What are your reasons for still being single

[yohananaomi]

If you are an individual who cant just that easily trust up someone then the best thing to do is to find it out but actually even how many years you are together with your loved ones but on the moment that you do get married then this is where real behavior or traits will really be coming out on which this is something that you havent been able to know when you are still on those pre-marriage period. This is why we do really see up these divorces because of those traits or behavior on which their partners they have and cant be able to hold anymore and thats why they do made out such decision. To those who are still single up to now or been long time then they do have those tons of hesitation due to these kind of situations.

One of the major reasons couples end up getting divorced few years after marriage is due to lack of understanding. Some people think that the only thing that keeps a relationship or a marriage is Love, but this is absolutely wrong, yes love is very important in any relationship, but it’s not just enough to hold a relationship, the both party may love each other so much but without trust and Understanding, (especially Understanding) the marriage or relationship will always encounter problems, one must be able to fully understand their partners else they’ll fight over little issues, and the more they have unnecessary fights, the more they grow apart and thus could potentially lead to a break up or a divorce, I’m not saying couples shouldn’t disagree, sometimes people disagree to learn and then later agree, but there are disagreements that are literally irrelevant and may lead to baseless arguments and this is always due to lack of understanding between the both parties.

Yes i agree, marriage shows sides of your partner you might not notice before. Love isn’t enough to make it work you need trust and understanding. Without that, small fights can grow into big problems. Disagreeing is normal, but constant pointless arguments can break a relationship. Understanding each other is the key.

Understanding each other and accepting each other's strengths and weaknesses is very important for a marriage, and it is true that it is not only based on love, because love can grow as life goes on in marriage. Indeed, there will always be disagreements that we are not aware of that will actually trigger arguments in marriage, but all of that can be overcome by being aware of each other and willing to accept whatever happens to be fixed immediately and not to be questioned about something bigger.

[Dr.Bitcoin_Strange]

If I may ask you, do you prefer your emotions to lead you in your love/relationship life or you prefer being logical when it comes to situations as this?

I have met  people who are logical in relationship and they are realistic with situations but it just seems their pattern of relationship is too cruel in the sense that they are driven by the reality at hand than being controlled by emotions. People like this are the type that set boundaries and are hard to get tangled with possibly as a result of their past experience which have turned them into what they are. As for those who are emotion driven, they put their emotions before them and get led by it causing them what they are going through and when they turn a new leaf, they become too over strict and difficult to approach.

I really don’t think it’s about what I’d prefer, because even if I say what I’d prefer, someone else might feel differently. Different people have different views when it comes to handling relationship matters and situations such as these. No one wants to look stupid simply because they’re seeking after the right partner, but you gotta realize that relationship demands you to make a lot of compromises and if you see someone who’s honest with you when it comes to their lifestyle, attitude and behaviour then that’s a pretty great start, because people have perfected the act of pretence and they can do it for as long as they can/want.

The problem is that people have this picture of a perfect partner in their mind and if they’re not seeing that perfect person in their current partner, they consider it a red flag, they forget that their partner also have their own expectations too, and if the both party can not compromise and make certain sacrifices then believe you me that you’ll continue searching forever because you’ll never find that perfect partner you dream about, but you can both work together to shape each other to what you both want.

[chigo]

There are many reasons why someone chooses to live alone or not get married and the reasons for men and women are actually the same, they don't get married usually because;

- their own choice not to get married

- don't want commitment

- don't want to share their life with others

- inferior because of appearance or age

However, if there are people around you who say they don't get married because they don't have money, especially if the person who said it was a man, then he is 100% lying because there are many people out there who get married even without any capital.

[yohananaomi]

There are many reasons why someone chooses to live alone or not get married and the reasons for men and women are actually the same, they don't get married usually because;
- their own choice not to get married
- don't want commitment
- don't want to share their life with others
- inferior because of appearance or age
However, if there are people around you who say they don't get married because they don't have money, especially if the person who said it was a man, then he is 100% lying because there are many people out there who get married even without any capital.

