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Good day guys, how are y'all doing?
In today's article I just want to ask a few questions on why some of guys are still single.
1. IS IT BECAUSE OF MONEY?
It's true that so many guys don't want to be in a relationship because they don't have the money to buy the luxury thing she could probably ask for in the future. Although a lot of ladies do say they're aren't dating a guy because of his money, but the honest truth is at some point in the relationship you'll still want him to get something for you or even pay your bills and that's exactly what some guys out there is just trying to avoid.
2. IS IT BECAUSE OF PAST EXPERIENCES FROM A TOXIC RELATIONSHIP?
A lot of guys really don't want to go into a relationship or give love a chance again because of their previous failed relationships and how toxic it was. Some guys gave their all into a relationship and was still treated badly or betrayed at the end, and for this reason lot's of them don't want to give love a chance in their lives anymore. But if you ask me, I'll advise you give love a chance again, because you never can tell how your new relationship can turn out to be, who knows if that will be the best relationship ever you'll ever find. Love at times can make people do crazy things by going the extra mile just to satisfy their partner but it hot most when you feel betrayed by that same person you're doing all these things for. Sometimes, no matter how much you love someone you really have to let them go just to stay happy and start afresh again and trust me you'll be happy you let go of them. I know it's not easy to let them go especially someone you've spent so many years of your life with but the truth is, you have to let them go because your peace of mind should be your top priority and nothing else.
3. ARE YOU A SHY TYPE?
Some guys honest can't approach a lady openly to express themselves and tell a her how they really feel about her.
This is to some extent really embarrassing that you can't talk to a girl you love even when you see her outside, although some guys can't call or excuse a lady simply because most times she's with her friends but guy what happens when she's alone. As a guy you really need to man up, put yourself together and walk up to her and talk to her, even if you can't tell her all the sweet things she want to hear right in front of her friends at that point in time, at least ask for her number and call her later or chat with her on the media (whatsapp). Some girls could even like you from the very beginning they first saw you but want you to talk to them and express yourself to her simply because she don't want to act cheap and desperate, so they want you to talk to them first.
Just man-up and stop thinking her only in your thoughts, talk to her as soon as you can before someone else help you do the needful.
4. ARE YOU JUST TOO BORING TO CHILL WITH?
Hmmm, this could be embarrassing too but some guys just ain't trying too, how can you be so up-tight that some cool babes or folks can't chill out with you? Just loosen up a bit and try to do something fun. A lot of girls like a guy who's fun to be with and keep them busy. Girls like guys who's interesting, someone who'll always tell them sweet words and beautiful things about them, someone who's just gonna look at them and compliment them for everything they do, and if you're a boring type! Trust me you ain't gonna date or be in a relationship except you want Mary-Amaka, prayer warrior or Mummy G.O for yourself.
Guys if you agree with me, drop a 💯 for me in the comment session.
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Being single has many benefits but in some cases loneliness in life can destroy your mental balance take care of yourself when a person is single, he gets time for himself. Sleep is so good it's so real that he doesn't have thoughts. You can keep your own schedule and your time will not be wasted on other activities. But single life is not always happy and joyful. There comes a time in every man life when he tries to find a partner. Everything in life has good and bad side so adapting everything is called life.
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Being single has many benefits but in some cases loneliness in life can destroy your mental balance
to me we should not depend our happiness and stability on someone else i really do believe that we should try and work on our own self first and make sure that we are comfortable and happy with ourselves before we go out and meet other people
being in a relationship means sharing your lives with one another but it does not mean you guys will have only one life between the two of you i am someone who believes in independency and individuality even in a relationship
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Many youths that have been found still single till this time will have one or two reason to their present condition for being a bachelor till now, some of them will give many excuses for this by saying the economy isn't favorable enough for them and they cant afford to be responsible in taking someone else's responsibilities, some will say that they are yet to get their perfect match and so on.
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Being single has many benefits but in some cases loneliness in life can destroy your mental balance
to me we should not depend our happiness and stability on someone else i really do believe that we should try and work on our own self first and make sure that we are comfortable and happy with ourselves before we go out and meet other people
being in a relationship means sharing your lives with one another but it does not mean you guys will have only one life between the two of you i am someone who believes in independency and individuality even in a relationship
Everyone wants to lead a personal independent life but of course when you get into a relationship that freedom is lost. But yes having friends is good but too many friends can be dangerous. Suppose that if you are always busy with work and forget to meet people, you might have a brain problem at some point. Because i felt that loneliness makes people wea.
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No I just can't really clique with anyone :) Ig it's my problem
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I think people have their reason for being single. It can be the reason for lack of money or past heartbreak experience. Well, that reason is enough to keep one single because not everyone would like to be in a relationship where they won't be in the right state of mind.
Being single is not a crime, and it is very acceptable in society. Being single can help one in a way that you have no one who bugs you with the demands of money, sex, or calls. you will just focus on yourself and your goal at heart without anyone stressing your entire existence on earth.
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In today's article I just want to ask a few questions on why some of guys are still single.
You should never be under pressure to be in a relationship simply because other people around you are in a relationship. As a guy with so many ambitions, you can decide to stay single and avoid relationship because actually some relationships can turn out to be more of a destruction than any form of companionship. Some men have realized this, hence the reason for not wanting to be in any form of relationship until they achieve some set goals for themselves.
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90% of people being single especially the guys is basically due to financial constraints as they don't have the means to provide and take care of themselves not to talk about adding another person so to them the best thing to do is to remain single. Finance play a very important role in relationships as it's the fuel that makes relationships go smoothly so many guys run away from relationship due to this reason. And if you careful look into it it's true because the fact is relationship is beyond feeling and love there's a whole allot of things involved like meeting the needs of your partner and living up to expectations .one of the first thing to one needs to look at for before going into a relationship should be the money factor
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90% of people being single especially the guys is basically due to financial constraints as they don't have the means to provide and take care of themselves not to talk about adding another person so to them the best thing to do is to remain single. Finance play a very important role in relationships as it's the fuel that makes relationships go smoothly so many guys run away from relationship due to this reason. And if you careful look into it it's true because the fact is relationship is beyond feeling and love there's a whole allot of things involved like meeting the needs of your partner and living up to expectations .one of the first thing to one needs to look at for before going into a relationship should be the money factor
We do have our reasons on which it could be the ff:
1. Establishing up themselves first
2. Didnt find the love of their life
3. Isnt read to get attached into someone
4. No one likes him/her
5. Family conflicts
etc....
Dont rush up yourself on having some relationship into someone.
We do have our own life on which means that we do make our own decisions.
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I think people have their reason for being single. It can be the reason for lack of money or past heartbreak experience. Well, that reason is enough to keep one single because not everyone would like to be in a relationship where they won't be in the right state of mind.
If you are heartbroken, you might be able to have another relationship with another dream woman, but I actually agree that usually men are single because their own finances are not enough. Of course, it is very risky if you want to marry a woman, then you will definitely be asked what you can give to the woman after marriage. Although it is possible to save together after marriage, to be able to give trust to a woman's parents, of course, you must have a stable job first.
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Many youths that have been found still single till this time will have one or two reason to their present condition for being a bachelor till now, some of them will give many excuses for this by saying the economy isn't favorable enough for them and they cant afford to be responsible in taking someone else's responsibilities, some will say that they are yet to get their perfect match and so on.
I don't blame those that believes that been in relationships is burden on is own,
I tried to toast a girl few days ago just she's aware that I'm into data business this asked me to send her data before she'll give me a chance which I did but you know if the love I have for her before is 75% it has to drop to 15% so if you are not ready to spend don't just involve yourself into relationship because girl out there are hungry and searching for who to buy them food not love
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Many people today money is the main reason why they are single. But I don't think there is any single girl in my country as one girl maybe running shit with many men finding a trustworthy girl these days is a fight. Based on the situation of things in my country, having a girlfriend is as good as owing a loan. Once you have a girlfriend you've taken a loan to yourself.
Money is the reason for many being single.
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Many people today money is the main reason why they are single. But I don't think there is any single girl in my country as one girl maybe running shit with many men finding a trustworthy girl these days is a fight. Based on the situation of things in my country, having a girlfriend is as good as owing a loan. Once you have a girlfriend you've taken a loan to yourself.
