Marriage discussion in this generation

[Bodhi2021]

Would you prefer to get married early or just get married late? reasons also

Marriage is not something we rush into it requires some time to think and plan well. It begins with two persons to start a marriage journey but with time goes on the family will start growing bigger and without having a stable income things will start falling apart and they will no be even a mutual respect between the two couples again, Especially on this our very tight economical generation we are in now, where things are very hard and tough for everyone. So for me it is better to wait and be patient for a little time before diving into marriage contraction.  Because when we talk about the men's they will want to have a stable income to bring in a wife home to marry so also the females will also want to get a good man that can take good care of them and shelter for their needs not until they are very rich. A good home is not until you are badly rich, but rather a good home is a rest of mind and being satisfied with the little that comes your way. And no parents will want to give their daughter hands in marriage to a lazy man that don't want to strive for himself but always waiting for people to hunt for him to eat. So it is better to marry late and have a inflow income before getting married, it is better late than sorry.

[Cryptsafe]

Marriage is not for the faint hearted. If you are not matured enough for what comes with the name married couples, do not think of it because you will outrun yourself. Marriage comes with responsibility and commitment, as a married man or woman, you have obligations and vows as it bonds the couples together.

Because of what surrounds marriage, people gets scared of getting married because they can't deal with the responsibility and commitment that hovers around marriage.

Marriage is a long term commitment, not everybody wants to move into it because of the high rate of divorce, and the domestic violence they hear of.

Of course, because of the things involved in marriage, people get scared of it and try to avoid it. It takes more than being responsible, knowing what to do, and fulfilling your marital vows and obligations as required of you. These are the reasons most people are afraid of it and would not want to get involved with it till they feel they are ready for it, being that they have all the requirements such as finance, emotional maturity etc to be able to withstand what comes with marriage.

[milewilda]

Would you prefer to get married early or just get married late? reasons also

Marriage is not something we rush into it requires some time to think and plan well. It begins with two persons to start a marriage journey but with time goes on the family will start growing bigger and without having a stable income things will start falling apart and they will no be even a mutual respect between the two couples again, Especially on this our very tight economical generation we are in now, where things are very hard and tough for everyone. So for me it is better to wait and be patient for a little time before diving into marriage contraction.  Because when we talk about the men's they will want to have a stable income to bring in a wife home to marry so also the females will also want to get a good man that can take good care of them and shelter for their needs not until they are very rich. A good home is not until you are badly rich, but rather a good home is a rest of mind and being satisfied with the little that comes your way. And no parents will want to give their daughter hands in marriage to a lazy man that don't want to strive for himself but always waiting for people to hunt for him to eat. So it is better to marry late and have a inflow income before getting married, it is better late than sorry.

Once you do get married then there's no turning back, you cant just that say that you dont like her and return it into her family on which this isnt how it works. This is why when choosing up a partner then you do need up to know him/her more rather than on rushing yourself into marriage on which we do know that behavior/traits is important, same goes with that having that financial preparations on which this is what you do really need because having no preparations will be leading up into a miserable marriage life. Its not that always love will be the way to make a happy living in together with your loved ones. We cant be able to deny that money is important too because having these struggles will be leading to possible divorce, not just that emotional aspect or problems in related.

[MUGNIA]

Would you prefer to get married early or just get married late? reasons also

Getting married is not a matter of being quick or slow, where mental readiness after having a family needs to be considered, both materially and morally, where getting married is different from when we were still single, so prepare your mentality and materiality first to face the new world out there after you get married.

Exactly, getting married is really not a matter of being quick or slow. Marriage comes with a lot of consequences. It gives you a lots and it also takes a lot away from you. Married people faces a lot of challenges must especially in a situation of poverty, only people with strong mentality can handle the situation, people with low mentality can end up getting emotional, depressed and stressed which may lead to mental health issues. Someone needs to be well prepared before getting marriage.

Apart from mental health, there will always be disputes in a household, but actually it can be normalized as long as we can communicate well with our partners before and after marriage, where all problems must be resolved with a cool head and patience, not with emotion and selfishness.

[Glow]

Would you prefer to get married early or just get married late? reasons also

Marriage is not something we just wake up and jump into their are several major to be considered, first of all you ask yourself as a man am I ready to take care of another person and take every responsibility that is mandatory on me which might arise in marriage, if yes you can proceed and also same goes to the woman too, am I ready to take every full responsibility as a good wife to my husband and stand by his side in the good time and sad period. If all this are considered the both couples have pass the first step. But still on that, their are so many things to be considered too especially on this new generation we are in now when things are so tough, people seek for food now rather than every other things, were their are no money to even acquire for three daily meals. It is said that! the stomach that have eaten is the one that have the strength to work or think of another thing. So we should prepare our mindset before jumping into marriage because it is not an easy journey it might look so easy and sweet from the first site but when the marriage is finally contracted that's when the two couples will realise and see if they where already fully prepared or not before they got married to each other, time will surely tell for the both couples.

[Flydove]

Would you prefer to get married early or just get married late? reasons also

For me age is not the real thing here. Marriage is for mature minds.one can be young but very mature at heart while some other may appear mature by reason of physical looks but still a boy in terms of marriage union. it's not just love that makes marriage work both a combination of several other vital factors that does.

[JoyMarsha]

Would you prefer to get married early or just get married late? reasons also

The time marriage should come into heart should be when one is financial stable, they don't have anyone they are looking up to to cater for them. They pay and take care of their bills by themselves, not depending on someone else for every little thing they should provide for themselves.

In marriages, love is not longer enough to go into it. It is what can you bring to the table, for the family growth. The responsibilities of feeding and taking care of the family is not placed on one person. It is a combine efforts of both couples to take care of the family.

[libert19]

...It is said that! the stomach that have eaten is the one that have the strength to work or think of another thing.

One can experience it oneself, just starve yourself for a day and try to work, your mind will constantly be focused on your stomach pangs and will not be able to focus on anything else.