What are your reasons for still being single

[yohananaomi]

Many people today money is the main reason why they are single. But I don't think there is any single girl in my country as one girl maybe running shit with many men finding a trustworthy girl these days is a fight. Based on the situation of things in my country, having a girlfriend is as good as owing a loan. Once you have a girlfriend you've taken a loan to yourself.
Money is the reason for many being single.

Being single is a choice, but according to what you said, it also makes sense, because without money it will be difficult to do anything because everything nowadays needs money to solve problems.
Of course, there is a difficulty with not being single in your country if all relationships involve money that must be returned, aka debt. But indeed, all traditions in each country will be different and will not be the same. In my country, a girl rarely spends money to travel together because it is always her partner who usually pays, although sometimes it can be a girl but not too often.

Thats why i could say that against into those people that money couldnt be everything on which it is partly true but in general or in overall then this is really that somehting that you do primarily need for you to survive. This is why it is really that important that you should really be that knowing at least on what are your targets or goals on the moment or time that you do decide to go with relationship. Yes, money cant buy love but even with the simplest date that you would be making or some efforts then you would really be needing up that finances on trying to at least
provide on what you should really be needing up at least to have that good impressions. Lucky you if there's a girl that wont really be looking into this aspect.

In a relationship, it is true that there are,, but maybe exceptions, and it is relatively very small, can exist, but I agree that in every relationship, inevitably, that money will be the basis for being able to know and be known without all that then having a relationship will be very difficult to do at a time like this, because wherever we will step and travel it is certain to require money, and it is impossible to be free.
I agree with you make a good impression, of course, you have to provide what is needed and that certainly requires money, otherwise the first perception will fade and will not continue.

[Dr.Bitcoin_Strange]

We do have our reasons on which it could be the ff:

1. Establishing up themselves first
2. Didnt find the love of their life
3. Isnt read to get attached into someone
4. No one likes him/her
5. Family conflicts
etc....

Dont rush up yourself on having some relationship into someone.
We do have our own life on which means that we do make our own decisions.

Considering the fact that sometimes, the troubles of life will always be there and who knows, the above reasons you listed may still just be there for longer than anticipated.
 for people who say money is the problem, they need to have enough money to take care of their home, the pursuit for wealth is unending and if you decide to make all the money before you get married, because the more you make money, the more money you'll still wanna make, humans are never satisfied with material things, so sometimes it could be that you already have all it takes to take that bold step and until you get to take that leap of faith, you may never find out just how ready you are.

[Rustam Meraj]

90% of people being single especially the guys is basically due to financial constraints as they don't have the means to provide and take care of themselves not to talk about adding another person so to them the best thing to do is to remain single. Finance play a very important role in relationships as it's the fuel that makes relationships go smoothly so many guys run away from relationship due to this reason. And if you careful look into it it's true because the fact is relationship is beyond feeling and love there's a whole allot of things involved like meeting the needs of your partner and living up to expectations .one of the first thing to one needs to look at for before going into a relationship should be the money factor

I totally agree with you that many people choose to stay single because they do not have enough money. It can be very stressful to take care of yourself let alone someone else. Relationships are about more than just love and feelings we need to have enough money to take care of each other needs. In many places men are expected to be ones who earn money which can make it even harder for them to be in relationship.That is why many men are hesitant to get into relationship because they are worried about money. You are right that thinking about money should be top priority before getting into relationship. It is very important to talk openly and honestly about your financial goals  and responsibilities so that you can have healthy and happy relationship.

[Cryptsafe]

Many men with different reasons for them being single which we clearly understand  but however that does not mean that on would remain single forever. Scars in relationship makes people run away from marriage, some people have this family trauma they went through which affected them while growing up and as a result of that, some make statement as it relates to them not getting married. There are lots of things people are going through or have seen that scares them away from marriage and this they would not say.

[albon]

Many men with different reasons for them being single which we clearly understand  but however that does not mean that on would remain single forever. Scars in relationship makes people run away from marriage, some people have this family trauma they went through which affected them while growing up and as a result of that, some make statement as it relates to them not getting married. There are lots of things people are going through or have seen that scares them away from marriage and this they would not say.

People want to stay away from marriage to fulfill their target or dream. Also the more important reason is that now in almost all countries boys and girls are living together in the same house without getting married. As they are happily living single life there is no need to get married. But no one will be single for life because every aspect of life requires someone to move. And married relationship is always a joy because it keeps us away from feeling alone.

[Cryptsafe]

Many men with different reasons for them being single which we clearly understand  but however that does not mean that on would remain single forever. Scars in relationship makes people run away from marriage, some people have this family trauma they went through which affected them while growing up and as a result of that, some make statement as it relates to them not getting married. There are lots of things people are going through or have seen that scares them away from marriage and this they would not say.

People want to stay away from marriage to fulfill their target or dream. Also the more important reason is that now in almost all countries boys and girls are living together in the same house without getting married. As they are happily living single life there is no need to get married. But no one will be single for life because every aspect of life requires someone to move. And married relationship is always a joy because it keeps us away from feeling alone.

Of a truth some people do say such that they want to achieve their goals in life before talking about, some say they want to reach the peak of their career before they settle down and all sort of that but the truth is that marriage is companionship and it takes two to tango. I have heard men and women tell stories of their motivation attached to their spouse who support and encourage them to be the best. All these put together tells a lot to those who are using this as an excuse. One can fulfil their dreams and goals married it does not  stop anyone from moving forward as long as they are determined.