Money is the reason for many being single.
Being single is a choice, but according to what you said, it also makes sense, because without money it will be difficult to do anything because everything nowadays needs money to solve problems.
Of course, there is a difficulty with not being single in your country if all relationships involve money that must be returned, aka debt. But indeed, all traditions in each country will be different and will not be the same. In my country, a girl rarely spends money to travel together because it is always her partner who usually pays, although sometimes it can be a girl but not too often.
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Many people today money is the main reason why they are single. But I don't think there is any single girl in my country as one girl maybe running shit with many men finding a trustworthy girl these days is a fight. Based on the situation of things in my country, having a girlfriend is as good as owing a loan. Once you have a girlfriend you've taken a loan to yourself.
Money is the reason for many being single.
Being single is a choice, but according to what you said, it also makes sense, because without money it will be difficult to do anything because everything nowadays needs money to solve problems.
Of course, there is a difficulty with not being single in your country if all relationships involve money that must be returned, aka debt. But indeed, all traditions in each country will be different and will not be the same. In my country, a girl rarely spends money to travel together because it is always her partner who usually pays, although sometimes it can be a girl but not too often.
Thats why i could say that against into those people that money couldnt be everything on which it is partly true but in general or in overall then this is really that somehting that you do primarily need for you to survive. This is why it is really that important that you should really be that knowing at least on what are your targets or goals on the moment or time that you do decide to go with relationship. Yes, money cant buy love but even with the simplest date that you would be making or some efforts then you would really be needing up that finances on trying to at least
provide on what you should really be needing up at least to have that good impressions. Lucky you if there's a girl that wont really be looking into this aspect.
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Many people today money is the main reason why they are single. But I don't think there is any single girl in my country as one girl maybe running shit with many men finding a trustworthy girl these days is a fight. Based on the situation of things in my country, having a girlfriend is as good as owing a loan. Once you have a girlfriend you've taken a loan to yourself.
Money is the reason for many being single.
Being single is a choice, but according to what you said, it also makes sense, because without money it will be difficult to do anything because everything nowadays needs money to solve problems.
Of course, there is a difficulty with not being single in your country if all relationships involve money that must be returned, aka debt. But indeed, all traditions in each country will be different and will not be the same. In my country, a girl rarely spends money to travel together because it is always her partner who usually pays, although sometimes it can be a girl but not too often.
Thats why i could say that against into those people that money couldnt be everything on which it is partly true but in general or in overall then this is really that somehting that you do primarily need for you to survive. This is why it is really that important that you should really be that knowing at least on what are your targets or goals on the moment or time that you do decide to go with relationship. Yes, money cant buy love but even with the simplest date that you would be making or some efforts then you would really be needing up that finances on trying to at least
provide on what you should really be needing up at least to have that good impressions. Lucky you if there's a girl that wont really be looking into this aspect.
In a relationship, it is true that there are,, but maybe exceptions, and it is relatively very small, can exist, but I agree that in every relationship, inevitably, that money will be the basis for being able to know and be known without all that then having a relationship will be very difficult to do at a time like this, because wherever we will step and travel it is certain to require money, and it is impossible to be free.
I agree with you make a good impression, of course, you have to provide what is needed and that certainly requires money, otherwise the first perception will fade and will not continue.
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We do have our reasons on which it could be the ff:
1. Establishing up themselves first
2. Didnt find the love of their life
3. Isnt read to get attached into someone
4. No one likes him/her
5. Family conflicts
etc....
Dont rush up yourself on having some relationship into someone.
We do have our own life on which means that we do make our own decisions.
Considering the fact that sometimes, the troubles of life will always be there and who knows, the above reasons you listed may still just be there for longer than anticipated.
for people who say money is the problem, they need to have enough money to take care of their home, the pursuit for wealth is unending and if you decide to make all the money before you get married, because the more you make money, the more money you'll still wanna make, humans are never satisfied with material things, so sometimes it could be that you already have all it takes to take that bold step and until you get to take that leap of faith, you may never find out just how ready you are.
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90% of people being single especially the guys is basically due to financial constraints as they don't have the means to provide and take care of themselves not to talk about adding another person so to them the best thing to do is to remain single. Finance play a very important role in relationships as it's the fuel that makes relationships go smoothly so many guys run away from relationship due to this reason. And if you careful look into it it's true because the fact is relationship is beyond feeling and love there's a whole allot of things involved like meeting the needs of your partner and living up to expectations .one of the first thing to one needs to look at for before going into a relationship should be the money factor
I totally agree with you that many people choose to stay single because they do not have enough money. It can be very stressful to take care of yourself let alone someone else. Relationships are about more than just love and feelings we need to have enough money to take care of each other needs. In many places men are expected to be ones who earn money which can make it even harder for them to be in relationship.That is why many men are hesitant to get into relationship because they are worried about money. You are right that thinking about money should be top priority before getting into relationship. It is very important to talk openly and honestly about your financial goals and responsibilities so that you can have healthy and happy relationship.
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Many men with different reasons for them being single which we clearly understand but however that does not mean that on would remain single forever. Scars in relationship makes people run away from marriage, some people have this family trauma they went through which affected them while growing up and as a result of that, some make statement as it relates to them not getting married. There are lots of things people are going through or have seen that scares them away from marriage and this they would not say.
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Many men with different reasons for them being single which we clearly understand but however that does not mean that on would remain single forever. Scars in relationship makes people run away from marriage, some people have this family trauma they went through which affected them while growing up and as a result of that, some make statement as it relates to them not getting married. There are lots of things people are going through or have seen that scares them away from marriage and this they would not say.
People want to stay away from marriage to fulfill their target or dream. Also the more important reason is that now in almost all countries boys and girls are living together in the same house without getting married. As they are happily living single life there is no need to get married. But no one will be single for life because every aspect of life requires someone to move. And married relationship is always a joy because it keeps us away from feeling alone.
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Many men with different reasons for them being single which we clearly understand but however that does not mean that on would remain single forever. Scars in relationship makes people run away from marriage, some people have this family trauma they went through which affected them while growing up and as a result of that, some make statement as it relates to them not getting married. There are lots of things people are going through or have seen that scares them away from marriage and this they would not say.
People want to stay away from marriage to fulfill their target or dream. Also the more important reason is that now in almost all countries boys and girls are living together in the same house without getting married. As they are happily living single life there is no need to get married. But no one will be single for life because every aspect of life requires someone to move. And married relationship is always a joy because it keeps us away from feeling alone.
Of a truth some people do say such that they want to achieve their goals in life before talking about, some say they want to reach the peak of their career before they settle down and all sort of that but the truth is that marriage is companionship and it takes two to tango. I have heard men and women tell stories of their motivation attached to their spouse who support and encourage them to be the best. All these put together tells a lot to those who are using this as an excuse. One can fulfil their dreams and goals married it does not stop anyone from moving forward as long as they are determined.
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Some people were single and couldn't justify their reason for being single, maybe it was as a result of the economy hardship or thier inability to cope having a relations and be responsible for another person, there could be many stated reasons why some are still single, while on the other hand, we have some singles busy searching and yet to discover the right and perfect match for themselves.
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Some people were single and couldn't justify their reason for being single, maybe it was as a result of the economy hardship or thier inability to cope having a relations and be responsible for another person, there could be many stated reasons why some are still single, while on the other hand, we have some singles busy searching and yet to discover the right and perfect match for themselves.
Of course everyone has a different storey and path in life, including when it comes to choosing a life partner. We can take our time, because it is mentioned that readiness is needed in a relationship, readiness both in the emotional and in the responsibility’s aspects. So as long as we keep on developing ourselves and keep our spirit in good shape, there will always be the chance to meeting that someone in good time.
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I have read stuff from philosophers that says staying single is less worriesome so I am staying single. It's not a blind a faith though, because logic they shown made sense to me.
Also, I personally always found beauty to be kind of scam (be it of men or women) because it's very fleeting, a scam to procreate.
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Some people were single and couldn't justify their reason for being single, maybe it was as a result of the economy hardship or thier inability to cope having a relations and be responsible for another person, there could be many stated reasons why some are still single, while on the other hand, we have some singles busy searching and yet to discover the right and perfect match for themselves.
