend turn better than the other?
Post by: Z-tight on April 25, 2025, 10:42:39 PM
Someone shouldn't kill themselves with all that because nature didn't create all us to be equal. Life success is turn by turn, not at the same time and day.
The right thing to do if our friends are successful is to be genuinely happy for them and celebrate with them. If your friend is celebrating, it is not time for comparison or to start bringing in your own personal condition into play, just celebrate with them, and that is all. If you work hard enough, you will surely achieve success.
Title: Re: Why do friend turn better than the other?
Post by: Asiska02 on April 25, 2025, 10:47:38 PM
Some of us saw those we started together now doing much better, and in terms of hardwork we do it better than them, is it that grace is different or do things just turn out to be different for us or it just time? Good morning!

Time is transient and you should focus on the goal and not see other people doing better than you as a yard stick to measure your success. In life, there are people that are already ahead of you and no matter how you try to put in the best effort in the struggle, you can never reach them. I don’t know what you’ll call them, either Grace or hard work but that just how it is and natural. When you see people like that, try to mingle with them and not feel bad about their success, you’ll get your own benefits from them too. When measuring your success, don’t make a comparison stuff or you’ll never appreciate your success.
Title: Re: Why do friend turn better than the other?
Post by: Rruchi man on April 25, 2025, 11:12:02 PM
Some of us saw those we started together now doing much better, and in terms of hardwork we do it better than them, is it that grace is different or do things just turn out to be different for us or it just time? Good morning!
It is timing and also the factor that they are doing what is meant for them. That two friends are doing the same thing does not mean that they are both meant to be doing that thing.

This is why it is important that you find the activity, job, or skill meant for you and then give your time to succeed.
Title: Re: Why do friend turn better than the other?
Post by: SamReomo on April 26, 2025, 12:24:33 AM
This is true, there is quote, "if hard work were to be recipe to become rich, labourers would be richest"
Yes, I like that quote and I believe the quote is written by a successful person who might had many laborers who worked for him but didn't reach any level of richness even in their old age. The ones who are smart, creative, and who understand about money are the ones who get richness and success not the ones who only rely on hard work.
Title: Re: Why do friend turn better than the other?
Post by: libert19 on April 26, 2025, 05:50:56 AM
Some of us saw those we started together now doing much better, and in terms of hardwork we do it better than them, is it that grace is different or do things just turn out to be different for us or it just time? Good morning!
Time is transient and you should focus on the goal and not see other people doing better than you as a yard stick to measure your success. In life, there are people that are already ahead of you and no matter how you try to put in the best effort in the struggle, you can never reach them. I don’t know what you’ll call them, either Grace or hard work but that just how it is and natural. When you see people like that, try to mingle with them and not feel bad about their success, you’ll get your own benefits from them too. When measuring your success, don’t make a comparison stuff or you’ll never appreciate your success.

I think you can compare, but that person should only be against yourself that you were yesterday, so you know you have improved and are doing better.

This is true, there is quote, "if hard work were to be recipe to become rich, labourers would be richest"
Yes, I like that quote and I believe the quote is written by a successful person who might had many laborers who worked for him but didn't reach any level of richness even in their old age.

That quote rings true if you'd observe your surroundings, laborers work for minimum wage under someone who gets paid way more and does no physical work.
Title: Re: Why do friend turn better than the other?
Post by: Amug123 on April 26, 2025, 10:49:21 AM
It can be inspiring to see others succeed, especially when you have started on similar paths. Most times the difference in outcome might be due to opportunity, networking and timing hard work is essential, but it's not the only factor sometimes circumstances align favorably, leading to success.
Title: Re: Why do friend turn better than the other?
Post by: Dr.Bitcoin_Strange on April 27, 2025, 03:42:18 PM

Different timing in life means you need to focus more on yourself and be happy for your friends when good things are happening for them. Your time will surely come as long as you keep working hard and stay focused on it. They are your friends does not mean things will happen at the same time for all of you; never let jealousy creep in; it stops growth.

You are very correct, one should allow jealousy to take over one heart and mind, for it will never yield out any good thing other than negative things, it will never produce anything good.
That is why its advisable to always be positive and also surround with positive things and believe that one day, it will eventually get to your turn.