Marriage discussion in this generation

[SmartGold01]

I think 'always' word is bit steep. I believe that marriage destroys personal freedom — you have more person to take care of under your own wing that makes you so busy at expense of having no time for yourself. I could be wrong, but that's what I feel.

I am a married woman with kids and I know how takes to become a mother or a married woman, of course you don't have personal decision of your own rather it's now a divided choice, like I mean; all things you want to do must be shared amongst both partners and if the head gives permission then you have to do it, but whenever husband do not approve then one have to remain under their control. But for sometimes if you are newly married you could face difficulties at that time but with time you became used to it as something you can't shy away from, except that person isn't ready to marry and for that both parties work collectively to make things works out. For some countries bills or responsibilities are shared equally and for that wife or husband must not keep themselves idols leaving the responsibility for one person alone. Like I does, I support my husband and also I do most of the things myself knowing too well that I must remain idol.

My is a Union of two person's with different view of things so when it comes to the issue of marriage what actually sustain it is understanding so before any partner in marriage takes any major decisions the other partner must be aware because doing that shows that you have respect and regard for your partner. As for the issue of support am of the view that in a relationship looks like marriage there should be an agreed amount that both partners must contribute at the end of the month for the smooth running of family so this idea of supporting too I don't personally like it because support is like you give just struggling to bring out something for your own family so the best thing is contributing equal amount for the family affairs

It's also good to mark out specific amount to be contributed but I don't think there is any need to do that because I believe that the full responsibility belongs to my husband which I know too well but I don't allow him to over work or stress himself over a thing I know that I can help, and of whenever he knows that I supported the family he always shout at me not to over kill myself as the activities belong to him but yet I don't seems ceased anytime.

[milewilda]

I think 'always' word is bit steep. I believe that marriage destroys personal freedom — you have more person to take care of under your own wing that makes you so busy at expense of having no time for yourself. I could be wrong, but that's what I feel.

I am a married woman with kids and I know how takes to become a mother or a married woman, of course you don't have personal decision of your own rather it's now a divided choice, like I mean; all things you want to do must be shared amongst both partners and if the head gives permission then you have to do it, but whenever husband do not approve then one have to remain under their control. But for sometimes if you are newly married you could face difficulties at that time but with time you became used to it as something you can't shy away from, except that person isn't ready to marry and for that both parties work collectively to make things works out. For some countries bills or responsibilities are shared equally and for that wife or husband must not keep themselves idols leaving the responsibility for one person alone. Like I does, I support my husband and also I do most of the things myself knowing too well that I must remain idol.

My is a Union of two person's with different view of things so when it comes to the issue of marriage what actually sustain it is understanding so before any partner in marriage takes any major decisions the other partner must be aware because doing that shows that you have respect and regard for your partner. As for the issue of support am of the view that in a relationship looks like marriage there should be an agreed amount that both partners must contribute at the end of the month for the smooth running of family so this idea of supporting too I don't personally like it because support is like you give just struggling to bring out something for your own family so the best thing is contributing equal amount for the family affairs

It's also good to mark out specific amount to be contributed but I don't think there is any need to do that because I believe that the full responsibility belongs to my husband which I know too well but I don't allow him to over work or stress himself over a thing I know that I can help, and of whenever he knows that I supported the family he always shout at me not to over kill myself as the activities belong to him but yet I don't seems ceased anytime.

Its really that out of my principle on letting my wife do have a job on which after marriage on which if she had some job before marriage then i would definitely be letting him resign into here current job specially now that she's already married. For most husbands then we will definitely be wanting to have this kind of set up on which our wives should really be at home and taking up our children and doing up those wife roles on which i cant really just that let myself that letting her doing the responsibility on which we husbands should really be doing the job. So it will really be that situational or something that really needs up to consider out.

[SmartGold01]

I think 'always' word is bit steep. I believe that marriage destroys personal freedom — you have more person to take care of under your own wing that makes you so busy at expense of having no time for yourself. I could be wrong, but that's what I feel.