Agree with you that many stay single because they have no source of income and fail to save money. We always earn money to enjoy life and most people don't want to think about this married thing. Because i can be in a relationship if i want to and i can make a lot of friends if i want to. Each person marriage story may be different so you won't get accurate results with just one story. Nothing is perfect in our life that's why it's impossible to find perfect.
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Some people were single and couldn't justify their reason for being single, maybe it was as a result of the economy hardship or thier inability to cope having a relations and be responsible for another person, there could be many stated reasons why some are still single, while on the other hand, we have some singles busy searching and yet to discover the right and perfect match for themselves.
Agree with you that many stay single because they have no source of income and fail to save money. We always earn money to enjoy life and most people don't want to think about this married thing. Because i can be in a relationship if i want to and i can make a lot of friends if i want to. Each person marriage story may be different so you won't get accurate results with just one story. Nothing is perfect in our life that's why it's impossible to find perfect.
I must say that what you said, that nothing is perfect in every human life, is something that is indeed real. So it will indeed be difficult if you intend to find the perfect one, but everything can be overcome in various ways, so that at least you can get close to what we will achieve, even though there will be no satisfaction.
There are those who really want to stay single for various reasons that can be said to be reasonable, but there are those who are ready to be able to get married, it is a decision that can be made. All ultimately returns to the individual that the determination is in him and those who know about what decisions will be made.
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People don't want to commit themselves for long term, that's the truth of GenZ. And if they do then they are taking the risk of losing 50% of whatever they own since ladies always find some silly reason to do that to their man.
Also I read that in some countries the population growth dropped proportional to the inflation rate which implies that the living costs are keep rising while the earning opportunity is not really appreciating so for the sake of good they just prefer to be single.
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Many people today money is the main reason why they are single. But I don't think there is any single girl in my country as one girl maybe running shit with many men finding a trustworthy girl these days is a fight. Based on the situation of things in my country, having a girlfriend is as good as owing a loan. Once you have a girlfriend you've taken a loan to yourself.
Money is the reason for many being single.
Being single is a choice, but according to what you said, it also makes sense, because without money it will be difficult to do anything because everything nowadays needs money to solve problems.
Of course, there is a difficulty with not being single in your country if all relationships involve money that must be returned, aka debt. But indeed, all traditions in each country will be different and will not be the same. In my country, a girl rarely spends money to travel together because it is always her partner who usually pays, although sometimes it can be a girl but not too often.
money is key and critical for anyone to be married because for anyone to think of getting married that person should be ready financially because raising a family is a serious business and should be taken serious so I will not blame anyone for remaining single if they are not financially stable and ready for marriage because marriage life is a life that is demanding as you will not be only talking about yourself but with another person
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One thing I'd like to mention aside from my prior comment is that do not ever confuse love for lust, the beauty will fade and then one may regret giving commitment to the other party. Divorces are also expensive.
If one really likes the person aside from how (s)he looks, then one may proceed.
For lust, it's better to stick to casual flings. Even Asian culture has changed a lot recently, and people are ready for hook-ups.
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Some people were single and couldn't justify their reason for being single, maybe it was as a result of the economy hardship or thier inability to cope having a relations and be responsible for another person, there could be many stated reasons why some are still single, while on the other hand, we have some singles busy searching and yet to discover the right and perfect match for themselves.
I think the major factor that contributes to people (who are old enough to get involved in a relationship) are still single is mostly because of lack of trust, maybe due to their past experiences or maybe due to what they see others go through, they become scared to get involved in something serious, so they’d rather just play around rather than committing themselves to a relationship, and for some reasons, you can’t actually blame them because a lot of people are not really interested in being committed today, and the worst part of it all is that they refuse to clearly state their intentions and they end up leading someone else’s on, only to disappoint the person later on.
With all these, people tend to just guard their heart and feelings by also playing along with the trend, and no one knows who’s being serious and who’s just having fun.
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Some people were single and couldn't justify their reason for being single, maybe it was as a result of the economy hardship or thier inability to cope having a relations and be responsible for another person, there could be many stated reasons why some are still single, while on the other hand, we have some singles busy searching and yet to discover the right and perfect match for themselves.
I think the major factor that contributes to people (who are old enough to get involved in a relationship) are still single is mostly because of lack of trust, maybe due to their past experiences or maybe due to what they see others go through, they become scared to get involved in something serious, so they’d rather just play around rather than committing themselves to a relationship, and for some reasons, you can’t actually blame them because a lot of people are not really interested in being committed today, and the worst part of it all is that they refuse to clearly state their intentions and they end up leading someone else’s on, only to disappoint the person later on.
With all these, people tend to just guard their heart and feelings by also playing along with the trend, and no one knows who’s being serious and who’s just having fun.
Yeah I fully agree with you a lot have been going on in this relationship of a thing, many break hearts, treat their partners so badly and get them dumped. Which is one of the major things people are being afraid of. Some rather stay single than being heart broken or even taking some responsibilities on their head with a lot of stress and anxiety they are going through adding another thing will be much harder and heavier for them. As you state playing around is what most people do and that really helps a lot of people I will likely said most people now are playing around it very hard to find some sort of serious relationship these days. 😅
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Some will never consider marriage as a matter of urgency once they are not yet balanced with their work and other things that needs settlement concerning their life, though to an extent, we may not ave to wait till some things get balanced before we can move on with life ambition like that of marital settlement, some are even more blessed in their marriage than when they were then single.
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Yeah I fully agree with you a lot have been going on in this relationship of a thing, many break hearts, treat their partners so badly and get them dumped. Which is one of the major things people are being afraid of. Some rather stay single than being heart broken or even taking some responsibilities on their head with a lot of stress and anxiety they are going through adding another thing will be much harder and heavier for them. As you state playing around is what most people do and that really helps a lot of people I will likely said most people now are playing around it very hard to find some sort of serious relationship these days. 😅
I’m glad you get my point, and with all these things happening around now, people are scared to let their guard down, to the extent that, even when people eventually meet the right ones who are really in for something serious, they still feel skeptical or hold back. Right now, trust is really hard to give and even harder to earn since we can’t really tell people’s true intentions or see the contents of their heart.
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Yeah I fully agree with you a lot have been going on in this relationship of a thing, many break hearts, treat their partners so badly and get them dumped. Which is one of the major things people are being afraid of. Some rather stay single than being heart broken or even taking some responsibilities on their head with a lot of stress and anxiety they are going through adding another thing will be much harder and heavier for them. As you state playing around is what most people do and that really helps a lot of people I will likely said most people now are playing around it very hard to find some sort of serious relationship these days. 😅
I’m glad you get my point, and with all these things happening around now, people are scared to let their guard down, to the extent that, even when people eventually meet the right ones who are really in for something serious, they still feel skeptical or hold back. Right now, trust is really hard to give and even harder to earn since we can’t really tell people’s true intentions or see the contents of their heart.
If you are an individual who cant just that easily trust up someone then the best thing to do is to find it out but actually even how many years you are together with your loved ones but on the moment that you do get married then this is where real behavior or traits will really be coming out on which this is something that you havent been able to know when you are still on those pre-marriage period. This is why we do really see up these divorces because of those traits or behavior on which their partners they have and cant be able to hold anymore and thats why they do made out such decision. To those who are still single up to now or been long time then they do have those tons of hesitation due to these kind of situations.
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If you are an individual who cant just that easily trust up someone then the best thing to do is to find it out but actually even how many years you are together with your loved ones but on the moment that you do get married then this is where real behavior or traits will really be coming out on which this is something that you havent been able to know when you are still on those pre-marriage period. This is why we do really see up these divorces because of those traits or behavior on which their partners they have and cant be able to hold anymore and thats why they do made out such decision. To those who are still single up to now or been long time then they do have those tons of hesitation due to these kind of situations.
One of the major reasons couples end up getting divorced few years after marriage is due to lack of understanding. Some people think that the only thing that keeps a relationship or a marriage is Love, but this is absolutely wrong, yes love is very important in any relationship, but it’s not just enough to hold a relationship, the both party may love each other so much but without trust and Understanding, (especially Understanding) the marriage or relationship will always encounter problems, one must be able to fully understand their partners else they’ll fight over little issues, and the more they have unnecessary fights, the more they grow apart and thus could potentially lead to a break up or a divorce, I’m not saying couples shouldn’t disagree, sometimes people disagree to learn and then later agree, but there are disagreements that are literally irrelevant and may lead to baseless arguments and this is always due to lack of understanding between the both parties.