It is very complex if there are those who don't want to get married for many reasons, including what you said, but usually, the most, is because they are comfortable with the solitude that has been, done so far, so they don't want to have any attachments to each other, which for them will actually interfere with their freedom and can no longer be obtained when married.
If the question of funds is not something that is a problem, because many can do it without having to spend, and it is very large and that can be done because there is a joint commitment.

[Cryptsafe]

If I may ask you, do you prefer your emotions to lead you in your love/relationship life or you prefer being logical when it comes to situations as this?

I have met  people who are logical in relationship and they are realistic with situations but it just seems their pattern of relationship is too cruel in the sense that they are driven by the reality at hand than being controlled by emotions. People like this are the type that set boundaries and are hard to get tangled with possibly as a result of their past experience which have turned them into what they are. As for those who are emotion driven, they put their emotions before them and get led by it causing them what they are going through and when they turn a new leaf, they become too over strict and difficult to approach.

I really don’t think it’s about what I’d prefer, because even if I say what I’d prefer, someone else might feel differently. Different people have different views when it comes to handling relationship matters and situations such as these. No one wants to look stupid simply because they’re seeking after the right partner, but you gotta realize that relationship demands you to make a lot of compromises and if you see someone who’s honest with you when it comes to their lifestyle, attitude and behaviour then that’s a pretty great start, because people have perfected the act of pretence and they can do it for as long as they can/want.

The problem is that people have this picture of a perfect partner in their mind and if they’re not seeing that perfect person in their current partner, they consider it a red flag, they forget that their partner also have their own expectations too, and if the both party can not compromise and make certain sacrifices then believe you me that you’ll continue searching forever because you’ll never find that perfect partner you dream about, but you can both work together to shape each other to what you both want.

Well, people tend to fall between the two categories as I have mentioned above and that is what is leading them in their relationship. I see people that are being too emotional in their relationship give their all and at the end fall victim of heartbreak and they suffer it as a result of them being too over considerate. While the logical ones tend to clearly state their aim and they prioritize their own self in the relationship and this sometimes does not go well in the relationship.

The one thing I have learnt in relationship is that you must compromise that is make changes to accommodate your partner because it takes two to tango and their is nothing like perfection in relationship or marriage but rather trust and companionship is built together as the relationship last longer. While in this course, the both partners tends to learn more about each other and this makes their relationship stronger and better with mutual understanding and companionship.

[Dr.Bitcoin_Strange]

The one thing I have learnt in relationship is that you must compromise that is make changes to accommodate your partner because it takes two to tango and their is nothing like perfection in relationship or marriage but rather trust and companionship is built together as the relationship last longer. While in this course, the both partners tends to learn more about each other and this makes their relationship stronger and better with mutual understanding and companionship.

Being in a relationship is really not easy if you ask me, do you realize what it means for two different species of humans to come together and coexist together as one? Biological and Emotionally, men and woman are so much different, different hormones, different way of life, different way of thinking and seeing things, so it’s literally not as easy as we look at it. Before both parties can really understand each other, they’ll definitely need to go through lots of thick and thin times, that includes multiple and countless disagreements.

[milewilda]

If you are an individual who cant just that easily trust up someone then the best thing to do is to find it out but actually even how many years you are together with your loved ones but on the moment that you do get married then this is where real behavior or traits will really be coming out on which this is something that you havent been able to know when you are still on those pre-marriage period. This is why we do really see up these divorces because of those traits or behavior on which their partners they have and cant be able to hold anymore and thats why they do made out such decision. To those who are still single up to now or been long time then they do have those tons of hesitation due to these kind of situations.

One of the major reasons couples end up getting divorced few years after marriage is due to lack of understanding. Some people think that the only thing that keeps a relationship or a marriage is Love, but this is absolutely wrong, yes love is very important in any relationship, but it’s not just enough to hold a relationship, the both party may love each other so much but without trust and Understanding, (especially Understanding) the marriage or relationship will always encounter problems, one must be able to fully understand their partners else they’ll fight over little issues, and the more they have unnecessary fights, the more they grow apart and thus could potentially lead to a break up or a divorce, I’m not saying couples shouldn’t disagree, sometimes people disagree to learn and then later agree, but there are disagreements that are literally irrelevant and may lead to baseless arguments and this is always due to lack of understanding between the both parties.