I am a married woman with kids and I know how takes to become a mother or a married woman, of course you don't have personal decision of your own rather it's now a divided choice, like I mean; all things you want to do must be shared amongst both partners and if the head gives permission then you have to do it, but whenever husband do not approve then one have to remain under their control. But for sometimes if you are newly married you could face difficulties at that time but with time you became used to it as something you can't shy away from, except that person isn't ready to marry and for that both parties work collectively to make things works out. For some countries bills or responsibilities are shared equally and for that wife or husband must not keep themselves idols leaving the responsibility for one person alone. Like I does, I support my husband and also I do most of the things myself knowing too well that I must remain idol.

My is a Union of two person's with different view of things so when it comes to the issue of marriage what actually sustain it is understanding so before any partner in marriage takes any major decisions the other partner must be aware because doing that shows that you have respect and regard for your partner. As for the issue of support am of the view that in a relationship looks like marriage there should be an agreed amount that both partners must contribute at the end of the month for the smooth running of family so this idea of supporting too I don't personally like it because support is like you give just struggling to bring out something for your own family so the best thing is contributing equal amount for the family affairs

It's also good to mark out specific amount to be contributed but I don't think there is any need to do that because I believe that the full responsibility belongs to my husband which I know too well but I don't allow him to over work or stress himself over a thing I know that I can help, and of whenever he knows that I supported the family he always shout at me not to over kill myself as the activities belong to him but yet I don't seems ceased anytime.

Its really that out of my principle on letting my wife do have a job on which after marriage on which if she had some job before marriage then i would definitely be letting him resign into here current job specially now that she's already married. For most husbands then we will definitely be wanting to have this kind of set up on which our wives should really be at home and taking up our children and doing up those wife roles on which i cant really just that let myself that letting her doing the responsibility on which we husbands should really be doing the job. So it will really be that situational or something that really needs up to consider out.

There is nothing wrong with letting your partner resume or resign her current job only if that works is good enough for a married person to keep working, and of course when the work seems to be out of favor for a married person then it's advisable to quit the job for a better and responsible job per day.
When your partner is doing a nice job then there is no need quitting their jobs because they are married, if that works is that reliability and trusted enough then they should go ahead and do it without quitting.

[JoyMarsha]

Marriage is not for the faint hearted. If you are not matured enough for what comes with the name married couples, do not think of it because you will outrun yourself. Marriage comes with responsibility and commitment, as a married man or woman, you have obligations and vows as it bonds the couples together.

Because of what surrounds marriage, people gets scared of getting married because they can't deal with the responsibility and commitment that hovers around marriage.

Marriage is a long term commitment, not everybody wants to move into it because of the high rate of divorce, and the domestic violence they hear of.

[milewilda]

I think 'always' word is bit steep. I believe that marriage destroys personal freedom — you have more person to take care of under your own wing that makes you so busy at expense of having no time for yourself. I could be wrong, but that's what I feel.

I am a married woman with kids and I know how takes to become a mother or a married woman, of course you don't have personal decision of your own rather it's now a divided choice, like I mean; all things you want to do must be shared amongst both partners and if the head gives permission then you have to do it, but whenever husband do not approve then one have to remain under their control. But for sometimes if you are newly married you could face difficulties at that time but with time you became used to it as something you can't shy away from, except that person isn't ready to marry and for that both parties work collectively to make things works out. For some countries bills or responsibilities are shared equally and for that wife or husband must not keep themselves idols leaving the responsibility for one person alone. Like I does, I support my husband and also I do most of the things myself knowing too well that I must remain idol.

My is a Union of two person's with different view of things so when it comes to the issue of marriage what actually sustain it is understanding so before any partner in marriage takes any major decisions the other partner must be aware because doing that shows that you have respect and regard for your partner. As for the issue of support am of the view that in a relationship looks like marriage there should be an agreed amount that both partners must contribute at the end of the month for the smooth running of family so this idea of supporting too I don't personally like it because support is like you give just struggling to bring out something for your own family so the best thing is contributing equal amount for the family affairs

It's also good to mark out specific amount to be contributed but I don't think there is any need to do that because I believe that the full responsibility belongs to my husband which I know too well but I don't allow him to over work or stress himself over a thing I know that I can help, and of whenever he knows that I supported the family he always shout at me not to over kill myself as the activities belong to him but yet I don't seems ceased anytime.