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If you are an individual who cant just that easily trust up someone then the best thing to do is to find it out but actually even how many years you are together with your loved ones but on the moment that you do get married then this is where real behavior or traits will really be coming out on which this is something that you havent been able to know when you are still on those pre-marriage period. This is why we do really see up these divorces because of those traits or behavior on which their partners they have and cant be able to hold anymore and thats why they do made out such decision. To those who are still single up to now or been long time then they do have those tons of hesitation due to these kind of situations.
One of the major reasons couples end up getting divorced few years after marriage is due to lack of understanding. Some people think that the only thing that keeps a relationship or a marriage is Love, but this is absolutely wrong, yes love is very important in any relationship, but it’s not just enough to hold a relationship, the both party may love each other so much but without trust and Understanding, (especially Understanding) the marriage or relationship will always encounter problems, one must be able to fully understand their partners else they’ll fight over little issues, and the more they have unnecessary fights, the more they grow apart and thus could potentially lead to a break up or a divorce, I’m not saying couples shouldn’t disagree, sometimes people disagree to learn and then later agree, but there are disagreements that are literally irrelevant and may lead to baseless arguments and this is always due to lack of understanding between the both parties.
Yes, there are really tons of factors that might affect someones marriage even if it means that he/she know his/her partner overall but there would really be things that might changed up along the way on which this would really be causing up those changes on the things that you have used to. It will really be just that basing up if there would really be adjustments made up or there's nothing that they have done to save up their marriage on which of course this will really be just that basing up on how these partners will really be making up such move for them to make their relationship even more stronger and able to resolve out some possible problems that they are really that facing on.
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Some people were single and couldn't justify their reason for being single, maybe it was as a result of the economy hardship or thier inability to cope having a relations and be responsible for another person, there could be many stated reasons why some are still single, while on the other hand, we have some singles busy searching and yet to discover the right and perfect match for themselves.
I think the major factor that contributes to people (who are old enough to get involved in a relationship) are still single is mostly because of lack of trust, maybe due to their past experiences or maybe due to what they see others go through, they become scared to get involved in something serious, so they’d rather just play around rather than committing themselves to a relationship, and for some reasons, you can’t actually blame them because a lot of people are not really interested in being committed today, and the worst part of it all is that they refuse to clearly state their intentions and they end up leading someone else’s on, only to disappoint the person later on.
With all these, people tend to just guard their heart and feelings by also playing along with the trend, and no one knows who’s being serious and who’s just having fun.
You are right. People are just afraid of relationship these days as a result of their past experience which have hurt them so bad because of the trust and all they gave and put in their relationship thinking they are in with a faithful partner not knowing that their partners are scammers in disguise. I know many people who suffered hearth break and have refused to go into any relationship and all they care now is just being a player and hanging by the corner so that they are not taken unawares. Joking with someone's feeling is too expensive to say and it is not ideal for anyone to do that because it all involves trust and commitment which no one can repair if broken. This is the reasons why when trust is broken, one feels disappointed and the narrative changes with them being extremely cautious and over Strict in their requirements for a relationship.
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If you are an individual who cant just that easily trust up someone then the best thing to do is to find it out but actually even how many years you are together with your loved ones but on the moment that you do get married then this is where real behavior or traits will really be coming out on which this is something that you havent been able to know when you are still on those pre-marriage period. This is why we do really see up these divorces because of those traits or behavior on which their partners they have and cant be able to hold anymore and thats why they do made out such decision. To those who are still single up to now or been long time then they do have those tons of hesitation due to these kind of situations.
One of the major reasons couples end up getting divorced few years after marriage is due to lack of understanding. Some people think that the only thing that keeps a relationship or a marriage is Love, but this is absolutely wrong, yes love is very important in any relationship, but it’s not just enough to hold a relationship, the both party may love each other so much but without trust and Understanding, (especially Understanding) the marriage or relationship will always encounter problems, one must be able to fully understand their partners else they’ll fight over little issues, and the more they have unnecessary fights, the more they grow apart and thus could potentially lead to a break up or a divorce, I’m not saying couples shouldn’t disagree, sometimes people disagree to learn and then later agree, but there are disagreements that are literally irrelevant and may lead to baseless arguments and this is always due to lack of understanding between the both parties.
Yes i agree, marriage shows sides of your partner you might not notice before. Love isn’t enough to make it work you need trust and understanding. Without that, small fights can grow into big problems. Disagreeing is normal, but constant pointless arguments can break a relationship. Understanding each other is the key.
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You are right. People are just afraid of relationship these days as a result of their past experience which have hurt them so bad because of the trust and all they gave and put in their relationship thinking they are in with a faithful partner not knowing that their partners are scammers in disguise. I know many people who suffered hearth break and have refused to go into any relationship and all they care now is just being a player and hanging by the corner so that they are not taken unawares. Joking with someone's feeling is too expensive to say and it is not ideal for anyone to do that because it all involves trust and commitment which no one can repair if broken. This is the reasons why when trust is broken, one feels disappointed and the narrative changes with them being extremely cautious and over Strict in their requirements for a relationship.
Past relationship traumas and disappointments can indeed influence a person into thinking that’s how life is, some people have gotten hurt multiple times because they chose to trust someone and maybe love them unconditionally and the person failed to adequately reciprocate those feelings but rather hurt and disappointed them on multiple occasions, and even when they decide to give them the benefit of doubt, they still end up crushing their trust. These experiences can potentially affect a person’s judgment to thinking that’s just the drill, and some end up adopting the same attitude in order to protect themselves from future threats and disappointments, and sometimes you can’t really blame them for their decisions because they were never like that.
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You are right. People are just afraid of relationship these days as a result of their past experience which have hurt them so bad because of the trust and all they gave and put in their relationship thinking they are in with a faithful partner not knowing that their partners are scammers in disguise. I know many people who suffered hearth break and have refused to go into any relationship and all they care now is just being a player and hanging by the corner so that they are not taken unawares. Joking with someone's feeling is too expensive to say and it is not ideal for anyone to do that because it all involves trust and commitment which no one can repair if broken. This is the reasons why when trust is broken, one feels disappointed and the narrative changes with them being extremely cautious and over Strict in their requirements for a relationship.
Past relationship traumas and disappointments can indeed influence a person into thinking that’s how life is, some people have gotten hurt multiple times because they chose to trust someone and maybe love them unconditionally and the person failed to adequately reciprocate those feelings but rather hurt and disappointed them on multiple occasions, and even when they decide to give them the benefit of doubt, they still end up crushing their trust. These experiences can potentially affect a person’s judgment to thinking that’s just the drill, and some end up adopting the same attitude in order to protect themselves from future threats and disappointments, and sometimes you can’t really blame them for their decisions because they were never like that.
You are right here, peoples experience makes them take or make drastic decisions that makes it difficult to sometimes give in so easily. Situations as this are very difficult to do away with because it is a thing of experience and one would want to set the boundaries and protect themselves and their interests to not get hurt anymore. This is the reasons why you see many singles out there being so tough to talk into. Some just make up their mind to just be a player and not care whatever comes out of it anymore because of what they have been through.
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You are right here, peoples experience makes them take or make drastic decisions that makes it difficult to sometimes give in so easily. Situations as this are very difficult to do away with because it is a thing of experience and one would want to set the boundaries and protect themselves and their interests to not get hurt anymore. This is the reasons why you see many singles out there being so tough to talk into. Some just make up their mind to just be a player and not care whatever comes out of it anymore because of what they have been through.
That’s right!
People often feel like the major problem is finding the right one, but that’s actually the least of the problems, the actual problem is knowing it’s the right one with genuine intentions when you see them, because most people are just wearing disguises just to achieve their selfish interests and without minding the emotions and feelings of the next person. Sometimes you may come across the one with the right and genuine intentions but since you can’t really tell what’s in their mind. And when you’re playing cautiously, the person feels you’re holding back because you’re not in for something serious or just messing with their feelings and they just give up, not everyone actually have the patience of loving and coping with a broken partner.
