How will you feel if you find out that your wife of 5yrs is a gamble addict?

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How will you feel if you find out that your wife of 5yrs is a gamble addict?
A lot of gamblers tend to conceal their gambling escapeds. After years of success marriage, love and commitment you ask your wife to bring the money you were sprayed during your wedding that you asked her to keep and she opened up to you how gambling has drained the money.

What will be your reaction?

As a good and observant husband, how I will you be with your wife for five good years and you wouldn't know that she is addicted to gambling. Her reactions will speak it all. Two years is more than enough to study someone including his or her habits and everything. Is not every husband that will be able to forgive her, must especially if he has planned something big for the money. But in case like this, i will give her a second chance to know if she is going to change. Because what will happen has happened and nothing can change that.

Exactly my thoughts. Gambling addiction is not something that can stay hidden for long. I can only imagine the kind of marriage that would exist between the couple; a non-observant husband and a wife who is a gambling addict. That's obviously a disaster.  In this situation, the couple will have to give themselves the opportunity to make things work. If nothing seems to work for them, then it's best they part ways.

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How will you feel if you find out that your wife of 5yrs is a gamble addict?
A lot of gamblers tend to conceal their gambling escapeds. After years of success marriage, love and commitment you ask your wife to bring the money you were sprayed during your wedding that you asked her to keep and she opened up to you how gambling has drained the money.

What will be your reaction?

As a good and observant husband, how I will you be with your wife for five good years and you wouldn't know that she is addicted to gambling. Her reactions will speak it all. Two years is more than enough to study someone including his or her habits and everything. Is not every husband that will be able to forgive her, must especially if he has planned something big for the money. But in case like this, i will give her a second chance to know if she is going to change. Because what will happen has happened and nothing can change that.

Exactly my thoughts. Gambling addiction is not something that can stay hidden for long. I can only imagine the kind of marriage that would exist between the couple; a non-observant husband and a wife who is a gambling addict. That's obviously a disaster.  In this situation, the couple will have to give themselves the opportunity to make things work. If nothing seems to work for them, then it's best they part ways.

that's not the question of this thread. just pretend that you have not noticed her gambling escapades and you just recently learned about it what would you feel. lol

i know its hard to hide this from a very observant husband. the moment a husband sees the food on the table isn't something worth the funds he gave, he will likely asks what she saving for. and investigates.

[LUCKMCFLY]

i know its hard to hide this from a very observant husband. the moment a husband sees the food on the table isn't something worth the funds he gave, he will likely asks what she saving for. and investigates.

I think that can also be seen as a betrayal. Betrayals are not only with infidelity, it also applies to things like that. Being married for 5 years and not having said something like that means that not only that but that there are many more secrets, and that is not a good thing. In every relationship , even if it is a boyfriend and girlfriend, there must be trust, otherwise, why are you together?

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I think that can also be seen as a betrayal. Betrayals are not only with infidelity, it also applies to things like that. Being married for 5 years and not having said something like that means that not only that but that there are many more secrets, and that is not a good thing. In every relationship , even if it is a boyfriend and girlfriend, there must be trust, otherwise, why are you together?

Yeah I agree there is no reason for each one to hide something especially if married for a long time because if that happen I know something is wrong and I don't tolerate that kinda thing. That really is betrayal for me and that can ruin trust.

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I think that can also be seen as a betrayal. Betrayals are not only with infidelity, it also applies to things like that. Being married for 5 years and not having said something like that means that not only that but that there are many more secrets, and that is not a good thing. In every relationship , even if it is a boyfriend and girlfriend, there must be trust, otherwise, why are you together?

Yeah I agree there is no reason for each one to hide something especially if married for a long time because if that happen I know something is wrong and I don't tolerate that kinda thing. That really is betrayal for me and that can ruin trust.

Married for 5 years isn't a long time though. For some people, it would take forever to know them well that's why there are still couples that go separate ways after 15 years.

But mostly isn't not about the wife hiding a secret about her being a gambler but often times, its infidelity of a partner. Being a gambler though can be a cause of quarrel especially when finances becomes a problem.

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Yeah I agree there is no reason for each one to hide something especially if married for a long time because if that happen I know something is wrong and I don't tolerate that kinda thing. That really is betrayal for me and that can ruin trust.

I say that there can be many bad things that people can do to others, but betrayal is the worst of all for me because it includes lies, bad acts and many things that should not be done to anyone, so in operation when a person betrays me, then they are not taken into account for anything else in the world, with me they lose them all and if it is the partner, then even more, just like there are so many good people in the world that one cannot be sleeping with the enemy.