Its really that out of my principle on letting my wife do have a job on which after marriage on which if she had some job before marriage then i would definitely be letting him resign into here current job specially now that she's already married. For most husbands then we will definitely be wanting to have this kind of set up on which our wives should really be at home and taking up our children and doing up those wife roles on which i cant really just that let myself that letting her doing the responsibility on which we husbands should really be doing the job. So it will really be that situational or something that really needs up to consider out.

There is nothing wrong with letting your partner resume or resign her current job only if that works is good enough for a married person to keep working, and of course when the work seems to be out of favor for a married person then it's advisable to quit the job for a better and responsible job per day.
When your partner is doing a nice job then there is no need quitting their jobs because they are married, if that works is that reliability and trusted enough then they should go ahead and do it without quitting.

Well you got a point and it do really depends totally on how things do works in between you and your wife on which it will really be needing up that having that discussion on what are the things or plans that you would really be that trying out to do, on whether your wife will really be that agreeing on stopping her work or would really be continuing. Each guy or husband does have their own preference but majority will really be that not wanting to let their wives be working as on what i have said that this will really be that a responsbility of a man on raising up his family but since we do have  diffferent preferences in life and on the situations then it will really be that just really depending on such case or condition.

[libert19]

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[MUGNIA]

Would you prefer to get married early or just get married late? reasons also

Getting married is not a matter of being quick or slow, where mental readiness after having a family needs to be considered, both materially and morally, where getting married is different from when we were still single, so prepare your mentality and materiality first to face the new world out there after you get married.

[Amug123]

Getting married early can have numerous benefits including emotional maturity financial stability social support and personal growth, it's essential to recognize that early marriage is a personal choice and one should not be pressured into it, because when forced it could lead to divorce particular if the young couples lack effective communication skill or good conflict resolution strategy, Marrying young offer a lots of flexibility and plenty of time to focus on other things both parties can contribute to each other's personal and professional progress. However for these who are involved by way of Marrying the wrong woman or man can have serious social and emotional consequences when married to the wrong person this sometimes delay the natural growth process of self discovery.

[Dr.Bitcoin_Strange]

Getting married is not a matter of being quick or slow, where mental readiness after having a family needs to be considered, both materially and morally, where getting married is different from when we were still single, so prepare your mentality and materiality first to face the new world out there after you get married.

Marriage isn’t something you go into, fully prepared and equipped with what now? Mental readiness to be able to withstand all the pressures of marriage. Yes it’s important to make certain preparations and not just jumping in without even knowing what you’re doing there. Again, not all marriages are the same, so it’s like you never know what’s install for you and you just gotta take that leap of faith. So the most important thing is realizing that no marriage is ever perfect so if your intention is to get married and have that fairytale and Bollywood shits, then you sure do not have a single amount of readiness.

[Dr.Bitcoin_Strange]

Would you prefer to get married early or just get married late? reasons also

There is no medal being awarded for being the first to get married, and it is better to get married well than to get married and not marry well. Bad marriage has been the reason for some people’s early death. A bad home without peace is worse than a prison.

I agreed with you, it doesn’t matter whether someone marry early or not, as far as one is comfortable in his or her marriage, that is to say that he or she has peace of mind and also have the resources to take care of his family if any need arise and know who you want to marry before proceeding because just as you said, many people die early because of what they face in their families because depression and fraustration is real, and these reason is behind while most divorced marriages are more in this our generation than in the days of our parents. So let’s tread with caution when it comes to marriage to avoid’ HAD I KNOW’.

[Chilwell]

Would you prefer to get married early or just get married late? reasons also

Getting married is not a matter of being quick or slow, where mental readiness after having a family needs to be considered, both materially and morally, where getting married is different from when we were still single, so prepare your mentality and materiality first to face the new world out there after you get married.