[_act_]

Some people were single and couldn't justify their reason for being single, maybe it was as a result of the economy hardship or thier inability to cope having a relations and be responsible for another person, there could be many stated reasons why some are still single, while on the other hand, we have some singles busy searching and yet to discover the right and perfect match for themselves.

[Ammonites9999]

Some people were single and couldn't justify their reason for being single, maybe it was as a result of the economy hardship or thier inability to cope having a relations and be responsible for another person, there could be many stated reasons why some are still single, while on the other hand, we have some singles busy searching and yet to discover the right and perfect match for themselves.

Of course everyone has a different storey and path in life, including when it comes to choosing a life partner. We can take our time, because it is mentioned that readiness is needed in a relationship, readiness both in the emotional and in the responsibility’s aspects. So as long as we keep on developing ourselves and keep our spirit in good shape, there will always be the chance to meeting that someone in good time.

[libert19]

I have read stuff from philosophers that says staying single is less worriesome so I am staying single. It's not a blind a faith though, because logic they shown made sense to me.

Also, I personally always found beauty to be kind of scam (be it of men or women) because it's very fleeting, a scam to procreate.

[albon]

Some people were single and couldn't justify their reason for being single, maybe it was as a result of the economy hardship or thier inability to cope having a relations and be responsible for another person, there could be many stated reasons why some are still single, while on the other hand, we have some singles busy searching and yet to discover the right and perfect match for themselves.

Agree with you that many stay single because they have no source of income and fail to save money. We always earn money to enjoy life and most people don't want to think about this married thing. Because i can be in a relationship if i want to and i can make a lot of friends if i want to. Each person marriage story may be different so you won't get accurate results with just one story. Nothing is perfect in our life that's why it's impossible to find perfect.

[yohananaomi]

Some people were single and couldn't justify their reason for being single, maybe it was as a result of the economy hardship or thier inability to cope having a relations and be responsible for another person, there could be many stated reasons why some are still single, while on the other hand, we have some singles busy searching and yet to discover the right and perfect match for themselves.

Agree with you that many stay single because they have no source of income and fail to save money. We always earn money to enjoy life and most people don't want to think about this married thing. Because i can be in a relationship if i want to and i can make a lot of friends if i want to. Each person marriage story may be different so you won't get accurate results with just one story. Nothing is perfect in our life that's why it's impossible to find perfect.

I must say that what you said, that nothing is perfect in every human life, is something that is indeed real. So it will indeed be difficult if you intend to find the perfect one, but everything can be overcome in various ways, so that at least you can get close to what we will achieve, even though there will be no satisfaction.
There are those who really want to stay single for various reasons that can be said to be reasonable, but there are those who are ready to be able to get married, it is a decision that can be made. All ultimately returns to the individual that the determination is in him and those who know about what decisions will be made.

[Findingnemo]

People don't want to commit themselves for long term, that's the truth of GenZ. And if they do then they are taking the risk of losing 50% of whatever they own since ladies always find some silly reason to do that to their man.

Also I read that in some countries the population growth dropped proportional to the inflation rate which implies that the living costs are keep rising while the earning opportunity is not really appreciating so for the sake of good they just prefer to be single.

[Agbe]

Many people today money is the main reason why they are single. But I don't think there is any single girl in my country as one girl maybe running shit with many men finding a trustworthy girl these days is a fight. Based on the situation of things in my country, having a girlfriend is as good as owing a loan. Once you have a girlfriend you've taken a loan to yourself.
Money is the reason for many being single.

Being single is a choice, but according to what you said, it also makes sense, because without money it will be difficult to do anything because everything nowadays needs money to solve problems.
Of course, there is a difficulty with not being single in your country if all relationships involve money that must be returned, aka debt. But indeed, all traditions in each country will be different and will not be the same. In my country, a girl rarely spends money to travel together because it is always her partner who usually pays, although sometimes it can be a girl but not too often.

money is key and critical for anyone to be married because for anyone to think of getting married that person should be ready financially because raising a family is a serious business and should be taken serious so I will not blame anyone for remaining single if they are not financially stable and ready for marriage because marriage life is a life that is demanding as you will not be only talking about yourself but with another person

[libert19]

One thing I'd like to mention aside from my prior comment is that do not ever confuse love for lust, the beauty will fade and then one may regret giving commitment to the other party. Divorces are also expensive.

If one really likes the person aside from how (s)he looks, then one may proceed.

For lust, it's better to stick to casual flings. Even Asian culture has changed a lot recently, and people are ready for hook-ups.

[Dr.Bitcoin_Strange]

Some people were single and couldn't justify their reason for being single, maybe it was as a result of the economy hardship or thier inability to cope having a relations and be responsible for another person, there could be many stated reasons why some are still single, while on the other hand, we have some singles busy searching and yet to discover the right and perfect match for themselves.

I think the major factor that contributes to people (who are old enough to get involved in a relationship) are still single is mostly because of lack of trust, maybe due to their past experiences or maybe due to what they see others go through, they become scared to get involved in something serious, so they’d rather just play around rather than committing themselves to a relationship, and for some reasons, you can’t actually blame them because a lot of people are not really interested in being committed today, and the worst part of it all is that they refuse to clearly state their intentions and they end up leading someone else’s on, only to disappoint the person later on.
With all these, people tend to just guard their heart and feelings by also playing along with the trend, and no one knows who’s being serious and who’s just having fun.