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You are right here, peoples experience makes them take or make drastic decisions that makes it difficult to sometimes give in so easily. Situations as this are very difficult to do away with because it is a thing of experience and one would want to set the boundaries and protect themselves and their interests to not get hurt anymore. This is the reasons why you see many singles out there being so tough to talk into. Some just make up their mind to just be a player and not care whatever comes out of it anymore because of what they have been through.
That’s right!
People often feel like the major problem is finding the right one, but that’s actually the least of the problems, the actual problem is knowing it’s the right one with genuine intentions when you see them, because most people are just wearing disguises just to achieve their selfish interests and without minding the emotions and feelings of the next person. Sometimes you may come across the one with the right and genuine intentions but since you can’t really tell what’s in their mind. And when you’re playing cautiously, the person feels you’re holding back because you’re not in for something serious or just messing with their feelings and they just give up, not everyone actually have the patience of loving and coping with a broken partner.
This is why communication is very good in a relationship, to some extent one can be able to pick some facts while interacting with whomever is showing interest in them. There are some certain topic of discussion in relationship that an unserious person would avoid and when that happens, one should be reasonable enough to know that their partner is not really interested in settling down with them but rather just to waste their time and as such should know what to do immediately otherwise they should have themselves to blamed for their insensitivity. Communication alone can expose lots of things if it is someone who really knows the power of communication in relationship.
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This is why communication is very good in a relationship, to some extent one can be able to pick some facts while interacting with whomever is showing interest in them. There are some certain topic of discussion in relationship that an unserious person would avoid and when that happens, one should be reasonable enough to know that their partner is not really interested in settling down with them but rather just to waste their time and as such should know what to do immediately otherwise they should have themselves to blamed for their insensitivity. Communication alone can expose lots of things if it is someone who really knows the power of communication in relationship.
Have you ever been in a relationship where you vividly see the turn offs and red flags from the other person, but you just love them so much that you’re not able to let them go, hoping that one day you’ll be able to change them and make them see you the same way you see them? This is often the case in some relationships, just as you’ve said, you may try to initiate those conversations but whenever you do, they always try as much as they can to avoid them, as well as showing you other vivid clues and red flags but you just completely ignore them because you either love them too much to let them go and willing to fight for them, or you’ve invested way too much already in that relationship and going back doesn’t seem to be an option.
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This is why communication is very good in a relationship, to some extent one can be able to pick some facts while interacting with whomever is showing interest in them. There are some certain topic of discussion in relationship that an unserious person would avoid and when that happens, one should be reasonable enough to know that their partner is not really interested in settling down with them but rather just to waste their time and as such should know what to do immediately otherwise they should have themselves to blamed for their insensitivity. Communication alone can expose lots of things if it is someone who really knows the power of communication in relationship.
Have you ever been in a relationship where you vividly see the turn offs and red flags from the other person, but you just love them so much that you’re not able to let them go, hoping that one day you’ll be able to change them and make them see you the same way you see them? This is often the case in some relationships, just as you’ve said, you may try to initiate those conversations but whenever you do, they always try as much as they can to avoid them, as well as showing you other vivid clues and red flags but you just completely ignore them because you either love them too much to let them go and willing to fight for them, or you’ve invested way too much already in that relationship and going back doesn’t seem to be an option.
If I may ask you, do you prefer your emotions to lead you in your love/relationship life or you prefer being logical when it comes to situations as this?
I have met people who are logical in relationship and they are realistic with situations but it just seems their pattern of relationship is too cruel in the sense that they are driven by the reality at hand than being controlled by emotions. People like this are the type that set boundaries and are hard to get tangled with possibly as a result of their past experience which have turned them into what they are. As for those who are emotion driven, they put their emotions before them and get led by it causing them what they are going through and when they turn a new leaf, they become too over strict and difficult to approach.
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This is why communication is very good in a relationship, to some extent one can be able to pick some facts while interacting with whomever is showing interest in them. There are some certain topic of discussion in relationship that an unserious person would avoid and when that happens, one should be reasonable enough to know that their partner is not really interested in settling down with them but rather just to waste their time and as such should know what to do immediately otherwise they should have themselves to blamed for their insensitivity. Communication alone can expose lots of things if it is someone who really knows the power of communication in relationship.
Have you ever been in a relationship where you vividly see the turn offs and red flags from the other person, but you just love them so much that you’re not able to let them go, hoping that one day you’ll be able to change them and make them see you the same way you see them? This is often the case in some relationships, just as you’ve said, you may try to initiate those conversations but whenever you do, they always try as much as they can to avoid them, as well as showing you other vivid clues and red flags but you just completely ignore them because you either love them too much to let them go and willing to fight for them, or you’ve invested way too much already in that relationship and going back doesn’t seem to be an option.
If I may ask you, do you prefer your emotions to lead you in your love/relationship life or you prefer being logical when it comes to situations as this?
I have met people who are logical in relationship and they are realistic with situations but it just seems their pattern of relationship is too cruel in the sense that they are driven by the reality at hand than being controlled by emotions. People like this are the type that set boundaries and are hard to get tangled with possibly as a result of their past experience which have turned them into what they are. As for those who are emotion driven, they put their emotions before them and get led by it causing them what they are going through and when they turn a new leaf, they become too over strict and difficult to approach.
I will go for the logical aspect, but that alone does not justify it all, when we are into a relationship or going to one, we must be very sensitive as well as know that we can easily get attracted to the very kind of person like us, which means, if you think you're a good man, then you will easily get attracted to a good woman and so applies to a deceitful person, we also need to open our eye well to see whats ahead of us, know what we want and also be sincere about ourself that we are truly ready for a relationship or marriage, because its not a child's play and we cannot deceive our partner into a relation just to waste their life while we think we are catching fun.
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If you are an individual who cant just that easily trust up someone then the best thing to do is to find it out but actually even how many years you are together with your loved ones but on the moment that you do get married then this is where real behavior or traits will really be coming out on which this is something that you havent been able to know when you are still on those pre-marriage period. This is why we do really see up these divorces because of those traits or behavior on which their partners they have and cant be able to hold anymore and thats why they do made out such decision. To those who are still single up to now or been long time then they do have those tons of hesitation due to these kind of situations.
One of the major reasons couples end up getting divorced few years after marriage is due to lack of understanding. Some people think that the only thing that keeps a relationship or a marriage is Love, but this is absolutely wrong, yes love is very important in any relationship, but it’s not just enough to hold a relationship, the both party may love each other so much but without trust and Understanding, (especially Understanding) the marriage or relationship will always encounter problems, one must be able to fully understand their partners else they’ll fight over little issues, and the more they have unnecessary fights, the more they grow apart and thus could potentially lead to a break up or a divorce, I’m not saying couples shouldn’t disagree, sometimes people disagree to learn and then later agree, but there are disagreements that are literally irrelevant and may lead to baseless arguments and this is always due to lack of understanding between the both parties.
Yes i agree, marriage shows sides of your partner you might not notice before. Love isn’t enough to make it work you need trust and understanding. Without that, small fights can grow into big problems. Disagreeing is normal, but constant pointless arguments can break a relationship. Understanding each other is the key.
Understanding each other and accepting each other's strengths and weaknesses is very important for a marriage, and it is true that it is not only based on love, because love can grow as life goes on in marriage. Indeed, there will always be disagreements that we are not aware of that will actually trigger arguments in marriage, but all of that can be overcome by being aware of each other and willing to accept whatever happens to be fixed immediately and not to be questioned about something bigger.
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If I may ask you, do you prefer your emotions to lead you in your love/relationship life or you prefer being logical when it comes to situations as this?
I have met people who are logical in relationship and they are realistic with situations but it just seems their pattern of relationship is too cruel in the sense that they are driven by the reality at hand than being controlled by emotions. People like this are the type that set boundaries and are hard to get tangled with possibly as a result of their past experience which have turned them into what they are. As for those who are emotion driven, they put their emotions before them and get led by it causing them what they are going through and when they turn a new leaf, they become too over strict and difficult to approach.