Yes i agree, marriage shows sides of your partner you might not notice before. Love isn’t enough to make it work you need trust and understanding. Without that, small fights can grow into big problems. Disagreeing is normal, but constant pointless arguments can break a relationship. Understanding each other is the key.

Understanding each other and accepting each other's strengths and weaknesses is very important for a marriage, and it is true that it is not only based on love, because love can grow as life goes on in marriage. Indeed, there will always be disagreements that we are not aware of that will actually trigger arguments in marriage, but all of that can be overcome by being aware of each other and willing to accept whatever happens to be fixed immediately and not to be questioned about something bigger.

We cant really be perfect or human beings aren imperfect on which there are really traits or behaviors on which it will really be that coming out after marriage and this could be also a possible reason on divorce. So the solution into this one is to accept on your love ones imperfections and having that very long patience because there would really be things that we didnt expect that they do have that behavior but of course we do love them then we can accept it out. Just like on what i have said that we arent perfect and thats why its important on marriage.

[Dr.Bitcoin_Strange]

We cant really be perfect or human beings aren imperfect on which there are really traits or behaviors on which it will really be that coming out after marriage and this could be also a possible reason on divorce. So the solution into this one is to accept on your love ones imperfections and having that very long patience because there would really be things that we didnt expect that they do have that behavior but of course we do love them then we can accept it out. Just like on what i have said that we arent perfect and thats why its important on marriage.

You’re absolutely correct. Sometimes, if we keep dwelling on the imperfections and flaws of others, especially our loved ones and those that are dear to us, we may potentially lose that love or sense of attachment we have for them, so sometimes, the best thing to do at this point is acknowledge the fact that humans generally are full of flaws and imperfections, and learning to overlook certain behaviours that may potentially erupt or surface subsequently in the future. We should also realize that even we are not perfect and others around us also need to put up with our own flaws and imperfections too and so it’s only fair that we also do the same for others.

[Axcel777]

We cant really be perfect or human beings aren imperfect on which there are really traits or behaviors on which it will really be that coming out after marriage and this could be also a possible reason on divorce. So the solution into this one is to accept on your love ones imperfections and having that very long patience because there would really be things that we didnt expect that they do have that behavior but of course we do love them then we can accept it out. Just like on what i have said that we arent perfect and thats why its important on marriage.

You’re absolutely correct. Sometimes, if we keep dwelling on the imperfections and flaws of others, especially our loved ones and those that are dear to us, we may potentially lose that love or sense of attachment we have for them, so sometimes, the best thing to do at this point is acknowledge the fact that humans generally are full of flaws and imperfections, and learning to overlook certain behaviours that may potentially erupt or surface subsequently in the future. We should also realize that even we are not perfect and others around us also need to put up with our own flaws and imperfections too and so it’s only fair that we also do the same for others.

It is not always a pleasant thing to embrace others the way they are but embracing them only helps to put the relationship at rest. If you do not have high expectations from the people around you then there is space left for love and empathy to set in. Depending on the other lens on which we decide to focus, we may perceive them as among the people worth being with because there is good that can come out of the dark side. These proverb lessons teach that people are not flawless, including ourselves, so in relationships they must learn how to support one other. Being more open, we let love and happiness have a chance of remaining in our lives.

[milewilda]

We cant really be perfect or human beings aren imperfect on which there are really traits or behaviors on which it will really be that coming out after marriage and this could be also a possible reason on divorce. So the solution into this one is to accept on your love ones imperfections and having that very long patience because there would really be things that we didnt expect that they do have that behavior but of course we do love them then we can accept it out. Just like on what i have said that we arent perfect and thats why its important on marriage.

You’re absolutely correct. Sometimes, if we keep dwelling on the imperfections and flaws of others, especially our loved ones and those that are dear to us, we may potentially lose that love or sense of attachment we have for them, so sometimes, the best thing to do at this point is acknowledge the fact that humans generally are full of flaws and imperfections, and learning to overlook certain behaviours that may potentially erupt or surface subsequently in the future. We should also realize that even we are not perfect and others around us also need to put up with our own flaws and imperfections too and so it’s only fair that we also do the same for others.