Exactly, getting married is really not a matter of being quick or slow. Marriage comes with a lot of consequences. It gives you a lots and it also takes a lot away from you. Married people faces a lot of challenges must especially in a situation of poverty, only people with strong mentality can handle the situation, people with low mentality can end up getting emotional, depressed and stressed which may lead to mental health issues. Someone needs to be well prepared before getting marriage.

[Amug123]

To me the decision to get married is a personal one there is no size fits all approach,  some people may be ready at younger age while others may want to wait until a certain age, knowing that they are properly fit to handle the challenges that comes with it, like being emotionally prepared for the responsibilities that comes with it.

[Millionaire]

I think anyone can get married at any point they feel that they have what it takes to get married regardless of the age. Early marriage has its advantages as well as disadvantages and so does marrying late.

If I were to choose, I think I would choose marrying early, by early I mean somewhere below 30, i believe around this age, one may have gotten all the experiences he needs to have his own family. But one thing I always tell people, it doesn’t matter the age, if you feel you don’t have the resources currently to take care of a family, then it’s best not to get into marriage.

I agree with what you said, actually it's not about getting married too early or too late, but rather our readiness to build a household, not about getting married and then it's over, but thinking about future responsibilities, how to build a house and make your children and wife happy, don't let them experience hardship, if we can't leave our pleasures such as hanging out with friends and playing around, it's better to postpone getting married.

[bisdak40]

I think anyone can get married at any point they feel that they have what it takes to get married regardless of the age. Early marriage has its advantages as well as disadvantages and so does marrying late.

If I were to choose, I think I would choose marrying early, by early I mean somewhere below 30, i believe around this age, one may have gotten all the experiences he needs to have his own family. But one thing I always tell people, it doesn’t matter the age, if you feel you don’t have the resources currently to take care of a family, then it’s best not to get into marriage.

I agree with what you said, actually it's not about getting married too early or too late, but rather our readiness to build a household, not about getting married and then it's over, but thinking about future responsibilities, how to build a house and make your children and wife happy, don't let them experience hardship, if we can't leave our pleasures such as hanging out with friends and playing around, it's better to postpone getting married.

Yeah, I agree with you. It’s not about marrying early or late, it’s about being ready. If you’re not ready to take care of a family, it’s better to wait. Marriage is not just fun, it comes with big responsibilities. If you still enjoy hanging out and playing around, maybe it’s not the right time yet.

[milewilda]

I think anyone can get married at any point they feel that they have what it takes to get married regardless of the age. Early marriage has its advantages as well as disadvantages and so does marrying late.

If I were to choose, I think I would choose marrying early, by early I mean somewhere below 30, i believe around this age, one may have gotten all the experiences he needs to have his own family. But one thing I always tell people, it doesn’t matter the age, if you feel you don’t have the resources currently to take care of a family, then it’s best not to get into marriage.

I agree with what you said, actually it's not about getting married too early or too late, but rather our readiness to build a household, not about getting married and then it's over, but thinking about future responsibilities, how to build a house and make your children and wife happy, don't let them experience hardship, if we can't leave our pleasures such as hanging out with friends and playing around, it's better to postpone getting married.

Yeah, I agree with you. It’s not about marrying early or late, it’s about being ready. If you’re not ready to take care of a family, it’s better to wait. Marriage is not just fun, it comes with big responsibilities. If you still enjoy hanging out and playing around, maybe it’s not the right time yet.

Thats why we do have tons of abortion situation or condition just because of that unwanted pregnancy. If you arent that prepared to make a family then make use of protection if you are going to have sex with other gender. You are the ones who do need up that control because if you do just simply make those intimate actions but not minding about the possible outcome then it is just that too pity into those lifeforms that being created in no time. Be responsible and you should know the things that might happen in regarding into the actions that you are taking. Marriage thing is never been that a simple responsibility because at the moment that you do get in, then there's no turning back and this is something that you do need up to realize and know in the first place.