I really don’t think it’s about what I’d prefer, because even if I say what I’d prefer, someone else might feel differently. Different people have different views when it comes to handling relationship matters and situations such as these. No one wants to look stupid simply because they’re seeking after the right partner, but you gotta realize that relationship demands you to make a lot of compromises and if you see someone who’s honest with you when it comes to their lifestyle, attitude and behaviour then that’s a pretty great start, because people have perfected the act of pretence and they can do it for as long as they can/want.
The problem is that people have this picture of a perfect partner in their mind and if they’re not seeing that perfect person in their current partner, they consider it a red flag, they forget that their partner also have their own expectations too, and if the both party can not compromise and make certain sacrifices then believe you me that you’ll continue searching forever because you’ll never find that perfect partner you dream about, but you can both work together to shape each other to what you both want.
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There are many reasons why someone chooses to live alone or not get married and the reasons for men and women are actually the same, they don't get married usually because;
- their own choice not to get married
- don't want commitment
- don't want to share their life with others
- inferior because of appearance or age
However, if there are people around you who say they don't get married because they don't have money, especially if the person who said it was a man, then he is 100% lying because there are many people out there who get married even without any capital.
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There are many reasons why someone chooses to live alone or not get married and the reasons for men and women are actually the same, they don't get married usually because;
- their own choice not to get married
- don't want commitment
- don't want to share their life with others
- inferior because of appearance or age
However, if there are people around you who say they don't get married because they don't have money, especially if the person who said it was a man, then he is 100% lying because there are many people out there who get married even without any capital.
It is very complex if there are those who don't want to get married for many reasons, including what you said, but usually, the most, is because they are comfortable with the solitude that has been, done so far, so they don't want to have any attachments to each other, which for them will actually interfere with their freedom and can no longer be obtained when married.
If the question of funds is not something that is a problem, because many can do it without having to spend, and it is very large and that can be done because there is a joint commitment.
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If I may ask you, do you prefer your emotions to lead you in your love/relationship life or you prefer being logical when it comes to situations as this?
I have met people who are logical in relationship and they are realistic with situations but it just seems their pattern of relationship is too cruel in the sense that they are driven by the reality at hand than being controlled by emotions. People like this are the type that set boundaries and are hard to get tangled with possibly as a result of their past experience which have turned them into what they are. As for those who are emotion driven, they put their emotions before them and get led by it causing them what they are going through and when they turn a new leaf, they become too over strict and difficult to approach.
I really don’t think it’s about what I’d prefer, because even if I say what I’d prefer, someone else might feel differently. Different people have different views when it comes to handling relationship matters and situations such as these. No one wants to look stupid simply because they’re seeking after the right partner, but you gotta realize that relationship demands you to make a lot of compromises and if you see someone who’s honest with you when it comes to their lifestyle, attitude and behaviour then that’s a pretty great start, because people have perfected the act of pretence and they can do it for as long as they can/want.
The problem is that people have this picture of a perfect partner in their mind and if they’re not seeing that perfect person in their current partner, they consider it a red flag, they forget that their partner also have their own expectations too, and if the both party can not compromise and make certain sacrifices then believe you me that you’ll continue searching forever because you’ll never find that perfect partner you dream about, but you can both work together to shape each other to what you both want.
Well, people tend to fall between the two categories as I have mentioned above and that is what is leading them in their relationship. I see people that are being too emotional in their relationship give their all and at the end fall victim of heartbreak and they suffer it as a result of them being too over considerate. While the logical ones tend to clearly state their aim and they prioritize their own self in the relationship and this sometimes does not go well in the relationship.
The one thing I have learnt in relationship is that you must compromise that is make changes to accommodate your partner because it takes two to tango and their is nothing like perfection in relationship or marriage but rather trust and companionship is built together as the relationship last longer. While in this course, the both partners tends to learn more about each other and this makes their relationship stronger and better with mutual understanding and companionship.
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The one thing I have learnt in relationship is that you must compromise that is make changes to accommodate your partner because it takes two to tango and their is nothing like perfection in relationship or marriage but rather trust and companionship is built together as the relationship last longer. While in this course, the both partners tends to learn more about each other and this makes their relationship stronger and better with mutual understanding and companionship.
Being in a relationship is really not easy if you ask me, do you realize what it means for two different species of humans to come together and coexist together as one? Biological and Emotionally, men and woman are so much different, different hormones, different way of life, different way of thinking and seeing things, so it’s literally not as easy as we look at it. Before both parties can really understand each other, they’ll definitely need to go through lots of thick and thin times, that includes multiple and countless disagreements.
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If you are an individual who cant just that easily trust up someone then the best thing to do is to find it out but actually even how many years you are together with your loved ones but on the moment that you do get married then this is where real behavior or traits will really be coming out on which this is something that you havent been able to know when you are still on those pre-marriage period. This is why we do really see up these divorces because of those traits or behavior on which their partners they have and cant be able to hold anymore and thats why they do made out such decision. To those who are still single up to now or been long time then they do have those tons of hesitation due to these kind of situations.
One of the major reasons couples end up getting divorced few years after marriage is due to lack of understanding. Some people think that the only thing that keeps a relationship or a marriage is Love, but this is absolutely wrong, yes love is very important in any relationship, but it’s not just enough to hold a relationship, the both party may love each other so much but without trust and Understanding, (especially Understanding) the marriage or relationship will always encounter problems, one must be able to fully understand their partners else they’ll fight over little issues, and the more they have unnecessary fights, the more they grow apart and thus could potentially lead to a break up or a divorce, I’m not saying couples shouldn’t disagree, sometimes people disagree to learn and then later agree, but there are disagreements that are literally irrelevant and may lead to baseless arguments and this is always due to lack of understanding between the both parties.
Yes i agree, marriage shows sides of your partner you might not notice before. Love isn’t enough to make it work you need trust and understanding. Without that, small fights can grow into big problems. Disagreeing is normal, but constant pointless arguments can break a relationship. Understanding each other is the key.
Understanding each other and accepting each other's strengths and weaknesses is very important for a marriage, and it is true that it is not only based on love, because love can grow as life goes on in marriage. Indeed, there will always be disagreements that we are not aware of that will actually trigger arguments in marriage, but all of that can be overcome by being aware of each other and willing to accept whatever happens to be fixed immediately and not to be questioned about something bigger.
We cant really be perfect or human beings aren imperfect on which there are really traits or behaviors on which it will really be that coming out after marriage and this could be also a possible reason on divorce. So the solution into this one is to accept on your love ones imperfections and having that very long patience because there would really be things that we didnt expect that they do have that behavior but of course we do love them then we can accept it out. Just like on what i have said that we arent perfect and thats why its important on marriage.
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We cant really be perfect or human beings aren imperfect on which there are really traits or behaviors on which it will really be that coming out after marriage and this could be also a possible reason on divorce. So the solution into this one is to accept on your love ones imperfections and having that very long patience because there would really be things that we didnt expect that they do have that behavior but of course we do love them then we can accept it out. Just like on what i have said that we arent perfect and thats why its important on marriage.
You’re absolutely correct. Sometimes, if we keep dwelling on the imperfections and flaws of others, especially our loved ones and those that are dear to us, we may potentially lose that love or sense of attachment we have for them, so sometimes, the best thing to do at this point is acknowledge the fact that humans generally are full of flaws and imperfections, and learning to overlook certain behaviours that may potentially erupt or surface subsequently in the future. We should also realize that even we are not perfect and others around us also need to put up with our own flaws and imperfections too and so it’s only fair that we also do the same for others.
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We cant really be perfect or human beings aren imperfect on which there are really traits or behaviors on which it will really be that coming out after marriage and this could be also a possible reason on divorce. So the solution into this one is to accept on your love ones imperfections and having that very long patience because there would really be things that we didnt expect that they do have that behavior but of course we do love them then we can accept it out. Just like on what i have said that we arent perfect and thats why its important on marriage.
You’re absolutely correct. Sometimes, if we keep dwelling on the imperfections and flaws of others, especially our loved ones and those that are dear to us, we may potentially lose that love or sense of attachment we have for them, so sometimes, the best thing to do at this point is acknowledge the fact that humans generally are full of flaws and imperfections, and learning to overlook certain behaviours that may potentially erupt or surface subsequently in the future. We should also realize that even we are not perfect and others around us also need to put up with our own flaws and imperfections too and so it’s only fair that we also do the same for others.