It is not always a pleasant thing to embrace others the way they are but embracing them only helps to put the relationship at rest. If you do not have high expectations from the people around you then there is space left for love and empathy to set in. Depending on the other lens on which we decide to focus, we may perceive them as among the people worth being with because there is good that can come out of the dark side. These proverb lessons teach that people are not flawless, including ourselves, so in relationships they must learn how to support one other. Being more open, we let love and happiness have a chance of remaining in our lives.

This is why there are people who are really that ending up on having no relationship for long time or ending up on having no wife/husband and they do get old just because they are really just that too perfectionist on which on the moment that they've seen some lapses in other people then they do easily get discourage and doesnt pursue on building up a strong relationship but rather they will really be finding up another individual that meet up their expectations on which we know that this isnt possible. We cant really be that perfect and thats why you do keep searching for the right one until you do get old.

[libert19]

However, if there are people around you who say they don't get married because they don't have money, especially if the person who said it was a man, then he is 100% lying because there are many people out there who get married even without any capital.

People who get married without necessary finances is possibly because of their hormones doing the talking while some who despite having means choose not to marry, it could be so because they don't want to have responsibilities — responsibility which usually means diluting your bank balance amongst your wife and children.

[yohananaomi]

If you are an individual who cant just that easily trust up someone then the best thing to do is to find it out but actually even how many years you are together with your loved ones but on the moment that you do get married then this is where real behavior or traits will really be coming out on which this is something that you havent been able to know when you are still on those pre-marriage period. This is why we do really see up these divorces because of those traits or behavior on which their partners they have and cant be able to hold anymore and thats why they do made out such decision. To those who are still single up to now or been long time then they do have those tons of hesitation due to these kind of situations.

One of the major reasons couples end up getting divorced few years after marriage is due to lack of understanding. Some people think that the only thing that keeps a relationship or a marriage is Love, but this is absolutely wrong, yes love is very important in any relationship, but it’s not just enough to hold a relationship, the both party may love each other so much but without trust and Understanding, (especially Understanding) the marriage or relationship will always encounter problems, one must be able to fully understand their partners else they’ll fight over little issues, and the more they have unnecessary fights, the more they grow apart and thus could potentially lead to a break up or a divorce, I’m not saying couples shouldn’t disagree, sometimes people disagree to learn and then later agree, but there are disagreements that are literally irrelevant and may lead to baseless arguments and this is always due to lack of understanding between the both parties.

Yes i agree, marriage shows sides of your partner you might not notice before. Love isn’t enough to make it work you need trust and understanding. Without that, small fights can grow into big problems. Disagreeing is normal, but constant pointless arguments can break a relationship. Understanding each other is the key.

Understanding each other and accepting each other's strengths and weaknesses is very important for a marriage, and it is true that it is not only based on love, because love can grow as life goes on in marriage. Indeed, there will always be disagreements that we are not aware of that will actually trigger arguments in marriage, but all of that can be overcome by being aware of each other and willing to accept whatever happens to be fixed immediately and not to be questioned about something bigger.

We cant really be perfect or human beings aren imperfect on which there are really traits or behaviors on which it will really be that coming out after marriage and this could be also a possible reason on divorce. So the solution into this one is to accept on your love ones imperfections and having that very long patience because there would really be things that we didnt expect that they do have that behavior but of course we do love them then we can accept it out. Just like on what i have said that we arent perfect and thats why its important on marriage.

Realizing yourself first and admitting that both are not perfect, and I agree with you that the main solution is to be willing to accept the worst side or imperfection of your partner is a high priority, so that in the journey the imperfection can be minimized so that it does not continue to develop, so that it can cause misunderstandings and can even be the beginning of divorce and of course not liked by every couple. If you love each other it should be shown by behavior to be able to accept every problem well and resolve it well, not to make it a new problem so that it drags on.

