Marriage discussion in this generation

[Cryptsafe]

Marriage is not for the faint hearted. If you are not matured enough for what comes with the name married couples, do not think of it because you will outrun yourself. Marriage comes with responsibility and commitment, as a married man or woman, you have obligations and vows as it bonds the couples together.

Before you get married, make sure you are stable all round even if not all round but at least be sure of your income to be able to sustain you and your family so that you do not have any issues because that is your responsibility as a man of the house. Nobody would advise you to do that because the day you asked her out, you already signed up facing responsibility as a man and it would be your cross to carry even in marriage.

[bisdak40]

In my opinion, one should marry when the time is right when they are emotionally, mentally, and financially ready. Rushing into marriage without stability or understanding can lead to problems down the road. It’s not just about love; it’s also about responsibility, commitment, and being prepared for the challenges that come with it.

[Sim_card]

Would you prefer to get married early or just get married late? reasons also

I am already married and if you have put yourself in the position that you can take care of family responsibilities, you can marry early so that you have quality time to train your children, and see them as adults when you are not too old. If you marry late, you might die when your children are still teenagers. I married not too early, or too late.

[bitterguy28]

I am already married and if you have put yourself in the position that you can take care of family responsibilities, you can marry early so that you have quality time to train your children, and see them as adults when you are not too old. If you marry late, you might die when your children are still teenagers. I married not too early, or too late.

good for you

some kids have rushed too fast and have gone kids too early now they had to take care of themselves growing up while also taking care of their kids you have to be young enough to still guide your children but old enough to have experience to pass

[JISAN]

Would you prefer to get married early or just get married late? reasons also

Marriage completely depends on one's financial situation and personal wishes. Getting married early also has some positive side that you get emotional support from each spouse which can increase your work speed and confidence. Be it work of any sector. And there is always an effort in oneself because then the responsibility of the whole family has to be dealt with. You cannot succeed in anything until you have no accountability because you will not have the mindset to work hard. So I think early marriage is always good for a man

[JISAN]

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[milewilda]

Would you prefer to get married early or just get married late? reasons also

Marriage completely depends on one's financial situation and personal wishes. Getting married early also has some positive side that you get emotional support from each spouse which can increase your work speed and confidence. Be it work of any sector. And there is always an effort in oneself because then the responsibility of the whole family has to be dealt with. You cannot succeed in anything until you have no accountability because you will not have the mindset to work hard. So I think early marriage is always good for a man

When a man decides on settling down or having that marriage life then the primary or the outmost important thing will be on financial stability on which you wont really be that making yourself that involving into marriage without having that stability. At the time that you do tend to make a family then of course you would really be needing up that financial for you to have no hardship when it comes to finances on which providing everything on what our family needs. Somehow not all do able to follow up these principle on which there are ones who do end up on early marriage whether its planned but mostly its unplanned because of some circumstances. So this will really be just that depending on a certain individual on how they would be planning up their lives accordingly on such situation.

[libert19]

Would you prefer to get married early or just get married late? reasons also

... So I think early marriage is always good for a man

I think 'always' word is bit steep. I believe that marriage destroys personal freedom — you have more person to take care of under your own wing that makes you so busy at expense of having no time for yourself. I could be wrong, but that's what I feel.

[Cryptsafe]

Would you prefer to get married early or just get married late? reasons also

... So I think early marriage is always good for a man

I think 'always' word is bit steep. I believe that marriage destroys personal freedom — you have more person to take care of under your own wing that makes you so busy at expense of having no time for yourself. I could be wrong, but that's what I feel.

It is true though but it is just a responsibility that we all must fulfill when we get married. This is a kind of generational routine because it is a natural occurrence that when you marry and start giving birth, you must take and look after your family and make sure your family is doing good. However, if you are well-to-do, you could get nany and aids to do the other work for you at home while you get things done in working for the money. With this, you can have time for yourself as you desire because you have workers that are watching over your kids and also doing some domestic work that could have kept you busy always.