It is not always a pleasant thing to embrace others the way they are but embracing them only helps to put the relationship at rest. If you do not have high expectations from the people around you then there is space left for love and empathy to set in. Depending on the other lens on which we decide to focus, we may perceive them as among the people worth being with because there is good that can come out of the dark side. These proverb lessons teach that people are not flawless, including ourselves, so in relationships they must learn how to support one other. Being more open, we let love and happiness have a chance of remaining in our lives.
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We cant really be perfect or human beings aren imperfect on which there are really traits or behaviors on which it will really be that coming out after marriage and this could be also a possible reason on divorce. So the solution into this one is to accept on your love ones imperfections and having that very long patience because there would really be things that we didnt expect that they do have that behavior but of course we do love them then we can accept it out. Just like on what i have said that we arent perfect and thats why its important on marriage.
You’re absolutely correct. Sometimes, if we keep dwelling on the imperfections and flaws of others, especially our loved ones and those that are dear to us, we may potentially lose that love or sense of attachment we have for them, so sometimes, the best thing to do at this point is acknowledge the fact that humans generally are full of flaws and imperfections, and learning to overlook certain behaviours that may potentially erupt or surface subsequently in the future. We should also realize that even we are not perfect and others around us also need to put up with our own flaws and imperfections too and so it’s only fair that we also do the same for others.
It is not always a pleasant thing to embrace others the way they are but embracing them only helps to put the relationship at rest. If you do not have high expectations from the people around you then there is space left for love and empathy to set in. Depending on the other lens on which we decide to focus, we may perceive them as among the people worth being with because there is good that can come out of the dark side. These proverb lessons teach that people are not flawless, including ourselves, so in relationships they must learn how to support one other. Being more open, we let love and happiness have a chance of remaining in our lives.
This is why there are people who are really that ending up on having no relationship for long time or ending up on having no wife/husband and they do get old just because they are really just that too perfectionist on which on the moment that they've seen some lapses in other people then they do easily get discourage and doesnt pursue on building up a strong relationship but rather they will really be finding up another individual that meet up their expectations on which we know that this isnt possible. We cant really be that perfect and thats why you do keep searching for the right one until you do get old.
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However, if there are people around you who say they don't get married because they don't have money, especially if the person who said it was a man, then he is 100% lying because there are many people out there who get married even without any capital.
People who get married without necessary finances is possibly because of their hormones doing the talking while some who despite having means choose not to marry, it could be so because they don't want to have responsibilities — responsibility which usually means diluting your bank balance amongst your wife and children.
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If you are an individual who cant just that easily trust up someone then the best thing to do is to find it out but actually even how many years you are together with your loved ones but on the moment that you do get married then this is where real behavior or traits will really be coming out on which this is something that you havent been able to know when you are still on those pre-marriage period. This is why we do really see up these divorces because of those traits or behavior on which their partners they have and cant be able to hold anymore and thats why they do made out such decision. To those who are still single up to now or been long time then they do have those tons of hesitation due to these kind of situations.
One of the major reasons couples end up getting divorced few years after marriage is due to lack of understanding. Some people think that the only thing that keeps a relationship or a marriage is Love, but this is absolutely wrong, yes love is very important in any relationship, but it’s not just enough to hold a relationship, the both party may love each other so much but without trust and Understanding, (especially Understanding) the marriage or relationship will always encounter problems, one must be able to fully understand their partners else they’ll fight over little issues, and the more they have unnecessary fights, the more they grow apart and thus could potentially lead to a break up or a divorce, I’m not saying couples shouldn’t disagree, sometimes people disagree to learn and then later agree, but there are disagreements that are literally irrelevant and may lead to baseless arguments and this is always due to lack of understanding between the both parties.
Yes i agree, marriage shows sides of your partner you might not notice before. Love isn’t enough to make it work you need trust and understanding. Without that, small fights can grow into big problems. Disagreeing is normal, but constant pointless arguments can break a relationship. Understanding each other is the key.
Understanding each other and accepting each other's strengths and weaknesses is very important for a marriage, and it is true that it is not only based on love, because love can grow as life goes on in marriage. Indeed, there will always be disagreements that we are not aware of that will actually trigger arguments in marriage, but all of that can be overcome by being aware of each other and willing to accept whatever happens to be fixed immediately and not to be questioned about something bigger.
We cant really be perfect or human beings aren imperfect on which there are really traits or behaviors on which it will really be that coming out after marriage and this could be also a possible reason on divorce. So the solution into this one is to accept on your love ones imperfections and having that very long patience because there would really be things that we didnt expect that they do have that behavior but of course we do love them then we can accept it out. Just like on what i have said that we arent perfect and thats why its important on marriage.
Realizing yourself first and admitting that both are not perfect, and I agree with you that the main solution is to be willing to accept the worst side or imperfection of your partner is a high priority, so that in the journey the imperfection can be minimized so that it does not continue to develop, so that it can cause misunderstandings and can even be the beginning of divorce and of course not liked by every couple. If you love each other it should be shown by behavior to be able to accept every problem well and resolve it well, not to make it a new problem so that it drags on.
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To the best of my knowledge, I think some people choose to remain single because they want to focus on their career and become successful. Others want to develop themselves as individuals and pursue personal growth. Some people value their independence and freedom, and they do not want to compromise it by being in a relationship. Additionally, some individuals may have had negative experiences in past relationships, which makes them hesitant to enter into a new relationship. Some people have high standards for a partner, and they are waiting for someone who meets those standards. Many individuals lead busy lives, making it challenging to find time for a relationship. Furthermore, some people may fear commitment or are apprehensive about facing the challenges and responsibilities that come with marriage. Ultimately, some individuals simply prefer being single and enjoy the freedom and autonomy that comes with it, allowing them to do what they want, when they want, without having to consider someone else's needs or opinions.
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If you are an individual who cant just that easily trust up someone then the best thing to do is to find it out but actually even how many years you are together with your loved ones but on the moment that you do get married then this is where real behavior or traits will really be coming out on which this is something that you havent been able to know when you are still on those pre-marriage period. This is why we do really see up these divorces because of those traits or behavior on which their partners they have and cant be able to hold anymore and thats why they do made out such decision. To those who are still single up to now or been long time then they do have those tons of hesitation due to these kind of situations.
One of the major reasons couples end up getting divorced few years after marriage is due to lack of understanding. Some people think that the only thing that keeps a relationship or a marriage is Love, but this is absolutely wrong, yes love is very important in any relationship, but it’s not just enough to hold a relationship, the both party may love each other so much but without trust and Understanding, (especially Understanding) the marriage or relationship will always encounter problems, one must be able to fully understand their partners else they’ll fight over little issues, and the more they have unnecessary fights, the more they grow apart and thus could potentially lead to a break up or a divorce, I’m not saying couples shouldn’t disagree, sometimes people disagree to learn and then later agree, but there are disagreements that are literally irrelevant and may lead to baseless arguments and this is always due to lack of understanding between the both parties.
Yes i agree, marriage shows sides of your partner you might not notice before. Love isn’t enough to make it work you need trust and understanding. Without that, small fights can grow into big problems. Disagreeing is normal, but constant pointless arguments can break a relationship. Understanding each other is the key.
Understanding each other and accepting each other's strengths and weaknesses is very important for a marriage, and it is true that it is not only based on love, because love can grow as life goes on in marriage. Indeed, there will always be disagreements that we are not aware of that will actually trigger arguments in marriage, but all of that can be overcome by being aware of each other and willing to accept whatever happens to be fixed immediately and not to be questioned about something bigger.
We cant really be perfect or human beings aren imperfect on which there are really traits or behaviors on which it will really be that coming out after marriage and this could be also a possible reason on divorce. So the solution into this one is to accept on your love ones imperfections and having that very long patience because there would really be things that we didnt expect that they do have that behavior but of course we do love them then we can accept it out. Just like on what i have said that we arent perfect and thats why its important on marriage.
Realizing yourself first and admitting that both are not perfect, and I agree with you that the main solution is to be willing to accept the worst side or imperfection of your partner is a high priority, so that in the journey the imperfection can be minimized so that it does not continue to develop, so that it can cause misunderstandings and can even be the beginning of divorce and of course not liked by every couple. If you love each other it should be shown by behavior to be able to accept every problem well and resolve it well, not to make it a new problem so that it drags on.