[Chilwell]

To the best of my knowledge, I think some people choose to remain single because they want to focus on their career and become successful. Others want to develop themselves as individuals and pursue personal growth. Some people value their independence and freedom, and they do not want to compromise it by being in a relationship. Additionally, some individuals may have had negative experiences in past relationships, which makes them hesitant to enter into a new relationship. Some people have high standards for a partner, and they are waiting for someone who meets those standards. Many individuals lead busy lives, making it challenging to find time for a relationship. Furthermore, some people may fear commitment or are apprehensive about facing the challenges and responsibilities that come with marriage. Ultimately, some individuals simply prefer being single and enjoy the freedom and autonomy that comes with it, allowing them to do what they want, when they want, without having to consider someone else's needs or opinions.

[milewilda]

If you are an individual who cant just that easily trust up someone then the best thing to do is to find it out but actually even how many years you are together with your loved ones but on the moment that you do get married then this is where real behavior or traits will really be coming out on which this is something that you havent been able to know when you are still on those pre-marriage period. This is why we do really see up these divorces because of those traits or behavior on which their partners they have and cant be able to hold anymore and thats why they do made out such decision. To those who are still single up to now or been long time then they do have those tons of hesitation due to these kind of situations.

One of the major reasons couples end up getting divorced few years after marriage is due to lack of understanding. Some people think that the only thing that keeps a relationship or a marriage is Love, but this is absolutely wrong, yes love is very important in any relationship, but it’s not just enough to hold a relationship, the both party may love each other so much but without trust and Understanding, (especially Understanding) the marriage or relationship will always encounter problems, one must be able to fully understand their partners else they’ll fight over little issues, and the more they have unnecessary fights, the more they grow apart and thus could potentially lead to a break up or a divorce, I’m not saying couples shouldn’t disagree, sometimes people disagree to learn and then later agree, but there are disagreements that are literally irrelevant and may lead to baseless arguments and this is always due to lack of understanding between the both parties.

Yes i agree, marriage shows sides of your partner you might not notice before. Love isn’t enough to make it work you need trust and understanding. Without that, small fights can grow into big problems. Disagreeing is normal, but constant pointless arguments can break a relationship. Understanding each other is the key.

Understanding each other and accepting each other's strengths and weaknesses is very important for a marriage, and it is true that it is not only based on love, because love can grow as life goes on in marriage. Indeed, there will always be disagreements that we are not aware of that will actually trigger arguments in marriage, but all of that can be overcome by being aware of each other and willing to accept whatever happens to be fixed immediately and not to be questioned about something bigger.

We cant really be perfect or human beings aren imperfect on which there are really traits or behaviors on which it will really be that coming out after marriage and this could be also a possible reason on divorce. So the solution into this one is to accept on your love ones imperfections and having that very long patience because there would really be things that we didnt expect that they do have that behavior but of course we do love them then we can accept it out. Just like on what i have said that we arent perfect and thats why its important on marriage.

Realizing yourself first and admitting that both are not perfect, and I agree with you that the main solution is to be willing to accept the worst side or imperfection of your partner is a high priority, so that in the journey the imperfection can be minimized so that it does not continue to develop, so that it can cause misunderstandings and can even be the beginning of divorce and of course not liked by every couple. If you love each other it should be shown by behavior to be able to accept every problem well and resolve it well, not to make it a new problem so that it drags on.

As it should be but we do know that there are those people who are really that perfectionist not only into sort of things but also in trying to look up for their partner. We cant be perfect as we do all know and if you do have that kind of high standard in terms of trying out to find a partner then there's no way that you could be able to easily to find one and you do end up on getting old without having a partner. We are just humans or simply imperfect beings on which at the moment that you will be able to meet up someone then expect that there will be some imperfections on which you will really be needing to adjust accept.

[_act_]

Many singles today, when you ask them why are they still single, they will have nothing to say because they don't also understand why, and this is only happening because they have already allowed for it to exist long time ago, when we take things for granted and with levity hands, while some are serious about their life and being conscious of time, we are there busy doing nothing and running after nothing.