[Dr.Bitcoin_Strange]

I think 'always' word is bit steep. I believe that marriage destroys personal freedom — you have more person to take care of under your own wing that makes you so busy at expense of having no time for yourself. I could be wrong, but that's what I feel.

You’ve got a point there, marriage can indeed deprive one some level of freedom, but then again, think about it, do we really need that kind of freedom? Because there are a lot of people who have destroyed their lives due to the level of freedom they’ve gotten from being rich and single, you can agree with me that not everyone can actually control this level of freedom, because it’ll only lead them to their destruction. So I believe marriage is a good thing as this could actually be one of the several benefits one can derive from marriage.

[bayu7adi]

In my opinion, one should marry when the time is right when they are emotionally, mentally, and financially ready. Rushing into marriage without stability or understanding can lead to problems down the road. It’s not just about love; it’s also about responsibility, commitment, and being prepared for the challenges that come with it.

That's right, and marriage is also about uniting the two families, so every family that has different backgrounds, the task of someone who is married is to be able to maintain both families so that they have a good relationship... we can't just make all the good things about love into marriage, it really requires a lot of consideration in order to get a more harmonious marriage...

Commitment and mutual support between partners are very important... so make sure you have thorough preparation before entering into a lifelong relationship.

[libert19]

In my opinion, one should marry when the time is right when they are emotionally, mentally, and financially ready. Rushing into marriage without stability or understanding can lead to problems down the road. It’s not just about love; it’s also about responsibility, commitment, and being prepared for the challenges that come with it.

That's right, and marriage is also about uniting the two families, so every family that has different backgrounds, the task of someone who is married is to be able to maintain both families so that they have a good relationship... we can't just make all the good things about love into marriage, it really requires a lot of consideration in order to get a more harmonious marriage...

I read a while back that marriage does not mean marriage between two persons, it's more like marriage between two families and you got that right indeed.

[SmartGold01]

I think 'always' word is bit steep. I believe that marriage destroys personal freedom — you have more person to take care of under your own wing that makes you so busy at expense of having no time for yourself. I could be wrong, but that's what I feel.

I am a married woman with kids and I know how takes to become a mother or a married woman, of course you don't have personal decision of your own rather it's now a divided choice, like I mean; all things you want to do must be shared amongst both partners and if the head gives permission then you have to do it, but whenever husband do not approve then one have to remain under their control. But for sometimes if you are newly married you could face difficulties at that time but with time you became used to it as something you can't shy away from, except that person isn't ready to marry and for that both parties work collectively to make things works out. For some countries bills or responsibilities are shared equally and for that wife or husband must not keep themselves idols leaving the responsibility for one person alone. Like I does, I support my husband and also I do most of the things myself knowing too well that I must remain idol.

[Agbe]

I think 'always' word is bit steep. I believe that marriage destroys personal freedom — you have more person to take care of under your own wing that makes you so busy at expense of having no time for yourself. I could be wrong, but that's what I feel.

I am a married woman with kids and I know how takes to become a mother or a married woman, of course you don't have personal decision of your own rather it's now a divided choice, like I mean; all things you want to do must be shared amongst both partners and if the head gives permission then you have to do it, but whenever husband do not approve then one have to remain under their control. But for sometimes if you are newly married you could face difficulties at that time but with time you became used to it as something you can't shy away from, except that person isn't ready to marry and for that both parties work collectively to make things works out. For some countries bills or responsibilities are shared equally and for that wife or husband must not keep themselves idols leaving the responsibility for one person alone. Like I does, I support my husband and also I do most of the things myself knowing too well that I must remain idol.

My is a Union of two person's with different view of things so when it comes to the issue of marriage what actually sustain it is understanding so before any partner in marriage takes any major decisions the other partner must be aware because doing that shows that you have respect and regard for your partner. As for the issue of support am of the view that in a relationship looks like marriage there should be an agreed amount that both partners must contribute at the end of the month for the smooth running of family so this idea of supporting too I don't personally like it because support is like you give just struggling to bring out something for your own family so the best thing is contributing equal amount for the family affairs