As it should be but we do know that there are those people who are really that perfectionist not only into sort of things but also in trying to look up for their partner. We cant be perfect as we do all know and if you do have that kind of high standard in terms of trying out to find a partner then there's no way that you could be able to easily to find one and you do end up on getting old without having a partner. We are just humans or simply imperfect beings on which at the moment that you will be able to meet up someone then expect that there will be some imperfections on which you will really be needing to adjust accept.
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Many singles today, when you ask them why are they still single, they will have nothing to say because they don't also understand why, and this is only happening because they have already allowed for it to exist long time ago, when we take things for granted and with levity hands, while some are serious about their life and being conscious of time, we are there busy doing nothing and running after nothing.
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The one thing I have learnt in relationship is that you must compromise that is make changes to accommodate your partner because it takes two to tango and their is nothing like perfection in relationship or marriage but rather trust and companionship is built together as the relationship last longer. While in this course, the both partners tends to learn more about each other and this makes their relationship stronger and better with mutual understanding and companionship.
Being in a relationship is really not easy if you ask me, do you realize what it means for two different species of humans to come together and coexist together as one? Biological and Emotionally, men and woman are so much different, different hormones, different way of life, different way of thinking and seeing things, so it’s literally not as easy as we look at it. Before both parties can really understand each other, they’ll definitely need to go through lots of thick and thin times, that includes multiple and countless disagreements.
It is really not easy being in a relationship, it takes two to tango if one must be in a relationship. In relationship, understanding matters as both parties involved have agreed to coexist as one.
If one must be in a relationship, then they must be able to be considerate with each other and be each others companion. In relationships, trust is something partners looks at and that is one of the things that keeps relationship bond very strong in hard and in good times. Like the saying goes " life is not a bed of roses" so it is in relationships, there are times when things are right and times when it seems rough though but it would take both partners to strength to stand by each others side and be of good support to each other. However the way both parties settles situation also matters too because that would always keep them stronger together.
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The one thing I have learnt in relationship is that you must compromise that is make changes to accommodate your partner because it takes two to tango and their is nothing like perfection in relationship or marriage but rather trust and companionship is built together as the relationship last longer. While in this course, the both partners tends to learn more about each other and this makes their relationship stronger and better with mutual understanding and companionship.
Being in a relationship is really not easy if you ask me, do you realize what it means for two different species of humans to come together and coexist together as one? Biological and Emotionally, men and woman are so much different, different hormones, different way of life, different way of thinking and seeing things, so it’s literally not as easy as we look at it. Before both parties can really understand each other, they’ll definitely need to go through lots of thick and thin times, that includes multiple and countless disagreements.
It is really not easy being in a relationship, it takes two to tango if one must be in a relationship. In relationship, understanding matters as both parties involved have agreed to coexist as one.
If one must be in a relationship, then they must be able to be considerate with each other and be each others companion. In relationships, trust is something partners looks at and that is one of the things that keeps relationship bond very strong in hard and in good times. Like the saying goes " life is not a bed of roses" so it is in relationships, there are times when things are right and times when it seems rough though but it would take both partners to strength to stand by each others side and be of good support to each other. However the way both parties settles situation also matters too because that would always keep them stronger together.
One of the main reasons on why there are some people who doesnt really like on getting involved with some relationship with other people or doesnt really like any commitment because they are really that afraid on having that emotional problems and also they dont like to have relationship specially if they arent that financially prepared and thats why you dont want to have some engagement with these things. Its not bad to be single but be sure that wary that once your age that getting higher or older then you will be able to realize that you should have that getting married and this is something that you will be thinking that you cant be able to bring back the time. It will really be just that depending on you but in every decisions will be having that corresponding effects or conditions that you might be ending up.
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Its not bad to be single but be sure that wary that once your age that getting higher or older then you will be able to realize that you should have that getting married and this is something that you will be thinking that you cant be able to bring back the time. It will really be just that depending on you but in every decisions will be having that corresponding effects or conditions that you might be ending up.
Yes, I see/hear about this often where I live — getting married as a resource for the old age. I am single at the moment and I am content where I am, but people ask to get married and that'll imply destroying this contentment for some future security which sounds bit absurd to me.
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It is really not easy being in a relationship, it takes two to tango if one must be in a relationship. In relationship, understanding matters as both parties involved have agreed to coexist as one.
If one must be in a relationship, then they must be able to be considerate with each other and be each others companion. In relationships, trust is something partners looks at and that is one of the things that keeps relationship bond very strong in hard and in good times. Like the saying goes " life is not a bed of roses" so it is in relationships, there are times when things are right and times when it seems rough though but it would take both partners to strength to stand by each others side and be of good support to each other. However the way both parties settles situation also matters too because that would always keep them stronger together.
The problem with most people in relationships or the reason why they’re unable to stay in relationships is because they often have a picture of how a relationship should be in their head, pictures they either got from movies or from other people’s relationships without realizing that not everything is really as it looks like, they only focus on the good parts of the relationship without also realizing that there’s a bitter side too, they try to take the bitter sides out of the picture and only focus on the sweet parts, and when their partners do not meet their demands and expectations, they get tired and wish to opt out, only to move to the next one who also have their own awful and bitter sides, and when this goes on for some time, they conclude that relationship isn’t for them and they decide to either be on their own or just play around without attaching any feelings.
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It's simply because I love my space a lot and only wants someone who can add value to my being. I need someone who can match my values and energy and I haven't seen them yet.
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Its not bad to be single but be sure that wary that once your age that getting higher or older then you will be able to realize that you should have that getting married and this is something that you will be thinking that you cant be able to bring back the time. It will really be just that depending on you but in every decisions will be having that corresponding effects or conditions that you might be ending up.
Yes, I see/hear about this often where I live — getting married as a resource for the old age. I am single at the moment and I am content where I am, but people ask to get married and that'll imply destroying this contentment for some future security which sounds bit absurd to me.
Marriage is not for all, because it's not everyone that will love to marry. If you don't want to get married for some reasons, that's cool. But if you know that you will definitely get married someday, it's better you take your time to get the right person to avoid regrets.
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Marriage is not for all, because it's not everyone that will love to marry. If you don't want to get married for some reasons, that's cool. But if you know that you will definitely get married someday, it's better you take your time to get the right person to avoid regrets.
And how exactly would you know you’ve found the right person when you meet them? You need to understand that time and experience changes people a lot, You could meet someone today who’s got all those qualities you feel you need in a spouse and then you’re convinced that’s the right one, not until after several years, you start noticing a few changes and then maybe you start changing your assessments.
Marriage isn’t as easy as some people picture it, some people think marriage is all about, meeting the right one and living happily ever after, every marriage has its own challenges and even the right one could look like the wrong one sometimes lol, but it’s all about understanding, trust and love, if these qualities exists even between you and the one you feel is the wrong one, then you need to reassess the situation.
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Its not bad to be single but be sure that wary that once your age that getting higher or older then you will be able to realize that you should have that getting married and this is something that you will be thinking that you cant be able to bring back the time. It will really be just that depending on you but in every decisions will be having that corresponding effects or conditions that you might be ending up.
Yes, I see/hear about this often where I live — getting married as a resource for the old age. I am single at the moment and I am content where I am, but people ask to get married and that'll imply destroying this contentment for some future security which sounds bit absurd to me.
Marriage is not for all, because it's not everyone that will love to marry. If you don't want to get married for some reasons, that's cool. But if you know that you will definitely get married someday, it's better you take your time to get the right person to avoid regrets.
It would be basing up on different situation because when it comes to reasoning on which we know that people will really be that basing up whether they experienced some hurt feelings in the past or simply they arent that prepared to deal up with love and settle down and find their loved ones. Its true that there would really be those who do think that they should cherish out their days without having a family because once you do tied up yourself to marriage then you wouldnt be able to experience it because of having tons of responsibilities or simply the reason on why people are remaining to be single is that they dont want to tied up with some responsibilities.
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There are a lot of reason why people choose to become a single and the number one reason is money, the high inflation rate that makes every single goods or daily needs price rise and become so expensive makes everyone afraid to get married, and that is normal as a human to become afraid of specially when you dont have a good work to earn decent salary.